Taking In The Scene

Get ready for a sexy, fun episode where we read our own writings from Fetlife. From erotic poetry to thoughtful journal entries to smutty erotica, it's a titillating journey through our own musings and fantasies. || This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

We revisit the crucial topic of negotiations in kink, sharing advanced tips, personal experiences, and the importance of ongoing consent and communication. || This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Vahavta joins us to discuss the intersections of Jewish identity and kink, shedding light on cultural nuances, personal experiences, and the unique dynamics within this space. || This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

From creating spaces for like minded people to share their passions, to remote educational and teaching opportunities, social media and technology have fundamentally transformed the kink community. Platforms such as like TikTok, OnlyFans, and Fetlife have created profoundly impactful digital spaces for kink cultures. Join us as we discuss the opportunities, challenges, and changing dynamics of experiencing and expressing kink in a world increasingly connected by technology.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

We dive into a mix of messages from our Fetlife inboxes and from listener submissions. It's a rollercoaster of laughter, critiques, and explorations of the good, the bad, and the downright creepy in kink messaging. || This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Well, we neglected to talk about music in the ‘Kink in Media’ episode. So part two it is! This episode tunes into the presence and influence of kink in the music industry, exploring its representation and impact in songs and artist personas. || This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Sinsational shares their journey through religious trauma to finding empowerment in kink. An intimate and powerful conversation about healing, discovery, and the role of kink in personal transformation.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

A vital talk on sexual health in the kink context. Along with discussions of STIs and consent, we provide guidance on how to initiate and navigate these crucial conversations with partners

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

All about pleasure! We explore the many facets of pleasure in and out of kink, and share tips, experiences, and ways to enhance your kinky enjoyment.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Marionette, a renowned local toy maker, takes us behind the scenes of crafting kinky toys. Discover the artistry, passion, and creativity involved in bringing these playful tools to life. There are mentions and discussions of blood play in this episode.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Platforms in the kink community, just like any other community, come with a great amount of power and influence. Whether that platform is a party venue, discord server, or even a podcast, anyone running those platforms has access to power. This proximity to power means that they play a crucial role in how safe and inclusive the kink community actually is. Join us as we voice our perspectives on this topic, as well as dive deep into the concept of "the missing stair" when it comes to 'less savory' members of our community.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Join us as we define a range of kinks, from the 'bread and butter' staples to some less mainstream kinks. Rather than deep-diving, we aim to give you a broad overview of what’s out there in an informative and engaging exploration of kink.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Definition source: https://kinkly.com/definition

Dive into a playful and provocative exploration of kink aesthetics! In this episode, we talk about the fashion statements seen at play parties, and dive into the meaning behind some of our own kink fashion choices. It’s all about fun, fashion, and a little bit of flashy in this light-hearted discussion of the fashion statements that exist in the colorful world of kink.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

First and foremost - "Sex work is real work!" - and that's just as true in the kink world as it is in the non-kink world. To help us discuss this further, we interview Sir-Brat-to-You (they/it), a fellow kinkster and an active sex-worker, to discuss some of the joys and difficulties that they face in both their work and in the kink community. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Whether someone has mobility difficulties, sensory issues, or even an "invisible disability" such as diabetes or chronic pain, kink can and should be adapted to accommodate. Join us as we discuss this topic and more during our interview with Vahavta. Vahavta (she/her) is an experienced kinkster who has taught a number of classes in communities around the world, practices a "24/7 Consent-Non-Consent (CNC) Total Power Exchange (TPE)" dynamic with her partner, and identifies as a disabled Jewish femme masochist.

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Despite how things appear on the internet and in adult video content, explorations of kink are not just reserved for young 20-30-Somethings looking to express themselves and explore. Entering into and practicing kink as an older adult is significantly more common than many may think, and we had the honor of interviewing KatNip (they/them) - a local kinkster that considers themselves qualifying for the "Older in Kink" title . Join us as we learn more about their experience. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Bondage is one of the most practiced kinks in the world - so much so that it comes first in the acronym for "BDSM". Rope Play is a sub category of bondage, and has a strong following within many kink communities. To help us explore this area of play, we interview a local Queer rope enthusiast, teacher, and performer to find out more. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Like many other communities, kink communities do not exist in a vacuum. Because of this, concepts such as race (and even gender) can have an impact on the type of experience that someone may have when interacting with their kink community. To help us explore this reality, we interview a Black Queer Femme kinkster from our local kink community to discuss how race has and has not impact their experience. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion regarding sexual assault and abuse. Listener discretion is advised

We've all had times where a cis-man says or does something that just...leaves us confounded and confused. On this episode, the trio interviews Jammy (they/them) as we try to answer the question "why ARE men_" fill in the blank. Join us as we shoot the shit and talk some trash. In this light-hearted episode, we do cover several serious subjects of social justice. 

Note: Mango would like to note that this episode pertains to capital M Men, and not necessarily to the men in her life. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Join us as we learn all about age play from an experienced local kinkster. In our first interview of the season, Mango and Orange talk with Sinsational (she/her) about her path to age play, her experience in the kink community, and how age play is similar and different to other types of play. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Note: Since the recording of this interview, Sinsational has severed ties with the partner about whom she speaks in this episode. Sinsational has consented to this episode being released as is, but requests that both members of the local community and general listeners respect her privacy regarding the situation.

Kicking off season 2, our hosts DenzelDarko, MangoSorbet, and WarmOrange gather around to discuss some of the nonsensical things that they've encountered on Fetlife - The social media website commonly used for kinksters. 

|| This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko ||

Intentional inclusivity is vital to the foundation of many communities, including the kink community. In this episode we begin a deep dive into the complicated relationship between kink, race, and inclusivity. ||  This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko || Show Notes: Rachel Cargle's framework for effective allyship: https://www.messymarvelous.com/year-2020-skill-12-be-an-anti-racist/

Respecting the consent of all parties is crucial to safe and healthy kink play. What happens when that consent is violated? In this episode, we answer this question and more as we discuss the heavy topic of Consent Violations. || This podcast is intended for mature audiences, and listener discretion is advised. || Music Credits: Intro by Kevin Macleod // Outro by DenzelDarko