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The Best Messes

The Best Messes

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Welcome to The Best Messes hosted by husband and wife, Matt and Susi! We are parents of two daughters and are passionate about all things parenting related. Our show is focused on anything related to pregnancy and parenthood: stay-at-home-mom life, full-time working dad life, controversial parenting tips, toddler tantrums, post-partum depression, hospital birth versus homebirth, breast feeding, cloth diapers versus disposable diapers, and breaking cycles of generational trauma. Come hang out with us every Sunday! Follow us to make sure you never miss an episode. We'll see you next mess!
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5: Am I The Asshole? Pregnancy Edition

The Best MessesApr 10, 2022

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5: Am I The Asshole? Pregnancy Edition
Apr 10, 202201:04:27
4: Birth Team Options (OBGYN, Midwife, Doula, and Freebirth)

4: Birth Team Options (OBGYN, Midwife, Doula, and Freebirth)

This week’s episode is all about explaining your birth team options. Who you have at your birth can make a huge difference for countless reasons so it’s not something to take lightly! Make sure to educate yourself on your options before choosing!


Should you go with an OBGYN? A midwife? A doula? Some combination? Should you put your maternal instincts to the test and do a free birth?


In this episode we will explain their similarities, their differences, some statistics, and our opinions of each. We also talk about what it means to not have anyone attend your birth, AKA free birth or DIY birth.


Next week’s episode will be more of a fun episode where we read a few posts from Reddit’s “Am I The Asshole?” (pregnancy edition) and then discuss!


History of OBGYN vs Midwife/US vs Europe mentalities of each: https://people.howstuffworks.com/midwife1.htm

Little known facts about midwives: https://newbirthmidwifery.com/little-known-facts/#:~:text=Percent%20of%20US%20births%20attended,rates%20than%20the%20US%3A%200%25

FAQs about midwife-attended births and home births: https://newbirthmidwifery.com/just-for-dads/


The Best Messes is hosted by Matt and Susi, husband and wife, parents of 2 daughters, family people sharing their knowledge, opinions, and experience regarding pregnancy and parenting and all the best messes that come with both!


New episodes launch on Sundays! Be sure to follow so you never miss an episode! Leave a review or write us at thebestmesses@gmail.com for feedback and/or topic requests! Finally don’t forget to share our show or episode if you know someone that might be interested, it’d mean the world to us!


Thanks for listening and… we’ll see you next mess!


Almost Bliss Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/

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Apr 03, 202241:52
3: Gestational Diabetes

3: Gestational Diabetes

Now that we’ve covered our birth stories we’re going to dig into pregnancy and parenting, the core of our show!


First, we talk about last week’s messes: potty training, being sleep deprived with a newborn, and realizing that we need to shift some more focus back onto our relationship instead of solely on being parents. Afterwards, we cover gestational diabetes: What is gestational diabetes? What options do you have regarding being tested for GD? What is it like to manage GD? And even a little bit of controversy: “Is gestational diabetes a scam?!”


Next week’s episode will be discussing your options for your choosing your birth team: OBGYN, midwife, doula, or maybe even just you/your family AKA “freebirth.”


The Best Messes is hosted by Matt and Susi, husband and wife, parents of 2 daughters sharing their knowledge, opinions, and experience regarding pregnancy and parenting and all the best messes that come with both! New episodes launch on Sundays! Be sure to follow so you never miss an episode! Leave a review or write us at thebestmesses@gmail.com for feedback and/or topic requests! Don’t forget to share our show or episode if you know someone that might be interested, it’d mean the world to us!


Thanks for listening and… we’ll see you next mess!


Almost Bliss Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)  Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/  Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com/free-music/all/

Mar 27, 202201:07:30
2: Our Second Birth Story (Home Birth)
Mar 20, 202201:54:09
1: Our First Birth Story (C-section)
Mar 13, 202258:09
Welcome to The Best Messes!

Welcome to The Best Messes!

Welcome to The Best Messes where we'll talk about everything related to pregnancy and parenting. We'll explore topics you'll want to be familiar with when you're pregnant like gestational diabetes, morning sickness, weight gain, hospital versus home birth, as well as parenting topics such as becoming a parent for the first time, breast feeding, gentle parenting, potty-training, cloth diapers versus disposable diapers, mental health, and sometimes we'll react to something viral on the internet. Each episode will drop on Sundays on the platform where you usually listen to podcasts. be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.


We'll see you next mess! 


Almost Bliss Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) 

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ 

Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com/free-music/all/

Mar 09, 202200:54