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The Hot Mess Club

The Hot Mess Club

By The Hot Mess Club

Perfection is for basic chicks! Let's embrace the power of accepting our mess. #messyandproud AcceptYourMess.com / IG & TW - @AcceptYourMess ------- The Hot Mess Club (THMC) explores the beauty and lessons uncovered when life gets messy. Life is about the beautiful mistakes we make. Granting ourselves permission to be a “mess” is not for anyone else, it’s for ourselves. Hosted by Crystal Love, THMC shares stories of personal failure. Each episode, we hear from guests who share accounts of their mess, how and if they cleaned it up and the silver linings they learned.
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Don't Hide Your Messiness

The Hot Mess ClubJul 11, 2019

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Sep 20, 201905:57
Driving Under The Influence... of being in middle school

Driving Under The Influence... of being in middle school

Episode 8

Driving Under The Influence... of being in middle school ... a mini confession by Crystal Love

JOIN THE CONVERSATION If you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!

CONFESS YOUR MESS Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

  • Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

  • Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

  • Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE Need to contact us? 

CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE 

Jul 18, 201906:18
Don't Hide Your Messiness

Don't Hide Your Messiness

Episode 7

Dominique Love talks about how hiding your flaws and your messiness really means you are lying to yourself and others 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Imagination is a powerful tool
  • Not liking yourself or the person people perceive you to be can be a powerful agent for change
  • There is no secret that can’t be broken with a little bit of bourbon

JOIN THE CONVERSATIONIf you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!  

CONFESS YOUR MESS Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

  • Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

  • Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

  • Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.

DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINENeed to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Jul 11, 201933:47
Dr. Love is a Murderer

Dr. Love is a Murderer

Episode 6

Dr. Love is a murderer... a mini confession by Crystal Love


KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Lots of kids want to grow up to be a Doctor but most aren't cut out for it
  • Doing injections on mice is NOT a good idea when you are inexperienced 
  • Acceptance of what you're good at and what you're not is key!


JOIN THE CONVERSATION

If you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!


CONFESS YOUR MESS

Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

  • Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

  • Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

  • Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

Web: https://askdutchuncle.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askdutchuncle/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/askdutchuncle


WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE

Need to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

Web: https://acceptyourmess.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acceptyourmess/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/acceptyourmess


CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Web: https://heycrystallove.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heycrystallove/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/heycrystallove

Jun 26, 201905:11
I just can't do it anymore

I just can't do it anymore

Episode 5

Kirsten Poe Hill talks about almost giving up on finding love


KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Even when you think you know someone, you don't
  • Sometimes you just have to stop looking for "the one"
  • Get clear about the type of person you are looking for


JOIN THE CONVERSATIONIf you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!

CONFESS YOUR MESSGot a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

  • Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

  • Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

  • Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 


WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE

Need to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Jun 05, 201933:47
Morning hacks from elementary school

Morning hacks from elementary school

Episode 4

Morning hacks from elementary school... a mini confession by Crystal Love


KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • A young mind is a creative mind
  • Sometimes mornings are just not your thing
  • Every little bit of extra sleep helps


JOIN THE CONVERSATION

If you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!


CONFESS YOUR MESS

Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

  • Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

  • Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

  • Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

Web: https://askdutchuncle.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askdutchuncle/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/askdutchuncle


WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE

Need to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

Web: https://acceptyourmess.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acceptyourmess/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/acceptyourmess


CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Web: https://heycrystallove.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heycrystallove/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/heycrystallove

May 29, 201905:00
Sex And The City = My Career Choice

Sex And The City = My Career Choice

EPISODE 3

Allison Ducote talks about how Sex And The City helped form her career choices


KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Feeling like a HOT MESS is not always visible to those around you
  • Failures and almost failures have some of the best silver linings
  • Fathers have opinions and they will share them whether you want to hear it or not


JOIN THE CONVERSATION

If you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!


CONFESS YOUR MESS

Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

  • Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

  • Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

  • Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

Web: https://askdutchuncle.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askdutchuncle/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/askdutchuncle


WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE

Need to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

Web: https://acceptyourmess.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acceptyourmess/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/acceptyourmess


CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Web: https://heycrystallove.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heycrystallove/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/heycrystallove

May 10, 201942:38
So, this one time at band camp...

So, this one time at band camp...

EPISODE 2

So, this one time at band camp... a mini confession by Crystal Love


KEY TAKEAWAYS

· Lots of things happen at band camp, mostly band related things

· Lifeguarding is a great summer job, especially when it rains

· Drinking at a young age has consequences


JOIN THE CONVERSATION

If you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!


CONFESS YOUR MESS

Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

· Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

· Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

· Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

Web: https://askdutchuncle.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askdutchuncle/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/askdutchuncle


WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE

Need to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

Web: https://acceptyourmess.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acceptyourmess/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/acceptyourmess



CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Web: https://heycrystallove.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heycrystallove/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/heycrystallove

May 01, 201905:48
At what age did you first stuff your bra?

At what age did you first stuff your bra?

EPISODE 1

Camille Love talks about how she created her hot mess personality at a young age.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

· Embracing who you are and always have been

· Accepting the consequences of your actions, good and bad

· Life never goes in a straight line and that’s okay


JOIN THE CONVERSATION

If you enjoyed this episode and received value from this episode, please rate us, subscribe and share this episode with your friends. THANK YOU for paying it forward!


CONFESS YOUR MESS

Got a confessions? We’re all ears. 

Step One - CALL

· Decide on the mess you want to confess. Then simply call us at (909)255-9161. Leave a message, or two or three. 

Step Two - CONFESS

· Confess Your Mess!! Please keep it short and DON'T use your name. BTW, we will disguise your voice so no need to be paranoid.

Step Three - CARRY ON

· Listen for your confession on a future podcast ... But don't worry we'll never share your name or number, just your beautiful mess.


DUTCH UNCLE (Confess Your Mess sponsor)

Dutch Uncle provides on-demand dating advice. Personalized for your specific concerns, you can connect with a dating coach one-on-one via text at 404 731 3011. They are available Mon-Sat from Noon to 8 p.m. EST. 

Web: https://askdutchuncle.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askdutchuncle/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/askdutchuncle


WHERE TO FIND THE HOT MESS CLUB ONLINE

Need to contact us? Email us hello@acceptyourmess.com

Web: https://acceptyourmess.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acceptyourmess/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/acceptyourmess



CONNECT WITH OUR HOST, CRYSTAL LOVE

Web: https://heycrystallove.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heycrystallove/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/heycrystallove


May 01, 201929:08
Trailer - THE HOT MESS CLUB

Trailer - THE HOT MESS CLUB

THE HOT MESS CLUB: Yes I said amazing... because I can

Mar 06, 201903:22