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The Black Mens Thoughts Podcast

The Black Mens Thoughts Podcast

By Black Mens Thoughts Podcast

Sit and listen with millennial aged Black Men talking about how they navigate life through curated topics such as love, finance, mental health, and etc. Candid, Hilarious, Organic, no fluff, Straight Raw
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EP59.Ignorantly Knowledgeable

The Black Mens Thoughts Podcast Feb 28, 2024

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EP59.Ignorantly Knowledgeable

EP59.Ignorantly Knowledgeable

On this episode we discuss Jalen Green, Ja Morant, knowing how to date and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Feb 28, 202401:10:46
EP58.Just Our Thoughts

EP58.Just Our Thoughts

We’re back again this conversation was random but good. Enjoy!!!
Feb 21, 202457:03
EP57.Final Destination

EP57.Final Destination

On this episode I’m by myself, it’s a very short intimate talk I hope you enjoy
Mar 03, 202327:35
EP56. Note To Self

EP56. Note To Self

On this episode we discuss life post bariatric sleeve surgery. New mental states and dealing with a new body while trying to develop a new mentality. New eating practices along with trying to break old habits. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Nov 26, 202201:07:32
EP55. Logically Emotional

EP55. Logically Emotional

On this episode we discuss we need to talk vs wya text, approaches to women when and where. And much more Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 27, 202201:14:05
EP54.Modern Dating Chaos

EP54.Modern Dating Chaos

On this episode Lance & Dan sit down with Alasha Bennett The Dating Mechanic and a good friend of the show Tameka and we speak on gender roles, strategic dating, learning how to live and love more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 20, 202201:59:48
EP53.Selectively Social

EP53.Selectively Social

On this episode we discuss coming up short in some sexual encounters, fly out rules, getting clarity on women and who they’re dealing with, and much more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 13, 202202:04:29
EP52.7PM in Norfolk

EP52.7PM in Norfolk

On this episode we discuss finding closure, telling women the truth on how we’re moving. The nuances of dating. Talking to our friends, the state of our city Norfolk, Va…and much more the laughs are crazy. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Sep 15, 202257:58
EP51.Let Me See Your Manager

EP51.Let Me See Your Manager

On this episode we literally deep dive into a single word “MANAGEMENT” and how the majority of us need to implement it better in our lives. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcas
Sep 08, 202201:12:23
EP50.We Off That

EP50.We Off That

We back and as always we dive right into the BS we discussed a lot so no description this time I hope you enjoy it Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Aug 25, 202202:08:57
EP49.Keep It A Buck

EP49.Keep It A Buck

On this episode Lance is here and it’s the return of Eddy Gee and we discuss men losing their great qualities if they cheat, men recognizing if their partner is bored, answering the question is marriage still an accomplishment. And Lance goes into a deep reflection on still wanting to build a family on the brink of 40 and much more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
May 26, 202250:38
EP48.Tasteless

EP48.Tasteless

On this episode Lance is here with his VSU GANG(Kwame) and they discuss running your own race, Finding yourself and being yourself, what we learned in our 30s. Who loses themselves the most and the quickest in relationships. Lance’s confidence, polygamy vs monogamy and much more, Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 07, 202201:31:39
EP47.Wow That’s Crazy

EP47.Wow That’s Crazy

On this episode Lance is here with GANG (Harvey) and they discuss being burnt out, Will Smith slapgate, Kanye’s mental being taken more serious. We also touch on fvcking other people while working on things with an ex. And much more, Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 02, 202201:16:45
EP46.Can I Borrow a Dollar

EP46.Can I Borrow a Dollar

On this episode Lance sits down with his fellow Virginia State Trojan Jay Whitaker and they deep dive into the concept of money, crypto currency, NFTs, the U.S debt and more. Be sure to Like, Listen, Share, Subscribe, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Feb 24, 202201:16:49
EP45. Sunglasses & Advil

EP45. Sunglasses & Advil

On this episode we discuss do women provoke men too much, women claiming they want security while men want someone secure. Being mindful of the baggage and trauma you take into a new relationship and more be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 30, 202101:01:29
EP44.Blessings in Lessons

EP44.Blessings in Lessons

We discussed a lot on this episode from growing pains as a black boy to a black man. Yo having the hard conversation with fathers that weren’t around to black men investing more in their self care. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 15, 202101:03:60
EP43.Demon Time

EP43.Demon Time

On this episode we discuss a lot from co-parenting, to Lance wanting to be the villain for a little while. Down to covering your steps when multiple women come to your house. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Sep 17, 202101:25:19
EP42.Perspectives

EP42.Perspectives

On this episode we discuss the importance of the barbershop for men and their mental health, woman being cheap until they’re challenged. We question if men the cause of their own insecurities. Letting your significant other know your income and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Aug 19, 202101:44:51
EP41.This D!ck Ain't Free

EP41.This D!ck Ain't Free

On this episode we discuss the  Verzuz feat The Lox and Dipset who was more culture adjusting/changing, Lance admits he underestimated the Lox. We discuss what truly counts as applying pressure, Lance calls in a friend of the show to get a solidified womans' opinion on the matter, while Ryan and Lance discuss inviting her over once established and making them feel comfortable is applying pressure. We let women know that "This D!ck Ain't Free" and how you can get what you want from a man if the pressure is real and reciprocated. How to tell women respectfully that you're not looking for anything serious and much more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Aug 05, 202101:33:22
EP40.Let It Go

EP40.Let It Go

We discuss a lot on this return episode, from the effects of not having a man to teach you how to be a man. Respectfully dating multiple people, while trying to find the one. Men being bad at managing finances, and women attempting to help. Also men truly falling out of love, setting boundaries and cut off times. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Jul 22, 202101:37:36
EP39.A Mother’s Love

EP39.A Mother’s Love

On this special we have 4 black mothers that speak pregnancy reactions, growing pains, being young single moms and married moms and much more Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
May 08, 202101:39:24
EP38.Get Ya Sh*t Off

EP38.Get Ya Sh*t Off

On this episode on this episode the fellas are back to discuss Dr. Dre’s divorce and prenup, Steve Harvey’s comments on not having female friends. Your significant others male friends and much more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 30, 202101:32:02
EP37.Men Love Too

EP37.Men Love Too

This week the fellas discuss men falling in love first, how to set boundaries post break up. Learning to truly heal, forgiving and letting go of hurt. We also discuss the historical and monumental verdict in the Derek Chauvin murder case of George Floyd, and much more. Also a possible new (CSOC) submission. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 21, 202101:27:08
EP36.Duck, Duck, TOXIC

EP36.Duck, Duck, TOXIC

On this episode we discuss having a savage mode post break up, what percentage of men actually do this. We discuss toxic traits, Lance discovers he may have one, he also discusses his last decade of dating and casual encounters and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 01, 202101:36:39
EP35.Please SAWEETIE

EP35.Please SAWEETIE

On this episode we discuss Dwade supporting his daughter (Zaya). NBA YoungBoy fed issues, the Quavo and Saweetie breakup and more. Also a possible new (CSOC) submission. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Mar 27, 202101:20:12
EP34.SEXTIMACY

EP34.SEXTIMACY

On this episode we have erotic specialist AJ Jones and we discuss kinks, fetishes, paying more attention to a woman’s body. The ultimate vibe setting situation to take your relationship/situationship to a sexual level. Understanding intimacy, techniques to improve your sex life and more. Also a possible new (CSOC) submission. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Mar 24, 202101:20:06
EP33.Mo’Money

EP33.Mo’Money

On this episode we discuss financial literacy, interest rates, credit repair, and much more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Mar 11, 202101:07:51
EP32.ADHD Pt 2

EP32.ADHD Pt 2

On this episode we were all over the place from Do women deserve money from men just for there company to if men are locked into gender roles why aren’t women. We revisit how Future and Lori Harvey go about relationships. Also a possible new (CSOC) submission. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Mar 05, 202101:08:00
EP31.Guess Who’s Back

EP31.Guess Who’s Back

We’re officially back after a long, long hiatus. We promise we’re going to get back on our game with bringing you a consistent amazing episode each week so enjoy our new episode of the new year. On this episode on this episode we discuss blocking your ex to avoid emotional trauma and mental strain. The best bounce back methods, how to effectively protect your energy. Deserving a sneaky link post break up, Getting to know someone while still having sex with other people and a whole lot more. Also a possible new (CSOC) submission. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Feb 25, 202102:00:59
EP30.Lesser Of The Evils

EP30.Lesser Of The Evils

On this episode on this episode we discuss the election. The power of the black vote. Possible election improvements and reforms, Trumps attempt to tip the scale on the election expectations of the aftermath for the black community black super pacs and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Nov 03, 202001:10:29
EP29.Let’s Be Clear

EP29.Let’s Be Clear

On this episode on this episode we discuss men being jaded. The fast “Dub” opposed to the slow dub. When to cut off an inconsistent female. What counts as “being on” or “trying to talk to a chick”. Local fly outs and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 23, 202059:06
EP28.Men’s Rights

EP28.Men’s Rights

On this episode on this episode we discuss the Tory Lanez Album, along with the time line of the Meg Thee Stallion shooting. Men being allowed to tell their side of the story, men having rights in a romantic relationship, and what counts as shooting your shot, recap Power and more. Also a possible new (CSOC) submission and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Oct 02, 202001:05:49
EP27.Dirty Mac N Cheee

EP27.Dirty Mac N Cheee

On this episode on this episode we discuss dirty mackn, finally get a woman’s perspective on tricking and the ways men and women talk themselves out of sex.  A new (CSOC) submission and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Sep 25, 202001:04:40
EP26.Check Ya Mental

EP26.Check Ya Mental

On this episode on this episode we discuss taking our mental health serious, self sabotage. putting personal feelings aside for good business and more Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Sep 11, 202001:18:32
EP25.He Said, She Said

EP25.He Said, She Said

(Sorry About The Background Noise) On this episode we discuss how long a man should fight before he calls it quits. How relationships are solely based on the women’s happiness. Discovering if women are taught how to live without men rather than keep one, recognizing that the silent treatment is childish and more Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast www.theracreations.com
Jul 20, 202001:24:17
EP24. Will Power

EP24. Will Power

On this episode we cover the Jada/August/Will situation. Along with black men doing better at protecting black women. Black men needing to call 50 Cent and Lil Wayne on their conversation. Kanye running for president. Along with a new (CSOC) submission. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast http://www.theracreations.com/
Jul 14, 202001:29:38
EP23.State Of The Culture W/ Kwame Brown & Agent Kodak

EP23.State Of The Culture W/ Kwame Brown & Agent Kodak

Today Lance has two of his VSU brothers on the show to speak on the importance of traveling back to Africa to get in touch with our roots. Black economic freedom and allowing your kids to express themselves and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast. https://www.liberiaforward.com
Jul 05, 202001:00:51
EP22.[BLANKING].....While Black

EP22.[BLANKING].....While Black

On this special episode we have back City Councilman Marcellus Harris III, Norfolk NAACP President and Lobbyists Joe Dillard Jr. Along with attorney Steven Forbes Esq. We speak on the outrage of the people, the background of Derek Chauvin the officer filmed in the murder of Mr. George Floyd. What laws should be put in place to truly protect the people. We also speak on the current state of the nation and the world with the murder of Mr. George Floyd and others. We discuss the police being charged, what can be changed when it comes to how the public is policed. How much political power do the police truly hold and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Jun 04, 202001:31:46
EP21.Ask A Black Man W/ LL Kirby

EP21.Ask A Black Man W/ LL Kirby

On this episode we have one of Lance’s fellow VSU Alumni Kirby on to answer some questions from instagram followers. The fellas get candid with their answers and have a little bit of self reflection. I also speak with Eady Gee
Jun 03, 202047:15
EP20.KTSE! W/ Stephen B. and Noel W

EP20.KTSE! W/ Stephen B. and Noel W

[Sorry about the background noise and the episode getting cut short] On this episode we discuss keeping the same energy with women, forcing women to be clear on their intentions, taking the time to truly get to know your significant other and we also have a message from Eady Gee. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
May 27, 202044:42
EP19. EP19.Nina Pulled That NINA W/ Harvito ,Daniel Coleman & BDoe

EP19. EP19.Nina Pulled That NINA W/ Harvito ,Daniel Coleman & BDoe

On this episode we discuss the Earl and Nina Thomas situation, 6ix9ine coming home and getting 2 million views on his live and his antics. The Jill Scott/Erykah Badu Versuz, Women admitting they’re crazy and the Raiders 1st round pick Damon Arnette telling people no when they ask him for money. Be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
May 13, 202059:09
EP18.TOXIC TRAUMA W/ Tyron of the Respectfully Reckless Podcast & Stephen B.

EP18.TOXIC TRAUMA W/ Tyron of the Respectfully Reckless Podcast & Stephen B.

On this episode we discuss making women respect and act on our love language, what our last relationship taught us, how to tell if a man is fighting for you, asking women about their relationship with their father. Not forcing toxic relationships, calling women out on their toxic traits be sure to Listen, Like, Subscribe, Share, Rate, & Review on your podcast listening platform. Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 15, 202001:07:19
EP17. Politics As Usual W/ Joe Dillard Jr& Marcellus Harris III

EP17. Politics As Usual W/ Joe Dillard Jr& Marcellus Harris III

On this episode we discuss the political views on corona, the chances of trump getting re-elected based on his response, to election predictions things that could be better in the city key challenges in being a politician how necessary is community development and why aren’t more people getting involved and a few more please Like, Listen, Share, Subscribe, Rate & Review and follow us on Twitter and IG @thebmtpodcast
Apr 04, 202051:10
EP16.Mixed Company W/Kee Ashanti, Harvito, & Keish of the Aye Yo Keish podcast

EP16.Mixed Company W/Kee Ashanti, Harvito, & Keish of the Aye Yo Keish podcast

This week we discuss proper shooting your shot etiquette, men being ok with their significant other making more than them, women appreciating men being more open with their feelings, dealing with your significant others ex fwbs, corona virus and a (CSOC) CLOWN SH!T ONLY SUBMISSION more Like, Listen, Share, Subscribe, Rate, Review Follow us on IG & Twitter @thebmtpodcast
Apr 01, 202001:01:09
EP15.Corona with Lime W/ Tyron

EP15.Corona with Lime W/ Tyron

This week we discuss of course the Corona Virus, social distancing, supporting black business and much more please Listen, Like, Rate, Review, Share, & Subscribe follow us on IG & TWITTER @thebmtpodcast
Mar 18, 202053:07
EP14.Growth, Faith & Real Estate W/ Chase Womack

EP14.Growth, Faith & Real Estate W/ Chase Womack

This week we have Real Estate agent extraordinaire Chase Womack stopping by he tells his story of faith, growth, trials and tribulations in real estate as well as the benefits of getting in the business
Feb 26, 202059:15
EP13.Rappers Delight

EP13.Rappers Delight

This week we discuss the Floyd Mayweather and TI situation, NBA Young Boy under federal investigation. Quando Rondo almost getting ran out of Norfolk, Va. Personality adjusting men’s rates of women and more be sure to Like, Listen, Rate, Review, Share & Subscribe follow us on IG @thebmtpodcast
Feb 19, 202056:34
EP12.Snoop Dogg Said What?

EP12.Snoop Dogg Said What?

This week we speak on the Gayle King interview. The backlash, canceling cancel culture. Acknowledging that Russell Wilson is the man we should aspire to be. The POWER finale and more. Be sure to Listen, Like, Rate, Review, and subscribe. Follow us on IG: @thebmtpodcast
Feb 12, 202001:02:48
EP11.8KB24 #MAMBAFOREVER

EP11.8KB24 #MAMBAFOREVER

Sorry for the wait but we’re back. This week we discuss the unforeseen loss of Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gianna. #Girldad and loving your family. Virginia’s efforts to decriminalize marijuana and more. Be sure to share, rate, review, and subscribe. Follow us on Twitter and IG @thebmtpodcast
Feb 05, 202040:16
EP10. We’re Not The Same W/ Jounte Ferguson

EP10. We’re Not The Same W/ Jounte Ferguson

This week we discuss Lori Harvey bad Selective Pussy Distribution, Loni Love speaking on black men cheating, Trump and Bernie Sanders, Black Men knowing the balance between wants and needs, Power, and Jountes opinion on being a comedian in the social media age
Jan 15, 202001:16:22