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The Matt Phifer Experience

The Matt Phifer Experience

By Matthew Phifer

The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
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I am an Avoidant How Do I Open Up Emotionally
I am an Avoidant How Do I Open Up Emotionally
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
11:29
November 28, 2022
5 Things That Are Hurting Your Relationship
5 Things That Are Hurting Your Relationship
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
13:09
November 21, 2022
Karina F. Daves - How to Have Relationships, Set Boundaries, and Live Your Best Life
Karina F. Daves - How to Have Relationships, Set Boundaries, and Live Your Best Life
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
26:23
November 18, 2022
Signs Someone Might Be Cheating On You And What To Do If They Are
Signs Someone Might Be Cheating On You And What To Do If They Are
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
16:57
November 14, 2022
Kala Arevalo - I'm Divorced But Now I Need A Modification
Kala Arevalo - I'm Divorced But Now I Need A Modification
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
37:42
November 11, 2022
Signs You Are In an Anxious_ Avoidant Relationship And Can you Make It Work
Signs You Are In an Anxious_ Avoidant Relationship And Can you Make It Work
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
19:16
November 07, 2022
DonnellWrites - Religious Trauma and Deconstruction
DonnellWrites - Religious Trauma and Deconstruction
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
35:05
November 04, 2022
5 Ways To Overcome Social Anxiety While Maintaining Healthy Relationships
5 Ways To Overcome Social Anxiety While Maintaining Healthy Relationships
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
16:31
October 31, 2022
Dr. Heidi Jo - Dating After a Toxic Relationship
Dr. Heidi Jo - Dating After a Toxic Relationship
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
37:47
October 28, 2022
How Will My Narcissistic Ex's Behavior Affect My Child
How Will My Narcissistic Ex's Behavior Affect My Child
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
14:44
October 24, 2022
Dennis-Vetrano---Know-Your-Rights-When-Divorcing-A-Narcissist
Dennis-Vetrano---Know-Your-Rights-When-Divorcing-A-Narcissist
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
39:19
October 21, 2022
Signs That You Are With The Wrong Person and What You Need To Do About It
Signs That You Are With The Wrong Person and What You Need To Do About It
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
13:25
October 17, 2022
Eilzabeth Overstreet - How to Love Yourself While Loving Others
Eilzabeth Overstreet - How to Love Yourself While Loving Others
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
30:16
October 14, 2022
Signs You Are Ready To Have Sex With Your New Partner And Why You Should Take Things Slow
Signs You Are Ready To Have Sex With Your New Partner And Why You Should Take Things Slow
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
12:41
October 10, 2022
Gary-Bird---How-To-Run-A-Business-Without-Your-Business-Running-You
Gary-Bird---How-To-Run-A-Business-Without-Your-Business-Running-You
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
37:18
October 07, 2022
Reasons Why You Are Having A Difficult Time Finding Love And What You Can Do To Change That
Reasons Why You Are Having A Difficult Time Finding Love And What You Can Do To Change That
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
14:55
October 03, 2022
Lisa - (Been There Got Out) - Divorcing a Narcissist
Lisa - (Been There Got Out) - Divorcing a Narcissist
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
42:34
September 30, 2022
How To Breakup Without Ghosting or Being a Rude
How To Breakup Without Ghosting or Being a Rude
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
16:19
September 26, 2022
Sierra-Nicole---How-To-Make-Money-When-You-Don-t-Have-Any
Sierra-Nicole---How-To-Make-Money-When-You-Don-t-Have-Any
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
33:57
September 23, 2022
8 Healthy Habits You Need In Your Relationship
8 Healthy Habits You Need In Your Relationship
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
20:43
September 19, 2022
Austin Armstrong - How To Build A Personal Brand And What Your Brand Says About You
Austin Armstrong - How To Build A Personal Brand And What Your Brand Says About You
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
37:25
September 16, 2022
5 Reasons Why We Try To Change Other People
5 Reasons Why We Try To Change Other People
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
23:04
September 05, 2022
5 Signs Someone is Manipulating You and What To Do About It
5 Signs Someone is Manipulating You and What To Do About It
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. http://betterhelp.com/mattphifer BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today BetterHelp offers private, affordable online counseling when you need it from licensed, board-accredited therapists. Get help, you deserve to be happy!
18:05
September 02, 2022
5 Signs You're Ready For a Relationship
5 Signs You're Ready For a Relationship
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
12:53
August 29, 2022
How To Tell The Difference Between Toxic and Healthy Love
How To Tell The Difference Between Toxic and Healthy Love
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
15:57
August 26, 2022
Boundaries
Boundaries
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
10:17
August 22, 2022
Jennifer-Michelle-aka---Singleladynotes---Staying-Sane-as-a-Single-Lady
Jennifer-Michelle-aka---Singleladynotes---Staying-Sane-as-a-Single-Lady
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
29:46
August 19, 2022
Signs You Are Dealing With a Manipulative Person
Signs You Are Dealing With a Manipulative Person
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
08:14
August 15, 2022
Chris-aka--Supdaily---Mens-Mental-Health-and-Dating-After-Healing
Chris-aka--Supdaily---Mens-Mental-Health-and-Dating-After-Healing
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
45:26
August 12, 2022
9 Things You Might Be Doing That Are Stunting Your Healing or Growth
9 Things You Might Be Doing That Are Stunting Your Healing or Growth
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
26:32
August 08, 2022
Joe-Buckner---Things-Your-Dad-Should-ve-Taught-You
Joe-Buckner---Things-Your-Dad-Should-ve-Taught-You
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
48:47
August 05, 2022
Signs That You Might Be Codependent
Signs That You Might Be Codependent
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
18:17
August 01, 2022
Jenn-aka-SoberSis - Our Relationship with Alcohol
Jenn-aka-SoberSis - Our Relationship with Alcohol
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
33:04
July 29, 2022
Dr.-Joe-Kort---Sex-and-Narcissism
Dr.-Joe-Kort---Sex-and-Narcissism
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
36:18
July 25, 2022
Darlene Lancer - Recovering From Codependency
Darlene Lancer - Recovering From Codependency
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
36:07
July 22, 2022
Signs That You're Ready to Date Again
Signs That You're Ready to Date Again
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
24:38
July 18, 2022
Matt Van Der Laar - Reevaluating-our-relationship-with-food-and-diet
Matt Van Der Laar - Reevaluating-our-relationship-with-food-and-diet
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
46:27
July 15, 2022
Things That You Don't Know About Your Emotions & What To Do About It
Things That You Don't Know About Your Emotions & What To Do About It
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
17:56
July 11, 2022
10 Things That Might Be Destroying Your Relationship
10 Things That Might Be Destroying Your Relationship
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
34:14
July 08, 2022
Roe-v-Wade-Where-Do-We-Go-From-Here-with-Dr.-Kendra-Flores-Carter
Roe-v-Wade-Where-Do-We-Go-From-Here-with-Dr.-Kendra-Flores-Carter
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
38:22
July 04, 2022
Coach Drew - The Art of a Genuine Apology
Coach Drew - The Art of a Genuine Apology
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
53:54
July 01, 2022
10 Things That Might Be Destroying Your Relationship
10 Things That Might Be Destroying Your Relationship
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
34:05
June 27, 2022
Rob-Sirstins-On-Self-Love-Empowerment
Rob-Sirstins-On-Self-Love-Empowerment
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
51:15
June 24, 2022
Sherry-Dickerson-on-Healing-After-Abuse
Sherry-Dickerson-on-Healing-After-Abuse
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
58:30
June 17, 2022
8 Signs that You Struggle with Self-Esteem & What to do About it
8 Signs that You Struggle with Self-Esteem & What to do About it
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
29:57
June 13, 2022
Anthony-Johnson---Co-parenting-with-a-Narcissist
Anthony-Johnson---Co-parenting-with-a-Narcissist
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
01:02:36
June 10, 2022
Signs Someone is Going Through the Motions
Signs Someone is Going Through the Motions
There are some telltale signs that someone really doesn't like you. In this episode, we'll explore some of the most common ones so you can watch out for them!
22:52
June 06, 2022
Myles-Harris--Change-Your-Mind--Change-Your-Life
Myles-Harris--Change-Your-Mind--Change-Your-Life
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
59:15
June 03, 2022
The Reasons Why You Attract Toxic People
The Reasons Why You Attract Toxic People
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
38:60
May 30, 2022
Kimmie Reed - Accountability
Kimmie Reed - Accountability
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
58:43
May 27, 2022
5 Signs of Unhealed Trauma and What To Do about It
5 Signs of Unhealed Trauma and What To Do about It
Trauma is a word we hear thrown around a lot, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, Matthew will discuss the different types of trauma and how they can affect our lives. If you're struggling with trauma, don't hesitate to reach out for help.
20:59
May 16, 2022
Megan-Porter-2022-Miss-Texas--Starting-From-The-Bottom
Megan-Porter-2022-Miss-Texas--Starting-From-The-Bottom
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
47:19
May 13, 2022
8 Things Narcissists Are Afraid Of
8 Things Narcissists Are Afraid Of
Do you know what narcissists are afraid of? In this video, we discuss the 8 things that narcissists are most afraid of. If you're looking to protect yourself from a narcissist, knowing these 8 things is essential!
34:06
May 09, 2022
Lisa Delugo - How I Found Healing Through Running
Lisa Delugo - How I Found Healing Through Running
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
45:30
May 06, 2022
Lisa Delugo - How I Found Healing Through Running
Lisa Delugo - How I Found Healing Through Running
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
01:03:14
May 06, 2022
Signs You Are Ruining Relationships and What To Do To Stop
Signs You Are Ruining Relationships and What To Do To Stop
Are you unintentionally ruining your relationships? Listen to this episode for the top signs that you might be doing just that! The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
25:35
May 02, 2022
Keenya Kelly_ Life After Divorce
Keenya Kelly_ Life After Divorce
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
52:46
April 29, 2022
The Matt Phifer Coaching Experience Keenya Kelly_ Life After Divorce
The Matt Phifer Coaching Experience Keenya Kelly_ Life After Divorce
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
52:46
April 29, 2022
Signs You Have Low Self Esteem And What to Do About It
Signs You Have Low Self Esteem And What to Do About It
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
31:28
April 25, 2022
Intrusive Thoughts , People Pleasing, Boundary Setting with Lori Wheeler
Intrusive Thoughts , People Pleasing, Boundary Setting with Lori Wheeler
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
01:03:14
April 22, 2022
Intrusive Thoughts , People Pleasing, Boundary Setting with Lori Wheeler
Intrusive Thoughts , People Pleasing, Boundary Setting with Lori Wheeler
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
01:03:14
April 22, 2022
The Matt Phifer Coaching Experience With Jaime Mahler
The Matt Phifer Coaching Experience With Jaime Mahler
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
01:08:22
April 18, 2022
The Matt Phifer Coaching Experience With Jaime Mauhler
The Matt Phifer Coaching Experience With Jaime Mauhler
The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence.
01:08:22
April 18, 2022
7 Mind Games Narcissists Play
7 Mind Games Narcissists Play
Many people have encountered a narcissist before and recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior. But do you know what exactly makes them tick? Learn about 7 mind games played by narcissists and how to spot these red flags in your life or someone else's!
24:59
March 16, 2022
Mindset Needed for Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
Mindset Needed for Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode, Matthew speaks with Jaime Ryder about the mindset needed for healing from narcissistic abuse.  multitude of people are living in constant fear and tension as they wonder if their next interaction will be one where rage becomes an uncontrollable emotion that night consume them completely? What can we do when those around us appear deceptively normal but hurtful words leave scars on our souls which may never disappear even after years go by?"
44:36
March 09, 2022
6 Ways To Heal Your Trust Issues
6 Ways To Heal Your Trust Issues
Trust is a key ingredient in any relationship, personal or professional. But what happens when that trust is broken? In this episode we explore the topic of trust issues and offer some solutions on how to deal with them.
34:31
February 16, 2022
4 Different Types of Narcissism
4 Different Types of Narcissism
Narcissism is a term used to describe an individual who has an inflated sense of self-importance, needs admiration from others, and lacks empathy. But there are many different types of narcissists! In this episode, we'll discuss four of the most common types.
25:25
February 09, 2022
How The Body Responds To Trauma With Guest Dr. Sky Hamilton
How The Body Responds To Trauma With Guest Dr. Sky Hamilton
A somatic trauma response is the body's reaction to an emotional or spiritual stressor. There are a few clear symptoms of this, and I'll go over them in detail. In this episode, Matthew will speak with guest Dr. Sky Hamilton about the body's physical response to a toxic relationship.
28:29
January 19, 2022
Signs That You Have a Wounded Inner Child
Signs That You Have a Wounded Inner Child
Emotional wounds are the most difficult to heal. They can be caused by neglect, abuse, abandonment or trauma. When you have a wounded inner child, it is common to feel alone, isolated and misunderstood.
41:30
December 15, 2021
From The Narcissists Perspective with Guest Leon Walker
From The Narcissists Perspective with Guest Leon Walker
In this Episode Matthew interviews self-aware Narcissist Leon Walker. Have you every wanted to hear what a narcissist is thinking? Then this is the episode for you.
01:02:06
December 08, 2021
Signs of Codependency with Guest Bianca Grace
Signs of Codependency with Guest Bianca Grace
In this episode, Matthew discusses the impact of codependent behavior with therapist Bianca Grace https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/
38:01
November 30, 2021
We are Responsible For Our Healing w/ Richard Grannon
We are Responsible For Our Healing w/ Richard Grannon
In this episode, Matthew interviews Richard Grannon and discusses the importance of taking responsibility for our healing. To work with Matthew:  www.mattphifercoaching.com To work with Richard: spartanlifecoach.com
46:18
November 22, 2021
I Dream Of My Ex, What Does It Mean?
I Dream Of My Ex, What Does It Mean?
In this episode, Matthew discusses why we have dreams about trauma and toxic ex's with dream interpreter Jesse Lyon To work with Matthew: www.matthewphifercoaching.com
42:03
November 15, 2021
Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Lindsey Ellison
Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Lindsey Ellison
In this episode, we are going to hear the story of Lindsey Ellison a divorce coach and content creator. Lindsey teaches men and women how to move their life forward after dealing with the experiences of narcissistic abuse. To work with Matthew: www.mattphifercoaching.com To work with Lindsey: https://lindseyellison.com/
47:12
November 09, 2021
Healing From Sexual Assault with Guest Nicole Bromley
Healing From Sexual Assault with Guest Nicole Bromley
In this episode, Matthew discusses the process to heal from sexual assault. To work with Matthew visit: www.mattphifercoaching.com To work with Nicole visit: www.iamonevoice.org
37:19
October 18, 2021
Ask The Pastor with Guest That Pastor From Oklahoma Jeremy Coleman
Ask The Pastor with Guest That Pastor From Oklahoma Jeremy Coleman
In this episode, Matthew speaks with "That Pastor from Oklahoma" Jeremy Coleman. It is common for people to have a rough experience at the hands of the church which can lead to a lot more questions than answers, in this episode we break down some of the common questions people have.
47:47
October 13, 2021
How Does Someone Become a Narcissist with Guest Lance Wright
How Does Someone Become a Narcissist with Guest Lance Wright
In this episode, Matthew interviews therapist Lance Wright about all things narcissism. For more information on the work Matthew does go to: www.Mattphifercoaching.com
58:45
October 04, 2021
How to Deal with a Narcissist in Court w/ Guest Judge Anthony
How to Deal with a Narcissist in Court w/ Guest Judge Anthony
In this episode, Matthew speaks to retired judge Anthony Bompiani on how to deal with the narcissist in court. To join the membership or pickup a course click the link below www.Mattphifercoaching.com
45:47
September 27, 2021
Boundaries with Toxic Family Members with Guest Micah Stevens
Boundaries with Toxic Family Members with Guest Micah Stevens
We often times talk about boundaries with our toxic romantic partners... but how often do we struggle with our family, in particular our parents?  To work with Matthew Click the link below: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/bio-link
34:53
September 21, 2021
How Affirmations Can Change Your Life with Guest Sherrell Marie
How Affirmations Can Change Your Life with Guest Sherrell Marie
Healing from trauma can be very daunting. However, having an affirmation practice can be beneficial to your healing.
30:28
September 06, 2021
Should I Stay or Should I Go with Guest Michaiah Dominguez
Should I Stay or Should I Go with Guest Michaiah Dominguez
In this episode Matthew will be speaking with Michaiah Dominguez MHC. Are you in a relationship and are confused on if you should stay or if you should go? If so, this episode is for you! To connect with Matthew, click the link below:
37:56
August 22, 2021
Am I The Narcissist? Am I The Toxic One? with Guest Ask Courtney
Am I The Narcissist? Am I The Toxic One? with Guest Ask Courtney
In this episode, Matthew speaks with guest Ask Courtney on how to tell if you are the one who is toxic in the relationship. To work with Matthew click the link below: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/
35:18
August 17, 2021
Toxic Relationships Are Like an Addiction w/Guest Evan The Counselor
Toxic Relationships Are Like an Addiction w/Guest Evan The Counselor
In this episode Matthew talks to Evan The Counselor about recovering from a toxic relationship. To connect with Matthew click the link below: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/ To connect with Evan: evanthecounselor.com
35:45
August 09, 2021
Financial Abuse with Guest The Trusted Banker
Financial Abuse with Guest The Trusted Banker
In this episode Matthew discusses how to recover from financial abuse with The Trusted Banker To connect with Matthew or to order products click the link below https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/
34:58
August 02, 2021
Why Do I Attract Toxic and Narcissistic Partners with Guest Natalie Stavola
Why Do I Attract Toxic and Narcissistic Partners with Guest Natalie Stavola
In this episode, Matthew talks about the reason we attract unhealthy partners with guest Natalie Stavola. To connect with Matthew click the link below: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/bio-link Order My Book: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/my-products
37:15
July 26, 2021
Overcoming Limiting Beliefs With Guest Anita Ladhani LCSW
Overcoming Limiting Beliefs With Guest Anita Ladhani LCSW
We all have beliefs about ourselves that can become very limiting to us due to other peoples criticism. In this episode, Matthew discusses how to overcome these limiting beliefs with Anita Ladhani LCSW. To work with Matthew click the link below: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/
26:22
July 18, 2021
Why Are There So Many Links Between Abuse and ADHD w/ Guest Dr. Sasha Hamdani
Why Are There So Many Links Between Abuse and ADHD w/ Guest Dr. Sasha Hamdani
In this episode, Matthew discusses the links between victims of abuse and ADHD with psychiatrist Dr. Sasha Hamdani. To work with Matthew 1:1 or for other information go to www.mattphifercoaching.com
32:10
June 06, 2021
What is Your Attachment Style?
What is Your Attachment Style?
In this episode, Matthew talks with Dr. Patrice Berry about attachment styles and why they are important. To work with Matthew 1:1 Click the link below: https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/
28:31
May 30, 2021
Coparenting with a Narcissist with guest Sarah Komoto
Coparenting with a Narcissist with guest Sarah Komoto
In this episode, Matthew discusses common coparenting coparenting issues with narcissistic abuse recovery coach Sarah Komoto. To work with Matthew 1:1 or to see his other services click the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
36:23
May 10, 2021
Mindset Shift w/Guest Coach Spice
Mindset Shift w/Guest Coach Spice
In this episode, Matthew speaks with guest Coach Spice about mindset shift. To connect with Matthew click the link below: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching To connect with Coach Spice click below: https://app.ivleadz.com/v2/preview/cv0mhxYqjucVfQTvgz7C
43:02
May 03, 2021
The Art of a Genuine Apology with Guest Andrew Blackwood
The Art of a Genuine Apology with Guest Andrew Blackwood
In this episode, Matthew speaks with guest Andrew Blackwood on the importance of a genuine apology. How do you know if the person who is apologizing is being genuine?  To work with Matthew 1:1 click the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
40:50
April 25, 2021
The Smear Campaign
The Smear Campaign
In this episode, Matthew talks about how to handle the smear campaign. To work with Matthew 1:1 click the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
16:42
April 19, 2021
Narcissistic Mothers with Guest Bee Jackson
Narcissistic Mothers with Guest Bee Jackson
In this episode, Matthew will e talking about narcissistic mothers with guest Bee Jackson To work with Matthew 1:1 or to connect on his other platforms click the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
31:09
April 12, 2021
Boundary Setting with Guest Yasmin Habib
Boundary Setting with Guest Yasmin Habib
In this episode, Matthew discusses how to set boundaries with guest Yasmin Habib. To work with Matthew 1:1 or to connect on his other social media platform, click the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
29:14
March 21, 2021
What is Self-love? With Guest Matt Cama
What is Self-love? With Guest Matt Cama
In this episode, Matthew talks with self relationship coach Matt Cama. What is self love? How do you heal yourself? To work with Matthew 1:1 click on the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
43:21
March 14, 2021
Religious Trauma and Spiritual Abuse with Guest Rachel Meyers
Religious Trauma and Spiritual Abuse with Guest Rachel Meyers
In this episode, Matthew discusses religious trauma and spiritual abuse with deconstructionist Rachel Meyers.  To work with Matthew 1:1 you or to connect on other platforms click the link below. https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
38:08
March 08, 2021
Custody Battle vs a Narcissist with Guest Tina Swithin
Custody Battle vs a Narcissist with Guest Tina Swithin
In this episode, Matthew discusses how to battle a narcissist in court with author, speaker, and coach Tina Swithin.  To connect with Matthew 1:1 or to connect to his social media, click the link below: https://beacons.page/mattphifercoaching
42:45
March 01, 2021
Perfectionist, People Pleasing and Mindset with Marisa Jo
Perfectionist, People Pleasing and Mindset with Marisa Jo
In this episode, Matthew discusses people pleasing, perfectionsm and changing mentality with guest Marisa Jo. To connect with Matthew or to work with him on other platforms click the link below: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
32:48
February 22, 2021
The impact of ADHD on Your Relationships with Guest Kojo Sarfo
The impact of ADHD on Your Relationships with Guest Kojo Sarfo
In this episode, Matthew discusses the impact of ADHD on your personal life and interpersonal relationships with psychiatrist Kojo Sarfo
26:38
February 15, 2021
Spiritual Abuse with Guest Chris Wilson
Spiritual Abuse with Guest Chris Wilson
In this episode, Matthew will be talking with interfaith minister Chris Wilson. Spirituality can be used as a form of manipulation, control and abuse. Do you know what to look for? To work with Matthew 1:1 or to connect on other social media platforms click the link below: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
34:32
February 08, 2021
Self Love and Dating in a Toxic World w/ Guest Levi Washington
Self Love and Dating in a Toxic World w/ Guest Levi Washington
In this episode Matthew discusses dating with coach and trainer Levi Washington.  To work with Matthew 1:1 or to connect on social media, click the link below. https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
34:58
February 01, 2021
Grief and Trauma with Guest Gina Moffa
Grief and Trauma with Guest Gina Moffa
In this episode Matthew has conversation with therapist Gina Moffa from NYC. What is grief and trauma. How does it impact our everyday life? To work with Matthew 1:1  or to connect on other social media platforms click the link below: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
33:55
January 25, 2021
Should I Stay For The Kids with Guest Heather Thompson
Should I Stay For The Kids with Guest Heather Thompson
In this episode, Matthew discusses childhood trauma with child therapist Heather Thompson. To work with Matthew 1:1 or to connect on his other social media platforms click the link below. https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
44:58
January 18, 2021
Toxic Workplace With Guest Benda Barros Rivera
Toxic Workplace With Guest Benda Barros Rivera
In this weeks episode, Matthew will have a conversation with coach and content creator Brenda Barros Rivera. We spend d more time at work than we do at home, so how does having a narcissistic boss or coworker impact our lives in these situations?  To work with Matthew 1:1 or to see his other services. check out the link below. https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
32:54
January 11, 2021
Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Attorney Natalie Guadalupe
Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Attorney Natalie Guadalupe
Divorce is hard for anyone, but divorcing a narcissist is even more difficult and presents a unique challenge. In this episode, Matthew will discuss these challenges with family law attorney Natalie Guadalupe. Natalie is not only an attorney but also a licensed therapist in Texas. To work with Matthew 1:1 or for his other social media platforms, click the link below https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
33:43
January 05, 2021
True Happiness
True Happiness
In this episode, Matthew discusses true happiness with Author and trainer Coach Angelika Koch. Often times you hear people say the cliche line "happiness is found within" what does that even mean?  To work with Matthew 1:1 or for his other social media platforms click the link below: https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
32:20
December 28, 2020
The Impact of Toxic Relationships on Our Physical Health
The Impact of Toxic Relationships on Our Physical Health
In this episode, Matthew interviews dietician Toni Marinucci from TipswithToni.com. The two will talk about the mindset required to overcome critical and negative people and the impact that toxic relationships have on your diet and physical health. To work with Matthew 1:1 or for more content, click the link below. https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching
40:15
December 21, 2020
Obsessive Thinking, Overthinking, and Ruminating Thoughts
Obsessive Thinking, Overthinking, and Ruminating Thoughts
People who have been with in a narcissistic relationship, will tell you one of the worst experiences are the thought patterns that plague them day in and day out. In this episode, Matthew will discuss these patterns with alternative therapist Lori Wheeler.
41:12
December 14, 2020
Narcissism From The Narcissists Perspective
Narcissism From The Narcissists Perspective
In this episode, Matthew interviews Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness). Lee, is a real estate agent, father, brother and a diagnosed narcissist. It is not often a diagnosed narcissist is aware enough to do therapy. Listen and learn from the narcissists perspective. Music Provided by Warren Rolling Work With Matthew https://linktr.ee/mattphifercoaching
52:03
November 27, 2020
Divorcing the Narcissist
Divorcing the Narcissist
In this episode, Matthew answers a listener email in regards to divorce. Divorce is already difficult, but divorcing the narcissist can seem impossible.
13:14
May 18, 2020
Narcissistic Mothers
Narcissistic Mothers
In this episode, Matthew has a discussion with Anne Bona, a coach and podcaster from the U.K. about her experience with a narcissistic mother.
32:01
May 11, 2020
How Do I Tell My Kids That Their Dad/Mom is a Narcissist
How Do I Tell My Kids That Their Dad/Mom is a Narcissist
In this episode, Matthew answers a listener question. A Tik Tok listener asked whether or not it is healthy to tell the child that the ex spouse is a narcissist.
08:50
May 04, 2020
I Want Revenge
I Want Revenge
In this episode, Matthew discusses the desire to want revenge on the narcissist. Is this healthy? Is this normal? How do I get revenge?
11:58
April 27, 2020
Exit Plan
Exit Plan
In this episode, Matthew has a conversation with Dr. Heidi from the podcast "It's Not Normal It's Toxic". The two toxic relationship specialists have dialogue about developing an escape plan.
33:01
April 13, 2020
Forgiving People Who Are Not Sorry
Forgiving People Who Are Not Sorry
In this episode, Matthew interviews best selling author and forgiveness therapist Dr. Joan Samuels-Dennis out of Toronto, Canada. It may seem counterintuitive, but forgiveness is an essential part of toxic relationship recovery. In this episode you will understand why.
32:06
April 06, 2020
Comfortably Numb
Comfortably Numb
In this episode, Matthew discusses masking the pain and feelings from toxic relationships. People who have been emotionally abused are used to putting their feelings last. This often leads to numbing strategies.
17:43
March 03, 2020
Potential vs Pattern
Potential vs Pattern
In this episode, Matthew will discuss how people project their expectations on to a relationship.
10:58
February 28, 2020
Their Success Doesn't Excuse Their Behavior
Their Success Doesn't Excuse Their Behavior
Narcissists often times wear a mask of success. This is often times a part of their manipulation to get you to stay. In this episode, Matthew will discuss their success vs their behavior.
11:36
February 27, 2020
Shame
Shame
In this episode, Matthew discusses shame. Shame is a feeling and symptom of being in a toxic relationship, but it doesn't always come from the toxic person in your life. Matthew talks about the shame we feel after opening up to our friends and family members about the toxic relationship.
11:33
February 26, 2020
The Aliented Child
The Aliented Child
In this episode, Matthew discusses the rekindling of the alienated brainwashed child. The narcissist uses a series of manipulative tactics to get your child to become resentful towards you. Matthew discusses how to counter these tactics so you can have a loving relationship again with your child.
17:23
February 26, 2020
Gaslighting
Gaslighting
In this episode, Matthew discusses gaslighting. What exactly is it? How do you you know when you have been gaslit? Most importantly, how do you heal from it?
15:38
February 25, 2020
Highly Contested Divorce
Highly Contested Divorce
In this episode, Matthew will discuss divorcing toxic people. Divorcing someone who is toxic and narcissistic can be a challenge. Not only are you fighting with them in court but also outside the courtroom as well.
09:45
February 22, 2020
Coparenting or Counterparenting
Coparenting or Counterparenting
In this episode, Matthew takes a listener email from someone who is struggling with coparenting with a narcissist. It's common for a narcissist or toxic person to try and continue control and abuse via email and text even after the relationship is over when they are communicating about the child.
16:26
February 20, 2020
The Silent Treatment
The Silent Treatment
In this episode, Matthew discusses one of the toxic persons favorite tools, the silent treatment. The silent treatment is a form of manipulation and creates anxiety and reopens childhood wounds. Why does this work? What do you do when someone is using the silent treatment against you? Matthew covers all of this and more.
15:47
February 18, 2020
Narcissists are Intelligent
Narcissists are Intelligent
In this episode, Matthew will discuss the intelligence of the Narcissist. Intelligence is a quality that most people find attractive, and it just so happens that narcissistic people are Intelligent.
07:59
February 14, 2020
They Will Use Your Children as a Weapon Against You
They Will Use Your Children as a Weapon Against You
In this episode, Matthew will discuss parental alienation. The narcissist uses children as a part of their tactic to remain in control and to punish.
10:54
February 13, 2020
Narcissist by Association
Narcissist by Association
In this episode, Matthew discusses the narcissist by association or "The Flying Monkey". How does the narcissist get people to not only believe their lies but also turn them against you?
08:36
February 11, 2020
Narcissists Hate Seeing You Succeed
Narcissists Hate Seeing You Succeed
In this episode Matthew discusses why narcissists hate seeing your success and how and why they try and sabotage your success.
07:41
February 07, 2020
I Felt Disrespected
I Felt Disrespected
In this episode, Matthew discusses an email from a lister who felt very disrespected by her ex. He would refuse to invite her to work Christmas parties, weddings, and other events.
13:59
February 05, 2020
I Was Left For Someone Else
I Was Left For Someone Else
In this episode, Matthew takes a listener email from someone who was discarded for a new form of supply by a narcissistic man she dated for 3 1/2 years. Matthew shows the progression of the relationship from the beginning to end and gives some direction to help the listener prevent future situations circumstances.
21:60
February 04, 2020
What Kobe Taught Us About Toxic Relationships
What Kobe Taught Us About Toxic Relationships
In this episode, Matthew discusses Kobe Bryant's "Mamba Mentality" (his pursuit of excellence). How does this mentality play a part in toxic relationships?
10:45
February 03, 2020
Hoovering
Hoovering
Narcissists and toxic people often make desperate attempts to get you back into the relationship. These attempts can be very emotionally draining and confusing. Often people wonder if they "are for real this time". After all there are plenty of people who breakup and get back together. How do you know the difference. In this episode Matthew will discuss all this and more.
11:04
January 29, 2020
No Contact
No Contact
In this episode, Matthew discusses no contact. Why is no contact so important to recovery. What does it mean to go no contact. In this episode, Matthew compares no contact to recovering from an addiction.
11:15
January 28, 2020
How Can They Move On So Quickly!
How Can They Move On So Quickly!
Often times Toxic and Narcissistic people will move on to a new person or new source of supply very quickly. This leaves people with a lot of questions including, "Did I even mean anything to them?" This is tru not only of romantic relationships but also friendships and workplace relationships. In this episode Matthew will talk about how and why they move on so quickly, and answer some of these burning questions you may have.
11:05
January 24, 2020
The Lies They Tell About You
The Lies They Tell About You
One of the most painful experiences you can go through with a narcissist is a smear campaign. These are vicious lies that the narcissist spreads about you. Why do so many people we know believe these lies. Why does the narcissist do this to us?
10:58
January 23, 2020
The Covert Narcissist
The Covert Narcissist
In this episode Matthew will discuss the covert narcissist. The covert narcissist has unique characteristics that are very different from other narcissists. Matthew will discuss these characteristics and how to spot a covert narcissist.
09:25
January 22, 2020
Is The Narcissist Aware of What They are Doing?
Is The Narcissist Aware of What They are Doing?
In this episode, Matthew discusses whether or not the narcissist is aware of their bad behavior. If they are doing this consciously or unconsciously.
10:59
January 21, 2020
Rejection Breeds Obsession
Rejection Breeds Obsession
In this episode Matthew draws the parallels between the Greek mythological story of Echo and real life codependent and people pleasing tendencies.
13:22
January 20, 2020
Should I Stay?
Should I Stay?
In this episode, Matthew will discuss what will happen if you decide to stay with a narcissist. Everyone's situation is different, some may need to make things work for various reasons. How do you make the narcissistic relationship work? What will happen if you do?
12:05
January 07, 2020
Sex With the Narcissist
Sex With the Narcissist
Sex with a narcissist can be very complicated and confusing when you are not familiar with their tactics. In this episode, Matthew will discuss how narcissists use sex as a tool of control and manipulation.
11:08
December 30, 2019
How The Narcissist Stole Christmas
How The Narcissist Stole Christmas
If you have a narcissist in your life you may have noticed that they act out during holidays and major events. In this episode, Matthew will discuss some of the common tactics that they use and why they use them.
15:44
December 24, 2019
I was discarded like trash!
I was discarded like trash!
In this episode, Matthew will discuss the discard phase of the narcissistic cycle of abuse. How could someone who loved you so much get rid of you and move on with ease? Why do they come back if they don't truly love me?
15:09
December 16, 2019
Why am I being treated like this?
Why am I being treated like this?
In this episode, Matthew talks about the devaluation phase of the cycle of abuse. Find out why and how you ended up in a toxic cycle and why you continue to try and repair the relationship.
13:52
December 09, 2019
How did I get in this mess?
How did I get in this mess?
In this episode, Matthew discusses how people get hooked into toxic and narcissistic relationships. There are three phases to narcissistic abuse. In this episode Matthew will discuss the first phase which is the idealization phase.
17:20
December 02, 2019
Love and Trust Again
Love and Trust Again
Anyone who has experienced a narcissistic or emotionally abusive relationship will tell you that they have considered to remain single. They also often times have trust issues even with people who have good intentions. In this episode, Matthew discusses what it takes to love and trust again.
14:28
November 29, 2019