Therapy Thursday with Kelly U.

*Spoiler alert!* Kelly met a BOY. And yes, she gives you all the dirty details :) 

In this episode, Kelly and Kenzie face their trust issues and fear of getting hurt when it comes to boys. They both have anxious attachment styles and tell us exactly what they’re doing in therapy to help them change that. From overthinking every text, to constantly fearing that someone will leave them, they get real about the emotion rollercoaster of dating while healing from past relationship trauma.

We're getting real about why setting goals is so important, but so intimidating..

In this episode, Kelly and Dani face their fear of failure and open up about why setting goals is so hard for them. From procrastinating tasks, avoiding trying new things, to worrying about what others think - it's easy feel stuck and stay stagnant. But, last year left a lot of us unhappy and we're feeling motivated to change that together. Throughout this very vulnerable chat, they start to map out exactly how they're going to start. *Spoiler alert!* They actually get pretty excited about it.

Because we have to stop having bad sex!!!

This episode is all about how far we’ve cum…

Kelly and Dani GET REAL about sexy talk in the bedroom. Why does it feel so unsexy to talk about sex? And why do partners get so weird when you ask for what you want in the bedroom?

Plus, we tell you about our first times doing the dirty, how to deal with UTi’s and growing up going to Catholic school. Damn LMAO, enjoy!

As if bleeding isn’t bad enough, no one wants to talk about it...

EXCEPT US! It’s the time of the month for Kelly and Dani to discuss all things PERIODS! We invite DivaCup founder & CEO Carinne Chambers-Saini to share her incredible story around creating the world’s best menstrual cup. Plus, we discuss global menstrual equity and period poverty, our first tampon experiences and how to get more people talking about menstruation.

Ever heard the phrase, "you break it, you buy it"? That's trying to get my dad to pay for therapy.

Kelly invites her friend and fellow influencer, Nicole Zajac to talk all about their childhood and parental trauma- including why this affected their body image for so long and how they wish their parents would just GO TO THERAPY! Plus, Nicole opens up about cheating (and getting married!) and finding a balance in food and exercise recovery.

Even my therapist agrees, I’ve been a bad friend..

Kelly and Dani discuss their own toxic behaviors in friendships - including romanticizing childhood friendships, getting a boyfriend and forgetting your friends exist and losing a best friend (and realizing it could have been avoided). Plus, Kelly and Dani argue about over-the-top bachelorette parties, making friends in a world-wide panorama and accepting that superficial friendships are totally healthy and okay.

This is the ultimate shit-talking episode…

They aren’t just pretty faces - they have serious digestive issues. Kelly invites model, actress and podcaster Kate Noel to discuss their SEVERE IBS. Is it weird for women to discuss pooping and acid reflux? NO! Did Kelly really have to have botox injected into her butt? YES! Plus, find out what Kelly and Kate really think about “what I eat in a day” videos, and react to some of the worst poop stories we’ve ever seen.

Technically when I’m sleeping but…

Kelly had a dream about her ex. No, not a sex dream. And no, she didn’t hit him with her car. But why do we dream about our exes? Does that mean we still have feelings? Are we just too horny!? This episode we discuss the kind of sex we like, the stupid stigma, and how to talk about sex on a date. Kelly also opens up about her breakup, the long-winded recovery of dating a narcissist and how to find closure in the midst of chaos.

If you’re a people pleaser, raise your hand! Did you raise it? We know you did…

Kelly and Dani discuss their long standing history with people pleasing, manipulating others to get their way and how you can be confrontational (Dani) or agreeable (Kelly) and still be a doormat for people. Plus, we get angry about TikTok Starbucks orders, react to your people pleasing stories, and relate to every single one of them.

Can you imagine treating a patient with an eating disorder AFTER HAVING RECOVERED FROM AN EATING DISORDER?

Neither can we! Kelly sits with Dr. Colleen Reichmann, a therapist who specializes in eating disorder recovery with REAL LIVED experience because you guessed it! She was a BINGE EATER! They talk about why IBS and Eating Disorders go hand in hand, eating in the light of the moon and how recovery is a continuous journey, no matter what stage you think you’re in.

My family might hate me for this episode..

Kelly invites radically honest psychotherapist Sit with Whit (Whitney Goodman, LMFT). Whitney is a licensed therapist in Family and Marriage Therapy, with a specialization in trauma - which is right up Kelly’s alley! They talk about their own family upbringings and why parents don’t always know best. Plus, Whitney answers YOUR questions about your family, therapy, everything.

We bring a whole new meaning to daddy issues…

And we aren’t just talking about in the bedroom! This week, Kelly interviews Mary Jelkovsky - the face of Mary’s Cup of Tea and author of the newly released The Gift of Self-Love. In this episode, Kelly and Mary find out they have the same dad and discuss the impact of growing up in a household of immigrants in America. Plus, find out why dad crying is SO annoying and how to work on forgiving a parent who’s let you down.

Before you hit unfollow, you might relate to us more than you think…

You’ve heard us talk all about codependency with friends, food and partners - but what about codependency with social media? In this episode, Kelly interviews internet and real life friend, Kenzie Brenna, about the reality of being a social media influencer. From unrealistic expectations, to the pressures of the platform, to dating as an influencer (and how to hide your account from prospective suitors) - we share the REAL TEA on what it’s like to be an influencer on Instagram in 2021. Plus, we read your vent sessions on your own relationship with social media.

Kelly discusses her very first time...

in therapy and every SINGLE type of therapy she’s tried since (hint: it’s a lot). From trauma group therapy, to eating disorder support, to Co-Dependents Anonymous, to freakin’ couples therapy with her narcissistic ex - Kelly has seen it all and shares her experience and why she still goes to therapy every week after 6 years. Plus, we react to your first therapy experiences.

You heard that right, KELLY was a STONER! 

But after having some deep self-reflection during the panorama, Kelly is celebrating her first year of sobriety. In this episode, we deep dive into our first experiences with cannabis, why smoking weed felt SO good for SO long and how she managed to quit cold turkey after 10 long years of reefer smoking. Plus, Kelly responds to your “ASK ME ANYTHING” about withdrawals, sex without weed and getting rid of all her precious bongs, vapes and pens.