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The friends1st's Podcast

The friends1st's Podcast

By friends1st
This podcast is brought to you by Katharine Gray - the Christian Dating expert and founder of Friends1st Friendsfirst is an introduction service for single Christians across the UK. It is based in the Midlands and is run exclusively by Christians for ChristiansFriendsfirst is open to unattached Christians of all denominations and ages and welcomes people from a wide variety of backgrounds and traditions. It is a friendly and professionally run service that puts its members at the heart of everything it does.
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Dating Coaching - The 3 Date Rule In Christian Dating
The 3 date rule in Christian Dating is a theory explained by Katharine Gray that will improve your chances of finding out if someone is right for you.
November 16, 2020
Dating Coaching - Dating Coaching Self Confidence Through Your Clothes
How you dress can really affect how you feel - especially particular aspects of dress - that you might not have thought relevant. In this clip, we'll show you what can make a real difference in how you feel and your self-confidence when dating.
November 16, 2020
Dating Coaching - Christian Dating Coaching Cast Your Net Wider To Help Find Your Ideal Christian Partner Soulmate
This Christian Dating Coaching clip will explain the importance of casting your net wider to help you find your Christian partner. It will also show you HOW to cast your net wider which most people don't do and therefore miss the many single people that could be available to them.
November 11, 2020
Dating Coaching - Boundaries In Christian Dating
Having Boundaries in Christian Dating is really important to keep you safe and ensure that any friendship or relationship is developing in the right direction. Listen to this short video to hear what some good boundaries are that you should be considering in your Christian Dating Journey.
November 11, 2020
Dating Coaching - Being Open To Dating
Are you OPEN to Dating? - If you are a Christian hoping to meet someone special, then you need to assess if you are really truly and absolutely OPEN to dating. Lots of people think they are open but in fact, have put up lots of barriers around themselves that inadvertently stop them from meeting people.
November 11, 2020
Dating Coaching -Being Authentic In Christian Dating
Being Authentic when you are Christian Dating is very important and critical to being successful in Christian Dating. This clip talks about how to be authentic - and what a wonderful thing that is (even if you are a bit older than you'd really like). Being authentic stands you in good stead.
November 10, 2020
Dating Coaching - Attraction In Christian Dating
What is Attraction in Christian Dating? Who are you attracted to and are you looking for the right things when you feel attracted to someone. listen to this clip to find out more about the kinds of attraction you should be thinking of if you want to be successful in Christian Dating.
November 10, 2020
Dating Coaching - Attentiveness In Christian Dating
Give someone the gift of your full attention, listen well and hard (so you remember what they say) and you will find your dating goes much better and is more successful. How attentive are you to others? Listen to this clip to find out about why attentiveness is important and how to cultivate it.
November 10, 2020
Dating Coaching - Approachability In Christian Dating
If you are a Christian and looking for a soul mate, then you want to be someone who is approachable. Listen to this video to find out how important being approachable is, and how to make sure you are as approachable as you need to be.
November 09, 2020
Dating Coaching - An Analogy Of The Sexes
Men and women are different - and never more so than in Dating. This clip gives an analogy of men and women that will help you to do your dating differently and hopefully more successfully.
November 09, 2020
Dating Coaching - Accountability In Christian Dating
Having someone to be accountable to is really important if you want to be successful in Christian Dating. Find out how to find someone to be accountable to and how it will affect how successful you are in Christian Dating.
November 09, 2020
Dating Coaching - How To Deal With A Long Distance Relationship
In this clip, Katharine talks about how to deal with a long-distance relationship to make sure it works - and that the problems of distance aren't a hindrance to your getting to know each other and finding out if you are right for each other.With sensible tips on how to make a long-distance relationship work based on her own and others' experience, you'll find this video useful.
November 05, 2020
Dating Coaching - Whether To Say No Or Say Nothing In Dating
Do you always tell someone else you don't want to continue the relationship/friendship or do you should just 'go quiet' and hope they'll get the message. That's what many people do - you may even have had it done to you. Find out what is the best way to handle the situation
November 05, 2020
Dating Coaching - Search Foremost For Character When You Go Dating
When you are dating, what are you looking for?Many people are looking initially for the wrong things - and that is why they aren't successful in dating and move from one relationship to another, never finding Mr or Miss Right.In this clip, we share the most important thing to be searching for when you are considering someone else - and that is CHARACTER.
November 05, 2020
Dating Coaching - How To Say You Don't Want To Continue With A Friendship Or Date
In this clip, we learn how to say no to someone when you are in a dating situation and you don't want the friendship or relationship to continue.This is never easy to do but in this clip, you'll discover the right ways to do it and ways that honour the other person, making you a better person.
November 03, 2020
Dating Coaching - Dating By Zoom
Zoom is a great piece of technology that everyone can use to enhance their dating. No longer does it really matter where anyone lives, when you are in the early stages of getting to know someone because with Zoom you don't have to travel to meet them.Hear about the benefits of dating by Zoom and why dating by Zoom might really help you move forward in your dating success.
November 03, 2020
Dating Coaching - What Is Beauty In Dating
In this episode, Katharine discusses what is beauty in dating - and what sort of beauty you should be looking for if you are searching for your soul mate.
November 03, 2020
Dating Coaching - It's OK To Say No In Dating
Katharine the founder of friends1st discusses how in dating it is OK to say No to someone if and when they want to take a friendship or relationship forward and you don't want to.Saying No is often difficult - especially if the other person wants to move forward or is pressurizing you to do so. This episode talks about the importance and value of your own boundaries - one of which is the ability to say NO.
November 02, 2020
Dating Coaching - Attitude When It Comes To Dating
This dating coaching clip for Christians discusses the importance of ATTITUDE.Like in many areas of life, the attitude you have can radically affect the outcomes you get, and dating is no different. Giving concrete examples of the effects of positive and negative attitudes, Katharine outlines and explains why having a positive attitude in dating is so important to your success.
November 02, 2020
Dating Coaching - Don't Put All Your Eggs In One Basket
Katharine Gray the founder and director of friends1st advises people who are looking for a soul mate to use as many different means as to meet that person. Just using one agency, one website, or one source of meeting people significantly limits the opportunities you have of meeting other suitable people.
November 02, 2020