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You Are So Not Alone the podcast (formerly the in raw life podcast)

You Are So Not Alone the podcast (formerly the in raw life podcast)

By Jessika & Ciara

Walking through the hard stuff. Normalizing the weird. Laughing through the awkward. Because talking through it helps you to process through it. And when you process things in a healthy way, we believe it helps make you a better human.
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You Are So Not Alone the podcast (formerly the in raw life podcast)Apr 23, 2020

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141. Anxious yet open...

141. Anxious yet open...

It is with heavy hearts yet hopeful spirits that we let you know, this is our last podcast episode.

... at least for now. 

Who knows what the future holds or where our voices will take us. 

Of course you can always keep up with us on social media 

Follow Jessika on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/the.jessentials

Follow Ciara on TikTok here: www.tiktok.com/@ciaravindel


As for now, keep striving toward being a better human! Reach out on social anytime. 

And... if you ever feel tired, stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, overjoyed, weird, wild, crazy, spastic, unbelievable, unstoppable, empowered, silly, funny, amazing, strange, raw, human, or maybe you don't even know how you feel today.... please remember: You Are So Not Alone

Jan 05, 202319:60
140. Trusting Your Instincts...

140. Trusting Your Instincts...

- Having what you want, not what's idealized
- Making it through the holidays
- Pick 3
- Choosing a meditation app

Dec 29, 202218:12
139. Our Original Christmas Special... (an encore)

139. Our Original Christmas Special... (an encore)

- Merry Christmas
- Happy Hannukah
- You got this!
- Power Throwback to being a better human by Emmy


Dec 23, 202224:04
138. Clearing Space for Mental Space...

138. Clearing Space for Mental Space...

<ul>
<li>Easy ways to clear out your inbox</li>
<li>Nap or Scroll</li>
<li>How to get the energy to get things done</li>
<li>Sticking to the plans</li>
</ul>
Dec 15, 202232:22
137. Hoping for the best, preparing for the worst...

137. Hoping for the best, preparing for the worst...

<ul>
<li>Covid Thanksgiving disaster</li>
<li>Anxiety stemmed from trauma</li>
<li>Baby burps</li>
<li>Setting realistic expectations while keeping hope alive</li>
</ul>
Dec 08, 202225:33
136. Pushing Past the Fear...

136. Pushing Past the Fear...

<ul>
<li>Mama Flamingos losing their pink</li>
<li>Taking our pink back</li>
<li>Making our dreams happen like babies</li>
<li>Post-Pandemic Anxiety</li>
</ul>
Dec 01, 202231:22
135. Struggling with meditation & money blocks...

135. Struggling with meditation & money blocks...

<ul>
<li>What physical anxiety feels like</li>
<li>Jealousy + frustration = money block</li>
<li>The easiest way to prevent life from flying by</li>
<li>Appreciating what you have while striving for more</li>
</ul>
Nov 24, 202230:18
134. Stuck, and Longing to Belong...

134. Stuck, and Longing to Belong...

<ul>
<li>Feeling like you’re stuck in tree sap</li>
<li>Wondering what comes next</li>
<li>Reading “The Mountain is You”</li>
<li>Feeling like an outcast, but longing to feel accepted</li>
</ul>
Nov 17, 202228:25
133. Minimalism is Sexy, See (an ENCORE episode)
Nov 10, 202249:30
132. How to Make the Most of this Season (part 3)

132. How to Make the Most of this Season (part 3)

- Ciara tells all in an overly anxious moment
- New Podcast name revealed
- No more doing too much
- The adult love

Oct 27, 202225:27
131. How to Make the Most of this Season (part 2)
Oct 20, 202235:41
130. How to Make the Most of This Season? (part 1)
Oct 13, 202223:48
129. People Can't Change, or Won't Change? (dog mama drama)
Oct 06, 202237:10
128. We're Back Baby (post baby!)
Sep 29, 202233:54
127. Strengthen Your Body by Releasing Physical Stress (an ENCORE episode)

127. Strengthen Your Body by Releasing Physical Stress (an ENCORE episode)

ENCORE Episode.... While Jessika is out on maternity leave, we're bringing you some of our favorite episodes of IRL past!

Your life is what you make of it! So make it a good one! Want to know how? Well, you can start by not being so darn hard on yourself when you “fail” and by not holding yourself to impossibly high standards!

This week, we talk with Janis Isaman from www.mybodycouture.com. Her approach to physical health is unique and transformative, based on education, movement, and full body sustainability. We both learned a lot from Janis, and are so excited for what you'll get to learn too!

Spoiler alert, all of those intense work outs out there are designed for the teenage boy body/stamina. So if you aren't one of those, it's ok to take it easy on yourself!

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Shout out to our Strength contributor... Joann from www.jtdcoachesme.com

A special thanks to Manu @manu_matic for providing our amazing music!

Sep 15, 202249:07
126. A Montessori Approach to Treating Humans Better (an ENCORE episode)
Sep 08, 202252:28
125. Finding Strength to Take a Big Stand (an ENCORE episode)

125. Finding Strength to Take a Big Stand (an ENCORE episode)

ENCORE Episode.... While Jessika is out on maternity leave, we're bringing you some of our favorite episodes of IRL past!

Instead of starting this off with a strength clip from one of our listeners, we are starting this episode with part of an interview that didn't make it into our Quarantine episode last year, but hasn't left our hearts and minds since. Actually, it inspired this entire episode.

Today's episode is all about Standing Up for yourself and Speaking Up when you know it's right!

Thank you Niki for always being who you are, even if it means stepping into an uncomfortable situation, and for inspiring us to do the same.

You're all going to love this episode. It's inspiring, impactful, and just dang good.

So go ahead. Take a listen!

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Shout out to our Strength & Confidence inspiration... Niki!

Aug 26, 202245:05
124. Jealousy isn't Pretty on You (an ENCORE episode)
Aug 18, 202248:01
123. The Enneagram Episode You've Been Waiting For! (an ENCORE episode)
Aug 12, 202257:35
122. Dream Casting (+ sending Jessika off to maternity leave)
Aug 04, 202229:48
121. Gratitude Baby (a boost before baby)
Jul 28, 202220:24
120. ENCORE: Gratitude: Giving You More Energy & Better Quality of Life (plus a PSA everyone needs to hear!)

120. ENCORE: Gratitude: Giving You More Energy & Better Quality of Life (plus a PSA everyone needs to hear!)

ENCORE: We are about to do a new episode on Gratitude, but before we do... we want to remind you of this awesome info we learned from Jennifer at gratitudemission.org. So... please enjoy this Encore episode!

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Did you know gratitude could literally give you more energy!?! Neither did we, until Jennifer from gratitudemission.org filled us in!

Man, what an incredible episode! There is so much richness in such a short amount of time! Jennifer was kind enough to be completely vulnerable with us. This is a raw moment that most people would be petrified to share, but Jennifer did! We are passionate about share stories like this because it can save people's lives!

Plus, we talk about how incredibly amazing gratitude is, and all of the ways it WILL LITERALLY CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

This is an episode you don't want to miss!

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Request to join our exclusive Facebook Group Here --> Work/Life Balance for Empowered Unstoppable Women

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A special thanks to Manu @manu_matic for providing our music!

Jul 21, 202248:23
119. What Work/Life BalanceFeels Like (p.s. it's not a dead arm)
Jul 14, 202218:10
118. Stop Pushing Off Work/Life Balance (set that boundary girl!)
Jul 07, 202225:37
117. How to do Spiritual Self-Care (sans woo)
Jun 30, 202221:22
116. How to do Social Self-Care (beautiful you... meet stranger)
Jun 23, 202225:05
115. How to do Physical Self-Care (vanity need not apply)
Jun 16, 202225:11
114. How to do it Scared, Anxious, or ____ (hbd Jessika!!)
Jun 09, 202228:09
113. How to do Financial Self-Care (w/ covid brain + preggo brain ridiculousness!)
Jun 02, 202221:54
112. How to do Mental Self-Care (fight what your brain is telling you!)
May 26, 202221:02
111. How to do Emotional Self-Care (walk it off!)
May 19, 202222:14
110. How to do Practical Self-Care (get you $#*% together girl!)
May 12, 202219:52
109. How to do Professional Self-Care (tell Jeremy it's too late!!)
May 05, 202226:18
108. Why Time Blocking is Sabotaging Your Day (an exclusive training, unlocked!)
Apr 28, 202213:12
107. How to Stop Wasting Time (an exclusive training, unlocked!)
Apr 21, 202209:18
106. How to be Superwoman! (an exclusive training, unlocked!)
Apr 14, 202211:28
105. What to do when $#*% hits the fan! (an exclusive training, unlocked!)
Apr 07, 202216:02
104. Full-Time Entrepreneur, Part-Time Hours (w/ Nicole Ialeggio)

104. Full-Time Entrepreneur, Part-Time Hours (w/ Nicole Ialeggio)

Today, we are interviewing our good friend Nicole Ialeggio!

Nicole is a full-time mama, pregnant with her second baby, & running her own business like a boss!

She knows what she wants and takes it... even if it goes against what the professionals have said. And she has success from her confident choices every time!

Nicole is raw, vulnerable, and a badass. We know you're gonna love her. So push play!

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To connect on a personal free coaching call to help you stay accountable to your goals, send Jess a message @ - https://m.me/jesuisjessika

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Today's "Balance" contributor is none other than our interviewee... Nicole!

Email us what balance means to you at hello@inrawlife.com, and we might feature you on the show!

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Small Biz Shoutout: ChimmyQCare

Connect with Nicole on Instagram: @nicoleialeggio

Request to join our exclusive Facebook Group Here --> Work/Life Balance for Empowered Unstoppable Women

Mar 31, 202237:60
103. An Entrepreneur Against the Grain (w/ Ariel Brigandi)

103. An Entrepreneur Against the Grain (w/ Ariel Brigandi)

Today, we are interviewing Ciara's cousin Ariel, from Brigandi's Barbering Company

Ariel took a toxic situation and turned it into... a business! 

Ariel is celebrating 4 years of of owning her own barbershop (which she opened in her mid 20s!) and her entrepreneurial journey is as inspiring as it is triumphant. 

Don't wait another second. Push play! 

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To connect on a personal free coaching call to help you stay accountable to your goals, send Jess a message @ - https://m.me/jesuisjessika

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Today's "Balance" contributor is none other than our interviewee... Ariel!

Email us what balance means to you at hello@inrawlife.com, and we might feature you on the show!

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Connect with Ariel on Instagram: @gameofcombs & @brigandisbarberingco

Request to join our exclusive Facebook Group Here --> Work/Life Balance for Empowered Unstoppable Women

Mar 24, 202241:48
102. Entrepreneur Life as a Virtual Assistant (w/ Katie Tschida)

102. Entrepreneur Life as a Virtual Assistant (w/ Katie Tschida)

Today, we are interviewing one of our very own students... Katie!!!! Katie is a VA at krtvirtualassistant.com.

Katie is a homeschooling mama, a vet from Iraq, and owns her own business. She has done a little bit of everything, including eat whale! Yep. As an introvert, Katie has learned how to stand up for herself and set boundaries that help her and her family thrive.

So what are you waiting for... push play!

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To connect on a personal free coaching call to help you stay accountable to your goals, send Jess a message @ - https://m.me/jesuisjessika

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Today's "Balance" contributor is none other than our interviewee... Katie!

Email us what balance means to you at hello@inrawlife.com, and we might feature you on the show!

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Small Biz Shoutout: Oh So Lovely Creative and Hello Creative!

Request to join our exclusive Facebook Group Here --> Work/Life Balance for Empowered Unstoppable Women

Mar 17, 202239:25
101. An Entrepreneur of the World (w/ Rym Benchaar)

101. An Entrepreneur of the World (w/ Rym Benchaar)

Today, we are interviewing one amazing beautiful entrepreneur, Rym from mycoachrym.com. Rym coaches women on building their businesses, and her heart is HUGE! We know you will love her! 

This month we are interviewing a variety of badass female entrepreneurs who have completely inspired us, and who we hope will inspire you as well! Rym is an inspiration to badass women everywhere! So much so, she has a Facebook Group about it.. join it!: Badass Babes Entrepreneurs

And now... you know you want to... Push play!

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To connect on a personal free coaching call to help you stay accountable to your goals, send Jess a message @ - https://m.me/jesuisjessika

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Today's "Balance" contributor is none other than our interviewee... RYM!

Email us what balance means to you at hello@inrawlife.com, and we might feature you on the show!

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Small Biz Shoutout: Lattice Hudson at latticehudson.com

Request to join our exclusive Facebook Group Here --> Work/Life Balance for Empowered Unstoppable Women

Mar 10, 202251:25
100. How do you spell Entrepreneur?
Mar 03, 202231:24
99. Become the Best Version of You (bday ep w/ class!!)
Feb 24, 202237:18
98. Be More Intentional (+ dry British humor)
Feb 17, 202222:17
97. Become More Organized (+ breaking dumb rules)
Feb 10, 202231:12
96. Become a Person Who Enjoys Life (aplomb a day 😉)
Feb 03, 202229:33
95. Best Day Ever → Every Day (+ shots w/ curmudgeons!🤪)
Jan 27, 202225:53
94. Top 3 Ways to Enjoy Life More (sending links via snail mail!)
Jan 20, 202224:33
93. Top 3 Ways to Enjoy Work More (w/ squirrels + star gazing)
Jan 13, 202229:15
92. What is Work/Life Balance? (+ how to swiffer away the junk so you can actually achieve it)
Jan 06, 202233:49