The Sensuality Project
By Stacey Herrera
A sister-friend podcast exploring the delicious messiness of life, love, and the pursuit of self-intimacy.
The Sensuality ProjectDec 13, 2017
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3 Un-obvious benefits of having herpes
This is the second episode in the herpes series. There is so much misinformation out there about herpes, consequently, there is a huge stigma that comes with being diagnosed with the virus. My intention for this series is to open dialogue about herpes and to help de-shame the experience for those who test positive.
I want to reiterate, if you test positive for herpes and you are struggling with the diagnosis, know this… you are not alone.
I want to reiterate, if you test positive for herpes and you are struggling with the diagnosis, know this… you are not alone.
Apr 24, 201910:36
The Top 5 Herpes Myths - Debunked
This is the first in a series of episodes all centered around herpes. There is so much shame and such stigma that comes with testing positive for herpes.
This series is aimed to reduce the stigma, to let you know that you're not alone if you test positive, and to inform those of us who may be ignorant to the truth about herpes.
If you test positive for herpes and you are struggling with the diagnosis, know this... you are not alone.
Sign up to get on the Dating With Herpes waitlist.
This series is aimed to reduce the stigma, to let you know that you're not alone if you test positive, and to inform those of us who may be ignorant to the truth about herpes.
If you test positive for herpes and you are struggling with the diagnosis, know this... you are not alone.
Sign up to get on the Dating With Herpes waitlist.
Apr 15, 201912:25
Embodiment, producing pleasure, & skinny dipping w/Sama Morningstar & Nicole Katzender
This is an extra special episode... it's a 2-for! That's right, you get two chats for the price of one listen! Two amazing women... Sama Morningstar & Nicole Katzender talk candidly about embodiment, pleasure, and womanhood.
Apr 03, 201901:10:45
How's your heart?
Your heart (literal and metaphorical) heart is a compass. It directs your emotions and dictates your choices. Your heart is the reason that you love the nouns (people, places, and things) you love.
Your heart regulates your calm and ignites your excitement. It triggers adrenaline and opens the floodgates for oxytocin. Your heart is the brains of the operation...
How often do you listen to your heart?
And when you listen, do you heed what it says?
Your heart regulates your calm and ignites your excitement. It triggers adrenaline and opens the floodgates for oxytocin. Your heart is the brains of the operation...
How often do you listen to your heart?
And when you listen, do you heed what it says?
Feb 27, 201936:34
Male Intuition, Orgasms at 29, & Copy-cat-ing w/Stacey Marie Fruits
My guest this week, the magical Stacey Marie Fruits. And Stacey and I share more than just a name, we also share a kinship for pleasure and discovery. We share a penchant for belly laughs, intimate relationships, and truth-telling. Two Stacey's for the price of one... it just doesn't get much better than that!
Feb 13, 201901:15:45
The truth about kink, discomfort, & being petty as f*ck w/Raven Robinson
My guest this week, Raven Robinson, is one of my oldest internet friends. Our conversations are always epic and this chat is no exception! We get down and dirty about everything from simulated connection to her post-ashram life adjustment. Raven is one of the realest women I know... you're going to L-O-V-E her!
Jan 16, 201902:02:04
...and food tastes better too!
2018 is in the rearview and it wrung everyone the fuck out... including me. But we made it. So now what?
For starters, allow me to re-introduce myself... Because 2019 isn't about change, it's about consistency. That means we need to invite more on-purpose juicy deliciousness to our lives. And for me, that looks like being more analog.
For starters, allow me to re-introduce myself... Because 2019 isn't about change, it's about consistency. That means we need to invite more on-purpose juicy deliciousness to our lives. And for me, that looks like being more analog.
Jan 02, 201911:15
Fellatio, Hypersexuality, & the Porn Soundtrack w/Nia J.
My guest this week is Nia J.
In this episode we explore:
⇒ Hypersexuality + being too sexually expressive
⇒ Watching other people pee & probing vaginas
⇒ Asking, receiving, & being empowered to make change
⇒ Getting what you asked for, literally
Dec 12, 201801:19:31
Empty-nesting, the 45-year awakening, & the spiritual experience called divorce w/Kerrie Wearing
My guest this week is Kerrie Wearing who knows a thing or two about change, transformation, and deliciousness!
Nov 28, 201801:22:10
Loving your period, being super single, & the intimacy flinch w/Stasha Washburn
My guest this week is all about that period life! Stasha Washburn is helping women to fall in love with their periods! I love a woman who rides hard for Aunt Flow! In this episode, we get down and dirty about politics, voting, #MeToo, and relationship-ing!
Nov 14, 201801:20:58
Womb healing, immature sexuality, & rights of passage w/Sama Morningstar
On this week's episode, I'm chatting with Sama Morningstar about womb healing, trauma, and everything in between!
Oct 31, 201801:27:58
Conscious grieving, the little beige box, & the sisterhood lifeline w/Caitlin Grace
We will bury parents, friends, lovers, and children. We will mourn celebrities and strangers. We will weep and wail for the loss of life, love, and sameness. Shedding tears for what once was and what will never be. The longer we live the more familiar with sorrow we get until we become the mourned.
Caitlin Grace has returned to chat with me about death and the process of dying. And only she and I could turn an ominous topic into a love-fest complete with side-splitting laughter!
Caitlin Grace has returned to chat with me about death and the process of dying. And only she and I could turn an ominous topic into a love-fest complete with side-splitting laughter!
Oct 17, 201801:09:14
Imperfect mothers, grief orgasms, & the conflict of pleasure w/Jenny Eden Berk
On this episode, I am chatting with Jenny Eden Berk about the copious amount of pleasure available to us... among so many other things!
In this episode we explore:
⇒ Talking about sex with your daughters
⇒ Being unmoored by death
⇒ Going through the motions and surviving
⇒ Being gluttonous, hedonistic, and indulgent
In this episode we explore:
⇒ Talking about sex with your daughters
⇒ Being unmoored by death
⇒ Going through the motions and surviving
⇒ Being gluttonous, hedonistic, and indulgent
Oct 03, 201801:43:43
Being monogamish & birthing the new paradigm w/Adrienne Ero-Phillips
My guest this week is Adrienne Ero-Phillips, who is committed to healing womb space trauma and helping others to empower themselves. She is also hosting a powerful FREE online event BIRTHING THE NEW PARADIGM, which begins on Tuesday, July 31st. You can reserve your spot here. Did I mention that I'm featured in the event? 😉
Jul 25, 201801:08:01
Squirting, positive social proof, & eating the cake too! w/Carmen Rene
My guest today is Carmen Rene a fierce diva who is owning her truth and taking names! She is about that Love-Yourself-Where-You-Are life and she struts her talk like a BOSS. Whoever said "you can't have your cake and eat it too" clearly wasn't living their best life...
Jun 13, 201854:34
The intimacy crisis, hating on joy, & decriminalizing sex work w/Biba Atta
Biba Atta, my most popular guest, is back! She also happens to be one of my closest sister-friends. And we are chatting about the intimacy crisis and all the things...
In this episode we explore:
⇒ The luxury of being intimate
⇒ The conundrum of joy
⇒ Decriminalizing sex work
⇒ The importance of tribe
In this episode we explore:
⇒ The luxury of being intimate
⇒ The conundrum of joy
⇒ Decriminalizing sex work
⇒ The importance of tribe
Apr 18, 201801:09:39
Tithing your time, sexual limits, & making yourself cum w/JeTuan Jones
In this episode we explore:
⇒ The spiritual element of sexuality.
⇒ Receiving the offering of the darkness.
⇒ The connection between self-pleasure + business.
⇒ Self-perception + victimization.
⇒ The spiritual element of sexuality.
⇒ Receiving the offering of the darkness.
⇒ The connection between self-pleasure + business.
⇒ Self-perception + victimization.
Mar 28, 201801:17:26
Transactional sex, surrendering control, & octopussy w/Andrea Klunder
This week my guest, Andrea Klunder and I are chatting it up about... Sex work, the sex/money connection & how business can destroy relationships. Such a fun & juicy conversation!
Mar 14, 201801:12:04
Pussy weights, sex chats, & the chihuahua effect w/Jen Pavich
Womanhood is a continuous rite of passage. We are in a constant state of becoming. Evolving and growing. Shrinking and expanding. We are our mothers as much as we are ourselves. On this episode, we explore the various (and sometimes hilarious) things about being a woman.
Feb 28, 201801:14:16
Allowing pleasure, seeing diversity, & looking at vulvas w/Myola Woods
My guest this week creates beautiful sacred space for others to reconnect with their most authentic selves in mind, body, and spirit. Myola Woods embodies love and acceptance so beautifully and this conversation inspired me in more ways than one.
Feb 07, 201859:58
Evolution, needing vs. needy, & a new community
In this episode, I'm talking solo about where I've been and where I'm at, as well as what's coming up for The Sensuality Project.
Jan 31, 201836:31
Swallowing semen, the truth about being unattractive, + Cardi B w/ Stephanie Williams
My guest this week is Stephanie Williams, host of the Mocha Minutes podcast, and this might be my most candid conversation yet. We touched on some smoking hot topics without breaking a single bead of sweat!
Jan 17, 201801:13:46
Reclaiming Cunt, breaking through, & relationship-ing w/Sophia Wise One
My guest this week is Sophia Wise One, and she is indeed wise. Her own healing set her on the path to help other women to come home to their bodies, connect with their wombs, and tap into the divinity of universal wisdom.
Jan 10, 201801:15:54
Pussy pH, funky spunk, & defining "woke" w/Winter White
Funky spunk, pussy scent, and body odor O-My! And relationships... it always comes back to that, right? In this episode, my guest Winter White and I go there!
Jan 03, 201801:19:21
The other rape, denying white privilege, & the teachings of Judy Blume w/Leigh Montavon
In this episode, I sit down for a chat with Leigh Montavon to explore rape culture, emotional labor, and coming of age.
Dec 13, 201701:11:33
Depression, threesomes, & shakin' that ass w/Nikki Pebbles
In this episode, my guest, Nikki Pebbles, and I explore relationships, depression, and the body love movement.
Dec 06, 201701:01:50
Curiosity + Boundaries + Intimacy = Full Expression
What does it mean to be fully expressed?
Nov 22, 201724:19
Wage slavery, delivering whoop-ass, & ticking the monogamy box w/Melissa Danielle (pt 2)
This is part 2 of my chat w/Melissa Danielle and we are going deeper into the expansive nature of relationships.
Nov 15, 201759:51
Defining monogamy, sex work, & women need consent too w/Melissa Danielle (part 1)
This week I'm chatting w/Melissa Danielle about all things self, love, and relationships.
Nov 08, 201756:35
Naked yoga, herpes, and authentic yoni love w/Giavanni Scott
On this week's episode, I'm chatting with Giavanni Scott about all things yoni.
Nov 01, 201701:12:30
Well-traveled lovers, storytelling, power & submission w/Isabelle Rizo
Isabelle Rizo is my guest this week and we had an expansive conversation about the complex nature of human beings.
Oct 25, 201701:19:14
Getting high on social media, intimacy soup, & loving armpit funk w/Alexis Petrin
On this week's episode, I'm chatting with my sister-friend Alexis, who is fierce in her commitment to embracing the messiness of life. She does not cower when her heart gets tender and she leads by beautiful example. She's deep and she LOVES to go there!
Oct 18, 201701:08:09
Being black outside of America, feeling good enough, & moving your body w/Fatou Sy
On this episode, my guest Fatou Sy, talks about what it's like to live in a black female body on three different continents.
Oct 11, 201701:09:33
Taking instruction, giving head, and getting choked out w/Jay Dean
During this chat, Jay Dean and I get down and dirty on the topic of sex.
Oct 04, 201701:19:11
Grieving your period, longterm love, and being f*cking amazing w/Caitlin Grace
Most of us aspire to be in the kind of relationships that make us feel nourished.But all too often our relationships fall short. Perhaps because we attract people who do not have the capacity to offer what we need. But if we're honest, sometimes we are the ones who do not have the capacity to hold that which we desire most.
My sisterfriend Caitlin Grace models what it looks like to not only be in partnership with someone who adores her but she is also the kind of woman who can hold space for BIG love
My sisterfriend Caitlin Grace models what it looks like to not only be in partnership with someone who adores her but she is also the kind of woman who can hold space for BIG love
Sep 27, 201701:13:47
Sapiosexuality, cooking for love, bourbon, and timber w/Hilary Booker
Through conversations with others, I discover so much about myself. Which is exactly how I felt when I spoke with my new sisterfriend, Hilary Booker. In this episode we explore:
⇒ Touch-free orgasms
⇒ Diet and what works for your body.
⇒ Womb wisdom and the Divine Feminine.
⇒ The truth about falling in love.
*this episode is sponsored by the Long Story Short advice column
⇒ Touch-free orgasms
⇒ Diet and what works for your body.
⇒ Womb wisdom and the Divine Feminine.
⇒ The truth about falling in love.
*this episode is sponsored by the Long Story Short advice column
Sep 20, 201701:31:20
Attention whoring, money blocks, and the duality of being seen w/Mia Davis
This week I am chatting with my sister-friend and emotional accountability partner, Mia Davis.
In this episode we explore:
⇒ All the ways that we shut off and push pleasure away.
⇒ Allowing yourself to be seen and fully expressed in an authentic way.
⇒ Making, creating, and being energetically open to receiving money.
⇒ Withholding, locking away and shutting down pleasure.
**This episode is sponsored by the Long Story Short advice column, real world advice for women like you.**
In this episode we explore:
⇒ All the ways that we shut off and push pleasure away.
⇒ Allowing yourself to be seen and fully expressed in an authentic way.
⇒ Making, creating, and being energetically open to receiving money.
⇒ Withholding, locking away and shutting down pleasure.
**This episode is sponsored by the Long Story Short advice column, real world advice for women like you.**
Sep 13, 201701:12:24
Not-enoughness, the closure myth, penetration, and self-acceptance. w/Biba Atta
You ever meet someone and immediately click? Well that was exactly how I felt the first time that I met Biba Atta. We get each other's jokes, like for reals. We go together like peanut butter and homemade jelly! Which is why I invited Biba to join me for a conversation on the inaugural episode of The Sensuality Project podcast!
In this episode we explore:⇒ Why having important conversations via email/text and why it's not always a good idea.
⇒ Stress & resentment and the impact it can have on the male libido.
⇒ The closure myth and how you can tie off a loose end.
⇒ How self-acceptance, or lack thereof, can make sex better or worse.
Sep 06, 201701:11:44
Welcome to The Sensuality Project Podcast!
Welcome to The Sensuality Project Podcast... where the messiness of real life gets sexy!
Sep 05, 201705:45