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The Father Effect

The Father Effect

By John Finch

Based on the feature film and book of the same name, THE FATHER EFFECT podcast shares real stories about the lifelong impact fathers have on men, women, and families.

Founder & Host, John Finch, has been on an incredible journey since 2010 to help others find hope and healing after he struggled for 30 years when his father committed suicide when John was only eleven years old. But it wasn't until he was raising his own three daughters that he truly understood their futures relied on his coming to terms with his difficult past. To move forward, he needed to forgive both his father for choosing to leave, and himself for not being the best father he could be.

This journey led to THE FATHER EFFECT, a book and movie containing practical help for men and women with a deep father wound from losing a dad through divorce, death, or disinterest. Through positive lessons on forgiveness and approachable advice on how to change your legacy as a parent, partner, and person, THE FATHER EFFECT is the ultimate healing tool for anyone who has suffered the absence of a dad and for men who want to become the dads God created them to be.

For more information, please visit www.thefathereffect.com.

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Pastor Tim Burt shares "How God has used his blog to reach millions a day, Growing up as 1 of 10 kids, Reading the bible for the first time at 24 years & much more.
Pastor Tim Burt shares how God has used his blog to reach millions a day, growing up as 1 of 10 kids, a fascinating story about what he invented that you see all the time, reading the bible for the first time at 24 years old, what God has taught him about being a dad, grandfather & more. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
42:46
March 29, 2021
Jason Romano, Former ESPN Producer & Host of Sports Spectrum Talks About "Forgiving My Alcoholic Father"
Jason Romano, Former ESPN Producer, Author, and Host of Sport Spectrum, talks about a daily walk in forgiving his alcoholic father, struggling with anger, trying to be the dad his dad wasn't, the incredible power of empathy, & how forgiving his dad helped him have a better relationship with God. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
53:49
March 15, 2021
Corey Miller, Pastor, Speaker, & Former New York Giants Linebacker talks about His Struggle In Getting Caught Up With Fame and Fortune as an NFL Football Player, His Own Selfishness, and more.
Corey Miller, Pastor, Speaker, and former New York Giants Linebacker talks about his struggle in getting caught up with fame and fortune as an NFL football player, his own selfishness, not being emotionally present at home, the one question that a counselor asked him over the phone that changed his life, God’s amazing grace, his dad’s incredible influence on his life, the mistake of pushing our kids too hard, a few stories about legendary linebacker Lawrence Taylor, and much more. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
39:57
March 1, 2021
Stephen Mansfield, New York Times Best-Selling Author, Talks About Toxic Masculinity, The Biggest Struggle For Men, Overachievement, Forgiveness, & more.
Stephen Mansfield, NYT Best-Selling Author, Shares His Story About Growing Up With A Military Father, Toxic Masculinity, The Biggest Struggle For Men, Overachievement, Betrayal, Forgiveness, A Band of Brothers, & more.  ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
49:19
February 22, 2021
Brian Dickinson, Author & Speaker, Shares His Remarkable Story About Climbing Mount Everest Blind & Alone, & Without Oxygen and much more.
Brian Dickinson shares the story of how he grew up, his journey to climb all the highest peaks on the 7 continents, his remarkable story of how God guided him down Mount Everest snow blind, without oxygen and completely alone, the power of others praying for him, what God has taught him about fatherhood, and more. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
38:53
February 15, 2021
Andrew Bartman, Director of Coaching Development with USA Baseball, Talks About Work Life Balance, Fatherhood, What Every Child Needs To Hear & More
Andrew Bartman, Director of Coaching Development for USA Baseball, shares his thoughts about Coaching Burnout, WorkLife Balance, How A Miscarriage Brought Him Back To Church, Foster Parenting, Being A Father, and more. He has coached for many years and one of the most important things he talks about is what he says every child needs to hear from their dad and it is a message that every dad needs to listen to. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
44:03
February 8, 2021
Tony Alford, Coach OSU Buckeyes, Talks About What He Learned From His Dad About How To Be A Great Dad, His Journey to Ohio State, & More
Coach Tony Alford, Assistant Head Coach & Running Backs Coach for the Ohio State Buckeyes, shares some incredible stories about how his dad influenced him to be the man, husband, and father he is today. He gives insights and wisdom about all he has learned along his journey to Ohio State, his favorite memories, a few interesting stories about Dallas Cowboys running back, Ezekiel Elliott, and more. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
52:23
February 1, 2021
Bobby Robins, Former Boston Bruin & Oldest Rookie To Every Start In An NHL Game, talks about God's Plan For His Life, Overcoming Adversity & Addiction, & More
Bobby Robins, former Boston Bruin and the oldest rookie to ever make an NHL opening day roster, shares his amazing story of being on top of the world in the NHL to God saving him from a bottomless pit of drugs & alcohol addiction & more.  ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
48:33
January 25, 2021
Jim Morris, the inspiration for the Disney Movie The Rookie, Talks About His Relationship with Dennis Quaid, Disney, His Addiction, How The Movie Came About
Jim Morris, the inspiration for the Disney Movie The Rookie, talks about his relationship with Dennis Quaid, Disney, his addiction, an interesting meeting with Michael Eisner. He also talks candidly about his difficult relationship with his father, the close relationship he has with Dennis Quaid, the trials and tribulations he’s been through in the 20 years since the movie was released and much more. ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit. ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
52:03
January 17, 2021
Brodie Croyle, Former QB at University Of Alabama & Kansas City Chiefs, Talks About "My Struggle with Faith, Fatherhood, Football, & Fame"
Brodie shares powerful stories about the "WOW" moments in his life that he will never forget, how his dad started a legacy that he continues today, the night his wife opened her bible and it changed his life, his dad's interesting conversation with legendary University of Alabama Coach Bear Bryant, life-changing advice for fathers, and much more. Subscribe for a new interview every week!   ► Watch The Father Effect FREE 60 Minute Movie → https://youtu.be/9oCwfapxE0o Get the FREE Ebook! The Father Effect Interviews - Stories Every Father Needs To Hear http://ow.ly/hUxu30r5iNo ▼ The Father Effect Book: Amazon - http://ow.ly/yfL130qpaVc  ► FLOWPAGE - (All the ways to connect with John Finch) https://flow.page/thefathereffect  ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ABOUT THE FATHER EFFECT ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬  John seeks to break down the barriers that prevent men and women from addressing deep rooted anger and hurt from the wounds they have suffered in this life by candidly and openly sharing his story, his failings, and his path to a new way of life. John’s mission is to educate, encourage and equip men to become the fathers they were created to be, and to help men walk in daily awareness of their significant and lifelong influence as fathers. Through The Father Effect Movie & Book, John shares stories and messages that will move viewers & readers to a new awareness about the everlasting impact of fathers and the importance of forgiveness and authenticity in the relationships of this world. John has been married for 23 years. has three daughters and lives near Dallas, Texas and he is the founder of The Perfect Father Ministries Inc, a 501(c) non-profit.   ► Website → www.thefathereffect.com   ▼ The Father Effect social media: • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thefathereffect/ • Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheFatherEffect/ • Twitter → https://twitter.com/thefathereffect • Tag us on social media: #thefathereffect   ▼ John shares the key to finding forgiveness for his father https://youtu.be/u6V33REaldg   ▼ John shares about his struggle with anger and alcohol https://youtu.be/YUbY00xLolk   ▼ Best-Selling Author John Eldredge UNPLUGGED & Unedited in The Father Effect: https://youtu.be/fMRUYCS1GJY ▼ Speaking Inquiries | Media | Workshops:  www.thefathereffect.com
46:07
January 10, 2021