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Welcome To BLAH Diaries (Broke Lonely Angry & Horny)

Welcome To BLAH Diaries (Broke Lonely Angry & Horny)

By Tamyara Brown

Having the hard conversations to help turn our mess into a beautiful masterpiece. Topics that range from anxiety, depression, dating, single life, love, breakups, and broke, lonely, angry & horny.
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The Pandemic of the Broken Heart
The Pandemic of the Broken Heart
Many of us are unaware that we are in the thick of another Pandemic and that is one of our broken hearts. The present and past traumas of heartaches. Are you waiting for someone one to resolve your heartbreak? Are you afraid to confront the pain present? Take a moment to listen to my latest podcast.
30:27
March 01, 2022
B.L.A.H Diaries Back and Better
B.L.A.H Diaries Back and Better
I’m back better. B.L.A.H Diaries is all about growth and renewal. I took a step back to re invent my podcast. Now there where be special guest , experts, and giveaways. Yasss ! Give always. I’m so excited to be back be sure to stay connected and visit my website www.tamluvstowrite.com and sign up for my newsletter. Visit me on Instagram @tamluvstowrite39, Twitter @tamluvstowrite and Facebook @tamyaradesigns. Let’s stay connected!
10:06
February 28, 2022
The Audacity to Rise Again!
The Audacity to Rise Again!
My hope for all my listeners is to rise again. To stand tall and his higher than before. Life is hard, but we found the audacity to rise again. Today's episode is all about growing and choosing to take the extra step.
23:57
December 24, 2021
Black Men Do Cry! Tears, Pain, & Words They Never Shed!
Black Men Do Cry! Tears, Pain, & Words They Never Shed!
Man up, And you better not cry. Men don’t cry. They take it. The truth is black men do cry. They have words, tears and years of pain they need to shed. I hope this helps someone shed the myth that black men are not allowed to cry. To never say the words that don’t help them. This dedicated to every man who is holding pain, sadness, disappointment, and words they never said. Heal forward! Be sure to follow me on Instagram @Tamluvstowrite39, Twitter:Tamluvstowrite b
27:36
November 26, 2021
In the Center of the Ring!
In the Center of the Ring!
Today topic is about being in the center of the ring when all hell is breaking loose. The common sense thing to do is to run and hide. Yet, we have to find the strength to face the battles we fear. To chase our win. If only if is to say we defeated fear.
09:31
October 26, 2021
Chasing Your Happy!
Chasing Your Happy!
Have you ever went on a chase to find your ultimate happiness? Have been on a search trying to find it through family, friends, boyfriends and things? Okay, Today’s topic is the pursuit of finding your ultimate happiness that doesn’t come from someone. A smile on your face for no rhyme or reason. You find happiness in the smallest and biggest things. I, too am in the pursuit of happiness. Trying to find it hasn’t always been easy but I’m not stopping.
07:03
October 11, 2021
Your Mental Health Matters!
Your Mental Health Matters!
The one thing as a child many of us was taught is to not deal with our emotional pain. If we address what ails us we are weak. The truth is hiding our pain hurts more. Speak your truth. Heal and let go of the pain inside of you. Your pain matters, getting the help you need matters. Don't hide what hurts you. Today’s episode I share why it is important to take care of your mental health l.
09:50
October 10, 2021
Let Them Talk and Move Forward!
Let Them Talk and Move Forward!
We all have pains and traumas we wish we could push away! Today I share a person I learned from a childhood trauma of being teased. The fear I had going back into the world. How it affected my own childhood and how my Uncle Khalid taught me a valuable lesson.
07:57
October 09, 2021
Be Kind to Yourself and Get Your Mammogram
Be Kind to Yourself and Get Your Mammogram
Please if your 40 and over please go get your mammogram. If you have a history go and get your mammogram. 1 and 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer. Often we wait until it is too late especially for African American women. Someone who once cared push me to get mine done and I was diagnosed early. Early detection saves lives.
04:47
October 04, 2021
Changing to Begin and Love Again
Changing to Begin and Love Again
The lesson I learned is that changing, beginning to love again. I opened my eyes to see that this process isn't easy and that I need to learn how to love and like. Take a listen
17:50
September 14, 2021
The Weight of My Weight-Ode to the plus size woman
The Weight of My Weight-Ode to the plus size woman
I carry to weights the one the weighs on my curvaceous frame and the one in my heart, mind, spirit and soul. Today’s episode is a candid look at me as a plus size woman with trauma and dealing with rejection. Be sure to take a listen.
20:33
September 05, 2021
The Ghost of Ghosting & Gaslighting
The Ghost of Ghosting & Gaslighting
What happens when you are ghosted and gaslighted by someone incarcerated? They have been caught in lies and they make you think your crazy. How about this have you ghosted someone incarcerated? This is the conversation that needs to be had. Tune in
46:36
August 28, 2021
B.L.A.H Diaries Jamspiration The songs that inspired and help me move forward
B.L.A.H Diaries Jamspiration The songs that inspired and help me move forward
Episodes with music are only available on Spotify.
I'm testing a new segment of B.L.A.H Diaries Jamspiration. The story with today and yesterday music. Jamming out ways to healing, empowerment and a dose of great music. Let me know what you think and be sure to drop a comment on my social media to let me know. Visit me at my website www.tamluvstowrite.com. Instagram at: tamluvstowrite39 or Tamyaradesigns. Twitter: Tamluvstowrite39 or Facebook Tamyaradesigns
30:06
August 22, 2021
The Truth About Writing - The Author's Edition with special guest Dartanya A. Williams Sr.
The Truth About Writing - The Author's Edition with special guest Dartanya A. Williams Sr.
The most common thing I hear from aspiring authors is that they want to write a book. Today my special guest Dartanya A. Williams and I discuss his upcoming book about the writer's process, his upcoming novel The Notorious LEX, his upcoming short movies, character development. Be sure to tune please be sure to connect with this dope writer Dartanya A. William Sr via his website www.dartanyaawilliamssr.com. Visit his social media @dartanyasr. Stay connected with me on Twitter: tamluvstowrite, Instagram: @tamluvstowrite39. and visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com
59:43
August 15, 2021
Broken Into Repair- Cleaning up the pieces
Broken Into Repair- Cleaning up the pieces
We all at some point have been broken on our lives. Today I discuss how to repair your heart, mind and spirit to move on. I share my personal journey of healing and fixing my broken pieces. Believe me I'm still on repair. Be sure to visit me at www.tamluvstowrite.com. Take a moment to visit my blog on Medium @tamluvstowrite. Be sure to stay connected on Instagram @tamluvstowrite39 and Twitter: @tamluvstowrite
30:58
August 08, 2021
Anchor Your Heart Series-Sometimes We Forget
Anchor Your Heart Series-Sometimes We Forget
Have you ever forgotten how valuable you are? Have you ever let someone disqualify you because of their bad action. Today I discuss how we forget our worth. My hope is to remind you to value yourself.
23:03
August 03, 2021
Life Interrupted
Life Interrupted
Life has been interrupted so many occasions for me. What if those interruption where necessary so you can find you? To develop the strength. To find you and become better. Today I discuss life Interrupted for the better and to see the promised. Life removing the unnecessary to make you better.
21:57
July 27, 2021
Please Go Find Youself
Please Go Find Youself
How many of you feel lost? Do you lack love, peace and joy? So many of us are stuck in the lost and found pile. So we over work, over eat, stay complacent and lack joy. I share my story in hopes of helping others to find what they truly need.
19:34
July 26, 2021
Secret Beef! The conversation you refuse to have to heal!
Secret Beef! The conversation you refuse to have to heal!
In this week's episode, the topic is Secret Beef! The conversation you refuse to have to heal. There's so many people living in bondage because they refuse to have certain conversations about situations and things that hurt them. They fear the backlash and reliving the trauma. Alot of us can't heal because we refuse to have the hard conversation. Come and join us for an opportunity to listen and have hard conversations. I would love to start a green room so we can have a real conversation. Visit my website and stay connected. www.tamluvstowrite.com.
27:12
June 25, 2021
Lessons I Learned From A Stained Heart
Lessons I Learned From A Stained Heart
In this week's episode, Tamyara discusses Lessons she learned from a Stained Heart. Come and join me live as I share lesson I learn, empower you to move forward and turn your mess into a beautiful Masterpiece. A huge thank you to everyone that has been getting in touch. If you'd like to do the same, email the show at tamluvstowrite@gmail.com. Liking what you are hearing? Remember to hit the follow button to make sure you never miss a show. Would you like to be on the show, have a topic you want to discuss join me. Please email me @ tamluvstowrite@gmail.com. B.L.A.H Diaries is now exclusively available on Spotify. If you are only hearing 30 seconds of each song, you'll need to subscribe to Spotify for the full experience. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blah diaries/message
28:26
June 13, 2021
We Plan, Our Higher Power Plans Greater!
We Plan, Our Higher Power Plans Greater!
We all plan, believe life is going to go according to instruction. How do we heal forward? How do we follow the higher power plan? Rewrite it according to his plan when it upsets ours? Our higher power plan is greater and farther. Check out my latest podcast on the lesson we all need to learn.
26:06
June 02, 2021
Do It While Crying!
Do It While Crying!
The biggest lesson I learned was accomplishing my goals and dreams was doing while crying.Some of life's upsets can make us want to give up. Today I discuss why doing it crying and pushing forward to succeed. Listen in and share your ways of pushing through.
18:53
May 24, 2021
Applying Pressure- Don't Give Up!
Applying Pressure- Don't Give Up!
Have you ever felt the pressure of the world? The weight of it on your shoulders. That pressure from a life's upsets. How do you deal again? Imagine taking that same pressure and applying it to your growth, to your career and making things happen. Today I discuss turning your disappointments into determination.
25:33
May 15, 2021
My Biggest Flex was going to Therapy
My Biggest Flex was going to Therapy
There was a time that I cried for 48 hours and couldn't stop. The pressure to be everything to everybody was real. I took steps to get therapy. Today I discuss why it is so important to take care your mental health. Why it matters and how to overcome depression. I share my personal story in hopes it will help somebody.
29:30
May 03, 2021
When The Smoke Clears!!!
When The Smoke Clears!!!
.When The Smoke Clears do you want that person to be your Allie or Enemy? Many of people burn bridges by not saying what they really want. Whether it be not wanting ending a marriage, or friendship that doesn't work for them. The truth is lying makes it worse. People are conscious on what they do. When you set the record straight you give the options and choices. You are not stealing time from them by being manipulative or betraying their trust.
30:12
May 02, 2021
Healing Your Heart & Revoking Their V.I.P Pass
Healing Your Heart & Revoking Their V.I.P Pass
Ever given someone the V.I.P Pass to hurt you repeatedly? Given them permission to rip your heart apart? How many of you want to get to your healing but believe it is impossible. Today I will share the lesson I learned in healing.
34:13
April 22, 2021
The Miseducation of Love
The Miseducation of Love
How many of us are Miseducated about love? Today I discuss what I learned about love, healing and getting back to ourselves.
26:03
April 19, 2021
Boss Up and Take your life Back
Boss Up and Take your life Back
On today's podcast I will discuss dealing with the pain of betrayal and a break up. I will share my personal experience and deal with the pain. How we can move forward and heal.
23:11
April 08, 2021
A lesson on never devaluing yourself worth
A lesson on never devaluing yourself worth
Have you ever loved someone more than yourself? Found yourself losing you for them. Taking the blame for their bad behavior and mistake. Today we take back our power and make a pledge of Valuing ourselves.
22:56
March 20, 2021
Don't Clip Your Wings!
Don't Clip Your Wings!
Today's topic is clipping your wings. So often we hold ourselves back seeking validation, likes, comments, and shares. I discuss how important it is to validate yourself first, second to not allow certain stinking thinking patterns to stop us. Be sure to listen and share with a friend or two.
18:49
February 25, 2021
Let's Talk Books & Politics with Dartanya A. Williams Sr.
Let's Talk Books & Politics with Dartanya A. Williams Sr.
Dartanya A. Williams Sr is a crime fiction mastermind. To date, he has written five novels Dark Secrets, Killadelphia, Almasi 1 & 2 and soon come Ghetto Hemmingway. He is also a prolific blogger who has a publication called, The Waasi on Medium. Also, to order his books please purchase on Amazon .com click on the link. Dive into his books and connect to this great author.
01:06:11
November 22, 2020
Don't let Toxic people become your Achilles Heel!
Don't let Toxic people become your Achilles Heel!
Have you ever wondered why you can't go forward even though you do the work? Have you been on pause? Whose in your life? Are they toxic? Are they using words that hurt? We may be allowing people to become our Achilles heel.
30:57
November 21, 2020
Don't Let Your Failures Steal Your opportunity to Win!
Don't Let Your Failures Steal Your opportunity to Win!
We have to stop letting your failures to steal your win. One thing for certain and two things for sure we have faults. Today's message is to move forward and grow. Let that not be a roadblock. I hope it encourages and empowers you. Please share win and i will encourage you at tamluvstowrite@gmail.com.
15:56
November 15, 2020
Are they "really" supporting you?
Are they "really" supporting you?
We all have heard the excuse I didn't see your post. Or that particular family member or friend who always expect your support but doesn't return it. Do you believe it is accidental? Do you believe they are really your friend? Should you disassociate yourself from them? Let's chat it up.
17:12
November 03, 2020
Why Can't we be friends Authentically! Special Guest my daughter Alisha King
Why Can't we be friends Authentically! Special Guest my daughter Alisha King
After watching Red table talk together. My children and I had in-depth conversation. My son stated, " we women hold on to stuff and we don't know how to be friends." Check out our conversation.
32:06
November 01, 2020
B.L.A.H DIARIES INTERVIEW WITH CRIME FICTION AUTHOR DARTANYA A.WILLIAMS SR.
B.L.A.H DIARIES INTERVIEW WITH CRIME FICTION AUTHOR DARTANYA A.WILLIAMS SR.
When it comes to crime fiction Dartanya A. Williams sr is a crime fiction mastermind. Each of his works is raw, gritty, and a page-turner. His latest novel to be released is Almasi 2 Queen of the Streets. This is a tale of survival and the ugly underworld of the gang culture. Check out his interview where he drops a lot of knowledge from writing to the gang culture and what parents should be aware of. Be sure to check out his novel, blogs and artwork. Visit his website. www.dartanyaawilliamssr.com
56:19
August 16, 2020
Your sacrifice is not in Vain
Your sacrifice is not in Vain
Have you ever sacrifice for someone or something? Went hard for a relationship that didn't work. To you it is in vain but what if you learned to do and operate with and in love? Check out my latest episode
24:10
August 08, 2020
Entanglement it can happen to you!
Entanglement it can happen to you!
Jada, Will and August has folks panties in a bunch over their business. The word Entanglement made folks take a second look at their relationships. Is it really our business? What do they owe us? Check out my views on this.
23:55
July 12, 2020
Head Chick In Charge- You need no permission to claim your Position.
Head Chick In Charge- You need no permission to claim your Position.
How many of you believe you need to be in with the right folks, relationships and need permission to run your own ish? Today, I talk about being the head chick in charge and you need no one to grant you permission. Be sure to check me out on my website www.tamluvstowrite.com
19:27
June 29, 2020
My Platform is Your Platform- Let me support your Business, Products and Services.
My Platform is Your Platform- Let me support your Business, Products and Services.
So I never want to be the person that complains about it and not be about it. I am opening up my platform to shout your business, products and services for free. Why? I like seeing people win. Just send a 30 second blurb about your business, book, podcast and service. I want to shout you out. Email me at tamluvstowrite@gmail.com. Check out my website at tamluvstowrite@gmail.com.
11:46
June 27, 2020
Support Begets Support- Don't Be ashamed to say it hurts when it is not given.
Support Begets Support- Don't Be ashamed to say it hurts when it is not given.
How many times have you been tagged in posts to share and support? You do it and when it comes time for that family member, friend and cousin they never do it. How about buying products, putting change on a fundraiser? Yet, you always support without hesitation. How many had to digest the excuses of it is not in my niche,market or worse yet make a public scene about your feelings to make your right wrong? Time to change the rules and stop feeling guilty about your feelings. Check out my latest podcast.
22:19
June 27, 2020
Let Go of the Bull and Ish- If it don't fit in Your Life, Fire it!
Let Go of the Bull and Ish- If it don't fit in Your Life, Fire it!
Are you still talking about ex or your enemies? Are you dwelling on toxic relationships versus the good that has happen in your life? It is time to let the bull and ish go. It is holding you back from manifesting the things you want. Today we will talk about how unfair you are to you.
20:20
June 22, 2020
Cracking Open The Definition of Yourself!
Cracking Open The Definition of Yourself!
I've allowed many to write the definition of me. I also know there are so many women like myself who feared their past, hated being the underdog, never getting the recognition they deserve. So we follow others. Deny our journey. Here is how I crack opened the definition of myself, reconnected and vowed to change just one life.
23:04
June 08, 2020
Beautifully Broken & Changed I will never be the Same!
Beautifully Broken & Changed I will never be the Same!
Did you know that sometimes you can be Beautifully Broke? Change comes when you least expect it. Have you ever allowed people and your opinion of yourself put you on pause? Today, I share my experience of being beautifully broken and changed. Be sure to visit me at www.tamluvstowrite.com.
15:11
June 06, 2020
Set Your Rules, Boundaries and Regulations for your life
Set Your Rules, Boundaries and Regulations for your life
Do people interrupt you? Have you ever let people slide by violating your time, or doing something you ask them? Me too, we all have done it now is the time to break bad habits and set the boundaries to your life.
23:59
June 03, 2020
Friday Giggles- Soda Bottle Check for Skipping the line
Friday Giggles- Soda Bottle Check for Skipping the line
I know a lot ish is going on but do me a favor and find your giggle. Friday Giggles is about easing the stress and finding chuckle. So i share the fight I witness at Walmart. It seems the biggest disrespect is skipping the line and back talk. Check it out !
13:42
May 22, 2020
Bruh, Sis Heal so you can get your new life!
Bruh, Sis Heal so you can get your new life!
Some of y'all new lives are so close, but you keep slamming the door. You've locked people out. Block others because of those suckers who hurt you. Let's chat about it! Be sure to visit me at www.tamluvstowrite.com
10:58
May 18, 2020
Laugh the Sadness Away For the love of you!
Laugh the Sadness Away For the love of you!
Listen I know all hell is breaking loose. There is drama and trauma. A lot mess but today I need for you laugh it away. Life is more than drama, trauma,mess and stress. A little motivation to heal ya soul.
13:34
May 17, 2020
Self Care-Love On You!
Self Care-Love On You!
The lesson I learned is that for a long time I neglected me. I've been in the habit of neglect. The habit of not taking care of myself. Shame on me! Being the perfect people pleaser I have been last on my list. Today, I share my breakthrough, why i choose self-care. Im encouraging you for the love of you to take care of you! Listen to my lesson of self care and falling in love with me.
33:39
May 16, 2020
For the love of You,-Protect Your Emotional Wealth
For the love of You,-Protect Your Emotional Wealth
How are you protecting your emotional wealth? Have you set up boundaries and non-negotiable deals that are unbreakable? Are you staying past the expiration date? Check out my latest podcast.
16:14
May 14, 2020
The only explanation i need for letting go is I love me more
The only explanation i need for letting go is I love me more
Some of us have stayed past the excuses, dating a double edge sword dude who smiles and lies in your face and gossip behind your back. Family members who get all they can out of you but bash you behind your back . Love is choosing to love from a distance. Severing toes for your sanity and peace. Loving me more is valuable than settling for your hurt. Today's hot topic of the day.
26:34
May 07, 2020
Kill the shame and find the Value of You!
Kill the shame and find the Value of You!
The one thing I can admit is growing up I felt ashamed of being poor, living situation and so much. Recently, I learned to find value in what in the people around me. I learned the value of who I am. Today's podcast is about killing the shame and finding the value in you. Finding value in others even in their mess. Be sure to visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com. Also, be sure to support www.ourcurlsinc.org and www.sweetbuffalo716.com to donate to these amazing organizations. To learn more visit their websites. Follow me on Instagram @tamluvstowrite39
30:19
May 06, 2020
#ImSoDopeChallenge Poetry by Tamyara Brown
#ImSoDopeChallenge Poetry by Tamyara Brown
Poetry lovers check out my poem.
01:53
May 03, 2020
Write your own recipe to your life!
Write your own recipe to your life!
During this quarantine, and pandemic we are flooded with how to think, eat and live. What if I told you every recipe for your life may not fit? One of the biggest mistakes I ever made was trying to live like everyone else recipe. I will share how i discovered my recipe and the lesson I learned. Please visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com. Check out www.ourcurlsinc.org and donate to their amazing organization. Visit www.sweetbuffalo716.com and donate some change. Both are 501c3 organizations. Support big time!!
15:60
April 27, 2020
UnShakeable Love - Do you understand what that is?
UnShakeable Love - Do you understand what that is?
Do you have a love deeper than understanding the reason "Why". Love has many definitions and ranges. Love is challenging and dope. Love is . I share another lesson and level of love I learned. The perfectly imperfect of it and being able to see the good of it. Please visit www.tamluvstowrite.com . Be sure to take a moment and put a little change on these two not for profit organizations www.ourcurlsinc.org and www.sweetbuffalo716.com. Please support them.
19:05
April 25, 2020
Don't Stop Showing up because they coming for your bounce back game and success!
Don't Stop Showing up because they coming for your bounce back game and success!
Ever Bounce back from adversity, failure and being a hot mess? You come far but it is folks reminding you of your mess-ups. Today, i discuss how we don't quit showing up and why you should keep pushing. How do we defeat the them, folks ? How do we stand tall in spite of. Be sure to visit my website www.tamluvstowrite.com and stay connected. Share your thoughts
25:41
April 24, 2020
Focus on Your Elevation, Not Your Competition!
Focus on Your Elevation, Not Your Competition!
The valuable lesson I learned is when you are improving yourself to never focus on your competitors. Too many of us look backward versus forward. The elevation is looking ahead, rebuilding thy self, and not what others are doing. Competition is natural, people copying you is flattery so welcome it. Check out how I move forward on this latest podcast. Visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com . Also, do me a favor and put a little change on it with these amazing charities www.ourcurlsinc.org and sweetbuffalo716.com. Be a blessing to them. Visit their website to see all they do in WNY.
31:04
April 22, 2020
Don't be scare, step out and go for it!
Don't be scare, step out and go for it!
My biggest fear is dating and nee friendships. I am sharing my fears and then the journey. I'm terrified and doing it anyway. Please be sure to donate to www.ourcurlsinc.org & www.sweetbuffalo716.com. Two amazing charities. Also, i will gift books, graphic design services or my tshirts to three winners in a drawing.
30:04
April 21, 2020
I'm all in for All in Challenge, Our Curls Inc and Sweet Buffalo Rocks
I'm all in for All in Challenge, Our Curls Inc and Sweet Buffalo Rocks
I've accepted the challenge and donated to three organizations. All in Challenge, Our Curls inc and Sweet Buffalo Rocks. Please take a moment to donate at www.ourcurlsinc.org , sweetbuffalo716.com, and www.allinchallenge.com every time you donate to either of these challenges I will enter your name in a raffle for a collection of my books, t-shirts or graphic design services. I will pick three winners at the end of the Month. Donate to either or all of them and leave your name, a copy of the receipt and you're are entered at tamluvstowrite.com or use the following hashtags for the following charities #ourcurlsinc or #imatter, #sweetbuffalorocks, or #allinchallenge via social media:  Facebook. www.facebook.com/tamluvstowrite Instagram: www.instagram.com/tamluvstowrite39 Twitter: www.twitter.com/tamluvstowrite
18:45
April 19, 2020
The Closure I made with I mess everything up!
The Closure I made with I mess everything up!
Certain words can have power over you if you allow it to. For so many years, I allowed the words I mess everything up control me. How do we break up with the negative words we say to ourselves ? I share how i own the word mess. How i made peace and closure with it.
20:58
April 18, 2020
If my bedroom walls could talk about my loneliness and depression.
If my bedroom walls could talk about my loneliness and depression.
What would your bedroom say about you? What story would it tell when yu strip all of the perfect off you?. Would it reveal your anxiety, fear, loneliness and depression? During this difficult times so often we are not sharing what ails us? How do you cope? I share my story of until this day I struggle with it and how i cope.
31:53
April 15, 2020
Love is not be a fool for!
Love is not be a fool for!
I watch two young ladies risking their life arguing over a dude. He was in the car watching them. I thought about why it is important not to be a fool for it. Throwing in the towel is ok
29:15
April 11, 2020
Will I grow or decay from everything changing?
Will I grow or decay from everything changing?
Change can be beautiful and scary. Nikki GIOVANNI SAID, Everything will change. Do we grow up or decay? I talk about my experience today being besties with me, my reflection and a lesson on love.
34:04
March 29, 2020
What Ain't Yourn (Your) leave it and Let it go!
What Ain't Yourn (Your) leave it and Let it go!
Have you ever held on to a relationship too long? Have you feared loneliness? I have and it broke me. Check out the tips I learned from my mentor and one of my favorite writers Treasure E.Blue.
29:56
March 28, 2020
Don't be The Distraction and Disruption of your life
Don't be The Distraction and Disruption of your life
Have you disrupted your life for others? Have you been the distraction? I've done both and I learned a hard lesson if your not good you'll remain a mess. Turn your self into a masterpiece.
42:27
March 25, 2020
Forgive and Forget it!
Forgive and Forget it!
I am learning to forgive it and forget it! This is hard especially when it deals with your business and integrity. Thank goodness for a great mentor and person inspiring me to forgive it and let it go.
20:00
March 24, 2020
The Fires We Start
The Fires We Start
Do you that a spark Can restart a fire? How many of you fan the flames but don't extinguish the spark of your problem, drama and traumas. Let's chat it up!
15:24
March 22, 2020
Get your Ass whoop for success
Get your Ass whoop for success
Being in business ain't easy. Take the hits for success. Listen to my latest podcast and share with others.
15:15
March 21, 2020
Take the Lose to Win Again
Take the Lose to Win Again
How many of us have threw out the lifeboat to save someone. To attempt to repair a person without permission. I have on too many damn occasion. You fought hard and lost.
18:34
March 18, 2020
We got 99 problems and Coronavirus is just one of them!
We got 99 problems and Coronavirus is just one of them!
Coronavirus has caused a pandemic but more than ever it is showing the flaws in our government. It is showing us how so many of us fear losing our jobs, their home and are willing to risk our health. That a virus can shut down a whole country. Our level of greed and how much we are in a real struggle. Also, in another breath from a religious aspect, God is trying to tell us something that he can tear down this world and rebuild in his likeness.
15:08
March 15, 2020
Uncomfortable Me-Growth Ain't Easy!
Uncomfortable Me-Growth Ain't Easy!
What part of moving forward has made you uncomfortable? Did it scare the ish out of you? This episode is about dealing with the uncomfortable you when accepting the challenge.
24:56
March 11, 2020
It's Hella Hard, Journey on anyway!
It's Hella Hard, Journey on anyway!
Has life ever hit you so hard that it gave you permission to quit? Live has surely given me a run for my money. Today I discuss why you should just journey on.
15:00
March 08, 2020
Black man, how do I say I love you?
Black man, how do I say I love you?
Love is a lesson. Today, we need to have hard conversation about how we forget to talk it out. How the first thing my mother taught me about men was they weren't ish. The lesson I learned and how we both need to connect, speak and act differently towards one another.
30:43
February 26, 2020
The hard conversation we may need to have with our mother.
The hard conversation we may need to have with our mother.
We all have questions and conversations we wish we had with our mothers. Some of us don't have them out of fear and respect. Others to avoid the argument and even the truth. Check out what hard conversation I wish I had with my mother. Follow me on Instagram @tamluvatowrite39 and share what hard conversation you wish you had with your mother. Or Twitter @tamluvstowrite
14:15
February 24, 2020
You don't need permission to save yourself
You don't need permission to save yourself
Are you afraid to seek help? Are you last on your list? Check out my latest podcast.
15:41
February 21, 2020
They couldn't hear the cry for help because they didn't listen
They couldn't hear the cry for help because they didn't listen
There is a difference between listening and hearing. We live in a busy time and we often miss tbe the cry for help from family and friends. Even our children because we stop listening with an intent to help, heal and be active in listening. I hope this will help someone.
21:05
February 20, 2020
Evolving is Eliminating
Evolving is Eliminating
We outgrow something or someone every day. Most times it isn't personal it is growth. Eliminating doesn't have to be mean. Do it in kindness and love.
21:18
February 17, 2020
Settle the particles of hurt and Grow forward.
Settle the particles of hurt and Grow forward.
A lot of us let go the big stuff but forgive the small particles of hurt. We let it settle and cause us to be clogged with hatred. It is time to grow forward.
18:55
February 15, 2020
Ladies, Don't be no fool and give away your tax refund to these dudes.
Ladies, Don't be no fool and give away your tax refund to these dudes.
Ladies, it is tax refund time and too many have played the fool giving them thousands of dollars, paying off debts and getting no return on their investment . Be smart here is some tips to keep you from being played for a fool.
14:24
February 13, 2020
Temporary Words Can Cause permanent Damage!
Temporary Words Can Cause permanent Damage!
Have you said words out of anger? React with harsh words that are temporary. This episode is about relationships and how to check our words.
14:34
February 08, 2020
Gayle, so out of pocket, But real talk let's change how we talk about us!
Gayle, so out of pocket, But real talk let's change how we talk about us!
My view on Gayle King and Kobe Bryant situation. Let's change the conversation. Black women and men we have to change how we speak out on us. My commentary.
08:32
February 07, 2020
Know what you want and don't be ashamed!
Know what you want and don't be ashamed!
How many of you don't know what you want? How many are afraid to say yes to yourself? Been there doing that. It is time to know what you want and do it. Listen in and let us glow up.
14:33
February 06, 2020
Love is Listening!
Love is Listening!
The next two weeks is all about Love. Someone told be if I want to be a wife prepare now. Are you listening to your husband or wife? Are you interrupting them? Are you asking them to repeat themselves?
14:48
February 03, 2020
You are not Alone! I am mad at me too
You are not Alone! I am mad at me too
Have you stop loving and living? You stop hanging out?Everybody on your block list? Question???? Who are really mad with
13:39
February 02, 2020
You doing too much! Dump some ish!
You doing too much! Dump some ish!
A life lesson I learned about taking on the world. I ran a list and tears 😭running down my face. My mentor announced, "You doing too much." Check out the Lesson I learned.
15:20
January 31, 2020
I am more than my weight!
I am more than my weight!
I am more than my weight. Are you allowing your weight to diminish your goals? Allowing it to paralyze you and not the necessary moves in your life.
19:57
January 30, 2020
You are more than you think you are!
You are more than you think you are!
Who do you think you are? Are you constantly hating on yourself ?
30:20
January 29, 2020
It's not you, it's me let me let you go!
It's not you, it's me let me let you go!
How do we deal with hurt from friends? Maybe it is me so I need to let you go. A lesson in this podcast that is mind-blowing.
19:20
January 23, 2020
Dealing With root to my lonelines.
Dealing With root to my lonelines.
One day, I was sitting in Panera Bread after working a Saturday. Loneliness took over me and I felt so broken. I cried and walked. I know understand the root of it but my needs as well.
23:19
January 21, 2020
Deal with the real ish of our lives
Deal with the real ish of our lives
This week is all about dealing with the real ish that we've hidden from. Join in and listen
15:13
January 19, 2020
Stop dogging our Blackness, Black people
Stop dogging our Blackness, Black people
We have a habit of tearing our culture, black people and race down. It grinds my gear. Listen and let me know your thoughts
24:07
January 18, 2020
Don't change what makes you Unique for a relationship
Don't change what makes you Unique for a relationship
So many of us change who we are to keep a man. We abandon what makes us unique to please him.
14:34
January 08, 2020
Don't Blend in Stand Out-Love Your Uniqueness!
Don't Blend in Stand Out-Love Your Uniqueness!
The lesson I am learning is accepting my uniqueness. None of us was built to be alike. When we stand out no one can duplicate us. Check out my podcast on being okay with your Uniqueness.
13:55
January 06, 2020
My Forever wound- The biggest scar being Molested left.
My Forever wound- The biggest scar being Molested left.
I was 11 years old and molested on New Year's Eve. It left a scar, heart, mind and spirit. Often we are told to forget and forgive. I share my story and the valuable lesson I learned.
28:01
January 01, 2020
Plus Size Sistas you are valuable. What them people did, do or say don't matter!
Plus Size Sistas you are valuable. What them people did, do or say don't matter!
So many dimish our value because of our weight, looks and that is so unfair. I've done it on so many occasions. Today i encourage us to 1. Know our value. 2. Stop breaking promises to ourselves. 3.Stop allowing others to dimish our value. 5. Fire people from our life.
13:55
December 29, 2019
What them other people did- Stop punishing yourselves!!!
What them other people did- Stop punishing yourselves!!!
How many times have you stop having a relationship because of how people have mistreated you? Bad relationships gone sour so you stop dating. Guess What I've punished myself on many of occasions. Feared friendships. I chat about how I am no longer punishing myself.
17:34
December 29, 2019
Kwanzaa-The lesson I learned from my Uncle.
Kwanzaa-The lesson I learned from my Uncle.
Kwanzaa was introduced to me by my Uncle Khalid. He helped me understand that Kwanzaa is a celebration of family, Community and Culture. I share the lesson I learned.
15:32
December 26, 2019
Happy Holidays From B.L.A.H Diaries
Happy Holidays From B.L.A.H Diaries
Wishing you joy, love, peace and an abundance of happiness
02:43
December 24, 2019
Beauty and Scars- The lesson I learned about the true beauty if cracking the surface of my pain.
Beauty and Scars- The lesson I learned about the true beauty if cracking the surface of my pain.
Lesson I learned about the deep layers of forgiveness, getting real with myself and hurt. Dealing with scars. That healing time varies.
24:21
December 24, 2019
Decluttering my heart, mind and spirit by letting go!
Decluttering my heart, mind and spirit by letting go!
How are we decluttering pur hearts, minds and spirits? Have you removed hatred and anger? Drama. Mess and have you forgiven yourself? Listen and share how you are decluttering you.
27:21
December 20, 2019
Your Failures can be a set up to Success
Your Failures can be a set up to Success
Every failure isn't a total lost. So often when fail or at the bottom we lose sight on how to climb. Let's chat about looking at failure as a atepping ladder to success.
13:41
December 12, 2019
Cutting your soul ties for real for real!
Cutting your soul ties for real for real!
This evening I saw this young lady's soul ties to a gentleman. It bought me back to a situation and how i had to detox and move on. Sharing my journey to help a sister end hers.
14:49
December 11, 2019
Never be ashamed of your position in your life or job
Never be ashamed of your position in your life or job
I often hear people shaming the cashier, the Fast food worker, nurse's aide or receptionist. I want to encourage you that your job is important. We are leaders. Encouraging words for those feeling out of place
11:12
December 10, 2019
Sis, Make Sure you Hustle and Rest just as much as you are making sure others are
Sis, Make Sure you Hustle and Rest just as much as you are making sure others are
Sis, have you given all your energy into others? Have you been in last on your list? Me too. I discuss the lesson I learn and the way I am breaking away from being last on my list. Choosing you first isn't always easy.
12:20
December 08, 2019
The lesson I learned about Resentment and Regret
The lesson I learned about Resentment and Regret
We all have regrets and resentment. I share my regrets and resentment against Christmas and New Year's eve. How alcohol and drug addiction traumatized my childhood. How it made me despise Christmas and the days leading to the New year.
20:09
December 08, 2019
Love Had No Boundaries-World Aids Day. The lesson my Uncle taught me
Love Had No Boundaries-World Aids Day. The lesson my Uncle taught me
My uncle shared his secret with me at 14 years old of being Hiv positive. Later I discovered my Aunt and two friends would share the same secret. They taught me to love without boundaries.
09:38
December 01, 2019
Don't Kill Your Good Vibes This Holiday
Don't Kill Your Good Vibes This Holiday
Have you allow family members steal your vibe? Change your mood over dramas that can be avoided.
07:27
November 26, 2019
You do not have to live in lack to love!
You do not have to live in lack to love!
The biggest mistake we make is believing that if we deplete ourselves we are showing love. Too many of us will deplete ourselves to prove we care. I will share my story and hope you will break the bad habit of believing living in lack is love.
15:43
November 19, 2019
I love but I got to let go!
I love but I got to let go!
Love is patient and kind. No where the description does it mean to be mistreated and taken advantage of. Today's topic will address why you may have to let go of the people you love and some of the reasoning.
17:52
November 06, 2019
Don't stay past the expiration date!
Don't stay past the expiration date!
How many have stayed in relationships and friendships past the expiration date? How many have heard family, friends, lovers and members gossip about you but remained their friends? Sometimes we stay past the expiration date. I will discuss my own personal experiences and how I came to accept, let it go and thank them for freedom.
31:01
November 03, 2019
What a failing grade taught me
What a failing grade taught me
I failed a project because I devalued and charged less. Crazy right? No. How many times have we devalued our work? I will share how we devalue ourselves without knowing. How we tolerate more than we should.
28:19
October 30, 2019
Master Your Passion-How to stay focused!
Master Your Passion-How to stay focused!
How many of us have our hands in too many pots? We are multi talented but unfocused on our true passion. We want the financial success but are honing in our true craft. I share the lesson I learned from an Uber driver and David Banner.
15:08
October 20, 2019
Teaching our sista friends how to fish so they don't have to struggle.
Teaching our sista friends how to fish so they don't have to struggle.
What if we taught our Sista friends how to win? Gave them the necessary tools and skillset to win.
24:54
October 19, 2019
Don't lose focus on you because of the perception of what others think about you.
Don't lose focus on you because of the perception of what others think about you.
I am learning who I am and often I will lose focus of myself because of the perception of others. I hope to inspire you and most of all challenge you to stay focus on you. Stay stay focus on your bigger picture.
30:04
October 12, 2019
Mental health check-How are you doing inside today?
Mental health check-How are you doing inside today?
So many of our friends and loved ones put on mask. How many of us has askedhow are you feeling inside today? My daughter's friend committed suicide last night. The last time I saw her she was smiling. I assumed she was happy but behind that smile was some pain. Here is the The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) .
05:54
October 10, 2019
Crying and Smiling at the same time!
Crying and Smiling at the same time!
How many of you are crying and smiling at the same time? Why? because of dreams deferred, denying themselved their happiness and joys.
20:28
October 01, 2019
Some Assembly may be required to love again!
Some Assembly may be required to love again!
The lesson I learned about love,life and acceptimg the task of assembling, refusing to settle and the growth of knowing what you want.
33:42
September 22, 2019
Don't Pause your possibilities
Don't Pause your possibilities
Life lesson I learned about pressing pause on my life.
31:25
September 20, 2019
It is hard tobreak habits good to others
It is hard tobreak habits good to others
Life lessons I am learning.
23:50
September 15, 2019
Suicide is not about being selfish!
Suicide is not about being selfish!
Suicide is Not selfish. So often I hear about people saying how selfish someone is. It grinds my gear to another level. It is a topic that I wanted to address.
30:08
September 11, 2019
Are you allowing what bumps in your heart stop you from loving again?
Are you allowing what bumps in your heart stop you from loving again?
I am the first to admit I've been afraid of dating again. Afraid to get in a relationship again because rejection hurts. Today, I tackle how we pause our heart. How we punish ourselves becauae of the bad behavior of another person.
29:12
August 28, 2019
What loss has taught me?
What loss has taught me?
What has taught you? Loss has taught me to fear it. It has been my major fear factor. It has broken me in a lot of ways. Now i am ready to rekindle my heart and mind.
32:05
August 27, 2019
Just because I say I want a relationship doesn't mean I'm desperate or thirsty.
Just because I say I want a relationship doesn't mean I'm desperate or thirsty.
On a regular basis on social media I hear married people tell single folk to learn how to date themselves. Guess what,sis if you're single you've master that. It does not mean because you are lonely or want companionship that you are thirsty. There is nothing wrong with speaking your desires. Listen and weigh in on Twitter or Facebook.
30:22
August 17, 2019
Love is a lesson we are all learning
Love is a lesson we are all learning
Life lessons about love
26:34
August 17, 2019
Everyone is a student and teacher
Everyone is a student and teacher
Life lessons I learned from leaders. Bosses and myself in obtaining success.
16:44
August 13, 2019
It takes time to turn your mess into a masterpiece
It takes time to turn your mess into a masterpiece
We often want what we want right now. Cleaning up our mess requires us to be patient, apply the work and having faith. I discuss the lessons I learned about patience in the process of turning my mess into a masterpiece.
16:29
July 31, 2019
Stop letting indecisiveness and perfection Stop you from taking a Step Forward!
Stop letting indecisiveness and perfection Stop you from taking a Step Forward!
How many have stop moving forward on your goals because of indecisiveness and perfection? Today I will share some tidbits to motivate you to move forward.
28:18
July 28, 2019
Handling the Wait and the Weight!
Handling the Wait and the Weight!
Today too many of us are in love, lonely and in doubt. I share how I gained the weight through waiting for others to love, like and accept me. How I am making the decision to no longer live by waiting for others to love me right. I hope this will help someone.
30:20
July 22, 2019
Mama Got To Have a Life too!
Mama Got To Have a Life too!
This segment is about the choices we made because of, the choices now and getting back our life.
27:43
July 20, 2019
For those Moms who had to Cry this morning.
For those Moms who had to Cry this morning.
A salute to Moms doing it all.
20:47
July 17, 2019
From Struggle To Glory!
From Struggle To Glory!
Learning to be patience on your journey to glory. How to continue you on when you are tired.
18:36
July 14, 2019
Turning your problems into solutions.
Turning your problems into solutions.
The lesson i learned about problem, prejudices and solutions. www.tamluvstowrite.com
17:43
July 12, 2019
You Qualify to Sit in a room full of the elite.
You Qualify to Sit in a room full of the elite.
Life lessons I learned about knowing you qualify to sit at any room or table.
15:02
July 11, 2019
We Prevail
We Prevail
How creatives prevail in their darkest hour. The lesson I learned about the staement, "you make us look good."
23:11
June 29, 2019
Get Pay Your Worth-Stop devaluing yourself!
Get Pay Your Worth-Stop devaluing yourself!
As a creative person so often we accept less to get our work out there! It was when we devalue ourselves. It is the hard lesson I had to learn. I share my story to help others. Charge your worth and stop settling for less.
33:19
June 07, 2019
Be better for you and Good for others!
Be better for you and Good for others!
How many times have you position yourself to be good for others and less for you? How to re position yourself and become your best self
01:25:05
May 31, 2019
 A DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE.
A DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE.
I share my journey of mistakes in relationships from sabatoging to thinking he might heal what is broken.
27:42
May 28, 2019
Dont let Mayhem stop your hustle
Dont let Mayhem stop your hustle
We often let Mayhem stop out hustle and grind. We let the challenges put a halt to it. I share my journey of moving forward in life and completing my goals.
23:00
May 28, 2019
Stop teaching people how to disrespect you.
Stop teaching people how to disrespect you.
We teach people how to treat us. We allow disrespect because they are family and friends. There are no such thing as frenemies or famenemies. We talk respect and how we can invite negative energy to fuel our depression.tips on choosing you and firing negative energy.
18:10
May 17, 2019
Branding and visual tips Tuesdays with Tamyara
Branding and visual tips Tuesdays with Tamyara
Do you know your brand? Do you understand your brand identity? Is your brand a hot mess in need of being turned into a masterpiece. Well check out my tips every Tuesday.
40:38
May 14, 2019
Beautifully You even on your off days!
Beautifully You even on your off days!
Today we discuss findings the beauty in you on your off day. I share my struggle on finding my beauty. Lesson I learned and how people will see the beauty in your mess. How the least likely people will encourage you.
24:55
May 13, 2019
Show Compassion to others!
Show Compassion to others!
Are we showing compassion to friends and family?
20:40
May 06, 2019
Renew, Release and Find yourselves
Renew, Release and Find yourselves
How do we renew? How do we release when all hell is breaking loose? I discuss this and more.
39:04
May 05, 2019
Stretched to capacity from depression to greatness
Stretched to capacity from depression to greatness
A discussion on my battle with depression but yet you have stuff to do. How we stretch ourselves for others and not ourselves.
20:42
March 27, 2019
Purpose Extended -The lesson I learned!
Purpose Extended -The lesson I learned!
Sometimes we get caught up in one career choice whether it be a writer, singer, doctor or lawyer. It does not mean your dream is deferred but is being extended to higher purpose. Take a listen and let me know what you think.
18:33
March 21, 2019
The lesson I learned about being and option and not a choice
The lesson I learned about being and option and not a choice
I share the lesson I learned about being a option. How I adapted and how I got there. Now I am seeking change.
24:10
March 13, 2019
Lost and Found:Missing Myself!
Lost and Found:Missing Myself!
 I looked in the mirror one morning and I became invisible. I was missing and the heart of me was beating less. I lost the spirit of me, and I don’t know how to get it back. I thought of how selfish I’ve been to myself while being selfless to others. How easy it is to forget your wants, needs, and desires. To bury them six feet under because we are about our family and careers.  How many of us are not living their best life? How many of us are selfish to ourselves telling us No than Yes. Today's podcast will is for me and every woman in their 40s whose lost what makes them happy.
28:60
March 10, 2019
Dealing with life's disappointments, lost of faith and how to deal with it
Dealing with life's disappointments, lost of faith and how to deal with it
How do you deal with life's disappointments? Have you lost  faith? How do you deal with it? Today, I discuss this issue to help those feeling lost and disgusted. I share how I turn my disappointments into determination.
58:21
March 05, 2019
Betrayals. Friendships & Selfishness!
Betrayals. Friendships & Selfishness!
We all know a friend who has betray or someone who has been betrayed by a friend. Have you ever been selfish but not know it in your friendships? Today I wanted to share a few personals experiences. How we can improve? Check our tribe? Part as associates with no beefs. How to forgive and move on.
35:26
March 01, 2019
Are you putting the oxygen mask on your career or Does it need resuscitation?
Are you putting the oxygen mask on your career or Does it need resuscitation?
Sometimes we let our career lose air and die due to disappointment and devastation. I will share my personal story and tips to bring back your career and even joy in your life. Share with me what you did bring life back into your career? Visit Instagram:tamluvstowrite39 Facebook:tamluvstowrite Twitter:tamluvstowrite Visit my website and sign up for monthly newsletters www.tamluvstowrite.com
20:23
February 26, 2019
Creatives & Depression the true battles!
Creatives & Depression the true battles!
Creative people whether they are artist, actors, comedians,musicians,writers, graphic designers or dancers. We all deal with some form of depression and wanted the world to see our talents and hard work.  It is those who have to continuously fight to get to the top. Today topic will touch you those who are creative in a saturated market and dealing with Depression. If you or someone you know is battling depression or thinking of suicide please contact 1-800-273-8255. Please seek help.  https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/  You also have the option to chat as well on line.
24:40
February 23, 2019
Single ladies do not allow Valentine's Day steal your Joy!
Single ladies do not allow Valentine's Day steal your Joy!
Many single women and other situations. Today's podcast I share how to love on you more. To find the courage and strength. I will share a lesson I learned from Mrs. Wright. Make the choice to acknowledge you may be upset with life, love and life's struggle and finding the ability to love on you. 
19:30
February 12, 2019
Know your family medical history
Know your family medical history
Do you know your family medical history in a crisis?
05:25
February 12, 2019
Strong Women Shatter!
Strong Women Shatter!
 If we look around women are the boss but breaking. The masks are cracking, curse words are flying, mental health clinics are full and the hospitals are over the capacity. We can no longer keep the lie alive and pretend we got it together. On the surface some of us have a nice house, a car, kids are excelling, and some are blessed to find a mister who accepts and understands you. Yet, we are cracking the hell up because of our families, society and the rest of those in our circles demand so much of us.  I discuss my journey of shattering this week.  Please be sure to follow me on Facebook:@tamluvstowrite, Twitter: @tamluvstowrite, Instagram: @tamluvstowrite39 Visit me on www.tamluvstowrite.com
25:49
February 09, 2019
Forgive so it doesn't stop your creativity , shine and money moves!
Forgive so it doesn't stop your creativity , shine and money moves!
How many times have you said, "I will never forgive them?" I'll raise my hand first. I have said it on numerous occasions until it was stumping my creativity and shine. In order to grow we have to let some stuff go. We have to forgive and press on. Check out my podcast today.
14:39
February 08, 2019
Check on your strong self and friends too
Check on your strong self and friends too
Are we doing a check up on ourselves and friend? Today topic is checking on yourself and friends too
15:11
February 07, 2019
Value your Business and Dollars
Value your Business and Dollars
Are we valuing our businesses and dollars. How we securing wealth for our families.Make sure we are valuing our business and putting dollars into building legacy.
21:41
February 06, 2019
Take Pride in Ownership and buy back the block
Take Pride in Ownership and buy back the block
This week is empowering us to set up wealth and empowering our families to be buyers and break the chains of poverty. This came when I saw the state of the local housing projects and women moving every two years and repeat homelessness. We lack knowledge so I wanted to empower people to live better. I want to establish wealth. I want my people to win in wealth and prosper.
45:25
January 31, 2019
Teach our girls home ownership and the value of good credit!
Teach our girls home ownership and the value of good credit!
We are in a day and time we need to teach our girls to have good business sense, good credit and home ownership for themselves and their babies. Today's podcast is about having good credit and home ownership. Let me know what you think.
11:32
January 29, 2019
Your Heroes & Sheroes (Leaders) Need you too!
Your Heroes & Sheroes (Leaders) Need you too!
I was heavy in thought about the leaders of today who serve others, Moms, Dads, Pastors, Politicians(the good ones), celebrities, and all others. We often forget to say, thank you, I appreciate you and you are remarkable. We forget our leaders grow tired and we need to acknowledge that. Today's talk is about showing appreciation to those who serve us.  Visit my website at: www.tamluvstowrite.com Follow me on Twitter:Tamluvstowrite Follow me on Instagram: Tamluvstowrite39 Follow me on Facebook: Tamluvstowrite
18:22
January 22, 2019
Part 2-The Upset Will have you fooled about the possible and your abilities!
Part 2-The Upset Will have you fooled about the possible and your abilities!
The upset will teach you to overact and believe you have no support. That the we don't need a team to bring with our empire or handle a situations.  We allow can't to make us a fool and trick us into believing in doubt, failures and it won't happen. Join in and listen as we deal with the upset. Follow me on my website:www.tamluvstowrite.com Follow me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/tamluvstowrite Follow me on Facebook: www.facebook.com/tamluvstowrite Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/tamluvstowrite39
18:20
January 14, 2019
The Upsets of Life isn't Always a Bad Thing!
The Upsets of Life isn't Always a Bad Thing!
The lesson I learned is that the upsets isn't always a bad thing. Life upsets sometimes pushes you to do what you've fear. It makes you step up your game, grind and hustle. The upset can be the most motivational factor in your life. Follow me on Facebook:www.facebook.com/tamluvstowrite Twitter:www.twitter.com/tamluvstowrite Instagram:www.instagram.com/tamluvstowrite39 www.tamluvstowrite.com
11:39
January 13, 2019
Underneath the Mess is a Masterpiece!
Underneath the Mess is a Masterpiece!
We all have mess whether we want to admit it or not. There is a part of us that is hidden behind the masterpiece. Today discussion is dealing with words spoken over you and conquering them. How we have to push forward and be our biggest cheerleaders. Follow me on my website: www.tamluvstowrite.com Follow me on Instagram:tamluvstowrite39 Follow me on Twitter: Tamluvstowrite Please be sure to let me know what you think and suggestions for show ideas and if you would like to be a guest please let me know. Email me at: tamluvstowrite@gmail.com
25:54
January 11, 2019
Don't judge people by the circumstances
Don't judge people by the circumstances
Today topic is about not judging people by their circumstances. How the unlikely people may be the blessing you need. Please be sure to follow me on Twitter:Tamluvstowrite www.tamluvstowrite.com Instagram:tamluvstowrite39
26:01
January 09, 2019
Validate yourself everyday
Validate yourself everyday
We must practice self empowerment and love. We have to like ourselves and embrace ourselves. It is our topic today. Follow me on Twitter Tamluvstowrite. Follow me on instagram tamluvstowrite39
19:15
January 05, 2019
Asking for help so you can be effective
Asking for help so you can be effective
We often are not effective because we think we can rule the world. We can handle it all by ourselves. Truth is we all need help. I will share some lessons. I will have special guests on my show from fashion, teaching how to buy a home, credit repair, make up, nutritionist, side hustle queens, cocooning and more. Follow me on Twitter: Tamluvstowrite and Instagram. Tamluvstowrite.
12:29
January 04, 2019
Tear Down, Rebuild Your Life.
Tear Down, Rebuild Your Life.
It is a New Year and it is time to tear down the old stuff that doesn't work and rebuild. We are in training season and restructuring  what made us Broke, Lonely, Angry & Horny. Please be sure to visit my website. www.tamluvstowrite.com Follow me on Facebook: www.facebook.com/tamluvstowrite Twitter: www.twitter.com/tamluvstowrite Instagram:www.instagram.com/tamluvstowrite39
24:49
January 02, 2019
Under the pressure we all can become a diamond
Under the pressure we all can become a diamond
Life is about change and this year for many we've been under pressure. Just know you've survived and that 2019 is about action and growth. It is about rebuilding.
19:33
December 29, 2018
while firing toxic friends change you
while firing toxic friends change you
Fire Toxic friends but change you. Do often we fire friends that are toxic but rehire the same behaviors and attitude from different people. Listen and let me know what you think.
24:44
December 27, 2018
Give yourself the gift of\u000A letting go
Give yourself the gift of\u000A letting go
One of the hardest things is letting go of the things you love but doesn't fit in your equation. Today, is about gifting yourself the truth. Gifting yourself the power to not accept what doesn't work.
19:17
December 24, 2018
You are not exempt from living your best life!!
You are not exempt from living your best life!!
The latest episode of B.L.A.H Diaries Podcast talks about exempting yourself from living your best life. How we neglect ourselves to fulfill others needs.
36:27
December 20, 2018
Let Your setbacks become your Setup to Success
Let Your setbacks become your Setup to Success
Never let anyone tell you your mess can't be repaired and cleaned up. This episode is about never letting your temporary setbacks stop you from becoming successful at life
15:04
December 15, 2018
Being Authentically You!
Being Authentically You!
Acceptance of yourself is vital. Today I discuss the importance of self love and being yourself.
18:06
December 12, 2018
You are the bag, secure yourself
You are the bag, secure yourself
Today topic is about knowing your worth. Remove the and, buts and if you were out of your life. Shine brightly.
18:43
December 10, 2018
To be continued
To be continued
Life is about moving forward. This episode is about dealing with life obstacles and pushing forward.
15:39
December 07, 2018
Confront them so you can forgive!
Confront them so you can forgive!
Forgiveness is a process and letting go is up to you.
48:12
December 04, 2018
Forgive yourself
Forgive yourself
Forgive yourself and push forward. Stop feeling guilty and move forward.
11:35
December 04, 2018
Dear Beautiful Brown Girls
Dear Beautiful Brown Girls
A letter of encouragement of women &young girls feeling defeated
34:33
November 28, 2018
We can't fix broken men part 2
We can't fix broken men part 2
Should we be the ride or die chick to get a husband?
29:14
November 19, 2018
We can't repair every broken man!
We can't repair every broken man!
Do you believe women should be the rehabilitation center for broken men?
16:26
November 19, 2018
Listen More even if it hurts
Listen More even if it hurts
The lesson I learned about listening and learning the truth in criticism.
15:22
November 09, 2018
Don't break the promises to yourself during the transition period
Don't break the promises to yourself during the transition period
How to keep going when the transition period to succeeding becomes difficult. The lesson I learned.
16:46
November 07, 2018
The side effects of becoming your best self
The side effects of becoming your best self
The lesson I learned about becoming a better person. The challenges that you meet daily when dealing with pain and hurt.
15:36
November 05, 2018
Get in the place of understanding with friends
Get in the place of understanding with friends
How to rebuild friendships when we have disagreements. Lesson I learned about being a good friend.
19:47
October 29, 2018
Interview with Crime Fiction Author Dartanya A. Williams Sr.
Interview with Crime Fiction Author Dartanya A. Williams Sr.
Interview with Crime Fiction Author Dartanya A. Williams Sr. talks about his book Killadelphia Soldiers and Dark Secrets. He is an amazing author and you can find his upcoming podcast D-rageous.
43:53
October 27, 2018
Flying With Broken Wings
Flying With Broken Wings
Lesson I learned about not quitting even when you feel broken. Encouraging people to win always.
13:42
October 27, 2018
I Am Horny!
I Am Horny!
Dealing with life desires and need. To let go of neglecting our needs.
15:34
October 23, 2018
Be the most valuable person in your life
Be the most valuable person in your life
Make your dreams happen. Don't let your mess and life disruptions stop you from shining.
12:30
October 21, 2018
The power of detachment
The power of detachment
Letting go and detaching yourself to regroup, heal and repair. Why detachment is good for you.
00:00
October 16, 2018
Stop saying we don't support and be the support
Stop saying we don't support and be the support
Teach support from the home. Be the support. Why do you believe black people dont support one another? How can we change that thinking process?
19:17
October 11, 2018
Don't let missing out stop your shine
Don't let missing out stop your shine
Dealing with regrets and missing out. Self care and love.
15:00
October 09, 2018
Blah diaries Lead to Serve
Blah diaries Lead to Serve
The lesson I learned about leadership!
42:31
September 30, 2018
The Come Up!
The Come Up!
Let no one stop you. Don't let your pass stop your dreams.
20:31
September 26, 2018
Find your peace, joy and happiness
Find your peace, joy and happiness
All about finding your peace during the hustle and bustle of life.
13:23
September 24, 2018
The lesson I learned from a doctor!
The lesson I learned from a doctor!
A conversation that became a revelation of how not to live anymore.
21:42
September 18, 2018
Broke lonely Angry &Horny
Broke lonely Angry &Horny
Reclaiming your life, fighting against all that ails you. Turning your mess into a masterpiece.
25:11
September 14, 2018
Stop waiting to be fulfilled
Stop waiting to be fulfilled
The lesson I learned waiting for someone to fulfill me.
05:05
September 14, 2018
The difference between the survivor and the person wholives
The difference between the survivor and the person wholives
The lesson I learned about the difference between the survivor and the person who lives
24:24
August 28, 2018
Ride or Die Bae and the Collateral Damage of it
Ride or Die Bae and the Collateral Damage of it
Every man or woman wants someone who rides for them all the trials and tribulations but it does not mean they won't break your heart.
22:02
August 28, 2018
Part 2 What is holding you back from loving again?
Part 2 What is holding you back from loving again?
part 2of what is holding you back from loving again?
11:26
August 21, 2018
What is holding you back from love again?
What is holding you back from love again?
Love challenges us and I am discussing what holds us back from loving again and relationship.
15:11
August 21, 2018
Chasing Happy-Getting back in alignment with yourself.
Chasing Happy-Getting back in alignment with yourself.
Happy is a state of mind but what happens when you are out of alignment.
18:19
August 19, 2018
The Devastation of Love
The Devastation of Love
Lessons about love and how it can teach you love can hurt.
20:59
August 14, 2018
Viruses that affect and infect us
Viruses that affect and infect us
Cleaning out the viruses of our lives. Removing, forgiving and going forward.
19:29
July 26, 2018
Self Love is a Process
Self Love is a Process
How self-love and failure can affect how you feel about yourself.
25:52
July 25, 2018
Fear and Failure
Fear and Failure
19:35
July 24, 2018
Turning my mess into masterpiece
Turning my mess into masterpiece
Breaking the chains of being an underdog.
13:25
July 20, 2018
You cant repair every broken heart and soul
You cant repair every broken heart and soul
Wisdom Wednesday. You can't repair every broken heart and soul you meet.The Lesson I learned
20:29
July 18, 2018
Leaening to trust the process!
Leaening to trust the process!
The lesson I learned about process of success
13:59
July 17, 2018
Passing the Baton
Passing the Baton
Learning to pass the baton and building a team while managing family and career.
22:21
July 13, 2018
Getting uncomfortable in our friendships and relationships
Getting uncomfortable in our friendships and relationships
The lessons I'm learning through Broke,Lonely, Angry & Horny
19:32
July 12, 2018
Finding your happiness and stepping out of your comfort zone
Finding your happiness and stepping out of your comfort zone
Lesson I learned about stepping out of my comfort zone and finding your happiness
26:58
July 10, 2018
Promo for B.L.A.H Diaries
Promo for B.L.A.H Diaries
All resentment, Regrets and Unfulfilled.
03:17
July 01, 2018
Are you staying out of fear or loneliness?
Are you staying out of fear or loneliness?
The lessons of love the good, bad and ugly.
19:43
June 30, 2018
Don't let insecurity overrule love
Don't let insecurity overrule love
Lessons how we should not overrule love
06:11
June 29, 2018
Love does not mean being taken advantage of
Love does not mean being taken advantage of
Lesson on true love.
15:17
June 28, 2018
Don't cure loneliness with unfulfilling relationships
Don't cure loneliness with unfulfilling relationships
What the heck is love anyway?
15:53
June 25, 2018
What the heck is love anyway?
What the heck is love anyway?
Has society lost the definition of love? Are we acting in hate versus love? Deep lessons and pep talk.
34:19
June 24, 2018
Breakdown, Breakthrough & the Glo Up
Breakdown, Breakthrough & the Glo Up
Learning to see the blessing in the breakdown, breakthrough and learning to Glo up
15:37
June 06, 2018
Dealing With My Issues and Handling S.H.**
Dealing With My Issues and Handling S.H.**
Dealing with my issues and Handling my S.H.**
28:55
May 20, 2018
Woman Up Promo
Woman Up Promo
Handling your issues and dealing in your Sh**t!
01:30
May 14, 2018
Do not expect apologies
Do not expect apologies
Lesson I learned about not expecting apologies and how to move forward when a friend stops speaking to you.
07:11
May 12, 2018
Don't wait for folks to make you happy!
Don't wait for folks to make you happy!
It is no one responsibility to make you happy. Your happiness shouldn't rely on anyone else but yourself.
02:56
May 07, 2018
Am I ineligible For Mr.Right? Is My Mr.Wrong my Mr.Right?
Am I ineligible For Mr.Right? Is My Mr.Wrong my Mr.Right?
Topic: Relationship how we often disqualify ourselves from Mr. Right. Is your Mr.Wrong the actual Mr. Right.
35:56
May 05, 2018
Loving your shattered pieces during the mess.
Loving your shattered pieces during the mess.
How to clean up your shattered pieces with love and forgive yourself. Find the masterpiece side of yourself.
31:27
April 29, 2018
When the Struggle is Real While Building your Masterpiece
When the Struggle is Real While Building your Masterpiece
How do you continue to build your masterpiece when the struggle is real? How to find the masterpiece in all your mess.
28:57
April 24, 2018
Everyone is not hating on You
Everyone is not hating on You
Sometimes the biggest haters are ourselves. A chat about how we often think negatively but blame others.
23:50
April 17, 2018
One minute motivation
One minute motivation
Moving forward in the struggle.
01:11
April 17, 2018
Moving forward during the struggle
Moving forward during the struggle
Lesson I learned moving during the struggle for purpose and success.
17:06
April 17, 2018
Friday Music Hype- David Banner
Friday Music Hype- David Banner
Sharing my spotlight the positives of the hip hop culture and artists. Today's artist is David Banner grammy award winning producer, recording artist, philanthropist and actor. A creative visionary whose mind is beautiful.
09:10
April 14, 2018
Don't fear what ails us!
Don't fear what ails us!
Facing what ails us. Dealing with cancer, mental disorders by facing it versus fearing it and the stigmas behind it
13:41
April 14, 2018
What fuels your determination?
What fuels your determination?
We step out of letting negative things like doubt, and fear be the only factor that fuels our determination.
13:19
April 11, 2018
Turbulence of Love
Turbulence of Love
It is not healthy to always argue or fight. Love shouldn't be a fight.
14:51
April 10, 2018
Overcompensating for friends & love
Overcompensating for friends & love
Dealing with Broke, Lonely, Angry & Horny. How I over compensated abd left myself neglected. What is Broke,Lonely, Angry & Horny?
32:07
April 09, 2018
Confronting insecurities and B.L.A.H
Confronting insecurities and B.L.A.H
Confronting the journey of B.L.A.H. Dealing with insecurities and a personal conversation about Me,myself & I
35:45
April 06, 2018
Coming soon
Coming soon
Tackling issues about weight, skin, low self esteem. How tough love doesn't always work. Lessons I learned
01:50
April 06, 2018
How to deal with lack of support
How to deal with lack of support
As authors and entrepreneurs are biggest complaint is lack of support from family, friends and our community. I give tips on how to survive, to get going in spite if support.
18:51
April 05, 2018
Motivational moment- Don't Quit on yourself!
Motivational moment- Don't Quit on yourself!
Life falling apart please don't quit. Stay positive.
10:46
April 01, 2018
Birthing Your Purpose while Broke, Lonely, Angry & Horny
Birthing Your Purpose while Broke, Lonely, Angry & Horny
A lesson on how your biggest tragedies become your greatest triumphs.
19:29
March 29, 2018
When friends are wolves in sheep's clothing
When friends are wolves in sheep's clothing
Discussing friends who betray you. Knowing who are wolves in sheep clothing.
16:58
March 27, 2018
Live And Stop Existing In BLAH
Live And Stop Existing In BLAH
Live and don't just wait for someone to get you out of being Broke, lonely, Angry and Horny.
04:59
February 09, 2018
Generational Depression
Generational Depression
African American women and Generational depression.
09:60
February 06, 2018
Purpose Series
Purpose Series
Don't divert yourself from purpose because you think someone can destroy you. Stop giving folks the card to your life when you own the deck.
10:00
February 01, 2018
Fault Vs Responsibility
Fault Vs Responsibility
It isn't your fault but the responsibility to fix certain situations that occur in your life.I tackle fault vs responsibility.
09:60
January 31, 2018
Fighting For Your Purpose
Fighting For Your Purpose
How many times have you've been told fighting for your purpose is a waste a time? My goal today is to encourage you to fight for your purpose.
05:03
January 30, 2018
Jan 26, 2018
Jan 26, 2018
Motivation Friday-Let it Go • Shoutout to Kandise Carlisle
04:60
January 26, 2018
Motivation Friday-Let It Go!
Motivation Friday-Let It Go!
Breaking the chains of Anger.
05:36
January 26, 2018
Stop Hiding Behind Anger
Stop Hiding Behind Anger
Dealing with your Anger
04:46
January 23, 2018
Stop Settling For Less In Love
Stop Settling For Less In Love
Why settle for a buster when you deserve so much more? Love isn't about depleting yourself but feeling fulfilled. Five minutes of chat
09:60
January 22, 2018
In Your Gloom, You Can Bloom
In Your Gloom, You Can Bloom
Bloom even in your Gloom- Stay inspired! \u2022 Alright - Meet the Brown's Soundtrack Version \u2022 All The Above [feat. T-Pain] \u2022 Glow Up (feat. Quavo, DJ Khaled & Missy Elliott)
04:60
January 21, 2018
Saturday Motivate Your Soul
Saturday Motivate Your Soul
You are a threat to Your Hater. Motivating Your Soul!
05:20
January 13, 2018
Lil Kim Is The Queen Of Rap
Lil Kim Is The Queen Of Rap
Lil Kim Will Never lose Her Crown As one of the Best Female Rappers
04:44
January 13, 2018
Welcome To My Podcast!
Welcome To My Podcast!
Welcome to my Podcast BLAH Diaries-Mastering Your Problems to move forward
00:46
January 11, 2018