Mama Drama Trauma Academy
By Tammy Taylor
MDT Academy is a short cut course to releasing shame, blame and guilt in exchange for health, happiness and wholeness. An empowering facilitated by 1)learning to live in loving detachment from Mama, drama and the trauma 2)through reclamation of the divinity identity mantra: "I AM a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone."
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Mama Drama Trauma AcademyMay 17, 2021
How the inner child mothers us: from narcissistic shadow to empathic enlightenment
How the inner child takes over the role as our mother is overlooked in our over focus on mothering or reparenting it. As a result of missing how and why this this happens, self mothering often fails to bring the goods. Our inner child, the wounded, rejected part of us with unmet maternal needs, develops is our first mother because it acknowledges the unmet needs of maternal presence, provision and protection we deny because it feels unsafe.
In a hyper focus not to rock the boat, attempting to remain safe in abandoning and abusive situations, we empower the inner child to finds ways to get our needs met. True for us and our mothers in this generational cycle of mother wound, but Empaths don’t just have the mother wound. Empaths have MDT. We not only feel hurt, we feel Mama’s pain from her own unmet maternal needs.
How does a child born of shadow, unrecognized, unregulated and unintegrated emotions mother? Does it have the experience and expertise to do so without hurting itself and others? The answer is terribly. Terrible Mothers are born into this unbroken cycle, impossible to break without acknowledging what our wounded narcissistic inner child needs. Until then, the shadow of our heart and mind is occupied by unhealed wounds triggers by mothering ourselves the same way we were mothered.
Let’s bring it to light so we can respond to MDT differently.
7 Rules of Intuition for Empaths with MDT: How to Own the Unknown We Know
Blurred lines between the worlds we walk. How do you use your intuition to clarify who, where and what you are? Let’s explore how to use ego:soul communication, that part of us we know knows all things, instead of feeling used by it.
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Empath Spectrum and the Narcissist Inner Child
Empaths with MDT* have a wounded narcissist inner child as our shadow. Knowing where we are on the empath spectrum tells us 1)how ready, willing and able we are to integrate the rage of maternal abandonment and abuse; and 2)what our natural gifts, talents and abilities are to succeed in this inner work we are destined and designed to do.
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*Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), a condition in which the mother projects her unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life.
Telltale Signs of Mama Drama Trauma PART II
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) is a condition in which the mother projects her own unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life.
Triggers are unhealed emotional wounds. For empaths, trigger coping is our natural default because we feel others' feelings, and with Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) it shows up in these telltale signs.
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Telltale Signs of Mama Drama Trauma PART I
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) is a condition in which the mother projects her own unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life.
Triggers are unhealed emotional wounds. For empaths, trigger coping is our natural default because we feel others' feelings, and with Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) it shows up in these telltale signs.
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy supports the daily practice of release. Post a question for a reading.
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How Empaths Heal the Mother Wound
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), a condition in which the mother projects her unmet maternal needs onto the child causing them physical and/or emotional trauma. In cases where the mother is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal, loving detachment is necessary for them to live a happy, healthy and whole life.
Using the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is a great way to amp up your mother wound healing ritual. As empaths, we have the ability to heal MDT, the question is how focused we choose to be on living in loving detachment from mama, the drama and the trauma. Having a simple daily practice that gives us immediate clarity, balance and confirmation from Great Mother and her spirit team of angels, guides and ancestors gives us the strength to own who we are with grace. Prefer to watch video showing card discussed?
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How Do We Know What Is Best for Us?
Empaths don’t just have the mother wound, we have MDT and this is home to everything MDT. One of the most confusing things for us is distinguishing between how we and others feel. Unless, we have been taught how to use our super powers of focus and intuition, it will have us all up a tree and tumbling down in an endless cycle with MDT. As a result, knowing what is best for us is a challenge we can overcome, we just need to feel confident of our means of determining it. Once we do, Beybea… (Video “How to Do What’s Right For You”)
Empaths and the Mother Wound
Do you feel like an empath?
You’re not alone. There are over 20 million people in the United States who identify as being empaths, or those with the unique ability to sense and absorb others’ emotions, typically making us extremely caring, compassionate, and understanding people. People differ fundamentally in how we perceive and process environment features with some being generally more and some being generally less sensitive.
One of the most fundamental traits found in humans and many species, are those more affected by what they experience than others.
According to sensory susceptibility researchers, Jay Belsky and Michael Pluis, “differential susceptibility,” refers to individual differences in how we respond to the environment we are exposed.
High sensitivity is seen in 20% who are more sensitive, or have greater susceptibility to sensitivity to experiences than others and thirty percent of HSPs are extroverts, meaning HSP and introversion are not mutually exclusive.
Empaths are highly sensitive people but not all highly sensitive people (HSN) are empaths. One percent of twenty percent of highly sensitive people are empaths.
Empaths with MDT have dysregulated reactions to maternal abandonment and, or abuse which we internalize as not to cause harm to others causing us mental, emotional and physical stress. Left unaddressed, over time, depression, rage, autoimmune, reproductive and digestive disorders require continuous attention and care. Acknowledging our pain gives us permission to redirect the care and consideration we would give to others before ourselves to ourselves first.
The mother wound is defined as, “pain, wounding, and trauma that's carried by a mother and inherited by her children. Most people have experienced this definition if maternal wounding. However, empaths get a double dose through inheritance and absorption of our mothers unmet maternal needs which we abbreviate ourselves to accomodate from conception.
But there is hope! Mama Drama Trauma (MDT) Academy helps empaths learn how to be present, provide for and protect ourselves from damaging defense and coping mechanisms so we be more emotionally balanced and live with less anxiety.
Join the book launch team for the book version of the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. In exchange for your review of the book, you will receive weekly empath grounding techniques to:
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MDT Healing Oracle Deck: ACKNOWLEDGE SUIT
Acknowledging Mama Drama Trauma is the first step to healing it, but who on God's green earth wants to admit it? I certainly did not. It took a decade long talk with Jesus before I did, and even after observing the affects of MDT in my life: terrible relationship with my Mama, divorce, meandering ambition, promiscuity and general discontent, truth brought me to my knees. Acknowledging MDT made me accountable for my life. Point, blank, short, plain, simple, no dash and the period. From the bowels of Mexico's Gulf coast, I crawled onto the beach where I now live. Until the balance of my days, I will treasure the years I had her to myself.
And, to whom much is given, much is expected so as difficult as it was to point the finger, it has been excruciating acknowledging the three pointing back at me. Many lifetimes as an old soul has taught me to respect higher will if I am to be guided by it, and I I prefer it to people or machines, sacrifices are routinely made. The shame, blame and guilt, I had consumed since inception, had produced a six pound fibroid tumor, negative finances and more of it if I needed support. Higher guidance, Tammy to higher guidance, please hear me, "Whatever you have for me in this situation, I do not see it. It feels like your guidance is off, or I have a bad connection." Six more years go by and suddenly, one day, I hear: "You have a bad connection." Took me a while, but I finally got the message! Damn, it was from my end.
Before they could tell me that, they had to make sure I had reversed the loss of self love enough to sustain the blow. Having gone to Al-Anon by the gentle suggestion of a friend who picked me right up off that beach, I was more than ready and ready to ask myself lots of questions!
Following through with the decision to acknowledge MDT costed my life... of shame, blame and guilt.
(A.S.P.I.R.E. 6: A for ACKNOWLEDGE SUIT CARD of the 49 card Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck www.mamadramatrauma.info Because we aspire to live in loving detachment from shame, blame and guilt).
MDT Healing Oracle Deck: SELF INQUIRY SUIT
Self Inquiry or asking ourselves questions, instead of jumping to conclusions, is one of the best loving detachment practices I have. Byron Casey came along with ‘The Work’ right when I was trying to make sense of Al-Anon’s teaching of “detachment”. It resonated with me so profoundly, when Iyanla Vanzant did her first healing show ’Starting Over’, I was ready to do just that!
When I ask myself, “Is it true?” before judging myself unworthy, ungrateful, or a diva saved the life I always imagined in my heart for myself. I never know how it is works out, but it does. Each risk to self care and self love a little more pays off in confidence dividends I get to spend where ever and however I like. Since I'm an old soul, I have learned how to value and respect this powerful insight to experience all the grace and mercy we need to wander. Sometimes we just need to meander in the meadowy hills and high valleys to feel mother's touch and lay on the ground at night to feel her rock us. If you find her in frozen tundra or on the ocean wide, any and everything that does not feel like that in response to your every need, is not Great Mother. It may be a sibling god or goddess, birth father or birth mother incarnated in archetypes of the good or terrible mother, but it will not be Great Mother, the juice.
My sister may give me water, Mama may give me Milk, but Great Mother gives me juice, nectar, ambrosia. Which would you rather have? I always pick the one that makes me feel the healthiest, happiest and most divine.
Self Inquiry shows up in our readings to stimulate transformation of self judgment and condemnation into health, happiness and wholeness. Asking myself the simple question, “Is it true?” helps me balance the weight of everything I want with everything I need.
SELF INQUIRY SUIT CARD for S in A.S.P.I.R.E. of the 49 card Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. Because we aspire to live in loving detachment from shame, blame and guilt).
MDT Healing Oracle Deck: PROCESSING SUIT
Processing the self inquiry: “Is the Relationship Worth the Effort?” makes me get real about what makes a relationship or situation worthy of my effort. My evolving default is to allow my divinity to dictate--- but MDT attachments still often have me in limbo. What is a goddess to do? What do you do when you are in this situation, just hope is passes (as if), or create boundaries to keep out what you do not want to let in what you do?
PROCESSING SUIT CARD for P in A.S.P.I.R.E. of the 49 card Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck We aspire to live in loving detachment from shame, blame and guilt.
MDT Healing Oracle Deck: INTEGRITY SUITE
Telling ourselves the truth is integrity. Integrity flows into all areas of our lives, but unlike a lie we tell ourselves that festers in slow decay, integrity is life! Living on the edge of existence, for old souls, has its perks. For one, we can tap into our self awareness at any time. Two, no one has to be wrong for us to feel right. We already know we are divine. Mama Drama Trauma is just another lifetime in countless lives with and as mothers. It does not feel like that from this end. For this side of the curtain, we only see, feel, hear, smell and speak to the shadow of all the mothers we have ever known. That is how it feels.
No doubt, in telling myself the truth, Mama has been a sibling, child and mother of mine in other lifetimes because of the way she shows up in my dreams. Mamas show up in our dreams differently than anyone else. Soul mate status affords us center stage in each others lives—until or unless we do not. Empaths with MDT have difficulty appreciating this because autonomy of thought is dangerous. If our belief in divinity identity does not cause a conniption fit, attempts to establish and maintain healthy boundaries certainly will. Only integrity ensures the ones we can define, with solid application, are the ones that will refine the divinity of everyone involved.
INTEGRITY SUIT CARD reminds us that in telling ourselves the truth, we always have the grace and mercy we need to do it. I in A.S.P.I.R.E. of the 49 card Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. Because we aspire to live in loving detachment from shame, blame and guilt.
MDT Healing Oracle Deck: RESURRECTION SUITE
Resurrection is rising from the dead. Rebirth is being reborn, cycle completion. Each a separate card in the Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck, when we let go of the mother we want in order to accept the one we have, we feel reborn making “rebirth” the waxing moon card of the “resurrection,” throat chakra suit. This balsamic, intuitive download moon phase card resurrects us from death and decay of a thousand years with Christ Consciousness, the red letters in the Bible, or the words he is said to have spoken. Called dominical words among theologians, they comprise the most radical and empowering scriptures ever uttered by western man, and after 2,000 years, still only practiced by a few.
Old souls have the juice to complete resurrection rituals within lifetimes to heal ourselves and others. Remaining afraid of this power serves no one, least of whom ourselves. Resiliency is a telltale sign of maturity. Since time immemorial, this road back home to your selves, has been built brick by brick. It may take a while. It will feel strange. Magical, strange and wonderful people help us when we get lost along the way. Angels, guides and ancestors guide our light upon it until we become it.
RESURRECTION SUIT CARD calls us to ego:soul alignment by breaking the divinity identity taboo with the mantra: “I am a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned or left alone.” The R in A.S.P.I.R.E. of the 49 card Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. We aspire to live in loving detachment from shame, blame and guilt.
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MDT Oracle Deck: EMANCIPATION SUITE
EMANCIPATION | Home Peace Free card is the major arcana of the fifth chakra suite in The Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. purchase enrolls you in MDT Academy. YT channel where you can subscribe for in-depth reads from The Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck daily card pull.
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Grieving the Mother or Child We Want Them to Be
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Divinity Identity Revival
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Is Making My Life All About Me Selfish?
Needing to ask ourselves this question as empaths with MDT is often approached with self judgment. As usual, it is two-fold because we not only have our own intensely sensitive feelings but we have the added pleasure of feelings others’ emotions too. The rub is, though we may feel scared, joyful, mad, sad, powerful or peaceful, unless we are psychic or intuitive empaths, we do not know why someone feels that way. Enter us: tired and need a break for it all and just wanting to feel our own feelings, but what are they? Do we feel outside of others? How do we know? Is even wanting to know a good thing?
No worries, help is on the way. If you’ve made it to this stage of self awareness, you are half way to understanding the difference between being selfish and selful. Get you some!
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061121 READING: How Do I Go “No Contact” with Mama in Loving Detachment?
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052521 READING: "What do I Need to Know to Heal?"
In this reading Great Mother addresses the elephant in the room: the healing burden of “I’ll do it myself.” It's not so much we do not want help but how do we know when we can trust ourselves enough to know who, what and when to trust others to help us?
This is the disorientation of the affliction. This is the disorientation of the affliction. For the deeper meaning behind the message listen to the Great Mother Speaks podcast and post your question for a reading.
Mama Drama Trauma (MDT), a condition in which the mother projects unhealed aspects of herself onto her child causing emotional and or physical trauma. When she is unable, unwilling or unavailable to heal her own MDT, because it is a cycle, the child must live in loving detachment to living a happy, healthy and whole life.
The Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck is a daily practice of releasing the mama, the drama and the trauma in order to take our power back from it. Listen to the podcast and post your question for a reading.
051921 READING: "What's My Blind Spot?"
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Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck second listener question, "What will make me the happiest, healthiest and aligned in my career, right now Great Mother?" Here's the meaning behind the reading for us all.
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051721 READING: "What's My Career?"
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Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck first listener question, "What does Great Mother want me to know about my career?"
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050421 READING: Why We Deny Mama Drama Trauma?
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In this Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck reading Great Mother answers the question, "Why Do We Deny Mama Drama Trauma?"
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042821 READING: How To Transform This Trigger Before I Tailspin?
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If these MDT telltale signs describe you, this reading is for you. Great Mother comes through with how we can transform unmet need triggers stemming from maternal abandonment and abuse into transformative healing opportunities. Do this everyday with your Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck www.MamaDramaTrauma.info and read along the first page of the guidebook MDT Telltale signs.
042521 READING: Why do we have MDT?
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Message to all ready, willing and able to heal their Mama Drama Trauma by overcoming the primal fear of insecurity through The Free Spirit's Creed: "I am a dearly loved divine child of the Great Mother Father God who is never judged, condemned of left alone." YT videos
Here for the skinny on divinity identity.
The Free Spirit's Creed
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Divinity identity is the free spirit's creed. This reading answers the question: "What does Great Mother want us to know about our divinity identity?"
Healing the Ghost Mother Fantasy
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Healing is a return to wholeness. By definition, our holy, divine nature is assumed, so why do we experience our mother as the shadow of the one we really want? Welcome to The Mama Drama Trauma Healing Oracle Deck. This intro podcast answers this and other questions you never knew you had about what it takes to break the cycle, stop the emotional see saw and live beyond www.MamaDramaTrauma.info