The Parents Place
By Jennifer Daly
The Parents PlaceOct 05, 2020
186 Ask Away - Bullies
We all know that growing up is not the easiest things. Unfortunately, there are many kids that deal with being bullied. In this episode, we have received a question from a parent about how to help their child when their child is being bullied at school. While this has been a hot topic for years now, there still seems to be a lot of uncertainty when it happens in your own life. Listen in for some tips on how to navigate this hard part of life.
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185. Ask Away - Getting Along with Kids Friends
As our kids get older, they become more and more independent. Along with everything that goes along with the teenage years, friends play a big role in this time of their life. As parents, what do we do when we do not necessarily get a long with our children's friends? Today, Jen and Hilary answer this question and give tips to navigate this part of life.
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184. Guest: A Dietitian's Guide to Healthy Relationships with Food
Food is a part of our daily life and the messages around food can be confusing and shameful. Today, Dietician Rachel Rood is here to discuss how to improve our personal relationships with food as well as how to help our children develop a healthy relationship. Knowing what our bodies need, limiting negative labels, and listening to our bodies are just a few of the amazing tips Rachel shares with us!
Subject Resources:
1. Intuitive Eating Book: https://a.co/d/8QqIAcY
2. Feeding with Love and Good Sense: https://a.co/d/gS34q3k
3. Kids Eat in Color: https://kidseatincolor.com/
4. Rachel Rood's Website: https://positivechangenutrition.com/
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183. Guest: How to Build Resilience in Our Children with Amanda Zelechoski
The word resilience is being used more on social media and normal conversation. The question we had is, how do we build resilience in our children and ourselves. Amanda Zelechoski is here to answer our question!
Amanda is a Professor of Psychology at Purdue University and has some incredible insights.
Subject Resources:
1. All about Amanda: https://www.pnw.edu/people/amanda-d-zelechoski-j-d-ph-d-abpp/
2. Bruce D. Perry information: https://traumaresearchfoundation.org/programs/faculty/bruce-perry/
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182. Discussion: Child Development Strengthening Families
When in comes to parenting, there always seems to be new things to learn and new obstacles to navigate. One of these obstacles is the change that come as kids grow up and develop in different ways. In Utah, April is Family Strengthen Month. In this episode, Jen and Hilary, with their vast amount of knowledge, explore how knowledge of child development can help strengthen families and unite parents. This is a great episode you don't want to miss
Episode Resources:
1. Ages and Stages: https://agesandstages.com/
2. CDC's Milestones: https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/index.html
3. Parent's as Teachers Program: https://parentsasteachers.org/program-locator/
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181. Story of Resilience: Supporting an LGBTQ+ Child
Being a parent is a big job and often times we don't realize how hard it might be to let them grow and live their own lives. Sydney is here and has a great story about watching two of her children grow up and come out as being members of the LGBTQ+ community. She talks about what was hard, what she wishes she did better, what she did well, and what young LGBTQ+ adults want parents to know.
Subject Resources:
USU Resources: https://www.usu.edu/inclusion/programs/lgbtplus-and-allies/lgbtqia-resources
Encircle Utah: https://encircletogether.org/services/
Resources for Parent's with Religious Perspectives:
Books:
“A Walk In My Shoes” by Ben Schilaty
“Goodbye, I Love You” by Carol Lynn Pearson
“No More Goodbyes” by Carol Lynn Pearson
“A Better Heart” by Tom Christofferson
“Tender Leaves of Hope” by Meghan Decker
“Without the Mask” by Charlie Bird
“The Law of Love” by Steve Young
“Expanding the Borders of Zion” by Charlie Bird
Podcasts:
“Questions From The Closet” hosted by Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty (I went back to the first episode and listened to EVERY episode of this podcast)“Faith Matters” hosted by Tim and Aubrey Chaves
“Listen Learn & Love” hosted by Richard Ostler
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180. Guest: Care About Child Care
With costs going up, and more parents needing to work outside the home, child care is a hot topic at the moment!
Zinthia is here from Care About Child Care to talk to us about trends, needs, how to find high quality child care and more!
Subject Resources:
1. Care About Childcare Website: https://www.usu.edu/careaboutchildcare/
2. Care About Childcare Parent Resources: https://www.usu.edu/careaboutchildcare/for-parents
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179. Guest: Anxiety in Children with Josh Sullivan
Josh Sullivan is here and has plenty of tips and advice for us! Josh started as a school counselor, and is now a principal. With his schooling and background, he is doing great things to bring parents, teachers, and children together in understanding behavior, but especially anxiety!
Subject Resources:
1. Alpine Approach Course: https://www.alpineapproach.org/
2. Child Mind Institute: https://childmind.org/topics/anxiety/
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178: Discussion: The Good Life
We love a good Ted Talk and today Jen and Hilary are discussing a great one! Harvard did a 75 year long study about adult development and happiness. Join us for some interesting thoughts from Jen and Hilary, and find the link to the Ted Talk below to listen to as well!
Episode Resources:
1. The Good Life video link: https://youtu.be/q-7zAkwAOYg?si=RPu9d9JIVCTvLGf-
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177. Abbas' Story of Resilience as a Refugee
This weeks guest is Abbas and we are so happy to have him! Abbas has been here in America for almost 2 years as a refugee from Afghanistan. We are so glad he is here, and is willing to tell us what it is like to be a refugee and resettle in a new country.
Subject Resources:
1. CRIC: https://cacherefugees.org/volunteer
2. IRC: https://www.rescue.org/united-states/salt-lake-city-ut
3. ELC: https://elc-cv.org/class-registration/
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176. Guest: Teen Healthy Relationships with Antonio
Antonio is here from Right From The Start and is here to chat about how we can help teens get on the right path for healthy relationship! Come and dive into a great conversation about modern teen dating, concerns, what to talk to your teens about, and more!
Antonio Ledbetter was born and raised in Gastonia, North Carolina. He moved to Columbus, Georgia in 2014. He has been married for 9.5 years with 4 children.
He earned his Bachelors degree from Morehouse College in Philosophy. He currently works with Right From The Start as a Facilitator and Relationship Educator.
He is a family man that is an avid book reader and anime fan.
Subject Resources:
1. RAM Chart: https://ramseries.com/background/
2. How to Avoid Falling In Love With A Jerk book: https://a.co/d/d1U6Vzm
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175. Strengthening Sexual Connections in Relationships
Chelom Leavitt is a professor at BYU who focuses on building healthier relationships. Today, she is here to talk about the importance of healthy intimate relationships. From talking to your kids about sex, opportunities for intimacy, and anxiety in intimate moments, she knows it all!
This is an episode you don't want to miss.
Content Warning:
Sexual topics, sexual vocabulary.
Subject Resources:
Esther Parel
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFwWvr1YUjA
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174. Kids Panel on Love
This week we have a quick but heartwarming episode. We asked kids of all different ages questions about love!
Listen for a laugh and a quick heartwarming moment. Have a great day celebrating all types of love.
Happy Valentines Day!
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173. Story of Resilience: Jadie Jo's story
Jadie Jo is here with Hilary to talk about part of her story of resilience. Jadie has witnessed more that most people do in her first five years of life. She is here to share her story, as well as how things are going now. We are so grateful for her vulnerability and honesty. Despite hard things happening, we can learn to bend and not break!
Trigger Warning: Domestic violence, death, witnessing death, trauma, drug use.
Subject Resources:
The Holistic Psychologist : https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/
The Relationship Recovery:
https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/
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172. Guest: Picky Eating with Jess
Picky eating is one of the most common parenting struggles, so you are not alone! Jess is here from our Parents as Teachers program to guide us through picky eating challenges and great tips to help you!
Subject Resources:
1. https://www.wholekidsfoundation.org/kids-club/eat-a-rainbow/
2. https://youtu.be/oecQiEkzgm4?si=WMKzWdz0ssvytEpp 3. https://youtu.be/s1KvNv4Jxqw?si=irGC_9iJyH2tz5L6
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171. Guest: Navigating Life with Tim Klein
We have the best intentions with our children and preparing them for their futures, but sometimes our best intentions and systems in place that aren't helping how we hoped they would. Tim Klein is here to help us change how we guide our children as they prepare for their futures. The best part is, this can help anyone at any age too!
Subject Resources:
1. Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Navigate-Life-Science-Finding/dp/1250273145/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1ZDCJ2NXDNMEG&keywords=navigating+life+tim+klein&qid=1702924911&sprefix=navigating+life+tim+klein%2Caps%2C230&sr=8-2
2. Character Quiz: https://www.viacharacter.org/account/register
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170: Making the Switch to a Yearly Theme
Some of us love January and the new goals that we often make when a new year approaches. Many of us also have suffered at our own hands by not being able to accomplish these goals, and often shame spiral because of it. Jen and Hilary are here today to introduce a new idea for this coming year! A yearly theme.
Video:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVGuFdX5guE
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169. Guest: Reframing Thoughts
Have you ever found yourself spiraling in negative thoughts? Our thoughts greatly impact our actions. Today, Analee Pacheco is here to guide us through what reframing is, and some steps on how to do it. The New Year is a great time to start reframing so we can do our best!
Subject Resources:
Guides to Reframing
1. https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheet/cbt-triangle
2. https://www.nhs.uk/every-mind-matters/mental-wellbeing-tips/self-help-cbt-techniques/reframing-unhelpful-thoughts/
Helping kids reframe thoughts
3. https://www.socialemotionalworkshop.com/cbt-activities-explain-thoughts-feelings/
The Family Place Therapy
4. https://thefamilyplaceutah.org/services/therapy/
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168. Story of Resilience: Matthew's Story of Adoption and Seeking Answers
Our guest Matthew was adopted as a newborn and reached out to his birth parents later in life. Join Jen and Nicole as Matt shares his story about seeking family, loving his birth family, and finding acceptance in the unknown.
Trigger Warning: Death by Suicide
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167. Discussion: Dealing with Gift Disappointment
The holidays can be an fun time of year! Visiting, eating treats, and giving and receiving gifts. However, sometimes kids (and us adults) can be disappointed in some of the gifts we receive, despite the love behind the giving. Join Jen and Hilary for some tips on how to help kids prepare, be grateful, and manage changing expectations during the holiday season.
Article:
1. https://www.drbeurkens.com/podcast/what-to-do-when-my-child-acts-disappointed-after-receiving-a-gift-from-someone/
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166. Guest: Understanding A Diverse Community During the Holidays
Danny Beus is here to talk to us about how to be inclusive during the holidays, respecting different cultures, and how we can approach learning about other cultures and traditions.
Subject Resources:
CRIC website: https://cacherefugees.org/
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165. Guest: Grieving Through the Holidays
Grief changes a lot of things in our lives, so how can we manage and cope with it during the holidays? KJ is here with Jen and Hilary with great advice for people who are grieving, and those who are supporting someone that is grieving.
Guest Bio:
Subject Resources:
1. https://www.verywellmind.com/holiday-grief-how-to-cope-with-loss-during-a-joyous-time-6503042
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164. Guest: The Benefits of Doodling
Have you tried it all when it comes to stress relief? Is yoga not your thing? Deep breathing doesn't seem to work? Amanda Stanley is here to offer a new option! Come learn about being present, removing stress, regulation and more!
Guest Bio: After 20 years working in human service organizations, including 9 years as CEO of DePaul Community Resources, Amanda started her company, The Artisan Leader, in 2022. She helps organizations create cultures where people, vision, and ideas can grow. Integrating the arts into her work, she infuses creativity, compassion, and courage into the C-suite and beyond through leadership development, strategic planning, and executive coaching. Amanda’s formal education includes a Bachelor of Arts in sociology and art and a Master of Science in sociology. She lives in Bedford, VA with her family of four.
Subject Resources:
Amanda's website with free PDF resource: https://www.theartisanleader.com/thedoodlingcollective
Upcoming Doodling Session - Free to attend but registration is required
www.theartisanleader.com/thedoodlingcollective
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163. Discussion: How to Have the Santa Talk
The Holiday season can be so magical! A lot of that magic comes from fun traditions, but what do we do as parents when our kids are curious about how these traditions work?
Jen and Hilary chat about how to address questions about the Santa tradition, ways to navigate it, and good questions to ask back.
Articles:
1. https://www.verywellfamily.com/is-santa-real-how-to-answer-when-your-child-asks-3288424
2. https://thedollarstretcher.com/family-finances/when-santa-cant-afford-childs-wish-list/
3. https://www.choosingtherapy.com/how-to-tell-your-kids-about-santa/
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162. Guest: Families Feeding Families Utah
The holiday season can be difficult for many people, for so many different reasons. Seeing others struggle and wanting to help is the heart and soul of Utah Families Feeding Families.
Jaymee and Keisha are here to tell us all about this amazing organization, what fuels it, and how to help.
Subject Resources:
1. https://www.utahfamiliesfeedingfamilies.org/
2. https://www.facebook.com/groups/utfff/?mibextid=uJjRxr
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161. Story of Resilience: Coping with the Shock of Intra-Familial Abuse
In this episode we dive into a heavy topic as we talk about sexual abuse within the family. Join Hilary and Jen as Lee tells about finding out about her husbands abuse of a young child in their family. She walks us through the shock, sadness, guilt as well as the strengths and hope that pulled her through.
Lee is amazing and we are endlessly grateful for her sharing her story with us.
Trigger Warning: Child sexual abuse, child abuse.
Episode Notes and Resources:
1. coping_with_intrafamilial_sexual_abuse_parents.pdf (nctsn.org)
2. See similar episodes for help with body autonomy.
Episode 133. Guest Chris Yadon
Episode 1. Child Abuse Prevention with Hilary.
3. https://www.capsa.org/
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160. Guest: A Dive into Teen Vaping Prevention
Worrying about our kids eventually getting involved with substance use is a common concern for parents. We have Brittany Britsch here from the Bear River Health Department to help us understand what WE can do to help. She tells us more about why teens start using, the statistics about vaping, how to help prevent teens from experimenting, and more!
Guest Bio: Brittany Britsch earned a Bachelor’s degree in Public Health from Brigham Young University Idaho. She works at the Bear River Health Department as a Prevention Specialist. Brittany is also a mother of 3 teenagers and 1 soon to be teenager.
Subject Resources:
Parents Empowered– https://parentsempowered.org/
Know Your Script–https://knowyourscript.org/
Catch My Breath Parents Toolkit–https://catch.org/program/vaping-prevention/#parents
American Lung Association-https://www.lung.org/quit-smoking
Way to Quit–https://waytoquit.org/
Youth Smoking and vaping cessation help: https://ut.mylifemyquit.org/index
See Through the Vape–https://seethroughthevape.org/
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159: Guest: Substance Use and Teens with Jay Hymas
Worrying about your children or teens getting involved in drug or substance use is a very common worry as parents and adults. Jay Hymas is here to talk to us about what we can do as adults to help prevent substance use and navigate it if it comes up. Join Hilary and Jen and learn more about what WE can do to help our children.
Jay is the CEO/ Owner of Clear Recovery. Jay has life experience with overcoming Addiction he does his job with passion and purpose inspiring others to do their best and never give up. Jay has 6 kids and loves spending time with them.
Subject Resources:
Pleasure Unwoven Video:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxiKVQR90VM&list=PLA8F89537FD4C3FD1
2. https://vimeo.com/ondemand/pleasureunwoven/154506392?autoplay=1
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How to Talk to Children About Substance Use:
3. https://centerforparentingeducation.org/library-of-articles/nutrition-and-healthy-lifestyle/talking-younger-children-drugs-alcohol-early-intervention-tips/
4. https://www.samhsa.gov/talk-they-hear-you/parent-resources/why-you-should-talk-your-child
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158. Discussion: Introduction to Trauma
We mention trauma a lot here on the podcast. Trauma is more common than we realize and can impact us much more that we realize too. Big behaviors, anxieties, substance use, and more can be linked to trauma. Jen and Hilary give us an intro into trauma, what it is, and how we can understand it.
Articles:
1. https://childinst.org/a-brief-explanation-of-aces-adverse-childhood-experiences/
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157. Guest: Kyle Hickman Intro to Substance Abuse
October is Substance Abuse Awareness Month! Hilary and a guest host, Alissa, chat with our guest Kyle about substance abuse! Kyle tells us how abuse can start, how it interacts with mental health, how to support loved ones and so much more!
Kyle is a Psychotherapist at Ora Counseling here in Logan Utah. He has his own journey with substance abuse and years of knowledge, training, and a passion for helping others.
Subject Resources:
1. https://youtu.be/PY9DcIMGxMs?si=XrPNm62RcT2AmKr3
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xX9ZxIMSQg0
3. https://youtu.be/95ovIJ3dsNk?si=eboZ8qVh5kwrT1fA
4. https://goldenstepsrecovery.com/
5. https://www.aa.org/alcoholics-anonymous
6. https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyle-hickman-lcsw-65a521135
7. https://www.oracounseling.com/
Subject Warnings: Substance use and abuse.
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156. Story of Resilience: Matt's Story with Substance Abuse
October is Substance Abuse Awareness Month and we have a great month of guests, stories, information, and resources for you!
Today we have a guest, Matt, who is here to tell us about his journey with substance abuse. Jen and Nicole and Matt go along his journey from start to finish. Learn how to encourage others who are going through the same journey and how to be a support!
We are so grateful to Matt for being open and vulnerable and being willing to share his story with us to understand this situation better and to help others.
Trigger Warning: Alcohol abuse, substance abuse.
Episode Notes and Resources:
1. https://youth.gov/feature-article/national-substance-abuse-prevention-month
2. https://www.samhsa.gov/blog/youth-substance-use-prevention-month
3. https://www.verywellmind.com/best-ways-to-quit-drinking-5080571
4. https://www.aa.org/find-aa
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155. Story of Resilience: Childhood Cancer Diagnosis
September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month! Melanie is here to share her story about navigating her young son's cancer diagnosis, the journey, and recovery.
Melanie works here at The Family Place Utah and we are so glad to have here her here. She has a bachelors degree in Social Work and will be starting on her master's soon. She has 4 kids and a great husband.
Episode Notes and Resources:
https://www.stjude.org/get-involved/other-ways/childhood-cancer-awareness-month.html
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154. Guest: Suicide Awareness with Cari Phillips
September is Suicide Awareness month, and we brough our co-worker Cari Phillips to come and chat with us. Cari teaches and supervises our Mental Health First Aid program here at The Family Place. She has stats, ideas, and tips for HOW to talk about suicide and why it is so important to do so.
Subject Resources:
1. Mental Health First Aid: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/
2. The Family Place Events for MHFA class information: https://thefamilyplaceutah.org/events/list/
3. Feelings Detective (ARC GROW):
Subject Warnings: Suicide. Suicidal Ideation. Death.
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153. Discussion: Time Management
Whether you are a parent or not, time management is a skills that can be incredibly helpful! Jen and Hilary are talking about time management skills that they love, what they are good at, and what they want to work on. You can find the articles they reference below.
Articles:
1. https://www.lifehack.org/663431/10-time-management-tips-every-busy-parent-needs-to-know
2. https://www.nurturelife.com/blog/5-time-management-tips-for-busy-parents/
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152. Guest: Importance of Reading to Your Children - Sarah Orton
Sarah Orton is here to talk to us about the importance of reading to our children! She spills all about the benefits of reading to them, including some intense stats about how it can help children later in life!
Subject Resources:
1. Parents As Teachers program locator: https://parentsasteachers.org/program-locator/
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151. Understanding Shame with Reece Nielson
Shame is common in all of our lives, but do we realize when it sneaks in? Understanding shame can help us in parenting, working with others, and learning to better help ourselves. Reece, our Clinical Director here at The Family Place Utah, is here to guide us through the stages of shame and how it works.
Subject Resources:
1. Janina Fisher resources: https://janinafisher.com/
2. Brene Brown books: https://brenebrown.com/books-audio/
3. The Body Keeps the Score book: https://a.co/d/2fdRnJe
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150. Guest: Traveling with Neurodivergent Children - Dawn Barclay
Do you dread big changes, traveling, or any disruption in schedules? Do you dread this not for yourself, but in fear of how your child(ren) will react? Dawn Barclay is here to help! Travel, change, and new places can be incredibly stressful for children (and adults!) that are on the neurodivergent spectrum. Dawn has incredible tips, resources, and her own book that is here to help!
Guest Bio: Dawn M. Barclay is an award-winning author who has spent a career working in different aspects of the travel industry. After spending ten years working in sales and marketing for her parents’ two firms she branched out into travel trade reporting with senior or contributing editor positions at Travel Agent Magazine, Travel Life, Travel Market Report, and most recently, Insider Travel Report.
Subject Resources:
1. http://www.dawnbarclayink.com/
2. https://www.amazon.com/Traveling-Different-Strategies-Inflexible-Neurodiverse/dp/B09WJM45H9#customerReviews
3. https://thearc.org/our-initiatives/travel/
4. https://autismtravel.com/travel-agents/
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149. Discussion: Back to School Stress and Transition
Transitions are hard for adults and children! School is right around the corner and Jen and Hilary are here to talk to some of the stress that comes with it, as well as some tips to help.
Take care of yourself this time of year!
Articles:
1. https://www.bbrfoundation.org/blog/back-school-stress-management
2. https://childmind.org/article/back-school-anxiety/
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148. Story of Resilience: Lost in the Wilderness with Kaden Laga
Being lost in the wilderness might be one of the scariest things we can imagine happening to us. Kaden Laga is with Jen and Hilary today to tell us his story of getting lost, and eventually found in the Montana wilderness. Listen in for an intriguing story and heartfelt acceptance of what helped Kaden survive.
Kaden Laga has been married for 7 years, is a father of 2 boys, and works in digital advertising. He is *still* an outdoors enthusiast.
Episode Notes and Resources:
News article: https://www.deseret.com/utah/2019/8/17/20809737/missing-utah-man-found-alive-orem-kaden-laga#:~:text=Kaden%20Laga%2C%2025%2C%20went%20missing%20on%20Sunday%20while,searching%20and%20praying%2C%20his%20mother%2C%20Debbie%20Laga%2C%20said.
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147. Ask Away: 4 Year Old Independence
Seeing kids out and about in pajamas, costumes, or (to adults), tragically clashing outfits is really not that odd. However, being the parent of that child changes things. Today Jen and Hilary address a listener's concern about their 4-year-old wearing pajamas in public. Listen for a laugh and some great tips.
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146. Guest: Malouf Foundation on Child Sex Abuse and Trafficking
You might have heard of Malouf pillows, mattresses, or other home goods, but they happen to do SO much more! Sage Hancock is here from The Malouf Foundation to tell us about what they do, and why they do it. She gives us signs to look for, how trafficking looks in our communities, and ways we can help.
Guest Bio:
Sage Hancock is passionate about making an impact and creating positive change, especially when it comes to women’s rights and advocacy. As executive director of the Elizabeth Smart Foundation and director of impact at the Malouf Foundation™, Sage helps oversee the strategic development and planning of each organization and program, including OnWatch™.
Sage has several years of direct nonprofit experience. She’s helped grow nonprofits from their beginning stages, served on several nonprofit boards, and aided in the donation and grant solicitation process for various local causes. She has a Master of Business Administration degree from Louisiana State University.
A lover of the great outdoors, Sage and her husband, Porter, enjoy boating, camping, biking, snowboarding, and spending time in the mountains together.
Subject Resources:
1. Malouf Foundation: https://malouffoundation.org/education
2. Raise App Website: https://www.joinraise.com/
3. Human Trafficking Hotline: https://humantraffickinghotline.org/en
4. National Center for Missing and Exploited Children: https://www.missingkids.org/
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145. Guest: Jesse Yarger- Sleep Help for Kids
Jesse is an ABA therapist as well as a Certified Behavioral Analyst and is here to give us tips for helping our children sleep. It's hard to find another topic in parenting that brings as much dread as the topic of sleep can. Jesse has great tips and guidance for how to navigate newborn sleep habits as well as older children. Do your kids get out of bed all the time, asking for water, or snuggles, or something else? Listen in today for some great ideas from Jesse!
Subject Resources:
Rogue Behavior Services: https://roguebehaviorservices.com/
Book Recommendation Link: https://www.amazon.com/Good-Night-Sweet-Dreams-Love/dp/1889322652
Sleep Help Link: Sleep Tips for Caregivers.pdf
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144. Discussion: Parenting in Summer Mode
Summer is here, and we all have differing feelings about that. Jen and Hilary discuss how different parents feel about Summer and how to navigate some tough parts about it.
Articles:
https://mompowerment.com/get-most-of-summer-as-working-mom/
https://parentinfluence.com/tips-for-working-parents-to-enjoy-summer-break/
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143. Story of Resilience: Julie's Story of Child Loss, Divorce, Chronic Illness, and Tips on Grieving
Julie is here and she is a treat to listen to! Julie has had a lot of big changes in her life and is here to share the thoughts and feelings behind them. She has incredible advice for grieving, and also a great sense of humor to share. Join Jen and Hilary as they get to know Julie, listen to her story, and learn from her and her experiences.
Julie Hanson Card currently serves as a board member for Share Parents of Utah. She and her husband, Lance, live in Saratoga Springs, Utah and have been married for 12 years. They have a combined total of 8 children (7 living), 2 daughter-in-laws, 3 adorable grandchildren,2 unruly dogs and 1 ridiculously spoiled parrot. Julie enjoys historically senior hobbies such as: rockhounding, metal detecting, bird watching and traveling even though she doesn't even qualify for an AARP membership.
Episode Notes and Resources:
Share Parents: https://sputah.org/
Dr. Wolfelt: https://www.centerforloss.com/about-the-center-for-loss/about-dr-alan-wolfelt/
Grief/Reconciliation/Mourning Resources:
1. https://www.centerforloss.com/grief/
2. https://www.joincake.com/blog/free-grief-counseling/#:~:text=Ways%20to%20Find%20Free%20or%20Low-Cost%20In-Person%20Grief,7%207.%20TAPS%20National%20Military%20Survivor%20Helpline%20
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142. Guest: Ana Chavarri with Encircle Utah. LGBTQ+ love and support.
We continue our discussion on how we can support families and protect children in the LGBTQ+ community. Ana Chavarri is here from Encircle Utah. Jen, Hilary, and Ana discuss what love and support looks like, how to talk about it, what resources Encircle provides, and more! Come and learn more about what people in the LGBTQ+ community need, and how we can support and love them.
Episode Resources:
https://encircletogether.org/
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141. Guest: HERO Dads with Moshe Moeller.
Moshe Moeller is joining us all the way from New York! Moshe leads a few incredible programs in his community, including one called HERO Dads. He chats with Hilary and Jen about how dads have not always been involved in parenting studies, and how that is changing. He talks about what skills and resources his program supplies, talks about the importance of fathers in a child's life, as well as give us great resources for us as listeners!
Subject Resources:
1. https://www.drmoshemoeller.com/
2. Fatherhood & Parenting (arminbrott.com)
3. https://a.co/d/8RiyUMo
4. Father Involvement Programs for Organizations and Families | NFI (fatherhood.org)
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140. Discussion: Teen Slang
G.O.A.T, drip, boujie, and the list goes on. Jen and Hilary guess what slang terms mean, learn the definitions, discuss some 80's slang, and talk about how slang is created. Join us this week to hear Jen and Hilary be embarrassed and delighted by current slang.
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139. Story of Resilience: Camille's Story of Divorce and Step-Parenting
Camille is kind enough to share her story with us today about a turbulent marriage, step-parenting struggles (and great tips), as well as learning about gas-lighting and other new terms! Camille, Jen, and Hilary explore great books, classes, similarities and more! Come and listen!
Episode Notes and Resources:
Books:
"Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts" by Les Parrot
"Building Love Together in Blended Families" by Gary Chapman and Ron L. Deal
"The Smart Stepmom" by Ron L. Deal and Laura Pertherbridge
"The Smart Stepfamily" by Ron L. Deal ---------
Step Family Class: in-person with dinner class for whole family- https://thefamilyplaceutah.org/event/smart-steps-for-stepfamilies-3/
Step Family Class: virtual- https://extension.usu.edu/hru/courses/smart-steps-for-stepfamilies
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138. Ask Away: Redirecting 2 Year-Old Who Loves to Say "Mine!"
Surely we all have had an experience with a toddler or pre-school aged child who loves to say "MINE!" While this is very developmentally normal, it doesn't make it easy as the adult or parent. Jen and Hilary guide us through some redirection ideas and other tips to help us survive the "MINE" phase of childhood.
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137. Guest: Lenora Edwards- Speech Pathologist
Did you know that speech therapy is not just for speech impediments? Lenora Edwards from Better Speech is here to tell us all about who can benefit from speech therapy! Lenora gives us tips on how to talk to our kids in a way that encourages speech growth, tells us different ages and situations where people can benefit from speech therapy, and more! Join Jen and Hilary on this new journey and build your knowledge.
Subject Resources:
Website: https://www.betterspeech.com/
Start Now: https://www.betterspeech.com/start-now
Better Speech Resources: https://www.betterspeech.com/blog
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourbetterspeech/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@better.speech
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betterspeech/
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/company/better-speech/mycompany/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterSpeechVideo
Financial Assistance: www.betterspeech.com/consult-financial-aid
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