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The Jackie and Stacey Show

The Jackie and Stacey Show

By Jackie Scott & Stacey Wilson

Jackie & Stacey have been speaking enthusiastically together for years, and are ready for you to listen in. We may or may not solve all of life's problems, but we will sure learn and laugh along the way! Join us?!? Each month we will discuss a new topic through four lenses - with an episode for each: Self, God, Close Relationships, and Community. We end the month with a personal interview focusing on the monthly topic and all four lenses. We would love to have you join us as we wade through life - trying to be adaptable and to love well!
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The Jackie and Stacey ShowDec 30, 2019

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S5/E44: WHOLENESS roundtable interview

S5/E44: WHOLENESS roundtable interview

Monthly Topic: WHOLENESS. Get excited for this episode! We host our first ever roundtable. This means we hold an awesome conversation about WHOLENESS with Letty, Kristy, Alanna and Ginger. We know WHOLENESS looks different for each of us. You will love to listen in to hear from 4 different perspectives and 4 awesome women.
Sep 30, 202301:16:20
S5/E43: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in community?

S5/E43: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: WHOLENESS. I am showing up whole wherever I go. Even if I’m weaker today or kicking butt today, I’m still showing up whole into my community. And so is everyone else. I’m today’s episode, we discuss how we can let go of expectations and assumptions in order to accept others and live healthfully in community.
Sep 25, 202320:32
S5/E42: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E42: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: WHOLENESS Wholeness is NOT dependent on others … but how do we avoid putting that expectation on those who we are in close relationship with? Great question. Please let us know when you find out. Haha! JK! Kinda. It DOES start with an understanding that who I am is MY business and who they are is THEIR business. Easier said than done?!
Sep 18, 202327:14
S5/E41: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E41: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: WHOLENESS If being perfect in all areas of health isn’t the goal (because: unattainable), what does wholeness in faith look like? Jesus says to love the Lord your God with all your heart (relational health), mind (mental health), soul (spiritual health), and strength (physical health), and to love others as yourself. [Mark 12:30] Today we discuss how life is about the process, the progress, and the practice of sanctification. Sanctification is growing more like Jesus: loving God and loving people.
Sep 11, 202331:48
S5/E40: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E40: How does WHOLENESS impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: WHOLENESS We spent the last 4 months exploring the four areas of Health in our series: Mental, Physical, Relational & Spiritual. This month, we put it all together and ask what it means to be whole. Can we look at wholeness with grace and growth, rather than perfectionism? Yes! Let’s walk though it together in this episode.
Sep 04, 202335:13
S5/E39: INTERVIEW with Lisa Fletcher

S5/E39: INTERVIEW with Lisa Fletcher

Monthly Topic: SPIRITUAL HEALTH. We are so so so excited to share one of the loves of our lives with you: Lisa Fletcher! She embodies love and grace and kindness and tenderness. Our hope is that by listening to her, you will grow in your openness to receive God’s overwhelming, never ending, reckless love for you. We love you, too!
Aug 31, 202341:38
S5/E38: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in our communities?

S5/E38: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in our communities?

Monthly Topic: SPIRITUAL HEALTH What would it look like if we were showing up spiritually healthy in our communities? Consider this radical idea: each of us showing up with the best we have to offer in that moment. If we can wrap our minds around that, our communities would increase in grace and decrease in expectations.
Aug 28, 202327:37
S5/E37: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E37: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: SPIRITUAL HEALTH. If you have a strong faith, how do you share it authentically with those you love the most? Saint Francis of Assisi said, “Preach the gospel always. When necessary, use words.” In today’s episode, Jackie really helps Stacey work through identifying her motivation for sharing faith with those closest to her - and how to practice holding open hands, hearts and minds.
Aug 21, 202327:54
S5/E36: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E36: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: SPIRITUAL HEALTH This topic seems a little superfluous. So we will right away define the differences between faith and spirituality. Then we will ask YOU about your faith. We then share some of the main tenants of the Christian faith that we share. We would love to know what you think. Please text, call or email us! We love to hear from you ❤️
Aug 17, 202328:58
S5/E35: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E35: How does SPIRITUAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: SPIRITUAL HEATH. Join us for this new monthly topic! Today we define what spiritual health is. We also talk about four areas to practice spiritual health. YOU are important, and so we always start with self!
Aug 07, 202332:32
S5/E34: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up in community?

S5/E34: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: RELATIONAL HEALTH. Join us for todays episode where we look at how we interact all day every day when we are out and about. What vibes do we put out? Judgment? Isolation? Kindness? We have opportunities to spread a little love and joy. Try making eye contact with a stranger and smiling at least once a day. #vayacondios
Jul 24, 202320:11
S5/E33: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up with our closest people?

S5/E33: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up with our closest people?

Monthly Topic: RELATIONAL HEALTH Maintaining healthy relationships with our closest people is simple. Simple, but not easy. First, we each must learn about ourselves. Head back to our first episode on this topic for more depth (and every single topic we do starts with self!). Be willing to do the work. Second, practice communication - both for what you want/need, and listening for what your close people want/need. Third, manage your expectations and set boundaries so you can make healthy choices in your closest relationships. Practice, practice, practice! ❤️
Jul 17, 202332:16
S5/E32: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E32: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: RELATIONAL HEALTH Today we talk all about how God wants to be in relationship with us. Emmanuel, God with us. That’s the goal. When we are in relational health with God: taking time, being in communication (praying, reflecting, etc), we grow in health. What does that look like for you?
Jul 10, 202325:54
S5/E31: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E31: How does RELATIONAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: RELATIONAL HEALTH Every month, every topic, we start with ourselves. Although it sounds cliché, we cannot enter into healthy relationships until we learn to love ourselves. Today we work through three steps to learn to love yourself: knowing that you have an unlimited source of love within, acknowledging truth, and practicing forgiveness. We highly recommend the book “The Mastery of Love” by don Miguel Ruiz to learn more!
Jul 03, 202329:56
S5/E30: INTERVIEW w/ Aaron Cruz

S5/E30: INTERVIEW w/ Aaron Cruz

Monthly Topic: PHYSICAL HEALTH Meet Aaron Cruz in today’s interview: he’s a personal trainer, physical heath expert, and brand new dad! Learn his incredible back story - how he came to be so deeply interested in healing and health. Learn different ways to incorporate and adjust some of the major tenants of physical health. Learn how the healing and growth process is S L O W, and how to get assistance along the way. We know you’ll love this conversation!
Jun 30, 202301:12:26
S5/E29: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in Community?

S5/E29: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in Community?

Monthly Topic: PHYSICAL HEALTH. Ok, great Jackie and Stacey. We get it. It is important to be physically healthy. It impacts everything. So, where do we start? First off, it is darn near impossible to do hard things alone. In today’s episode we suggest multitudes of ways to find yourself a community (large or small) that will help you move towards better physical health.
Jun 26, 202323:21
S5/E28: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E28: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: PHYSICAL HEALTH You are the sum of the 5 closest people to you. You guys help (or hurt) one another through proximity and influence. Join us in this episode to learn 5 ways that we impact others with our own actions, and how they impact us.
Jun 19, 202327:14
S5/E27: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E27: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: PHYSICAL HEALTH Did you know that there is lots of research pointing to the incredible link between religious involvement/ spirituality and better physical health outcomes? It turns out that our spiritual practices correlate our inner control and our outer control. Join us as we discuss in detail how our spiritual practices - especially of rest and reflection - impact our daily physical health.
Jun 12, 202330:22
S5/E26: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E26: How does PHYSICAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: PHYSICAL HEALTH Welcome to the second installment on our series on HEALTH! This month we are focusing in on aspects of our PHYSICAL HEALTH that make up our overall health. As always, we first gotta remind you that we are not experts in this area. We are just two women trying to learn alongside you. Now, (you know we had to say it..) Let’s get Physical 🎶🎤, PHYSICAL! 💪👯‍♀️🪩
Jun 05, 202332:58
S5/E25: INTERVIEW with Mental Health Counselor Janee Carlile

S5/E25: INTERVIEW with Mental Health Counselor Janee Carlile

Monthly Topic: MENTAL HEALTH Today is INTERVIEW day! We are so please to introduce you to Janee Carlile. She is a Mental Health Counselor in the great state of Indiana. She shares how counseling became her life’s passion as a result of her own desire to learn and grow from her life’s challenges. Janee also helps us learn how to approach starting counseling for the first time, or finding a counselor you can connect with. We know you will love her.
May 29, 202351:13
S5/E24: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in community?

S5/E24: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: MENTAL HEALTH Today Jackie leads us through 3 ways community is so important for our mental health: 1) it is where we build a sense of belonging; 2) it is where we receive various types of support; and 3) in community we have a shared sense of purpose. We hope you join us as we just barely scratch the surface, yet shed really important light on, this topic that affects us all.
May 22, 202330:18
S5/E23: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E23: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: MENTAL HEALTH. Quick reminder that Jackie and Stacey are not mental health professionals, just to women wanting to hold open conversation authentically. Today Stacey shares a mental health recurring struggle she experiences each May. The practices she *tries* to implement might be applicable to all close relationships.
May 15, 202331:23
S5/E22: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E22: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: MENTAL HEALTH. Quick reminder that Jackie and Stacey are not mental health professionals, just to women wanting to hold open conversation authentically. Your comments and feedback are appreciated as we delve into tools from our faith that can help us - when we are capable of implementing them.
May 08, 202333:20
S5/E21: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E21: How does MENTAL HEALTH impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: MENTAL HEALTH *disclaimer: we are DEF not mental health experts, just two people who want to talk about what this means to us*. The term “mental health” refers to our emotional, psychological and social well-being. It is how we think, feel and act. When effects of any of these are too big, too much, or too often occurring, it may be called “mental illness”. Today we talk about how common it is for one (or all) of these areas to make us feel bad, and that we can ask for help!
May 01, 202337:51
INTERVIEW: Compromise

INTERVIEW: Compromise

Monthly Topic: COMPROMISE We have an interesting new challenge for YOU, our listeners, this month! Listen in for a way for you to be the interviewer! We can’t wait to hear from you!
Apr 30, 202305:16
S5/E19: How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in our communities?

S5/E19: How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in our communities?

Monthly Topic: COMPROMISE Jackie asks us: can we still be friends if we disagree? Join us as we identify things that hinder our abilities to compromise, and things that facilitate our abilities to compromise.
Apr 24, 202332:14
S5/E18: How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in our close relationships?

S5/E18: How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in our close relationships?

Monthly Topic: COMPROMISE. Would it be a shock to hear that this is a tough area for Stacey? Have no fear: Jackie to the rescue with tips for practicing leaning in to COMPROMISE in close relationships! Both gals have some great recent stories of micro and major compromise-in-action.
Apr 17, 202331:11
S5/E17: How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E17: How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: COMPROMISE We are both finding that as we grow older, there are less things to hold really tightly to; more things that we can hold loosely. In faith, we especially find as we grow to learn more about Jesus: it’s less about rules and more about love. What values are core to your faith, and what do you find that you can compromise?
Apr 10, 202330:53
How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in the world?

How does COMPROMISE impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: COMPROMISE What a weird word: “with promise”. Today we talk about what compromise means, how it shows up in our lives, and what we experience in the middle of it. Jackie and Stacey each have very different immediate reactions to the need for compromise … listen to find out!
Apr 03, 202329:54
S5/E15: INTENTION INTERVIEW with Tiffany DiTullio

S5/E15: INTENTION INTERVIEW with Tiffany DiTullio

Monthly Topic: INTENTION Meet Tiffany! She is the boss lady* at Blue Zones Project Monterey County AND for wellness at Salinas Valley Health. Tiffany joins us today to discuss all the ways she practices INTENTION in work and family life. You will love the language she uses in situations to clarify and de-escalate. You will love her perspective on parenting. You will basically just love her! *Chief Executive Officer and Executive Director, respectively.
Mar 31, 202357:43
S5/E14: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in community?

S5/E14: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: INTENTION Let’s review what we have learned about intention today: 1) you have got to say what you want; 2) let someone in on it; 3) ask for help / accountability. Today we talk about all the resources available in our communities to help us (or for us to help others!) put our intentions into action. Some are super hard, some are super fun, all are ways to connect with others in order to meet your intention.
Mar 27, 202335:38
S5/E13: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E13: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: INTENTION. Friendship is such an important close relationship - that can sometimes be difficult to foster in our adulthood. We have so many other responsibilities and duties that require our time - are we making space for friendships? Join us today as we review and combat 5 lies we sometimes believe about adult relationships.
Mar 20, 202333:48
S5/E12: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E12: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: INTENTION Last episode we asked you to consider with us what your identity is. In order to step forward with intention, we’ve got to have a goal / focus / target. This week we are applying that principal to faith: what is the point of faith? What is your faith identity? Join us as we discover our purpose, so we can seek God with INTENTION 💕
Mar 13, 202328:11
S5/E11: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E11: How does INTENTION impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: INTENTION Well, we have touched on the impact of INTENTION through many of our past monthly topics, but now is it’s time to shine! Join us as we discuss the definition of INTENTION, as well as how each of us are focusing on an area we would like to INTENTIONALLY improve this season.
Mar 03, 202333:13
S5/E10: INTERVIEW with Diane Pate and Rick Pate

S5/E10: INTERVIEW with Diane Pate and Rick Pate

Monthly Topic: LOVE. You guys are going to love the gentle and loving ways that both Rick and Diane encourage you to be you. Both practice as Spiritual Directors, which is an intentional, contemplative way to live a thoughtful life seeking God’s presence. We trust you will be enamored with each of them, and receive the love to go easy on yourself.
Feb 28, 202301:01:10
S5/E9: How does LOVE impact how we show up in community?

S5/E9: How does LOVE impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: LOVE. As we have woven through our attempts at understanding this gigantic topic, we now arrive at this broader application of love. So, what does loving without expectation look at in our communities? We discuss how to practice some simple, low-risk loving actions through each of the five love languages. Some are harder than others!
Feb 27, 202331:05
S5/E8: How does LOVE impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E8: How does LOVE impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: LOVE. Join Stacey as she lays on the couch of Jackie’s therapy room for today’s episode. We talk quite a bit on how to act loving when you don’t feel loving … and we (Stacey) learn new ways of practicing love in close relationships. Move forward with hope and inspiration with us!
Feb 20, 202332:03
S5/E7: How does LOVE impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E7: How does LOVE impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: LOVE. Love is one of the most powerful forces in the world. Today we explore a little more deeply one type of love we discussed last episode: “Agape” love, or the unconditional love from God. We will first discover the breadth of God’s love for us (immense). Then we will learn how that love can enable us to move into the world in love. “We love because He first loved us.” 1 John 4:19
Feb 13, 202328:05
S5/E6: How does LOVE impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E6: How does LOVE impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: LOVE. Love makes the world go ‘round! All you need is love! We bet you can think up a million songs about love - and they are *usually* about one type: romantic love. Jackie teaches us about the four types of love in today’s episode, AND how we communicate that love to each other (the 5 love languages). Thank you for listening! 💕
Feb 06, 202328:48
S5/E5: CONSISTENCY interview with Yvonne Gray!

S5/E5: CONSISTENCY interview with Yvonne Gray!

Monthly Topic: CONSISTENCY Can you believe that we have yet to interview Stacey’s famous running partner Yvonne?! Well, today is the day you all get to experience the gift that is Yvonne. She is kind, lovely, thoughtful, brilliant, grace-filled, and … you know it … CONSISTENT! Learn from her with us!
Jan 30, 202344:01
S5/E4: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in community?

S5/E4: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: CONSISTENCY. Jackie helps guide us through 5 ways we can practice showing up in consistency in our communities. We both hold high value in building and strengthening our communities. Join us in our Vaya Con Diós!
Jan 24, 202333:16
S5/E3: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in close relationships?

S5/E3: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: CONSISTENCY Close relationships like family, friends or romantic all develop with consistently high levels of trust, love, knowledge, commitment and intimacy. Jackie and Stacey share some internal “rules” they have created to be more consistent in these types of relationships. Join us as we identify these ways to practice consistency!
Jan 16, 202327:26
S5/E2: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in faith?

S5/E2: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: CONSISTENCY. Jackie and Stacey discuss their desire to not have a faith that involves “shoulds”. They then ask, if faith is not a religion, but a relationship, why does consistency matter?
Jan 09, 202331:57
S5/E1: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in the world?

S5/E1: How does CONSISTENCY impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: CONSISTENCY Welcome to season FIVE! We are so grateful you are joining us for another year of growing by degrees. In today’s episode, we talk about the highest paid skill in the world: CONSISTENCY! Learn with us about the benefits of “intentional consistency”, and 7 ways to practice incorporating consistency in your life. Vaya Con Diós!
Jan 02, 202336:37
S4/E43: This is our TWO HUNDREDTH episode of all time!

S4/E43: This is our TWO HUNDREDTH episode of all time!

Monthly Topic: LIFESAVERS

This is a special episode for two reasons... or maybe 200 reasons?!?

First, we are celebrating ending our fourth season of podcasting.

Secondly, and most importantly, we invited our past interviewees, as well as fans/friends of the Jackie and Stacey Show, to contribute to this episode. We asked, "What is saving your life right now?". This episode is comprised of all of their answers! Something new! Something fun! And we love them all.

Thank YOU for joining us on this podcast adventure so far. We will see you for Season 5 in January 2023!

Remember, you can also join us over on IG or FB live every Wednesday 7:15 am (-ish) for the Morning Show!

Oct 12, 202214:07
S4/E42: How do LIFESAVERS impact how we show up in the world?

S4/E42: How do LIFESAVERS impact how we show up in the world?

Monthly Topic: LIFESAVERS. You guys, this is our 199th episode of the Jackie and Stacey Show podcast! Today we keep it short and sweet as we introduce you to a fun topic of “LIFESAVERS”. Like, what is saving our lives right now? What’s bringing us joy, or helping us get through the days? Listen in to find out!
Oct 03, 202213:57
S4/E41: TRUST interview with Erika Olivarez

S4/E41: TRUST interview with Erika Olivarez

Monthly Topic: TRUST Did you know that your brain is the most powerful muscle in your body? Therefore, your mental fitness is as important (if not more!) than your physical fitness! Join us as we learn from mental health clinician - turned mental health coach - Erika Olivarez. Erika shares her greatest tips and tricks for growing your own mental fitness. Find her at C.O.R.E. Mental Fitness, and on LinkedIn!
Sep 30, 202243:53
S4/E40: How does TRUST impact how we show up in community?

S4/E40: How does TRUST impact how we show up in community?

Monthly Topic: TRUST When it comes to the vast array of communities that we engage in, what are our expectations for that engagement? In today’s episode we remind ourselves all the definitions of TRUST we have established this month. Then we discuss how easy it is to have TRUST broken in community. Lastly, what can we do when we don’t value the same things as others and either break their trust, or have our trust broken?
Sep 26, 202234:33
S4/E39: How does TRUST impact how we show up in close relationships?

S4/E39: How does TRUST impact how we show up in close relationships?

Monthly Topic: TRUST Our homegirl/ patron saint Brené Brown uses Charles Feltman’s definition of TRUST = “choosing to risk making something you value vulnerable to another person’s actions.” Whoa. We then discuss / apply Brené’s acronym for B.R.A.V.I.N.G. Which one is most challenging for you?
Sep 19, 202232:17
S4/E38: How does TRUST impact how we show up in faith?

S4/E38: How does TRUST impact how we show up in faith?

Monthly Topic: TRUST. How can we possibly say we trust in God when we cannot see or hear God? One way is to look back and take note of when God showed up, or when you felt cared for. We can look to the past to see when God proved himself trustworthy.
Sep 12, 202228:29