Taking Back Slut

Episode 12: How to Have the Best Sex w/ Jordan Gray

An episode of Taking Back Slut

Avatar
By Jennifer Doan
About
Hosted by Jennifer Doan, sensuality and sexual empowerment coach. Taking back the word slut by empowering people to be their sluttiest, freakiest, weirdest selves by discussing sex, feminism, politics and slut positive topics.
More places to listen
Hosted by Jennifer Doan, sensuality and sexual empowerment coach. Taking back the word slut by empowering people to be their sluttiest, freakiest, weirdest selves by discussing sex, feminism, politics and slut positive topics.
jenniferdoanconsulting.com

More places to listen

Episode 15: Sex Work is Work w/ Dani Nadeau
“50 Plus A Tip” podcast host, Dani Nadeau is a sarcastic, straightforward, sex-positive feminist who’s never one to hold back. Dani lives her life by two philosophies 1) it’s better to have a life of ‘oh well’s than ‘what if’s and 2) be unapologetically you. Her years of experience as a sex worker have given her a passion and drive to do what she can to eliminate the incorrect stigma that currently surrounds sex work.  This week I talk to Dani about everything you've wanted to know about sex work and why someone would choose to be a sex worker. We cover the legalities, lifestyle and how we can support sex workers and become good allies.  Connect with Dani below and check out her podcast “50 Plus A Tip”  Instagram: @dan_nad or @50plusatip Email: 50plusatip@gmail.com
55:22
October 18, 2019
Episode 14: Everything You Wanted to Know About Periods w/ Lilia Gestson
Lilia is an artist and menstrual equity activist located in Washington DC. She first became interested in the topic of menstruation after years of frustration with her own period. Now she strives to create an open dialogue around the topic.  In this episode, we answer all the questions sent in by listeners as well as talk about menstrual inequality and fighting to end the tampon tax. We discuss how to create a better relationship with our periods and how to create conversation around menstruation so all people are more informed and feel less fear & shame around the topic, regardless if they bleed or not. Menstrual Cup Quiz: https://putacupinit.com Connect with Lilia: https://www.instagram.com/lilia_gestson/ https://www.liliagestson.com/ https://paintmeredblog.weebly.com/
1:03:34
October 11, 2019
Episode 13: Overcoming Default Masculinity w/ Carvell Wallace
Trigger Warning: This episode touches on childhood sexual trauma. Carvell Wallace is a New York Times bestselling author, podcaster memoirist, and a regular contributor to the New York Times Magazine. He was the parenting advice columnist for Slate Magazine and was a columnist at MTV News and has written for Pitchfork, GQ, Esquire, Glamour, ESPN and many others.  In this episode, Carvell opens up about his experience with childhood trauma and his long complicated relationship with his own sexuality. We discuss how he went from using sex as a barometer for success to connecting with intimacy and learning to see sex in a whole new light.
1:06:16
September 27, 2019
Episode 12: How to Have the Best Sex w/ Jordan Gray
In this episode, I talk to sex & relationship coach (and friend), Jordan Gray, about what makes amazing sex. Since I've known Jordan for 19 years, this episode was a lot of fun to record. We boil it down to the concepts of Presence, Abandon and Connection and deep dive into what each of those mean and what you can do to bring them into the bedroom.  Come get a little silly with us!
1:00:20
August 30, 2019
Episode 11: Dance & Politics w/ Halena Seiferling
In this episode I talk to Halena Seiferling who has her Masters in Public Policy and is currently working with a non-profit organization aiming to end working poverty. Halena is also a choreographer and instructor for Heels Dance.  We discuss body shame and using dance to overcome it, women in government, politics and everything in between. 
1:09:52
August 23, 2019
Episode 10: Communication, Trauma & Supporting the Ones We Love w/ Sarah Wilson
In this episode I talk to Sarah Wilson, a teacher, LGBTQ2SIA+ supporter and communication nerd. We discussed tips and strategies for communicating in relationships, as well as how to support the people you love who may have experienced trauma or who are discovering their identity for the first time. Resources: Identity https://outsidetheboxcounselling.ca/lgbtq-youth/  https://www.ambitgenderdiversity.com/resources/ https://www.ambitgenderdiversity.com/two-spirit/ http://www.phsa.ca/transcarebc/ Trauma https://amzn.to/2YTrxdJ https://amzn.to/2KAAvDQ Conflict Resolution/Intimacy   https://instagram.com/tanillegeib?igshid=1usw5ehl091eg
40:14
August 16, 2019
Episode 9: Consent Culture in Theatre w/ Mika Laulainen
Mika Laulainen, a director, artist and all around badass in the theatre community, chats with me about consent, non-monogamy and the patriarchy. In the past, it's been an unspoken understanding that actors should dive into any situation they find themselves in. But this can be triggering for some people. Especially when it comes to creating art that might centre around sex, sexual violence, physical altercations or anything that could cause a boundary to be crossed. Mika and I chat about some of the work she's doing to create a safe, communicative space where actors can feel free to express their boundaries while still staying true to the art they're creating. 
46:53
August 9, 2019
Episode 8: Anal Sex Tips for Newbies
Are you curious about anal play? Anal sex can be a fun, pleasurable experience that can lead to intense orgasmic experiences. But it can also be a bit scary and/or overwhelming. And that's ok! Here's my top tips for anyone looking to jump head first into butt stuff. ;) Episode Links Uberlube: https://amzn.to/32xLg0J
16:37
July 19, 2019
Episode 7: Open Relationships w/ My Husband Sean
It's my first guest! My husband Sean joins me to dive into how we started our open relationship, overcoming jealousy, communication and lots of talk about penises (seriously dicks get a lot of air time for some reason).   FREE Energizing Orgasm Tutorial: https://jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
52:52
June 20, 2019
Episode 6: Ways We Give Away Our Power
We have been conditioned to subdue our true power. And even if you consider yourself powerful and in control, there's still ways that you could be subconsciously diminishing yourself to appear more socially acceptable. Let's talk about a few of the big ways that we give away our energy and how to curb these unnecessary learned habits.
17:06
June 18, 2019
Episode 5: My Big Bi Polyamorous Life
Every relationship dynamic is different. What works for some won't work for others, but in this episode I talk about what works for me and my partner. I discuss our open relationship and my exploration of my queerness as well as my struggles with how I fit into the LGBTQ2 community. FREE Energizing Orgasm Audio Lesson: https://jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
16:58
June 6, 2019
Episode 4: How Supporting Women Makes You More Powerful
Empowering women is a hot topic these days. Even advertising has jumped onboard, using our empowerment journey as a way to sell soap... 🤷But, besides the obvious, why should we be supporting each other? And how do we break past the stereotypical idea that we should be in constant competition with one another? In this episode I chat about why it's beneficial for all of us to be on the same team and how you can learn to be supportive of another woman's success even if it sometimes feels difficult.   FREE Energizing Orgasm Tutorial: https://jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
15:09
May 30, 2019
Ep.3 Is Your Vulva Normal?: 4 Vulva Myths
There has been so little research done on the female body. It makes us wonder if we're normal, if we're healthy or if we're crazy. I know plenty of health care providers who brush off women's pain and issues. But more and more information is starting to surface as we finally delve into the mysteries of the deep...or at least the mysteries of the vulva. In this episode I debunk 4 myths surrounding the vulva so we can finally put these damaging ideas to rest. Disclaimer: I know that not all women have vulvas and not all people with vulvas are women. There isn't a ton of research out there on trans & gender queer bodies. So we can't accurately say that what works for cis women will work for trans folk. This research is based on cis women who grow up to identify as female.   Tips for overcoming non concordance:  http://www.jenniferdoanconsulting.com/blog/2019/5/23/when-your-body-feels-like-the-enemy-arousal-non-concordance FREE Energizing Orgasm Audio Lesson: https://jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
16:17
May 23, 2019
Episode 2: Taking Back Your Brain: Overcoming Body Shame
Self hatred is all too real. It eats away at our insides and holds us back from accepting how amazing we truly are.  We can waste our whole life away, stuck in our brains, shaming and judging ourselves for things that only we can see. In this episode, I talk about some techniques to help you down the path of self-acceptance.  Notice I don't say self-love... Here's a list of awesome body positive badass babes to follow on instagram. Let me know if I should add anyone. @spookyfatbabe @sitting_pretty @mamacaxx @michellelamour @simonemariposa @amputee_kat @lizzobeeating @evyan_whitney @yrfatfriend @thefatsextherapist @shanboody
19:02
May 8, 2019
Episode 1: Breakups & Orgasms
Inside all of us is a sexy, confident inner badass. Maybe you've already met yours. I met mine almost 7 years ago, after a painful breakup pushed me to take control of my body and rebuild the relationship with my sexual energy. This wasn't about sex (although that was part of the journey), this was about harnessing this powerful part of my self and giving my entire life a facelift. It was about stepping into the person I was meant to be so I could live the life I always wanted. Here's how I got there...
26:58
April 23, 2019
Make your own podcast for free with Anchor!