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The Melanin Exchange

The Melanin Exchange

By The Melanin Exchange

Podcast for Black women, by a Black woman sharing topics of work/life balance, relationships, self-care, and other hot topics. This platform is for Black women to connect through other women's authentic experiences and perspectives.

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Degreed, Melanated, and Unemployed

The Melanin ExchangeJan 12, 2022

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Degreed, Melanated, and Unemployed

Degreed, Melanated, and Unemployed

Tune in as the host of The Melanin Exchange shares the story that led to unemployment, demystifies societal beliefs about education, the unexpected healing journey that came with unemployment, and being unafraid to constantly bet on self as a degreed and melanated Black woman.
Jan 12, 202239:55
Match This Energy or Move Around

Match This Energy or Move Around

Lately there seems to be a shift happening. Myself included, along with many other have experienced shifts in relationships. Tune in as MaStaysha and I discuss her recent loss of 20 plus year friend after many chances given, misalignment, and the block list. We have all been there or are currently here. If you're the friend always initiating contact with others or are trying to bring everyone along in your circle, this episode is for you. Here's a secret: Everyone can't come along on your journey. 

Jul 14, 202146:45
Mindset, Manifestation & the Big 'R' Word

Mindset, Manifestation & the Big 'R' Word

The Melanin Exchange breaks barriers having a conversation about what was supposed to be mindset & manifestation with guest, Madison Rose, mindset and manifestation coach. However, being that the podcast is Pro-Black which doesn't mean anti-White, the episode took a turn to discussing mindset and the Big 'R' word with our first White guest when other podcasts wouldn't allow her to be a guest. You don't want to miss this!

Jun 23, 202149:03
MALE TALK MONDAYS: Being a #GirlDad & Dating Women Without Fathers

MALE TALK MONDAYS: Being a #GirlDad & Dating Women Without Fathers

To celebrate Father's Day it's only right to have Rich discuss his experience with being a #girldad on the Male Talk Mondays segment. Tune in as we also discuss Jill's experience with being a fatherless daughter and dating, and Rich's thoughts on dating women without fathers. He kind of tried the women and almost got cursed out in the beginning of the episode.
Jun 07, 202136:55
Motherhood-Ish Series Pt 4: Breaking Generational Curses

Motherhood-Ish Series Pt 4: Breaking Generational Curses

Shaquana Davis, author and mompreneur from Season 2, Episode 2, shares her journey of breaking generational curses including born to her mother who abused drugs, toxic female relationships within her family, and more! 

Warning: This episode is completely unedited. Part of this platform is authenticity and sharing stories of women who wear many hats including mom. So you may or may not hear a baby and nature in the background for your listening pleasure. 

May 26, 202119:18
Motherhood-Ish Series: Pt 3: Caring for Mama

Motherhood-Ish Series: Pt 3: Caring for Mama

I think this is the longest episode to date! And once you listen you'll see why!

Tune in for Part 2 of the series. Not only in honor of the mothers this month, but also Mental Health Awareness Month, this beautiful soul has a story, a real testimony. As a Black educated woman who not only is a young professional, professor, and entrepreneur, she also is a caregiver to her mother who is mentally ill. And she doesn't miss a beat!
May 19, 202101:07:09
Motherhood-ish Series: Part 2: A Mother's Love

Motherhood-ish Series: Part 2: A Mother's Love

Part 2 continues of the Motherhood-ish Series with Karol, an ABA therapist sharing her experience with grief/loss of her mother and fears about becoming a mother. Tune in as we normalize not being afraid to ask for help as a mother and also address the "deadbeat mamas" that exist that we are afraid to talk about.
May 12, 202146:09
MALE TALK MONDAYS: Mama's Boys

MALE TALK MONDAYS: Mama's Boys

Continuing the Motherhood-ish Series, of course the male perspective is valued too. Male Talk Mondays discusses Mama's Boys. Tune in as Rich shares his perspective of not being the typical Mama's Boy, defines the term, and ways to remove the "bitch-assness". Jill also shares experiences of dealing with Mama's Boys personally and professionally. You don't want to miss this whether you've dealt with Mama's Boys, you're raising a Mama's Boy, or identify as a Mama's Boy. 

May 03, 202136:15
Motherhood-Ish Series: Part 1: The Introduction

Motherhood-Ish Series: Part 1: The Introduction

Mother's Day is around the corner and it's only right that we celebrate as a platform that caters to women. Yours truly is starting off the Motherhood series. You guessed it! The host of the The Melanin Exchange, Jill and her mother will be discussing adoption, electing to be a single parent, and MORE!
Apr 28, 202152:08
Spring Cleaning

Spring Cleaning

Spring is here yall! It's time for some cleaning and de-cluttering. Yes, of course your home and the things you'd normally do when the season changes, but also your life! My good sis, Lydia T. Blanco, Media Maven and podcast host of The Get My Life Tour is back to share her refreshing perspective on getting rid of baggage of people and things this season.
Apr 14, 202136:43
Male Talk Mondays: To Cheat or Keep Your Hands to Yourself

Male Talk Mondays: To Cheat or Keep Your Hands to Yourself

MALE TALK MONDAYS SEGMENT: Discussing all things Derrick Jaxn and his cheating, hypocritical shenanigans and shaming his wife like you haven't been cheated on or cheated. Let's debunk the myth that only men should keep their hands to themselves and the being crazy is cute as a woman must stop. You guessed it we are talking about the Quavo and Sweetie fiasco and the importance of minding your own relationship business.
Apr 05, 202145:22
Body-ody-ody: Body Image, Surgery, & Self-Love

Body-ody-ody: Body Image, Surgery, & Self-Love

Since we want to body-ody-ody let's talk about it then. It used to be having an eating disorder and cosmetic work was common for White women. Black women have joined the bandwagon and surgery has not only become normalized, but glamorized. Join social influence Fiona Joi and I as we discuss whether you can have self-love and surgery. Oh, and of course we talked about Derrick too.
Mar 24, 202144:31
Women Empowerment Ain't That Sis

Women Empowerment Ain't That Sis

Let's talk all things related to Women's History month and women in general. And, let's also talk about what the term women empowerment is not as we see mixed messages in today's society. Don't be a mean girl and throwing women empowerment events. Make it make sense sis. Tune in as my good sis Shanima Parker brings her vibrant, contagious, and authentic energy related to this hot topic.
Mar 10, 202151:34
Self-Care in Relationships

Self-Care in Relationships

Being in a relationship, especially in its earliest stages while trying to balance self and the other person(s) can be difficult! You may feel like you've lost yourself. This isn't specific to romantic relationships either. Join certified consultant, author, healer, and educator, Stephanie D. McKenzie as she shares some amazing tips and tricks to keeping yourself and your relationship(s).
Feb 24, 202148:51
Self-Care After Divorce

Self-Care After Divorce

Self-love is the best love. Sometimes self-care can be lost going through the best and worst times in relationships. Tune in as social worker, Jillian shares her authentic experience with divorce and ways she is continuing to heal and relearn herself through self-care. 

Feb 10, 202145:27
Male Talk Mondays Segment: Lovers & Friends

Male Talk Mondays Segment: Lovers & Friends

Valentine's Day is around the corner! How are you celebrating with your significant other? Tune in as the Male Talk Mondays co-host, Rich and I discuss our thoughts about Valentine's Day and Rich trying not to spill the beans about his plans.
Feb 01, 202140:50
Rags to Riches: Journey of a Mompreneur

Rags to Riches: Journey of a Mompreneur

During the pandemic many people are tapping into their entrepreneurial spirit including this mompreneur, Shaquana Davis. Former educator turned mompreneur became an author and is pursuing other endeavors after relocating during a pandemic with a small infant!
Jan 27, 202138:03
White House for White People

White House for White People

It's Season 2 and we're back and ready for a busy season!

This topic was planned before last week's foolery at the US Capitol, but now it's needed more than ever! Tune in as my friend Dirrick, founder of Project OneTen and I talk politics, civic engagement, and the White House who the White House is for, but built by us.

Jan 13, 202149:29
MALE TALK MONDAYS SEGMENT: 'Tis the Season

MALE TALK MONDAYS SEGMENT: 'Tis the Season

Introducing the first 𝙼𝙰𝙻𝙴 𝚃𝙰𝙻𝙺 𝙼𝙾𝙽𝙳𝙰𝚈𝚂 segment, every first Monday of the month with Rich!

Tune in as we dive into gift giving in relationships, expectations of gifts for men and women, and we talk about y'all folks that ask for things you know someone can't afford or you can't buy yourself.
Dec 07, 202031:05
When You Are a Black Woman...

When You Are a Black Woman...

Tune in to hear recent events that happened this week and knowing who you are as a Black woman especially during the holiday season. Take off the cape. You don't have to be superwoman sis!
Nov 26, 202009:59
Money, Money, Money

Money, Money, Money

Who doesn't like money? But with mo' money can come mo' problems...especially if there's some financial stress. Join entrepreneur and podcaster Nicole Jones as she discusses financial trauma and tools she has created in her business to help you get a bag, pay off debt, and create generational wealth.
Nov 11, 202031:01
Friendship Breakups

Friendship Breakups

We've all experienced friendship breakups. It's a real thing, just less talked about. Join Lydia T. Blanco and I as we dive into our experiences, how to be accountable, set expectations, and navigate this challenging topic.
Oct 28, 202049:56
The Body Heals Itself

The Body Heals Itself

I think I have a new fave episode! Tune in as Tarah and I come together again to discuss all things holistic! She dropped some real gems! Stay til the end to hear a recent personal experience that inspired this episode.
Oct 21, 202059:60
The Not So New Normal

The Not So New Normal

As we all adjust to this "new normal" virtual learning is one of the many ways parents, teachers, and students are now adjusting. Join in as my educator friend, Keshia and I discuss virtual learning from a teacher's perspective and the advice she has for both parents and teachers.
Sep 23, 202035:51
Having & Holding: Balancing Celibacy or Pleasure

Having & Holding: Balancing Celibacy or Pleasure

Tune in as mother, blogger, and licensed mental health professional, Jovan shares her decision to become celibate three years ago, and now finding herself being open to idea of a "cuddy buddy" if the correct opportunity presents itself.
Sep 16, 202036:02
Shades of Melanin

Shades of Melanin

A discussion with Arkeeda Jones about the historical topic of colorism among Black women in education, social media, and pop culture, and ways to navigate the barriers starting with children. 

Aug 19, 202038:39
Don't Ask Me When I'm Getting Married or Pregnant

Don't Ask Me When I'm Getting Married or Pregnant

Might've shaken the table on this episode. Join myself and our guest, Tarah as we share our thoughts about the pressure for Black women to get married, have children, and why it's important to be mindful of these pressures.
Aug 05, 202001:02:28
A Journey of Alignment

A Journey of Alignment

Join Shri-Shanti Shankara and I as she shares her journey of alignment through energy work, healing, and spirituality and her current efforts to help others heal.
Jul 28, 202001:00:46
Black Women in Business...and Everything Else

Black Women in Business...and Everything Else

Conversation with Black women business owners who share their stories and advice as while managing other roles and tasks in their daily lives.
Jul 12, 202053:28
Test to Testimony

Test to Testimony

Sharing the platform with Brittany C. as she shares many tests that led to a testimony from a failed relationship and career challenges as a Black woman. Despite 2020 being difficult for most we discuss how this year's quarantine has allowed her to heal and self-reflect with 2019 being the year of protection that prepared her for this year's chaotic events.
Jul 05, 202056:50
Are You Issa or Molly? The Importance of Black Women Friendships

Are You Issa or Molly? The Importance of Black Women Friendships

Inspired by Insecure's Issa and Molly friendship drama, a discussion between friends about the dynamics and significance of friendship for Black women.
Jul 05, 202034:46
Childbearing: The Woman's So-Called Dream

Childbearing: The Woman's So-Called Dream

Being mindful of intentions and beliefs to pressure women to have children. Addressing relevant issues of women's desire to not have children and the reduction of shame.
May 04, 202011:22
Facing Your Fears

Facing Your Fears

Inspired by brand strategist, Erin on Demand's YouTube video. Sharing my journey of fears and the path to develop The Melanin Exchange
Mar 23, 202009:04
Love Is...

Love Is...

Discussing Netflix show Love Is Blind related to lack of diversity and thoughts about the show overall. Stay tuned for part 2!
Mar 09, 202013:53
Jhené Does Her Work!

Jhené Does Her Work!

Real and raw, no edits. Review of Jhené Aiko's new album. Discussing the importance of self-healing and being able to appreciate her journey and connect with her words once we've started our own self-healing journey.
Mar 07, 202009:05
No Means NO!

No Means NO!

A reminder of issues that impact us and not to forget when they are no longer a "hot topic" or something happens. Setting boundaries around sexual harassment, both big and small.
Jan 24, 202011:45
... And You Are?

... And You Are?

Welcome to The Melanin Exchange's podcast for Women of Color.
Jan 10, 202001:33