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That Gay Shit

That Gay Shit

By Terrell & Demi

Each week, Terrell (he/him) & Demi (she/her) wax poetic on queer things, as they pertain to the black queer radical perspective. Tidbits of history, pop culture commentary, and shenanigans ensue. *Currently on a remote-recording Noah's Arc review tangent*
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Okay, Miss Rona

That Gay ShitMar 20, 2020

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31:37
Noah's Arc: Jumping the Broom - Part 3
Nov 20, 202001:31:09
Noah's Arc: Jumping the Broom - Part 2
Oct 20, 202001:27:35
Noah's Arc: Jumping the Broom - Part 1
Oct 11, 202002:05:49
Noah's Arc Ep. 208 - "Say it Loud"
Oct 04, 202001:34:44
Noah's Arc Ep. 207 - "Baby, Can I Hold You"
Aug 23, 202001:50:05
Noah's Arc Ep. 206 - "Under Pressure"
Aug 16, 202001:32:35
Noah's Arc Ep. 205 - "Give it Up"
Aug 02, 202001:35:32
Noah's Arc Ep. 204 - "Excuses for Bad Behavior"
Jul 26, 202001:47:13
Noah's Arc Ep. 203 - "Desperado"
Jul 19, 202002:03:37
Noah's Arc Ep. 202 - "It Ain't Over Till It's Over"
Jul 12, 202002:02:59
Noah's Arc Ep. 201 - "Housequake"
Jul 04, 202001:44:19
Noah's Arc Ep. 109 - "Got 'Til It's Gone"

Noah's Arc Ep. 109 - "Got 'Til It's Gone"

Welp, y’all! The season finale has come. Forgive us if we sound a little crazy, we recorded this episode once already and it got deleted. *cry emoji*

A lot fucking happened in this episode! Noah goes to a sex party and cheats, Wade is tryna force Noah to cohabitate, Alex’s hasty ass and Wade’s froggy fist ruin the whole damn wedding, no matter how much Noah’s perm tries to pull it together. But hey, Chance and Eddie will never forget their nuptials, I guess. Also RIP to first Kenya, she ain’t dead or nothing she just gets recast in season 2. Oh and Ricky failed to be his normal hoish self because that’s how being in love works. *eye roll*

Also y’all we need a break. So like, catch us in 2/3 weeks or so. We tired.

Jun 14, 202001:55:08
Noah's Arc Ep. 108 - "I'm with Stupid"

Noah's Arc Ep. 108 - "I'm with Stupid"

Wade is moving in! With a million Lush products Noah somehow finds a way to be annoyed about. Chance and Eddie take up the good fight of trying to get gay married in a black church. Alex is still using Trey, who according to Terrell, looks scrumptious in a pair of overalls (or anything else/nothing at all). And Ricky has the machinations of an underloved child, which Junito and his pecks do not deserve!

Watch along with us:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuS5E0rq-28

May 31, 202001:35:49
Noah's Arc Ep. 107 - "Love is a Battlefield"
May 24, 202001:57:34
Noah's Arc Ep. 106 - "Writing to Reach You"
May 17, 202001:59:49
Noah's Arc Ep. 105 - "Nothin' Goin' On But the Rent"
May 11, 202002:00:05
Noah's Arc Ep. 104 - "Don't Make Me Over"
May 03, 202001:43:17
Noah's Arc Ep. 103 - "Don't Mess with My Man"
Apr 26, 202001:34:01
Noah's Arc Ep. 102 - "My One Temptation: Part 2"
Apr 19, 202001:37:59
Noah's Arc Ep. 101 - "My One Temptation: Part 1"
Apr 12, 202001:30:12
Okay, Miss Rona

Okay, Miss Rona

Essentially here's an episode of Demi & Terrell catching up on the precipice of the Coronavirus pandemic. It's real. They're legit struggling. But hey, first episode recorded remotely with the hosts recording from totally separate locations. Demi would like your forgiveness on the editing tip. She had to do it in the Anchor app okay?

Also, there may not being any new episodes for a while. This might, in fact, be the end of season 1. They will be coming back, though, they promise.

Intro/Outro music: "Throw That Boy Pussy" - Fly Young Red

Mar 20, 202031:37
If the Fish Fits

If the Fish Fits

Terrell & Demi get into some backlogged pop culture. There’s some rambling about France as per ush. And neither of them know who Sherry Pie is but the bitch is a catfish, evidently.

Intro/Outro music: “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red

Mar 11, 202001:12:53
Virginity, Schmirginity

Virginity, Schmirginity

Virginity is pretty dumb, y’all. That being said, Terrell lost like 8 virginities somehow? And of course Lena Waithe done got her squinting ass in another sticky sitch.

ALSO!!! This is our last Monday episode, as we are switching to Thursdays next week! So the next new episode is THURSDAY, MARCH 12TH, 2020. Okay thanks, love y'all, bye.

Intro/outro music: “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red

Mar 02, 202001:54:29
Mandingo Mondays (Self Care)

Mandingo Mondays (Self Care)

Terrell & Demi get into a conversation about self care, what that may (and may not) look like, and why we the black queers need it. There’s also some random shit in there, you know... Kardashian pussy colors... How Bbymutha hates Demi now...

Intro/Outro music: “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red

Feb 24, 202001:47:40
Two Zaya Wade Stans Talk Non-monogamy

Two Zaya Wade Stans Talk Non-monogamy

It’s time to talk about poly relationships! For some reason Terrell has begun to refer to y’all as “America” like he’s Bernie Mac. Jameela Jamil might have a victim complex. And one of you beautiful people wrote the first email to hit the thatgayshitpod@gmail.com inbox beside email verification auto messages. Special shoutout to “Tito Burrito”!

Intro/Outro music “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red

Feb 17, 202001:53:24
Yes, Kinks Again

Yes, Kinks Again

This week our duo sit down with their very first guest and friend of the pod, Mars! Given how green the hosts were in the first Kink episode, kinks deserved this revisit with imput from someone who actually gets out and about and knows a lot more about the NYC kink scene.



 Intro/Outro music: "Throw That Boy Pussy" by Fly Young Red

TW: Sexual Assaunt

Spoilers: "Harriet" film. (Eye roll emoji.)

Feb 10, 202001:56:00
Megan’s Staddy & Lena’s Squint

Megan’s Staddy & Lena’s Squint

This week is a test run of a pop culture segment. This last week was FULL of topics: Tyler Perry ain’t got time for good wigs, Lena Waithe’s squinting ass ways take over, Azealia is PEAK chaotic, Meg’s other dog got a dyke daddy, and more. Tune in while we feel this shit out!

1:23:30 - 1:24:20 Pose spoilers
1:28:30 - 1:30:53 Sex Education spoilers

Intro/Outro music: “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red


Feb 03, 202001:34:44
Art & Artists???

Art & Artists???

Terrell & Demi attempt to talk black artists and queerness. Buuuuut... idk, we’re a mess. We did manage to talk Toni, Kara Walker, the white gaze, and our personal forays into art. It’s another long one, but tune in anyway?

And chime in about possible format changes! (See backend of the episode.)

Intro/Outro music “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red

Jan 27, 202002:05:48
Traffic Cones Need Love Too - (Kinks!)

Traffic Cones Need Love Too - (Kinks!)

Terrell & Demi swing the conversation on down to kinks (& fetishes!) Kink parties, scat, golden showers, rubber gloves, feet, group sex, and a lot more oversharing ensues.

Spoilers for You on Netflix: 1:03:37 - 1:04:34.

Intro/Outro music: "Throw That Boy Pussy" - Fly Young Red

Jan 20, 202001:25:46
WHAT'S YOUR FLAVOR? - (Preferences!)

WHAT'S YOUR FLAVOR? - (Preferences!)

This week, Terrell & Demi dive into their first everyday queer topical conversation, on preferences. Which preferences are *really* just preferences and on which do they call bull? (“No fats, no femmes” is the MAGA-sized red flag of the jack’d platform. *brown hand thumbs down emoji*) Also, a name drop to Christian Mingle (and shout out to that closeted jesus dyke Demi got duped into a double date with once).

And yes, the title is a Craig David reference. Blame Terrell.

Spoilers for “You” on Netflix ~1:14:15 - 1:18:12.

Intro/Outro music: “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red

Jan 13, 202001:28:24
"A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston" Part 2 - 'Cissy the Insidious Broad'

"A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston" Part 2 - 'Cissy the Insidious Broad'

This week, we wrap up the discussion on “A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston.” Bobby never met a Porsche he didn’t want to smash, Cissy ain’t shit, Robyn chooses her own path, and we spend some more time talking about the Crawford family/health history. Also, we discovered Robyn is apparently a Sagittarius (post-recording, of course).
Intro/Outro song: “Throw That Boy Pussy” - Fly Young Red
Dec 30, 201901:11:51
"A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston" Part 1 - 'Jesus As Foreplay'

"A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston" Part 1 - 'Jesus As Foreplay'

Terrell & Demi get into the most prominent theme of “A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston”: Whitney and Robyn’s relationship through the years. Many rails, some car sex, a barracuda for a mother, jesus as foreplay, and a wild pack of fleas. Aaaand then some. Ignore the timestamp, we swear it feels shorter than it is! Also… “the jig is up” is quite possibly a good old fashioned racist colloquialism. We’re too shook to go beyond the first 2 or 3 Google results. Intro/outro music: "Yee Aint Ready" Nappy Nina ft. Stas THEE Boss, prod. by Norvis Junior.
Dec 23, 201902:12:03