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The Honey Files

The Honey Files

By Tanisha
Diving head first into ADULTING, The Honey Files breaks through our mundane routines by sharing vital information for living your SWEETEST life.
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Episode 79 Family Owes You Nothing

The Honey Files

Episode 79 Family Owes You Nothing

The Honey Files

Is this the end of the podcast? Idk yet.....but as for TANISHA? ✌🏽 byeeeeee
December 26, 2020
Dec Podcast Challenge Episode 5&6
I'm tipsy. Receive the message or keep it moving.
December 6, 2020
Dec Podcast Challenge DAY 4
Better late than never..
December 5, 2020
Dec Podcast Challenge Day 3 Ep 135
Why are we acting like this World is not changing? Why are we so damn resistant?
December 3, 2020
Dec Podcast Challenge Day 2 Episode 134
Talking about shadow work....
December 2, 2020
Dec Podcast Challenge Day 1 (The Real Episode 133)
I'm gonna do it......
December 1, 2020
133 Creator & You: Your Path
No shade, just tea leaves being read.
November 30, 2020
Episode 131 Detach Emotional Well-being From Outcomes
It is SO IMPORTANT that we learn to detach our emotional stability from outcomes that are outside of our control. Especially when it comes to corruption.
November 8, 2020
Episode 130 Surviving the Election from Hell
Uplifting messages to get you through the results of Election 2020.
November 2, 2020
Spiritual Influencers & Your GOD SELF
Chatting about online influencers that influence our spiritual journey....
October 26, 2020
Lookin' For Love Turns to Self- Love
This is a part 2 to Where's My Husband? It's a storytime!
October 12, 2020
A Time to Divest Part 2 Episode 126
It's time to divest from European shit.....
October 4, 2020
A Time to Divest : Part 1
I may get some static, but it's time to keep it real....
September 27, 2020
Episode 122 "Ok, Im back..."
I couldnt think of a name for this epsiode but i left and came back twice and said "ok im back...." as if yall were waiting that whole time 😊
June 8, 2020
Episode 120 In an Introspective Mood
I don't know how I feel right now, but I'm choosing to be in gratitude.
May 25, 2020
Episode 119 Is Your Home 100?
Change starts within YOUR home, not telling others what to do. #NoteToSelf #NoteToOthers
May 17, 2020
Episode 117 My Gifts Are Not Mine to Keep
It's in the title
May 10, 2020
Episode 117 Just Chatting
Did some Inner Child work this morning and this is what came up.....
May 3, 2020
The "Superiors" & Prayer
Stay focused on your path. Don't let your ego create unnecessary detours. And they say there is no correct way to pray......there is....
April 26, 2020
Episode 115 Fellas, Y'all Alright???
The masculine energy is AWRY!!! Y'all wylin!!! 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 but STAY GROUNDED , you got this πŸ’ͺ🏾πŸ’ͺ🏾πŸ’ͺ🏾
April 19, 2020
Episode 114 We Remember
You are not crazy, YOU ARE REMEMBERING! IG: @thehoneyfilespodcast | @tanishavlog
April 12, 2020
Episode 113 Complacency IS NOT AN OPTION
I may ruffle some feathers with this one, but like I said- PLAYTIME IS OVER!!!!
April 5, 2020
I hope you see now that the only thing true and real are PEOPLE and NATURE.
March 29, 2020
Episode 111 Mind Your Thoughts
Fellas, how yall feel? Ladies, yall alright?? This episode is a mashup of a few edits that I feel are important to reiterate during these times. I am also giving out free readings for clarity and guidance during this time. SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY.
March 22, 2020
Episode 110 Find Your Center in Chaos
During our quarantine, use this time to apply pressure towards your heart's desires πŸ’• don't stop creating.
March 15, 2020
Episode 109 My 34th Trip THE BIGGER PICTURE
Happy Birthday to me. I celebrated my birthday on March is my birthday message.
March 9, 2020
Episode 108 ZERO STATIC
We will not deal with any static this year.
March 1, 2020
Episode 107 A Rant II
I gave y'all a break last week- now I'm ranting 🀣🀣🀣 just laugh and chat with me y'all.....
February 23, 2020
Episode 106 MY BITCHY WAYS
I'm not all PEACE LOVE AND LIGHT. Some days I'm ready to box a hoe, cuss you out for filth, and of course..... road rage.
February 9, 2020
Episode 105 A Channeled Message III MOVE NOW
This will not resonate with everyone, but there is a message here for someone.
February 4, 2020
Episode 104 SUPPORT
Supporting others (business-related) can be a complex situation. Allow me to explain.... WEEKLY AFFIRMATION: Is this who I am becoming???
January 26, 2020
Episode 103 DO YOUR OWN THING feat The BLACKpack plan
I'm tired of myself and others complaining about not being included. MAKE YOUR OWN SHIT OR STFU.
January 19, 2020
Episode 102 Feel Your Feelings
In order to get to the other side, you have to go through it.
January 13, 2020
Ep. 101 Shift Your Entire Mindset
On today's episode of #TheHoneyFilesPodcast we are discussing 1. Shifting Your Money Mindset 2. Shifting Your Perception of Self 3. Shifting Your Goals to Align with Higher Self
January 5, 2020
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 19 Luxury is a State of Mind
HAPPY 100th!!! Yesterday, I chatted with you about living a life of luxury. Today, let's being to reframe the idea of luxurious living.
December 19, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 18
Luxury IS Spirituality.......i think this is a topic we will explore for the next few days......
December 18, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 14-17
I knew the DAYS would come when i started slacking. LOL. Podding is hard! But we perservere....
December 18, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 12-13
Happy Friday the 13th! This episode is all about HOW TO SET INTENTIONS and CLEAN YOUR HOME SPACE. Includes a brief history lesson.
December 13, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 10-11
I was sad these past few days. Maybe the full moon. Maybe PMS. This episode is to be continued.....
December 12, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 9 Know When To Shut Up
I really didn't have anything to say and so I shut up. Wish most people put here would do that.
December 9, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 6-8
I smashed the days together
December 9, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 5 Blessings Come In
My blessings are FLOWING in ! So much so that I needed a full day to tell you about it.....
December 6, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 4 Things Turn Around
My #AttitudeOfGratitude List featuring that time I almost died in a dream....also Grandma Elsie is my GREAT Great Grandmother. What a blessing to have known her πŸ’•
December 4, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 3 Stop Complaining
I had to quit complaining ...
December 3, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 2 Still Pushing Through
I go back to work today and I CAN'T! This is 100% of the reason why I am choosing a gratitude challenge......gotta be thankful in order to push through !
December 2, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge DAY 1 - INTRO to THE CHALLENGE
Welcome back to another year of the #DecemberPodcastChallenge, where everyday I upload a podcast episode! This year..... I'm doing a challenge within a challenge ! Hit play.....
December 1, 2019
Episode 88 Persistance
Now is ususlly the time I isolate......
November 21, 2019
Episode 87 A Cautionary Love Spell Tale
2 times I did love spells. 1 was most definitely intentional. The other was not. Both backfired. This is a mild case of consequences when you fuck around with love spells.
November 7, 2019
Episode 86 New Moon & Barrels of Laughter
Today's chat is about new moon intentions, my meeting with Laughter Yoga Leader Kiran Bhagat (@revolutionaryogini) and breaking down the phrase 'Barrels of Laughter'. The Weekly Affirmation for this week: I AM NOT ASHAMED TO EXPRESS MYSELF. Be sure to like comment subscribe share review for the success of #TheHoneyFilesPodcast
October 27, 2019
Episode 85 The Adjustment Phase
After the Transitional Phase comes the Adjustment Phase. Where all of the fruits of your labor get settled and you learn how to work the options you choose instead of the letting the options work you! followed by: a little chat on my "love" life, my gray hair, being rebellious and starting a #vlog be sure to catch up on past #podcast episodes in the bio | like subscribe share comment review wherever you listen to #TheHoneyFilesPodcast Be sure to subscribe to my YouTube Channel through the link in the bio!
October 20, 2019
Episode 84 Food, Forgiveness and Personality v Self
I had alot to get off my chest. I couldn't split up the episode. Sorry, no visual episode this time around ! But coming soon
October 8, 2019
Episode 83 Spirituality Rant
This is SPECIFICALLY for my honeypots that struggle with the judgement of family and friends that think you're the devil cause you don't go to church anymore πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ also .....this is my first VISUAL EPISODE πŸ’• go check me out on YouTube !
September 25, 2019
Episode 82 Activism & Advocacy Today
Does your activism/ advocacy incite progressive change or perpetual anger?
September 11, 2019
Minisode: I Only Share What I GROW Through
The message is 4:44 long. and I dont do coincidences.
September 1, 2019
i was supposed to talk about something else.....
August 28, 2019
Episode 80 You Are Valuable
Your value is not defined by your money, it is defined by this.....
August 18, 2019
Episode 79 Family Owes You Nothing
You do not owe your life to your family. Your family does not owe you their life. We are only entitled to unconditional love. Hear me out.....
August 9, 2019
It Ain't For Everybodyyyyyy! This week of #TheHoneyFiles is 100% spirit lead! If it resonates with you, then it's time to do the work! Weekly Affirmation & πŸ’₯NewπŸ’₯ Tarot Message πŸƒ
August 2, 2019
Episode 77 Resistance & Anxiety
on Episode 77 I discuss with you the importance of releasing resistance to receive your desired outcome.
July 24, 2019
Episode 76 A Lesson Learned
I been RELEASING chile. You'll probably be able to even hear it my voice- I ain't got time. Episode 76: A LESSON LEARNED I'm chatting about #TheAlchemist , #resistance, #gratitude and the consequences of not completing your divine work. LISTEN TO Somewhere In Between with Fancie HERE:
July 14, 2019
Episode 75 Attitude Adjustment
I needed an Attitude Adjustment, so here's me talking through an adjustment | Also this is prep for the emotionally chaotic month we will have in June | listen to #ARealBlackAssEpisode Series HERE:
June 30, 2019
Episode 74: A Real Black Ass Episode , Are We Free?
Are We Free? How much of our culture have we censored & stripped to wave off systemic racism?
June 19, 2019
Episode 73 Social Responsibility
Do we have a social responsibility to others or what? Here's my take on it.....
June 9, 2019
Summertime GrindTime
We're grinding for the 3rd Quarter!!!
May 27, 2019
To shave or not to shave ? Today, I'm chatting about the BEAUTIFICATION OF SELF in correlation to your spiritual journey! Be sure to keep up with #TheHoneyFiles on IG: @thehoneyfilespodcast
May 19, 2019
Episode 70 Venting: Misogyny
get out of the yesteryear or get cussed TF out.
May 7, 2019
Ep 69: Self-Sabotage
Self-Sabotage is self-destructive behaviors that turn into HABITSπŸ™„ let's chat!
April 23, 2019
BEING INTENTIONAL is.... - PURPOSEFUL ACTIONS & WORDS and oftentimes we are stuck on Auto-Pilot/Everyday Routines. let's snap out of it.
April 13, 2019
Ancestor Veneration
Do you feed or thank your great grandmother although she has passed on? Does your Auntie have a table in her living room adorned in a white runner with the family Bible and cracked black and white photos of her great great grandma? Then you should know about Ancestor Veneration | During the recording of this episode, I received the news about #NipseyHussle bring murdered..... I had to share my thoughts on the leader of the Black Economic Renaissance. ASÉ
April 1, 2019
Let it Go: Childhood Issues
Welcome to #TheHoneyFiles πŸ―πŸŒ»πŸ’•it's 2019 and way past time for you to release those childhood issues !
March 24, 2019
Hello New Listeners & Subscribers ! Welcome to #TheHoneyFiles πŸ―πŸŒ»πŸ’• β€’ this episode delves into the WHY behind this podcast and the importance it has played in my life.
March 24, 2019
#BlackLove sustains a community not just two people. Let's get into it....
February 19, 2019
Catching Up With You
Happy Starday! Announcements and catching up!
February 10, 2019
Let's Read: Jambalaya by Luisa Teish Preface
Read Books & Giveaways ! This month we are reading, Jambalaya: The Natural Woman's Book of Personal Charms & Practical Rituals *****Sponsorship Free***** Tune in for this week's giveaway! offer ends on SUNDAY!
February 5, 2019
I ❀️ Money
You Good? : Recapping last week's episode Let's Chat: Changing our relationship with money Weekly Affirmation: Money Spells
January 27, 2019
Finding Purpose
Is there a requirement to finding your purpose? Get into this old episode! And dont forget to connect on IG @thehoneyfilespodcast OR
January 20, 2019
S2E2: Who Are You?
Who Are You? can you answer that with assurance ?
January 13, 2019
S2E1 : Change Your Routine
New Year , New Format! Special thanks to MakaihBeats for the opening tunes! The Chopra Center Article : IG: @Thehoneyfilespodcast
January 6, 2019
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 27- 29| What's Time?
Sharing my thoughts on the concept of Time
December 30, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 27 -29 | Still Learning The Lesson
Still going through growing pains with my partner
December 30, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 23-26 | I Like This Feeling
Capitalism ain't for everybody
December 27, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 18-19 | Real Talk
Honesty is the best policy when working on personal growth. Today, I share a truth about myself that I've been in denial about for 3 years.....
December 19, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 17 | Space Nigg(Hard R)
They deleted my meme on Instagram (@illuminatiimamii) and I got something to say about it.
December 17, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 16 | Give People Space
Chatting about toxic narratives surrounding relationships. Yes, this s piggybacking off of the Cardi B & Offset scandal.
December 17, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 13-15 | Social Anxiety
most people would describe me as an extrovert. that doesn't stop me from having social anxiety. I'ma ramble my way through this....
December 15, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 10-12 | Communication (or the lack thereof)
I've had a rough pass few days. personally, my communication had been off. WAY off. disrupting my peace and shit....
December 13, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 8 | Prepare
I definitely said the wrong episode at the beginning but you catch my drift! PREPARE let's meditate on this word today....
December 9, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 7 | Take A Day
It's cool to take a day when your priorities are in order. On Free Day, it was NOT cool for me to take a day. In fact, I forgot all my responsibilities. Smh.
December 8, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 6 | Go With The Flow
Things don't always go as planned. Be flexible.
December 7, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 5 | Food Woes
We might as well eat air.
December 6, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 4 | We Did A Good Job Today !
I was going to name this episode "A Meh Day" but then I realized I did a good damn job today.....
December 5, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 3 | Health Affirmations
Day 3 of the #DecemberPodcastChallenge! Now that we've got our Accountability Crew, it's time to focus on getting our subconscious in order with a few health affrimations!
December 3, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge Day 2 | Support & Accountability
Day 2 of the #DecemberPodcastChallenge ! Ready to break some unhealthy habits?? Let's get to it! We're talking about setting the foundation of Support & Accountability to get these healthy habits going!
December 2, 2018
#DecemberPodcastChallenge | Your HEALTH is your WEALTH | Holiday Shopping Blues
Happy December 1st! Today is the first day of the #DecemberPodcastChallenge | I had my first appointment with my new PCP last week.... Let's talk about our Physical Health for a minute | I hate shopping for myself so imagine my joy to shop for others. @thehoneyfilespodcast Hosted by @_tanishacarter
December 1, 2018
Ima Vote, but DAMN
How many incentives do you need to give grown people to make change???
November 6, 2018
Checking Myself
I had major attitude this week. hope you feel me..... IG : @thehoneyfilespodcast @illuminatiimamii
November 4, 2018
October 30, 2018
Let's Decolonize!
This is my first LIVE broadcast and special guest ! Let's welcome, Jay Book from @bookunedited ! Stay tuned, we're about to get deep into decolonizing our minds and using the principle of SANKOFA to return the our power.
October 20, 2018
The Snowball Effect
once you've got the flow, keep the momentum going!
October 13, 2018
90% You, 10% Universe
Manifesting is 90% you and 10% of the Universe doing what it naturally does....respond!
October 3, 2018
Say My Name
Black American names need respect too. also, my apologies for the loud ass trash truck and stuff. didn't want to rerecord....
August 16, 2018
A Real Black Ass Episode: We Gotta Do Better
why do we hate us so much ?
July 29, 2018
Relationships Part 3: No More Settling
So, the secret is out..... I'm telling you to stop settling because I was a nanosecond away from settling..... all of this is easier said than done, but please be patient with yourself. PLEASE. if you can wait and be patient while they figure out what they want with you, you can be patient with yourself.
July 21, 2018
A Real Black Ass Episode: Tapping into Your God-given Power
"why do they hate us so much?" here's why.....
July 14, 2018
Know Your Role & Shut Ya Mouth
I was heated recording this. When it comes to the healing of the World, folks know their role. if you don't understand, shut ya mouth
July 11, 2018
Give Yourself Permission
Stop disqualifying yourself ! Give yourself permission to live your BEST life
July 2, 2018
Consciousness is not a Country Club
apparently, consciousness is application entry only. stay tuned. i'll be releasing the second segment this week
June 18, 2018
Be Expressive
follow the podcast IG @thehoneyfilespodcast so we can chat.
June 9, 2018
Your tests of patience come in many forms. Mine happen to range from road rage to having patience with myself. Long story short, I've been losing #patience with myself and this #process. This is a very vulnerable #episode for me as I realize I'm still recovering and stuck between the grief of losing my old life and being patient for what's to come
May 29, 2018
I've been hella "distracted" lately. let's chat about how distractions are just another word for self-sabotage
May 19, 2018
Your Journey, Your Job
Let's chat about how this journey is no one else's responsibility but your own.
May 12, 2018
Spiritual Duality
#SpiritualDuality featuring a recap with advice from the Founder of @theblackwellnesscommunity, @helloshavon !Masculine, Feminine, Positive, Negative, Light, Dark it's all about balance. Allow me to share my progression with duality | Excerpt from the book Emotional Intelligence by Prof. Daniel Goleman
May 9, 2018
What I Found While Fasting
Earlier this week, I fasted for self-discipline. By the end of my fast, I was overcome with thoughts and feelings pertaining to judgment. On this episode, I share how I'm trying to figure out this wholeΒ  "non-judgmental" thing. P.S. This isn't the first time I've fasted and on this journey it will not be the last. Consider this to be the first installment of "What I Found While Fasting"
April 28, 2018
What Retrograde?
It's time to stop letting planetary alignment dictate the course of our lives. Through a brief history lesson on the rise of Mercury Retrogrades, I break down the belief that "you can't do anything" during retrogrades. "Take solace in knowing that God trusted you enough to be the co-creator of YOUR LIFE" definitely not Mercury. Lol
April 21, 2018
Alone Ain't Lonely
What does it mean to be Alone? Lonely? Find out the difference and the ways to combat lonliness immediately. Special thanks to our FIRST sponsors : Nzinga Arts & Co. (@nzingarts_) love inspired art and designs. From waist beads to pillows to jewelry! Check out their designs at Just Kaz, LLC. (@justkazllc) Richmond, VA based author, Kazyona Mosby opens up about her trials, tribulations, poetry and successes through her personal blog, Her 2015 Debut novel, Memoirs of a Broken Heart is also available! Don't forget to follow the podcast on IG: @thehoneyfilespodcast πŸŒ»πŸ―πŸ’•
April 15, 2018
Sideline Players
Follow the podcast IG: @thehoneyfilespodcast For more poetry: @tancarterpoetry No one can tell you how to play the game (of life) from the sidelines except your mentor (The Coach) and your tribe (Your Team). Enjoy ! πŸ’•
April 9, 2018
Relationships Part 1
On Episode 7, I share an untitled poem about relationships and get right into the topic of changing someone once you like them
April 4, 2018
Stay the Course, Ignore Detours
BONUS EPISODE: This year, we are only accepting opportunities that are in alignment with our purpose. No more unnecessary detours, no more blocking the lanes of others, no more wasted time !!!
April 4, 2018
Contradicting Yourself
As we grow, we contradict It will happen. Don't fight it. Just know that it's growth and with growth comes WISDOM ! Forcing you to become a more accepting person.
April 4, 2018
Stay Ready
So you never have to get ready! Yeah we know how the saying goes but do we apply? These past 3 days have been a HUGE lesson is staying prepared!
April 1, 2018
We Are Reflections
Happy StarDay! We are reflections of each other, so how do you look today ?? Featuring my original micropoem "Homage" I discuss (and share my recovery from road rage lol) how everyone around us is a reflection of who we are, what we give off. It's easy to place the blame but let's take accountability for what we are giving off FIRST! FOLLOW ME: IG&Twitter: tancarterpoetry Tumblr: TanCarter
March 24, 2018
My Spiritual Evolution
Happy StarDayyyyy! This episode is all about my spiritual evolution. I had someone ask me how I even ended up where I am today, spiritually. And I got to thinking about this journey....... DUALITY BALANCE RESISTING LABELS are my words for the day. Also, IFA is a lifestyle. I called it a religion, but it is far from that. Enjoy πŸ’•
March 11, 2018
God's Plan Pt. 2
On this episode, I share the last few tips to being open to God's Plan at all times 1. BE STILL & LISTEN 2. DO THE WORK Happy Wise Day & Happy Birthday to meeeeee !!!
March 7, 2018
God's Plan Pt.1
Happy Free Day! On this Episode, I'm sharing with you how important it is to be like water when it comes to life aka God's Plan !
February 23, 2018
Relationships Part 2
On this Episode 8, I share an untitled love poem and my LAST Relationship "advice" segment. Enjoy ! πŸ’•
February 14, 2018
CEO & Founder of Refeel Tribe, Joi Donaldson gifted me her first batch of IBI Sage Oil. Made under the Super Blue Blood Moon Lunar Eclipse and poured with the purest intentions ! I share how this oil literally stopped my chronic menstrual pains instantly. Also helped with headache !
February 8, 2018
Be The Change Or STFU
Episode 6: Be the Change or STFU Happy Black History Month !!! On this Episode, I share my issue with black hypocrites ! Enjoy ! Lol
February 6, 2018
Assume Responsibility
Episode 5: Assume Responsibility On this episode, I share my poem "Victim" and two stories that catapulted me into learning the lesson of "assuming responsibility"
February 2, 2018
Super Blue Blood Moon
Episode 4: Super Blue Blood Moon Lunar Eclipse | on this episode I share a few tips I learned while researching what this fancy moon happening on January 31st is all about !
January 29, 2018
BONUS: NTR HMT & A micro poem
Because I owe you two poems. One is inspired by Sacred Woman by Queen Afua. The other is a micro poem: a popular way to share poetry on IG
January 27, 2018
Free Day
Episode 3: My Elder Auntie, Reclaiming Your Days, Happy Free Day In this episode, I share how renaming the day of the week brings you one step closer to reclaiming your life !
January 26, 2018
1st Cosmic Kickback
Be unapologetic on your search ! Do not ask for permission ! Do not even collect $200, JUST GO !!! | I'm still working on how to start and stop this thing so it was cut prematurely, but YOU GOT THE MESSAGE !
January 24, 2018
You Can Not Box Me In
Episode 1: You Can Not Box Me In
January 22, 2018
January 21, 2018
January 21, 2018