The Gift of Giving Life
By Sheridan
We will be sharing inspiring birth stories and thoughts from real women, scriptures, words of the prophets and other spiritual texts related to pregnancy and birth.
We do not advocate for any one type of birth or approach to prenatal care, rather we intends to unify our families and communities in regard to the sacredness of birth.
The Gift of Giving LifeFeb 21, 2022
One Family, Different Paths
Kara shares a tender experience with her adopted daughter as a baby,
letting her know, there were more babies on their way.
How they came to join their family
is a beautiful story
I am happy to share today.
Adoption - It Really is About Love!
I loved sharing this experience of Shari and the adoption of her son.
I also love that she took this experience and created a children's book
to help adopted children better understand
their journey to their "forever family"
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
Here is a link to Once Upon a Baby book.
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/adoption-it-really-is-about-love-giveaway/
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Adoption is a beautiful partnership between two mother's hearts
Giving the gift of life is sometimes
a partnership between two mother hearts
—a birth mother yearning for a loving home for the child in her womb
and another mother eagerly awaiting the child she has “grown” within her heart.
I hope you enjoy Judith’s story of the adoption of her second son as much as I did.
The Gift Best Given - Adoption Series
I loved being able to interview Edward who searched for his adoptive mother when he was 68 years old.
The information that he found led him on a journey that was eye opening and led to a greater appreciation for mothers and birth.
The Gift Best Given is his memoir that he wrote after years of delving into discovering his birth mother’s experience.
Sadly he started his search a few years after she passed away.But with DNA testing, Google and many miracles leading the way, he was able to learn so much!
Please sit back and enjoy this inspirational interview that kicks off our adoption series.
10 Tips to Create a Powerful Postpartum Plan!
We spend a lot of time preparing for our births
and many of us create a birth plan.
Here are 10 things to think of incorporating
into your Postpartum Plan!
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/postpartum-adjustment-plan/
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How the "Just Be Glad" Game helped Robyn through her postpartum struggle
Robyn had successfully navigated trials before,
but after her 5th baby, she struggled with finding any joy.
She shares a game that helped her to climb out of the pit
and learn to better manage
"being in the trenches" of motherhood.
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/the-just-be-glad-game-and-my-postpartum-struggle/
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10 Tips to Survive (in the moment) the Fourth Trimester
The Fourth Trimester concept is:
there is another three months of gestating
AFTER we give birth.
It often gets overlooked because we focus so much on the birth,
but the real test comes AFTER the baby arrives.
Here are 10 tips to help you survive!
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/the-fourth-trimester/
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Womb to Tomb
Heather shares -
This Easter thoughts about “the womb” and “the tomb” have been on my mind.
I have been thinking a lot about the lesson I learned after Abraham’s birth. In his birth story I wrote:
I got in the shower to clean up. As I rubbed soap over my belly I couldn’t help but think how strange it was that just earlier that morning, in the same shower, I’d rubbed soap over a full, pregnant belly. Now it was empty. I thought to myself, “Wow, where did it all go!” and the then the phrase “He is not here” pierced my heart and I found myself remembering another part from our “The Gift of Giving Life” book.3 Tips for Postpartum Success
Maranda Bower was a wonderful guest to interview for the podcast.
She is the CEO and founder of Postpartum University, supporting both mothers and professionals in health and whole body healing.
She’s a renowned expert in top educator in the fields of functional nutrition and coaching in relation to postpartum, and is nicknamed The Womb Whisperer, named as a bestselling author, international speaker, and has appeared in over 50 publications.
Her latest book is Reclaiming Postpartum Wellness, and it’s a number one bestseller now available on Amazon.
And she also has a podcast that I’ve enjoyed listening to.
She shares 3 specific things we can do to prepare for the 4th Trimester (postpartum) and make our transition to mothering easier.
- Create a Useful Support System
- Harness the Power of Nutrition
- Support your Nervous System Regulation
We also talk about different cultures and how they support postpartum women.
As well as how you and your baby are both on a journey!
[00:00:18] Meet Maranda
[00:01:53] What are some things we can do to prepare for the 4th Trimester?
[00:05:45] first have a support system in place
[00:07:48] Two - Harness the Power of Nutrition!
[00:11:42] 3 - Nervous System Regulation
[00:14:06] Understanding Intrusive Thoughts
[00:17:14] Malaysia’s System of Postpartum Support
[00:19:11] Meal Trains Can Be Helpful...... SOMETIMES
[00:20:22] You and Your baby are on a journey together
[00:22:14] Reclaiming Postpartum Wellness Book and where to find Maranda
Here is where you can find Maranda and her wonderful resources.
Reclaiming Postpartum Wellness
HELPFUL LINKS
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Taking on the Mantle of Motherhood
Those 2 moments of birth, when things really change for a woman.
When that mantle of motherhood comes upon her!
Heather shares some beautiful thoughts about these powerful moments
and how God give us this mantle to support us as we transition to mothering our babies.
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/the-mantle-of-motherhood/
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The Beauty and Healing Power of Art - Interview with Katie Garner
It was such a pleasure to talk with Katie and hear her insights and inspiration for many of her pregnancy/birth themed art.
From Eve
to Mary
to Heavenly Mother
to Jochebed
and more.
What were her inspirations to do these paintings
and how have the come to mean different things to different people.
TOPICS COVERED
[00:00:26] Meet Katie Garner
[00:01:07] Adam and Eve Series of Paintings
[00:02:18] Why is Eve never pregnant in paintings??
[00:03:22] "God Blessed me."
[00:04:17] Adam and Eve are not "distant" relatives.
[00:05:43] That They Might Have Joy
[00:07:03] Painting Eve and Mary Together
[00:08:45] Two Women with the Most Pivotal Roles
[00:10:23] Mother to Mother
[00:14:02] The power of God using Katie as a tool.
[00:15:09] Mother's Embrace
[00:17:46] Surrender
[00:19:43] Katie's Experience with The Gift of Giving Life
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/art-to-inspire-katie-garner/
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Thoughts on Love
"God is Love"
How can knowing this help us better understand the Atonement of Jesus Christ?
How can knowing this help us to better appreciate this Valentine's Season,
even if we are not being "showered" with love from others?
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/thoughts-on-love/
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Birth is a Great Teacher - Kelly mom of 8 shares some of what she learned from her births!
I loved hearing the things that Kelly learned with each of her 8 births.
From a cesarean, to a traumatic VBAC to many healing births and some challenging ones too.
Each one taught her something different.
Kelly is also a birth doula and childbirth educator and shares her knowledge with other expecting moms.
This was such a fun interview and I know you will learn a lot as Kelly shares her insights with us.
How to Connect with KellyInstagram/FB @MindfullyPreparedBirth
Southern Utah Locals can find me at PeacefulBirthChoices.com
Hyperemesis Gravidarum Helped Her Deeply Understand Submission and Consecration
Jayne struggled with Hyperemesis Gravidarum through 4 of her pregnancies.
It was wonderful to talk with her about her experience and hear the blessings that came from it.
"I found it didn't have to be a dark place if I was looking upward, and like reaching out to heaven and saying,
What does this experience have to offer me? What is here for me to learn?"
She also wrote a children's book When Mommies are Sick as well as a journal for other moms experiencing Hypermesis Gravidarum.
Definitely a must listen to episode!
TOPICS COVERED
[00:00:42] Meet Jayne - Mother and Author
[00:02:13] When Pregnancy Doesn't Go as You Imagined
[00:04:13] Her Doctor Dismissed Her Concerns!
[00:06:45] Learning to Track Symptoms and Speaking Up For Herself
[00:07:42] Challenges Don't Have to Bring You to a Dark Place
[00:08:50] Delving into Understanding Consecration
[00:11:00] Having the Courage and Strength to Have More Babies
[00:14:31] Diving Help was Needed to Make it Through Last Pregnancy
[00:16:12] Writing the Books
[00:20:22] Have the Courage to Be Imperfect
[00:22:12] Where to find Jayne and her books!
LINKS
Find Jayne Here
@mommingonpurpose
Amazon - When Mommies Get Sick and My HG Journal as well as Watching Over Angels
Gift of Giving Life Links
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Giving Birth to Motherhood
It was such a joy to interview Katie and Amie about their powerful new book.
This book and journal, helps to lead you through documenting and processing your birth experience.
Leading towards healing and hope.
HELPFUL LINKS
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https://amiemccrackenauthor.com/
https://katierossler.com/giving-birth-to-motherhood
IG: @katie.rossler
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Frankincense and Myrrh: Father and Mother
Frankincense is known as the king of oils.
Myrrh is known as the oil of Mother Earth.
When I learned about the spiritual powers
these two oils posses,
I was overcome with awe.
It gave new meaning to the gifts of frankincense and myrrh
that the wise men brought to the baby Jesus
as He left the premortal world
and His Heavenly Parents
to walk among men during His earthly sojourn.
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Empowering Mary: A Paradigm Shift on the Nativity Story
I’ve always felt at least a little uncomfortable
with the common modern renditions of the conditions of Christ’s birth:
Mary and Joseph travel to Bethlehem, poor and alone.
They reach the one inn in town,
Mary obviously ready to pop,
if not already in labor,
only to find it crowded
and run by a grumpy and inhospitable innkeeper
who gruffly forces them to leave.
In despair and urgency,
they take refuge in a stable among the animals and filth.
Alone and in the most squalid of circumstances imaginable,
the Christ child is born and
laid in the manger
where the cows and goats continue to nibble the hay out from under his head.
This weeks episode, we dive into another way it could have gone!
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Jesus, Once of Humble Birth
With Christmas approaching I have been
pondering the concept of “humble birth.”
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Did Mary Really Ride a Donkey to Bethlehem?
There are many beautiful works of art depicting Mary riding a donkey as Joseph led them to Bethlehem.
I never questioned whether or not Mary rode a donkey on her journey with Joseph.
However, as I was researching the symbolism of Mary riding a donkey to Bethlehem
and Christ riding a donkey as he entered Jerusalem in the Triumphal Entry,
I realized that the scriptures don’t actually say that Mary did.
In todays episode I share what Robyn learned while doing this research.
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Morgan discovers the power of the postpartum period
Morgan had a cesarean with her twin girls
and then a cesarean with her son.
She used some tips from the Creating a Sacred Cesarean
and got some of the things she really wanted with her second birth experience.
She also shares the magical time of those first 2 weeks after a baby is born.
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Hillary's Footling Breech Cesarean Birth
I can’t get over how different Isaac and Owen’s births were
—from delivering one spontaneously and picking him up within seconds of birth,
to not holding the other for well over half an hour after birth.
And yet, I don’t feel any different about them or their births.
Both were right for the situation we were in
Enjoy this wonderful birth story!
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
thegiftofgivinglife.com/hilarys-footling-breech-cesarean-birth
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Kristy's has a Positive Ceasarean Birth with her Breech Baby
I met Krysti on the Hypnobabies Yahoo Group.
She was planning a natural birth, but her baby was persistently breech.
It was interesting watching her journey as she had to make tough choices in regards to her babies birth.
I was excited to read her birth story and see how in the end she had a positive birth despite not going to her original desires.
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/spiritual-cesarean-section
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Jennifer's Healing Repeat Cesarean
there are so many things that I love about this story.
You can tell it made me emotional reading it
just how she was treated with respect
and they read her cesarean birth plan
and did the things she wanted in it.
I think this is why it is so important that everyone should be educated
on where they're going to birth at and choose carefully the hospitals
and care providers that you choose.
Some hospitals are very cesarean friendly,
meaning that they are friendly to mom and baby during cesareans,
and others are a little bit more old school.
Also, what I love is that she was able to have a positive healing cesarean birth,
even though it wasn't what she was planning for.
She was able to shift and then enjoy the birth experience she did.
Thank you so much, Jennifer, for sharing this story with us today
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/my-healing-repeat-cesarean-by-jennifer
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12 Tips to Creating a Sacred Cesarean
All births are spiritual, even cesareans.
There are steps you can take to help it be a more positive experience.
I share 12 plus steps you can take as you prepare for your cesarean!
Show notes
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/the-book/read-excerpts/creating-a-sacred-cesarean/
Clear Negative Birth Experiences
https://enjoy-life1.teachable.com/p/clear-negative-birth-experiences
Blessingway
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I was terrified to have another baby.
titles never can capture all the awesomeness of my interviews.
I love that a hymn helped Bronwyn to have courage to move forward through her fears.
After her preemie was born at 26 weeks via classical cesarean, having another baby was high risk and doing a VBAC even a higher risk.
I love the many different paths and guidance that God gave Bronwyn, to have not 1, but 2 babies after her preemie.
Her 5th baby she calls her Hallelujah baby, which I love.
Listen to find out why!
TOPICS
[00:00:56] One of the Original book owners!
[00:01:45] Wanted a homebirth for my first birth, but was talked out of it.
[00:03:09] Mis-date on 2nd pregnancy, almost ended up with disaster.
[00:04:05] Long Birth with a Beautiful Birth Pause
[00:05:16] Miscarriage - then preemie born same date as the miscarriage due date
[00:06:42] Cesarean at 26 weeks 4 days
[00:08:24] I knew there was more babies, and it terrified me.
[00:08:53] A Hymn 3 times in a row was an answer to her prayer
[00:10:46] Pregnant with Baby Number 4 - no homebirth options available
[00:13:01] A miscarriage, and sadness about wanting baby 5.
[00:14:22] My husband felt done, but I didn't.
[00:15:01] My Hallelujah Baby
[00:16:20] It was so powerful to sit with my Dad and my Son while they were Both Straddling the Veil
[00:17:47] I had a Great homebirth, but difficult recovery.
[00:19:16] Each birth had a special learning message
[00:21:06] Advice for new moms - create your own story
LINKS
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/i-was-terrified-to-have-another-baby
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Giving Away 2 Books and a Change with the Podcast
We are doing a give away of 2 books - 1 book for each winner. :)
1 copy of Swaddle Me Up: Baby Wrapping and Baby Wearing for Everyone
and 1 copy of The Gift of Giving Life.
Details on our Instagram Page
or at the Show Notes if you don't have Instagram.
Also I am changing our podcast episode frequency, to every other week!
When I do interviews, it is very time consuming to edit and get everything posted,
so I took it to God and got the OK to change the frequency.
I feel ok about it, because we have so many episodes now, I know when new listeners come, they can go back and listen to older episodes. :)
Show Notes
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/some-changes-are-coming-and-a-giveaway/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giftofgivinglife/
The Imagery of Me Being the Veil Carried Me Through the Birth
This was a wonderful interview with Liz, who shared 2 birth stories.
One where she felt angels singing as her baby was born.
Another where the understanding of her role as the veil helped carry her through challenging parts of her birth.
There are a lot of other wonderful gems in this interview.
Sit back and enjoy!
TOPICS
[00:01:26] "I fell in love with the book"
[00:02:09] Such an incredible experience with second birth
[00:03:53] The Thinness of the Veil During Birth
[00:05:40] Mental Preparation Needed for being Patient
[00:09:04] Allowing Baby Time to Say Goodbye to Pre-Existence
[00:11:16] Live in the Moment
[00:13:15] Birth is a beautiful start to our parenting journey
[00:13:52] Birth as a Testimony of God the Creator
This weeks episode transcripts and links –
Find Liz here - https://www.instagram.com/lizmjwoodfield/
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/woman-as-veil
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Placenta Burying Ritual is Easy and Meaningful
When Phoebe was 18 months old I realized that I still had her placenta in my freezer.
I had just started to date (I was a single mom through most of my pregnancy),
and a boyfriend found the placenta box and asked, “What’s this?”
That’s when I realized it was time to do something with it.
I had always planned on burying it under a tree,
but I wondered if there was some sort of ceremony I could perform.
Todays episode is the ceremony that Felice did with her placenta.
If you want to do a ceremony - check out the show notes!
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes – http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/placenta-burying-ritual
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What are Good Noises to Make While Pushing?
I have moms ask about making noises while pushing
and thought this episode would be a great way
to demonstrate different sounds
as well as other ways we use our voice while birthing.
TOPICS COVERED
[00:00:37] Audio is better to demonstrate pushing
[00:01:03] It is normal to make or not make noises while pushing
[00:01:26] A Few Pushing Options
[00:02:19] Breathe Baby Out
[00:02:24] Grunting
[00:02:43] Roaring
[00:04:01] Swearing
[00:04:18] Calling on Heavenly Help
[00:05:29] Cavewomen Type Communication
[00:06:15] Noises Are Our Friends
[00:06:52] Lower Noises are Better
[00:07:51] Holding your Breath and Bearing Down
[00:09:07] Be Flexible
[00:09:28] Low is Open and Down
[00:09:35] I hope you enjoyed these real life examples
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes – http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/pushing-noises
Links to You Tube Pushing Videos mentioned in episode
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The Power of a Mother’s Prayer
I have been feeling discouraged in my motherhood lately,
wondering if anything I am doing really matters.
I yearn to change the world in big ways,
and sometimes feel so limited by the walls of my home and the needs of my children.
Yet, as I watched Elder Eyring speak about his mother
I had a powerful realization that what I am doing as a mother
is one of the most important things I will ever do,
and that I am exactly where I need to be.
In today's episode we will hear what Elder Eyring said and how it inspired Heather.
HELPFUL LINKS
Find show notes here http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/the-power-of-a-mothers-blessing
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
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The Power of Prayer Creates a Miracle during Amanda's 2nd Pregnancy
Amanda had 2 very inspirational stories to share with us on this weeks episode.
- The Power of Prayer turned a nightmare into a miracle
- The timing of turning her will over to God, regarding having a 3rd baby, was indeed divine.
As well as some really great advice.
- Ask lots of questions
- Still do your normal things!
And more.
TOPICS
[00:00:32] Meet Amanda [00:01:52] The Power of Prayer Creates a Miracle for Amanda's 2nd Baby [00:06:09] Turning over her will to God, Amanda gets to the point to be willing to have another baby. [00:10:52] Advice for other Moms - Ask All the Questions! [00:12:36] You will be in survival mode - but still do your normal things! [00:13:46] You grew a human, so you can do hard things! [00:14:18] Find friends that are a step ahead of you. [00:14:47] Motherhood is like a Mission [00:16:13] Where to find AmandaHELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/
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Find Amanda Here
https://www.instagram.com/writtenritmos
https://www.youtube.com/c/WrittenRitmos
Tik Tok - writtenritmos
2 Vivid Blessings Reassure Jessica on Her Path to Her Rainbow Baby
Jessica, mom of 1 year old Julia, had quite the journey getting her here to earth.
I was inspired by her faith and the experiences that helped her,
pre-conception as she suffered through a miscarriage,
then struggled to get pregnant
and then throughout her pregnancy and birth.
Listen in as we talk.
Topics Covered
[00:00:12] Meet Jessica
[00:00:46] Jessica has Felt Spiritually Uplifted from Listening to the Gift of Giving Life Podcast
[00:02:28] Married at 26, got pregnant quickly, but then miscarried
[00:04:43] Willing to share and be open about her miscarriage, helped others
[00:06:26] Jessica attends her sisters homebirth, and is amazed.
[00:08:33] Jessica's Baby Conceived 2 weeks after watching her sister birth.
[00:08:52] A blessing while being set apart, brings reassurance.
[00:10:35] A second blessing at the hands of her family, helped ease worries
[00:13:27] Pregnancy was Easy and Birth Started Easily too.
[00:15:07] "My mom thought I was at 2 or 3 cm, based on how I was acting. I was actually at a 7!"
[00:15:25] Pushing the baby out did not go as expected.
[00:18:11] Jessica's sister helped clear a block, that helped her to push more effectively.
[00:19:15] 15 minutes later, her baby is born!
[00:20:07] This sweet baby girl has changed everything, so many unexpected blessings.
[00:21:16] 2 big take aways!
[00:22:27] Why it is so important to take natural childbirth classes!
[00:25:40] It is OK if things don't go according to plan, Gather Knowledge, make a plan, then relax.
Helpful Links
Find Jessica Here – in the Natural Birth LDS Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/430856127077281
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/jessicas-triumphant-journey
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Needing Extra Courage to Have Baby 7 - Kayla Moves Forward with Faith
5 days after Kayla's 6th birth, she had a very scary experience and it made her plead to God to not have any more babies.
God reassured her that it was OK and there was that baby girl still waiting for her.
She did go on to have a safe and successful hospital birth,
Welcoming her last baby to the earth.
Topics Covered
[00:00:17] Kayla Introduction
[00:00:59] Strange Symptoms for Kayla - Lead to some Scary Moments 5 days after his birth
[00:04:00] Seeing God's Hand in the Timing
[00:05:38] Checking Kayla's Heart
[00:07:11] A blessing helps things to shift
[00:12:00] Begging Heavenly Father to Be Done Having Kids
[00:13:35] A positive pregnancy test! I cried all day.
[00:17:49] I finally felt that I was done having kids!
[00:18:17] Reflections - twists and turns and guidance along the way
[00:18:48] Kayla's advice for other moms
Helpful Links
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/needing-extra-courage-to-have-baby-7-kayla-moves-forward-with-faith/
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Waiting for Baby Jacob – Kayla has 5 Babies Trying to Have Him!
Kayla knew from when she was a teenager she would have a boy and his name would be Jacob.
It took her quite a bit longer than she expected to have him!
He ended up being baby number 5!
In this part of the interview you will hear about her first 6 births.
Ranging from 3 medicated hospital births, to a birth at home where the midwife didn’t make it in time.
Topics Covered
[00:00:43] Spiritual Impressions About Children Starting as a Teenager
[00:01:17] First Baby - Kayla was planning an epidural
[00:03:22] 2nd Pregnancy - a boy - Is this Jacob?
[00:05:29] Baby 3 - Try to go natural again - But Coughing Attacks Interfere
[00:06:30] Always right about intuition about gender - 4th baby never "revealed" herself on ultrasound, but Kayla knew she was a girl.
[00:08:23] Husband Plays a Role in Helping Kayla with Natural Birth for her 4th [00:09:50] Kayla decided she needed a break after baby #4, but Baby 5 came quickly
[00:10:22] Jacob's Spiritual Birth
[00:14:30] Baby 6 - a wild ride - SPD
[00:15:30] Wanted to be done having kids - but knew there was still a girl
[00:17:04] 6th birth starts
[00:19:22] Where's the Midwife??
[00:21:47] Reflections - twists and turns and guidance along the way
Helpful Links
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes - http://www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/waiting-for-baby-jacob
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Tips for Surviving Grief and also Supporting Those Who Are Grieving
McKenna shared her experience last week of losing her 11 month old baby girl.
Today we will hear her tips for surviving and healing through grief
as well as tips for those of us loving and supporting someone through grief.
Topics Covered
Feeling Supported Right After Loss
[00:05:30] Be OK that They are Not OK
[00:07:03] Transmute the sadness into a greater love
[00:10:12] Reach up instead of horizontally
Helpful Links
Find McKenna Here
Instagram @mothersofedennft
Twitter Mothersofeden
www.mothersofeden.com
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2 Beautiful Unassisted Births, where Healing from a Loss Intertwines
McKenna shares 2 beautiful birth stories.
Claire was an unassisted birth which was lovely.
Sadly she died in an accident at 11 months old.
McKenna discovered she was pregnant a month after Claire died and after a pregnancy filled with grief,
she had a healing birth of Eden,
exactly a year after Claire's death.
Listen to this beautiful and tender story, have kleenexes ready.
Segments
[00:01:27] Introducing McKenna
[00:02:42] Finding the Podcast
[00:03:33] Shifting from traditional care to midwifery
[00:06:25] Traveling in a RV while pregnant with her 3rd baby
[00:08:04] Impressed to birth Unassisted
[00:10:50] Questioning my Impression
[00:11:09] A Midwifes Comment Was Just What I Needed
[00:12:34] Claire's Unassisted Birth
[00:14:37] The Loss of Claire at 11 months, Grief and Healing
[00:15:37] Birth Experience was a preparation for understanding intuition and trusting myself.
[00:17:00] Found out she was Pregnant one month later
[00:17:56] A Questioning and Refining Time
[00:20:47] Eden's Birth
[00:23:47] Eden adjusting to life in her body
[00:25:00] So important to hear this story
Helpful Links
Find McKenna Here
Instagram @mothersofedennft
Twitter Mothersofeden
www.mothersofeden.com
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes -
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/mckenna-2-births
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Do You have Sneeze Pee Problems? There is Hope!
I was so happy to hear Orchid say, there is hope for my sneeze pee problems!
Orchid is a prenatal and postpartum yoga instructor and has created an online class for moms with fix any ab separation and fix any pelvic floor dysfunction.
This is part 2 of my interview with her.
She shares 3 don'ts for postpartum exercising.
And she shares her inspiration for creating Reconnection Ab Lab.
Topics Covered
[00:02:02] postnatal recovery tips
[00:02:09] no sit ups!
[00:03:36] no frontal planks
[00:04:29] do not do double leg lifts
[00:05:00] true confessions - I still have sneeze pee, 16 years after my last birth, can it help me???
[00:08:14] What inspired you to create Ab Lab?
[00:09:52] Orchid couldn't walk after her
[00:11:01] fixing abs can fix a lot of problems
[00:12:52] doctors don't have the answers
[00:16:29] where to find Orchid
[00:17:32] conclusion
Helpful Links
Find Orchid Here
https://www.instagram.com/orchidcameron/
https://reconnectionablab.com/
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/do-you-have-sneeze-pee-problems-there-is-hope/
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5 Simple Steps for Good Mental Health During the Newborn Stage
Orchid, a prenatal and postnatal yoga instructor shares 5 steps for good mental health after the baby is born.
- Have I taken a shower?
- Have I eaten?
- Am I sleeping?
- Am I exercising?
- Have I called a friend?
She also shares other tips for new moms to help them adjust.
This is after sharing her own journey of taking a year to get pregnant with her 2nd child.
Join us for this entertaining episode (Orchid is a comedian and keeps us laughing throughout!)
Topics Covered
[00:02:16] Finding a Community of Women who are amazed by birth. [00:04:34] our bodies are amazing [00:06:02] Took a year to get pregnant with baby number 2 [00:07:22] Sitcom moment of announcing the pregnancy [00:08:00] so many struggle with fertility and loss - you are not alone [00:08:54] fear of baby dying was BIG [00:10:19] when a fart is an answer to a prayer [00:11:10] when overwhelmed and sleep deprived - try to remember how much you wanted this baby [00:11:45] don't overcorrect husbands [00:13:20] find your community [00:14:08] find vitamin "community" [00:14:43] basic 5 list for good mental health after baby [00:17:04] find Orchid here [00:19:00] conclusionHelpful Links
Find Orchid Here
https://www.instagram.com/orchidcameron/
https://reconnectionablab.com/
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/5-steps-good-mental-health
Get your copy of The Gift of Giving Life on Amazon https://amzn.to/3LUcGn5
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Angels Stood Guard at Melissa's Birth (VBA3C)
I loved interviewing Melissa and hearing her experiences and wisdom.
As a mom of 8 and birth worker, she had amazing things to share.
I especially loved her experiences with angels at her VBA3C.
Topics and Time Stamps
[00:00:12] Book Review
[00:00:58] Meet Melissa - Mom of 8 and a Birth Worker
[00:01:51] One of Our First Readers!
[00:02:42] Reading The Gift of Giving Life Increased Her Spirituality
[00:04:07] Turning To God, Pleading for Chance to Have a VBA3C
[00:07:18] Angels at the Birth Tub
[00:10:45] I Have to Do This Myself!
[00:12:10] Advice to Other Moms - Trust Your Instincts!
[00:14:45] VBAC Support and Information
[00:19:02] How to Find Melissa
Helpful Links from todays podcast
Find Melissa at birthwithmelissa.com
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How Maile harnessed the power of spiritual creation with her last birth.
Sadly, there were a few connection issues while we were recording. I tried to edit them best I could, but you can always read the show notes if it isn't clear. www.thegiftofgivinglife/maile-harnessed-the-power
[00:00:31] Meet Maile and learn a bit about her 8 births [00:01:49] Feeling the presence of another baby [00:04:32] How Maile's 5th Pregnancy helped her better appreciate the Atonement of Jesus Christ. [00:05:52] Covid Uncertainty led Maile to choose her first homebirth for her 8th baby [00:07:02] The power of affirmations in preparing for her homebirth [00:09:00] The power of spiritual creation [00:10:45] Affirmation tips [00:12:57] Trust that God will help you parent your childrenHelpful Links
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes –
www.thegiftofgivinglife.com/maile-harnessed-the-power
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He was Unexpected, but I Chose to Have Him, Which makes Him even sweeter to me
Meleah found herself unexpectedly pregnant with her 5th baby and it was a struggle to accept. Especially because it seemed like the Lord went silent.
This is the 2nd half of my interview with Meleah, where she shares how she started seeing the Lord in her life again.
How life is even sweeter with Miles in it.
She shares how a part of the Gift of Giving Life, that she thought SHOULDN’T be in the book, she now appreciates that it is there. This experience has brought her greater understanding.
She also shares how she sees God’s hand as she has started being a doula again.
She shares about her new book about baby wrapping and wearing
and so much more!
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes – http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/he-was-unexpected-but-i-chose-to-have-him-which-makes-it-even-sweeter/
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Unexpected 5th Baby, Creates a Challenging Pregnancy
It was such a pleasure to do this interview with Meleah about her unexpected pregnancy of her 5th baby.
She was so honest and vulnerable as she shared her and her husbands experience and emotions as they faced this situation, during the already tulmultuous time of being in lockdown during Covid.
This is part 1, where she shares her struggles and how it felt like The Lord was silent throughout the pregnancy.
Our next episode will be part 2 and she shares how everything turned out.
HELPFUL LINKS
You can find Meleah at www.innerstrengthbirth.com
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes – http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/unexpected-5th-baby-creates-a-challenging-pregnancy/
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God Prepared Them Both!
It was so great to be able to talk to Meggan in this interview.
Meggan is a mom of 8 children.
She had an amazing experience with her 4th baby, where she was prepared by God to have an unassisted birth. Also her friend who was there at the birth, had a dream before hand, where she was tutored to know exactly what to do.
Take a few minutes to listen to this amazing interview.
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes – http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/god-prepared-them-both/
Get your copy of The Gift of Giving Life Book here
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The Spirit Reassured Me it was Safe to have More Babies!
After Valerie had her 3rd baby, her doctor advised her to not have any more.
The Spirit reassured her it was ok to and also led her on a journey of healing.
She turned to natural healing methods and after years of healing, she got a second opinion of having more babies and got the OK
She went on to have 5 more babies!
I loved interviewing Valerie.
She was one of my Hypnobabies Student – 2 times, for baby number 7 and 8!
I also was her doula for those 2 births.
She had Toxemia (high blood pressure) during her 3rd birth and was told to have no more children.
However, that didn’t feel right to her and she had a spiritual experience to reassure her she would be safe having more children.
This led her on a path to alternative medicine. This allowed her to become strong enough to have more children. She got a second opinion and changed careproviders and went on to have 5 more children!
I was amazed at the story she shared about her friend who broke multiple bones and after a surgery was struggling with pain. Valerie felt inspired to lend her friend her Hypnobabies CDs and they made a huge difference.
Valerie also shares how Hypnobabies has helped her after having babies.
Of course, she shares her birth experiences and it will be especially interesting to moms who have had posterior babies, as all 8 of her babies presented that way.
HELPFUL LINKS
This weeks episode transcripts and/or show notes – http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/the-spirit-reassured-me-it-was-safe-to-have-more-babies/
Get your copy of The Gift of Giving Life Book here
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My favorite birth, I didn't attend!
When one of my dear friends got preganant and wanted me to be her doula,
I really wanted to be there,
but her guess date was near a cruise my family had planned.
She had other friends that were planning on being there too,
which ended up being a good thing,
as she had a major change of plans the day before I left!
Listen to hear the miracles that happened.
Jesus "Gets It"
I have been thinking about the Atonement of Jesus Christ lately.
We talk a lot about it in church and we all sort of theoretically get that he descended below all and some way, which neither chemistry or physics can explain, took upon Himself all of our sins, suffering and pain.
I’ve used the Atonement many times in my life, for repentance, but mostly for the healing from sorrows and pain.
And it amazingly works.
But each time something new and painful or sorrowful comes up in my life I have to stop and think, is this something God understands and cares about?
And then, each time, I wonder: How do I do this? How do I access the Atonement?
I am writing this to remind myself and anyone reading that yes, this is something God cares about and he does get it.
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Watch With Me - Were the Apostles Experiencing Sympathy Pains?
We have an Easter Slant on sympathy pains and discuss how watching with people, holding space is helpful, in all challenging situations.
I don’t know if Christ’s apostles could see Him as He prayed. The scriptures aren’t entirely clear. Perhaps they could see Him or yearned to help Him. Or perhaps they could simply feel a small portion of the heaviness and pain projecting from Him as He accomplished the Atonement. They offered “sacred support” in much the way fathers and doulas support their wives and clients through childbirth (see “A Father’s Sacred Support” in The Gift of Giving Life). They could not remove His burden, but I suspect they were able to feel some of the weight of it as they struggled to remain conscious.
The Sacrament and the First Trimester
Robins musings as she attends Sacrament Meeting in the midst of the struggles of the First Trimester.
Here is a snippet:
My mind turned to the Savior. He was tired – heavy the scriptures say. Was he overcome with nausea as his body lurched forward taking upon Him the sins of all mankind? I’m sure his bones ached with tiredness. I sat humbled knowing that the cup that He begged taken away was not removed but filled to the brim and consumed willingly. What He suffered for me was much more than I can comprehend, so much more than what I felt or would ever feel. My heart turned to Him and I was grateful for the blessing to give life in similitude of the Savior who gave life to all mankind through the power of the Atonement.
Oh How Lovely Was the Morning
I am likely not the only woman to have felt her “mind called up to serious reflection” regarding the war of words concerning pregnancy and childbirth.
Each pregnancy and birth has brought feelings that were especially “deep and often poignant.”
Every time I have felt a certain measure of conflict inside me between the fear-based medicine of the world and the faith-based wisdom of God.
I can never take for granted that I know it all.
Each pregnancy has offered me the opportunity to study and pray, and, because each time I have lacked wisdom, I ask God.
How a Hymn Helped Valerie Have a Deeper Understanding of the Atonement
I loved Valerie's insights she got
when she was pondering how Jesus could understand childbirth.
She was inspired to look up a Hymn
and it gave her a deeper understanding of The Atonement.