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BarhamTalks

By Theos Gracious Barham

Welcome to BarhamTalks, where every sunrise brings a second chance to shape your day. Dive into the world of real-life stories that inspire & motivate nations. Life throws hardships at us, stress knocks on our doors, and we’ve all felt the weight of depression. Here, in the embrace of shared experiences, we lighten our loads and collectively find relief. Join us in this podcast where problems shared become problems halved. Your journey to a brighter day starts here. Share the pod with friends; gratitude awaits. “PROBLEM SHARED, IS HALF SOLVED”
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EP44:BarhamTalks; Confronting Death, Embracing Life-The Power of Open Conversations.

BarhamTalksApr 24, 2024

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EP44:BarhamTalks; Confronting Death, Embracing Life-The Power of Open Conversations.

EP44:BarhamTalks; Confronting Death, Embracing Life-The Power of Open Conversations.

Join host Theos Gracious Barham on BarhamTalks as we delve into the often-taboo topic of death and its impact on our mental well-being. Discover how confronting and understanding our own mortality can lead to better mental health outcomes, improved relationships, and a greater sense of purpose. Learn how to cultivate a healthier relationship with death, break down stigmas, and prioritize self-care and support. Let's break the silence and create a safe space for open conversations about death and mental health. #BarhamTalks #MentalHealth #DeathAndDying #OpenConversations
Apr 24, 202422:50
EP43; BarhamTalks; Welcome to 2024

EP43; BarhamTalks; Welcome to 2024

This year of 2024, we dive more deep into mental Health, and we’re here to make sure we talk about all things that haunt us.
Apr 11, 202404:29
EP42; BarhamTalks; The power of letting Go.

EP42; BarhamTalks; The power of letting Go.

“The Power of Letting Go" is an insightful episode that emphasizes the importance of not forcing situations in life, be it relationships, friendships, or other aspects. In this episode we’ll share valuable wisdom about the consequences of trying to make something work when it's not meant to be. By taking a step back, understanding the situation, and allowing natural processes to unfold, one can find peace and ease in life. The episode encourages listeners to prioritize their mental health and well-being by letting go of things that are not meant for them, ultimately making life more manageable and fulfilling.
Nov 01, 202310:01
EP41: BarhamTalks; From Darkness to Light 💡 A Journey Through Depression

EP41: BarhamTalks; From Darkness to Light 💡 A Journey Through Depression

Join us on this episode of BahamTalks as host Theos Gracious Baham shares a deeply personal story of resilience and hope. Discover how he navigated through a financial crisis, battled depression, and found a path towards healing. In "From Darkness to Light," we explore the transformative power of faith, opening up, and the support of friends. This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and a reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is a glimmer of hope.
Oct 03, 202308:11
EP:40 BarhamTalks; Overcoming Betrayal Positively

EP:40 BarhamTalks; Overcoming Betrayal Positively

🎙️ Tune in to the latest episode of BarhamTalks hosted by Theos Gracious Barham! In this insightful episode, we delve into the complex realm of overcoming betrayal with a positive perspective.

Betrayal leaves a profound emotional impact, and on this journey, we acknowledge the weight of those emotions – anger, sadness, and confusion. Theos Gracious Barham encourages us to give ourselves permission to feel and grieve the loss of trust that accompanies such wounds.

But the story doesn't end there. Join us as we explore practical steps to transform this pain into personal growth and healing. Discover how to navigate the path of positive recovery, rebuilding trust in oneself, and forging a resilient spirit.

If you're seeking inspiration to overcome betrayal and turn adversity into strength, this episode is a must-listen. Join us on BarhamTalks and learn how to embrace the journey towards healing with grace and resilience.
Aug 28, 202308:34
Ep;39 BarhamTalks: Nurturing a Positive Mindset in Times of Economic Crisis.

Ep;39 BarhamTalks: Nurturing a Positive Mindset in Times of Economic Crisis.

In this episode of BarhamTalks, we explore the art of maintaining a positive mindset during an economic crisis. Join us as we dive into practical strategies, uplifting stories, and expert insights to help you navigate challenging times with resilience, optimism, and determination. Discover how to cultivate a mental outlook that empowers you to not only weather the storm but also find opportunities for growth and success amidst adversity. Tune in and learn valuable techniques to stay motivated, focused, and hopeful, no matter the economic challenges you may face.
Jul 07, 202317:37
EP; 38 WAYS TO OVERCOME TRAUMA OF ANY KIND.

EP; 38 WAYS TO OVERCOME TRAUMA OF ANY KIND.

Trauma can come in many forms, from abuse to accidents, and it can have a significant impact on our mental health and wellbeing. However, it's important to remember that we don't have to let trauma define us, and there are ways to overcome it. In this episode, we'll discuss some practical strategies for moving forward after experiencing trauma.
Mar 27, 202306:02
EP;37 CALMING OF THE STORM

EP;37 CALMING OF THE STORM

Life can be unpredictable. It can throw curveballs at us when we least expect it. Whether it's a sudden illness, a financial setback, or a relationship issue, we all face storms in our lives. These storms can leave us feeling helpless, anxious, and overwhelmed. But just like how the storm in the Bible was calmed, there are ways we can calm the storms in our lives.
Mar 06, 202308:23
EP:36 How to Overcome mental illness Caused by Family Problems.

EP:36 How to Overcome mental illness Caused by Family Problems.


Growing up in any family can be challenging at times. However, there are often unique issues when a family member or family members have a mental illness. Members of these families often have to deal with instability or unpredictability. Often there is confusion in family roles. For example, children or other family members may have to take over many of the parents’ responsibilities, such as taking care of younger siblings or managing household duties usually managed by parents. They may even have the responsibility of taking care of the emotional or physical needs of their parents. Children or other family members in these situations do not always receive the care and nurturing they need. In addition, individuals who have a family member with a mental illness may feel ashamed to talk about their situation with others and consequently may withdraw from relatives or friends who could help them or support them. Oftentimes they may have difficulties to recognize and express their needs to others and even to themselves. As a result, these individuals frequently feel isolated and alone. In today’s Podcast we go in detail on how to cope with that and overcome.
Feb 27, 202319:41
EP:35 What is Mental Health?

EP:35 What is Mental Health?


Many are the times when I’ve heard people say that they’re suffering fro Mental Health, yes it bothers me and today we’re going to be corrected, Mental Health is not a Problem, but those disorders that’s affect our mental Health. Todays podcast, we’re talking about mental health and illness in detail.
Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make healthy choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

However,
Mental illnesses are health conditions involving changes in emotion, thinking or behavior (or a combination of these). Mental illnesses can be associated with distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities.

However Mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of. It is a medical problem, just like heart disease or diabetes.
Feb 23, 202313:31
EP:34 “HOW DOES FAMILY LIFE AFFECT MENTAL HEALTH”

EP:34 “HOW DOES FAMILY LIFE AFFECT MENTAL HEALTH”

How Does Family Life Affect Mental Health?
When you check on the environment you’re in, you will realize that everything that has happened ever since you were born, is the reason for the state of your mental health today. Sometimes, it's the people you least expect,
The ones you never thought would hurt you.
That blind you with glitter in your eyes,
Then make you live on, never knowing what's untrue.
A lot of who you are is determined by the people you spend time with, especially those in your family. More in this episode
Dec 24, 202209:28
EP:33 BETRAYAL

EP:33 BETRAYAL

Betrayal in personal relationships refers to the violation of your trust by someone close to you.


The betrayal could be your partner's infidelity or it could be your best friend’s dropping you for a new friend. You might also feel betrayed if your significant other didn't defend you in an argument with others. Or maybe your best friend didn't reach out to you when they knew you were feeling down.

Feeling betrayed can lead to a flurry of complex emotions and they may feel difficult to manage. This article discusses the types of betrayal, how to decide if you should end the relationship, and how to cope with feelings of betrayal.
Oct 11, 202210:29
EP:32 DEALING WITH REJECTION IN A HEALTHY WAY.

EP:32 DEALING WITH REJECTION IN A HEALTHY WAY.

We all have faced rejections in our lives but sometimes it can be overwhelming and can lead to anxiety or depression therefore, it is important to acknowledge it. Each one of us runs behind the key to success but it’s important to know how to handle rejection because that’s how we transform as a person. Humans are programmed to want to be accepted as we are social creatures. This is why rejection hurts and why it may be hard to get over things at times. The good news is that there are simple things we can do to heal from the pain of rejection. Our brains don’t easily tell the difference between rejections that matter and those that don’t unless we consciously think about it and override our automatic reactions.
Sep 02, 202212:15
EP:31 BEATING THE STRUGGLES OF LIFE.

EP:31 BEATING THE STRUGGLES OF LIFE.

Whether we Like it or not adversity is part of life.


Overcoming adversity is one of the biggest hurdles we face.
As Havelock Ellis wrote, "Pain and death are part of life. To reject them is to reject life itself."
Problems, large and small, present themselves to us throughout our whole existence.
Aug 18, 202223:07
EP:30 DIFFERENCE BETWEEN STRESS AND DEPRESSION

EP:30 DIFFERENCE BETWEEN STRESS AND DEPRESSION

Stress is not a mental health condition. It tends to have an obvious trigger, like a move, divorce, or illness. Stress typically resolves as life events change. However, stress can lead to mental health problems like anxiety and depression if it persists over long periods without relief.
Jul 29, 202213:28
EP; 29 HOW WE CAN MANAGE LONELINESS.

EP; 29 HOW WE CAN MANAGE LONELINESS.

Some people experience deep and constant feelings of loneliness that come from within and do not disappear, regardless of their social situation or how many friends they have.
There are many reasons people experience this kind of loneliness. You might feel unable to like yourself or to be liked by others, or you may lack self-confidence.
Thinking about what is making you feel lonely may help you find a way of feeling better, in this podcast we are tackling on different ways we can manage LONILINESS.
Jul 14, 202218:34
EP: 28 LONILINESS 😫

EP: 28 LONILINESS 😫

One common description of loneliness is the feeling we get when our need for rewarding social contact and relationships is not met. But loneliness is not always the same as being alone. Todays episode will bring to light what Loneliness could mean…
Jul 11, 202210:00
EP: 27 FINDING HOPE IN DIFFICULT TIMES…

EP: 27 FINDING HOPE IN DIFFICULT TIMES…

However painful they are, setbacks, failures, and tragedies are a part of life. Life has a way of kicking us when we’re down, in today’s Podcast, we gonna be discussing on key ways on how we can find hope in difficult times..
May 19, 202213:00
EP:26 OVERCOMING MENTAL MASTURBATION🤦🏾‍♂️

EP:26 OVERCOMING MENTAL MASTURBATION🤦🏾‍♂️

You’ve intellectually thought about things that have not added anything to your life, negative thoughts that demoralize you, this Pod! Has something for you.
May 12, 202216:29
EP:25 FROM OPRESSION COMES LIGHT💡

EP:25 FROM OPRESSION COMES LIGHT💡

Depression is a deadly hidden message that no one would wish to open, but it can be avoided and Overcame, More in this pod!
Mar 22, 202206:53
EP:24 THRIVING THROUGH THE STORMS OF LIFE

EP:24 THRIVING THROUGH THE STORMS OF LIFE

A storm consists of everything chaotic and dangerous, uprooting everything in its path.


A storm is at times necessary as it might destroy what's been piling up in terms of negativity. It's only after the storm that everything turns calmer "Storms draw something out of us that calm seas don't". You need to know that even if you think that the storm has taken away everything from you, remember that the rainbow will show up as an indication of the calm weather only after the storm has passed and it is a given that the storm will pass, no matter what. We know it is always better said than done, which is the reason why below is a unique list full of motivational and best quotes about storms, specially curated as a reminder that there is a silver lining around the grey corner.

Maybe you need to hear this podcast
Mar 01, 202211:27
EP:23 WE JUST NEED TO BE CONTENTED, that’s it🤝

EP:23 WE JUST NEED TO BE CONTENTED, that’s it🤝

Contentment, the state of being contented; ease of mind; a state of happiness and satisfaction. May these quotes inspire you to live a life of contentment.
1. “To be content doesn’t mean you don’t desire more, it means you’re thankful for what you have and patient for what’s to come.”
2. “Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.”
3. “Contentment is an attitude that says, I will be satisfied with what God has given me.”
4. “Contentment comes from many great and small acceptances in life.”
6. “A contented heart is a calm sea in the midst of all storms.”
7. “Now and then it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy.”
8. “A harvest of peace is produced from a seed of contentment.”11. “Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want but the realization of how much you already have.”
12. “True humility is contentment.”
Feb 14, 202206:17
EP:22 *REJECTED BUT STILL MOVING FORWARD🔔*

EP:22 *REJECTED BUT STILL MOVING FORWARD🔔*

Hey, have you ever been rejected? Have been in a relationship and you chucked, I know how hurting this must've been, but I believe you endured the pain and emerged stronger.
Dec 19, 202108:27
EP: 21 HELLO DEAR ONE🎙️

EP: 21 HELLO DEAR ONE🎙️

Doesn't matter what you've been through, doesn't what has happened in the past few days, I know it's been Challenging, but hey, hold on, it's gonna be okey. I repeat, it's gonna be okey. Let what wants to happen happen, and you live it, if you find you can't change anything about it, hey, this too shall pass, we are not prisoners of our past, because it was a lesson , not a life sentence. . Don't give up on yourself, it's gonna be okey.
Nov 08, 202103:48
EP:20 SAY NO TO REGRETS 🤦😒

EP:20 SAY NO TO REGRETS 🤦😒

Have you ever done something that got you caged to regrets? Yeah we are humans and that means we are not perfect, we all make mistakes, but the question is, should we stick to the past, or? Let's get into that in this pod and more to come.....
Oct 28, 202108:10
EP:19 DEALING WITH NEGATIVITY AND DEPRESSION

EP:19 DEALING WITH NEGATIVITY AND DEPRESSION

In today's podcast, Happy Atukwase is breaking down dealing with Negativity and Depression, it's all in this pod...
Oct 10, 202152:49
EP:17 IS SOCIAL MEDIA SOCIAL?

EP:17 IS SOCIAL MEDIA SOCIAL?

Wow, we are living in a generation where social media is ruling our day today life, most of the time, we can't live without it, because it's inevitable, but truth is that, we need Physical interaction with people close to us than those in distant places. Its all in this Pod!
Sep 09, 202121:35
EP:16 DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

EP:16 DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

Today on Random talk, our Question was do you know who you are? We dig deep so that we can know the purpose and reason why we live. Its all in here. Stay blessed...
Sep 07, 202114:48
EP:15 RELATIONSHIP TALK

EP:15 RELATIONSHIP TALK

Communication and consistency is one hell of a thing to keep moving in a relationship, but yeah it's necessary to keep the relationship booming and moving, therefore my boys and I had a relationship Talk, hope it helps your relationships in one way or another. It's all in this Pod!
Aug 25, 202130:23
EP:14 IS LETTING GO NECESSARY?

EP:14 IS LETTING GO NECESSARY?

SOMETIMES WE LOOSE PEOPLE, IN DIFFERENT WAYS, BUT WHAT THEY LEAVE US IN IS ALWAYS HARD TO KEEP UP WITH, SO YEAH ARE WE SUPPOSED TO LET GO? OR KEEP HOLDING ON? TUNE IN TO THIS POD! AS I TAKE YOU THROUGH ON THIS...
Aug 24, 202110:60
EP: 13 WHO DO YOU RUN TO WHEN YOU FACE PROBLEMS?

EP: 13 WHO DO YOU RUN TO WHEN YOU FACE PROBLEMS?

You know in Life, Some have put their trust in god's, friends, sponsors, parents, boyfriends, girlfriends, wives and husbands, but your will realize that at the end of the day, those people aren't enough, whenever you face challenges of life, sometimes even when you share with them, you still haunted by your problems alone, who is the everlasting problem solver, you find the answer in today's pod! Listen in and share to friends.
Aug 20, 202108:36
EP12: RESPECT OF PERSONS

EP12: RESPECT OF PERSONS

You will realize in life that everyone needs and wants to be respected, the moment you don't have respect for others, it will make you look like a nusence in the society. Therefore in this podcast I take u through incredible importance of respect. 🫂🫂
Aug 06, 202124:09
EP:11 WHY JUSTICE SHOULD BE SERVED🙂

EP:11 WHY JUSTICE SHOULD BE SERVED🙂

Tonight we happen to have @MarieAntoinetie and she drives us into different stories where injustice is exhibited and how this end up affecting the offended in the long run. 🤝
Aug 02, 202140:22
EP10: SECOND CHANCE 😌

EP10: SECOND CHANCE 😌

In this podcast I take you through the story of my life. Darkness falls, depression hits. But I win in the end after beating all odds...
Jul 31, 202133:44
EP9: WAYS ON HOW TO COPE WITH DEPRESSION 😌

EP9: WAYS ON HOW TO COPE WITH DEPRESSION 😌

One thing we need to to know is that depression is real. It's a vulture that's out there. Killing out friends, parents, and even those we don't know. We all all need to be here for one another... Spread this for awareness..
Jul 29, 202112:35
EP8: HOW TO HANDLE DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY 🙏

EP8: HOW TO HANDLE DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY 🙏

This time I take you to 10/20 questions from dm posed to my guest @CanaanArinda AkA noise maker and he is takes us through on how to handle Depression and anxiety at the same time. I hope this podcast be so informative to you our lovely litsener...
Jul 28, 202150:21
EP7: HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVITY AROUND YOU 🚨

EP7: HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVITY AROUND YOU 🚨

Does other people’s negative energy bring you down? Maybe it’s your coworkers, family members, or even friends you’ve grown apart from.

When you’re surrounded by negativity, it’s easy to absorb that energy and start to feel negative yourself. This can mess with your mindset and make you feel drained. That’s why it’s so important to be around people who you easily connect with and who uplift your spirits. We all know that’s not always possible though, especially since we don’t get to choose our family members or coworkers.

That being said, there are ways we can bring positivity to situations and not let the negativity cloud our minds. In this pod! I’m sharing five tips for how to deal with negative people so they don’t get into your head.
Jul 27, 202112:25
EP6: SPREAD LOVE|SPEAK HOPE💕| DEPRESSION IS REAL.

EP6: SPREAD LOVE|SPEAK HOPE💕| DEPRESSION IS REAL.

As we go through these unprecedented times, we need to remember that our neighborhood and even strangers need to taste on our love instead of speaking trash to them. Let's all embrace this by spreading love, and speaking hope to all because they deserve our love regardless of who they are. Let love lead. #SpreadLove Not #Hate
Jul 22, 202101:00:13
EP5: MY STORY #2 (CONTINUATION)

EP5: MY STORY #2 (CONTINUATION)

In this episode, I take you through how I got discharged from hospital and my second tragedy that led me to 6hours of black out and back to life.
Jul 20, 202113:05
EP4: MY STORY

EP4: MY STORY

Ever since I was born. Alot has happened, its been a marathon. Here is my life story, with ups and downs, Hills and Valleys, to the current situation. I am gonna break it down and this episode is just the beginning of it all..
Jul 14, 202114:09
Ep3: KEEP MOVING FORWARD ⏩

Ep3: KEEP MOVING FORWARD ⏩

It doesn't matter you going through today. However hard or not hard it maybe. Dont ever give up yourself. There is always a 🕯️ at the end of the tunnel..
Jul 10, 202109:20
Ep2: It's a Come back after beating all the haddoes.

Ep2: It's a Come back after beating all the haddoes.

It's been a little bit long since I made my last and first episode. Amidst all the challenges we have managed to do a come back.#VoiceUp Against Depression
Jul 06, 202105:33
Ep1: Depression is Real, Spread this for Awarness

Ep1: Depression is Real, Spread this for Awarness

Yes sometimes life can prove to you that you don’t belong to it, but giving up on yourself is never an option, don’t quit
Jun 13, 202106:37