The Sedated Man

TSM-62 The Daughters Series Part 1: The Abused

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Welcome to the The Sedated Man podcast, where amazing things can happen for Christian men who have been asleep too long. This is where true scriptural masculinity lives, with no apologies!

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TSM-78 Being Stuck As A Christian Man
Most Faith Based Men I meet are stuck. Not sure where to go with their lives or in their families and congregations. I myself struggle with these same things. Its time for all of us to just stop!. Today we talk about how
October 19, 2019
TSM-77 The Marriage Revolution. An Interview With Chris Borghese
Today we get to the core of the problem with men in their marriages and how they can begin to fix things and heal
October 12, 2019
TSM-76 Robin Hood And God. An Interview With Michael Ruiz
Manning up, mixed families, and why business is scriptural. A few of the things talked about and emphasized in this episode. Join Us!
October 5, 2019
TSM-75 Rise Up For The Gray Haired
To many times we are letting our kids run roughshod over the elderly in our congregations because we as men have not set the example and trained the hearts of kids to show love to this sacred section of our lives
September 28, 2019
TSM-74 The Words We Use. Tearing The Church Down One Word At A Time
If we speak poorly of ourselves, then we speak poorly of the creation god has made in us, and essentially tear the church down in the process. Today we talk about rebuilding that man form the ground up!
September 14, 2019
TSM-73 The Power Of The New Creation. An Interview With Chris Martinez
If you haven't heard this story, STOP and listen to it now. This is what scripture is talking about when it talks about overcoming Sin and Living the New Creation
September 7, 2019
TSM-72 3 Things You Can Do Today To Get On The Same Page With Your Spouse
This is a common problem I come across. The husband is driving hard but the spouse doesn't support the project or doesn't want to know anything about it.  In this episode we hit it head on, and I give three tips to bridge the gap.
August 25, 2019
TSM-71 Gratitude: The Monster In The Closet
I have long struggled with whether or not Gratitude is active or passive. Is it a Tool or just a nice feeling toward someone or something else. Today we answer the question of just how much, by scripture, Gratitude can change your life and the lives of those around you. 
August 10, 2019
TSM-70 The Silent Killer Of Your Christianity
The boring humdrum of existence was never supposed to energize the Christian Man. The Holy Spirit was. Are you participating in "Check the box" Christianity? 
August 3, 2019
TSM-69 The Daughters Series Part 3: Getting It Right
What would it look like if you were actually a Godly, loving Father? Sara Peterson Answers that question on this episode 
July 18, 2019
TSM-68 Was Jesus A Liberal Or A Conservative? The Politics Edition
Today we talk about politics. Why do we allow it to rule our lives in the name of God? And why do we feel so much more passionate about who's in office then about whats in scripture?
June 29, 2019
TSM-67 Why Your Story Matters
Your story is the one you and God have written exclusively for you. Its the one that could change lives for the better. Share it!!
June 23, 2019
TSM-66 The Nemesis Of Distraction
 Distraction is flat out destructive. What will happen to the Kingdom when we are more defined by our stuff and our hobbies then by the blood of Christ? 
June 16, 2019
TSM-65 Are You Your Own Goliath? A Comparison Of Saul And David
How Do you define your Christian walk? Bold Like David or weak like Saul. Today we discuss what your walk looks like and how to overcome.
June 1, 2019
TSM-64 Family, Faith And Business. An Interview With Dave Woodward
 Today we talk the balance of Faith, Family, and Business with a guy who has walked the path. Dave has been there and come out the other end. With a message of "Lean in and never give up" 
May 25, 2019
TSM-63 The Daughters Series Part 2: The Neglected
Today we talk about the grey area of neglect. Daughters mature and suddenly dad steps back because he doesn't understand her changes and figures Mom has it. You are wrong! Your Daughters need you just as much during the "Change" , if not more.  Maybe you're just busy with work and dont feel you have time.  Today's podcast covers those things. Take note neglect may not be abuse, but it leads to abusive relationships when daughters seek the male attention you did not, or would not give them 
May 18, 2019
TSM-62 The Daughters Series Part 1: The Abused
The point of this is to show you the things your future daughter may have to deal with if you as a Father do not change some of the habits you have now, or admit they are even a problem. This is about setting them up for success by manning up as Dads and overcoming Sin that may be crouching at the door. Remember, Sin is a choice.  Go Forth and Conquer
May 11, 2019
TSM-61 Bad News Isn't Always Bad. An Interview With K.E. Rupert
 Today we talk with Ken Rupert. When He and his wife realized they had a Special Needs child, He chose to provide for that child well beyond his years, rather then just plug him into the system. He had to master his financial situation and his health at one point. Great Interview every man needs to hear.
May 4, 2019
TSM-60 Bible Business. An Interview With Myron Golden
Today we talk with Myron Golden about the business aspects of the Bible and how it is really a mindset issue. Myron is one of the most knowledgeable men I have spoken with when it comes to this subject. Enjoy and find all the links at
May 2, 2019
TSM 59 Advance Yourself. An Interview with Dom Brightmon
Today we talk with Dominique Brightmon. Author of "Going North", and "Stay the course." Dom also runs the "Going North Podcast". We talk about usable tools that Dom has created to keep your positive energy up, and the negativity out. Going North-
April 27, 2019
TSM-58 Issues With Men In The Military. An Interview With Former LTC Mike Yaeger
Today we talk to former Colonel Mike Yaeger about his experience with men in the military. The difference between young men now and young men 10 years ago, how the entitlement mentality affects the soldier and why suicide rates are up amongst younger soldiers, Mike was a Lieutenant Colonel but when he could no longer promote chose to go the Non-commissioned Officer route just so he could stay in the National Guard. He is currently a Sargent. For more info on mike or to speak with me directly email me at
April 20, 2019
TSM-57 The Return Of Leadership. An Interview With Joe Lee Of "Focus On Christ"
Today we talk to Joe Lee about his Business "Focus On Christ".( How to help the Return of Leadership to your congregation and see men step up once again. 
April 13, 2019
TSM-56 Overcoming Porn. An Interview With Shane O'Neill Of Proven Men Ministries
Today we talk about the harmful effects of porn on not only men but women. We also talk about what churches can do, and the tools available to help their flock. Dont brush this one aside. Listen and be honest with yourself and others.
April 6, 2019
TSM-55 The Grace Of God. An Interview With Gene Curl
Today we talk with Gene Curl of The Recovering Faith Podcast. We talk about his story of growing up with an abusive father and why he feels compelled to help those with a negative view of God come to a new perspective.
March 30, 2019
TSM-54 From Con To King. An Interview With Steffan Redhawk
Today we talk to Steffan about Change, Prison, More Change and Business as an outreach.
March 23, 2019
TSM-53 Why Brotherhood? An interview with Joe Prim of Ever Vigilant
Today we have our first interview!! Joe Prim with The Ever Vigilant Podcast comes to talk about Brotherhood and its importance to the very Salvation of men.
March 17, 2019
TSM-52 Making Things Right With A Deceased Parent
What do we do when a parent dies and we have not made peace with the problems and abuse that may have existed in the relationship? Today we talk about why its vital to our spiritual and family health to let that go regardless of blame and bitterness.
March 9, 2019
TSM-51 The Couch Calleth
Get up and Quit Making Mediocrity The New Christian Norm 
March 2, 2019
TSM-50 Five Private Things You Need To Know About Veterans
Why It Is So Important To Make Sure Veterans Are An Active, Contributing Force To Your Congregations. 
February 16, 2019
TSM-49 So You Think A Home Church Is The Answer
Just a real look at what it takes to start a Home Church and things to think about before you make the leap.
February 9, 2019
TSM-48 Why Women Should Never Mentor Men
Talking about why men should not seek advice on how to be a "Man" from a woman, and how scripture shows women have enough to do without that responsibility as well
February 3, 2019
TSM-47 5 Reasons It Is A Problem To seek Forgiveness Rather Then Permission
Discussing how to overcome choices that negatively affect you and those around you.
January 26, 2019
TSM-46 How To Find Joy In The Job You Hate
Finally feel good about going to work, even if you hate what you do! 
January 19, 2019
TSM-45 Masculinity, Meltdowns, And An Introduction To The Titan
Talking about my recent meltdown, and why Christian Men are Titans in Christ
January 12, 2019
TSM-44 How To Stop Outsourcing “The Boss” To Your Wife
Stop Calling your wife the Boss and honor her and God by stepping up and executing that position yourself.
January 5, 2019
TSM-43 How To Overcome And Conquer The War On Men
The War on Men requires conviction and acknowledgement. We will discuss both here and the solutions
December 22, 2018
TSM-42 How To Challenge Burnout And Make It Your Slave
Today we talk about Burnout as a tool and how to conquer it!!
December 15, 2018
TSM-41 How To Prize A Powerful, Sensational Woman
Today we Redefine the "Stay at Home Mom", and talk about why your wife is the greatest tool in your arsenal of overcoming
December 1, 2018
TSM 40- How To Bear The Courage Of The Bastard Sword
Is your sword shiny, dull and unused? This is how we handle accurately the sword we are issued in Christ and why it should look used and battle hardened
November 23, 2018
TSM-39 How To Make "No" A Positive Part Of Your Life
Today we talk about how to say No and still be a good person and not feel bad about it according to scripture.
November 17, 2018
TSM-38 How To Realize You May Be Broken And Not The Church
Today we talk about why your problems at Church could quite possibly be you and not them
November 11, 2018
TSM-37 How To Find Your Backbone After A Miserable Divorce (Part 2): Can I Remarry?
Today we talk about whether a Divorced Christian Man Can Remarry.
November 3, 2018
TSM-36 How To Find Your Backbone After A Miserable Divorce (Part 1)
Today we talk about getting back to our square one, and not letting our divorce define who we are.
October 28, 2018
TSM-35 How To Reignite The Fire Of Masculinity
Today we talk about what it means, by scripture, to be masculine in a world that wants to condemn it.
October 20, 2018
TSM 34- How to Protect the Girl and Increase Intimacy
Today we talk about why your sex life is tied to your wife's overall trust in you. We also talk about how to increase that trust and ultimately your intimacy
October 13, 2018
TSM-33 How To Stop Feeling Like A Bad Dad
Today we talk about why you need to put this feeling behind you and the questions you can ask yourself to get there.
October 6, 2018
TSM-32 How to Love and Lead your Confident Wife
Today we talk about your "Live out Loud" wife and how you can get her respect and Love and Lead her effectively. You Got this!
September 29, 2018
TSM-31 The Difference Between Sin and Mistake
Today we talk about why Sin and Mistake dont have to occupy the same space.
September 14, 2018
TSM-30 Proving the Scripture to others. How to know what you know.
Today we talk about resources to use and why it is so important to have a great grasp of scripture
September 8, 2018
TSM-29 Why Walmart is Crushing Your Christianity
Today we Hammer down on Mindset and how important it is, right down to where we shop and why
September 1, 2018
TSM-28 Risk Makes Men
Why does current Christian Dogma state that Risk Aversion is Ok? Today we talk about Gods version of Risk Management and why more Risk is Good.
August 25, 2018
TSM-27 Growing apart: Where is That in Scripture?
Today we talk about why "Growing Apart" in Marriage will lead to Sin through Divorce and sedation. We also talk about how to fix it.
August 18, 2018
TSM-26 Why being a "Sinner Forgiven" is causing you to Fail
Today we talk about why the modern view of Christianity as being a " Sinner Forgiven" is not only untrue, but not found in scripture. We also talk about how to change your perspective to become the Man you need to be
August 11, 2018
TSM-25 Pursuing your Wife and Winning in Your Marriage
Today we discuss why pursuing your Wife is vital to your marriage and your Faith
August 4, 2018
TSM-24 The Legend of the Two-Fer: How to purge this Man from your life
Today we discuss the "Two-Fer" which is a term I came up with to refer to the old saying "two for the price of one". This is when men are one way at home and another when they are with "the boys". We talk about calling that guy out one purging him from your life.
July 28, 2018
TSM-23 The Myth of the Midlife Crisis: Why this doesn't apply to Christian Men
We discuss how scripture views the midlife crisis, and how the world uses it to extract money from your pocket
July 14, 2018
TSM-22 Brotherhood and Suicide
Today we talk about the direction connection between Suicide and a lack of Brotherhood, and how to fix it.
July 7, 2018
TSM-21 The Christian Mens Battle Cry: Be Imitators of Me!
Today we talk about how we need to follow Paul's example and be a man worth following ourselves, and how to do that.
June 30, 2018
TSM-20 Now Serving: Fear!
A quick talk about how Fear has no place in the Christian walk and how we need to step past Fear in Faith
June 16, 2018
TSM-19 Swearing: Myth or Monster?
Today we tackle Swearing head on. no one likes to talk about it and it always seems divisive. Hopefully this Podcast helps put that to rest.
June 9, 2018
TSM-18 Conviction or Preference? Which do you live by?
We discuss the difference between Conviction and Preference, and how it can make you a Great God Fearing Man or an Excuse to speak but not act.
May 28, 2018
TSM-17 Alcohol and Tobacco. Sin??
Today we talk about whether Alcohol and Tobacco (with a sprinkle of Tattoos) are actually a sin and a Sedation Problem. Tune in!!
May 19, 2018
TSM-16 To Church or Not to Church
This is a special edition talking about whether a man should be in church every time the doors are open, or whether he can still be God-Fearing and never attend church
May 13, 2018
TSM-15 Food Addiction, A Primer
Today we discuss Food Addiction. What it is, How it affects a Godly Man, and what to do about it.
May 12, 2018
TSM-14 The Sexless Marriage
Pt 2 of Episode 13. Dealing with the problem of Sexless Marriage and how its an unscriptural situation.
May 4, 2018
TSM-13 Porn and the God Fearing
Today we delve into the relationship between Porn and The God Fearing
April 28, 2018
TSM-12 Compassion, Selflessness, Selfishness, and Tough Love
Dealing with Sedation as it applies to others who are not deserving.
April 26, 2018
TSM-11 How to Forgive Yourself Today!
This time we delve into how to forgive the most important person in your Salvation Walk. You!
April 18, 2018
TSM- 10 The Rut
In this episode we talk about one of the most destructive thing that leads to sedation. Being stuck!
April 14, 2018
TSM-9 Knowing What You Know
This episode covers why having an answer when asked spiritual questions is so important
April 10, 2018
TSM-8 Marital Balance
A request form one of our listeners to delve deeper into the balance in marriage when the husband has caused some trust issues due to abuse of authority.
April 6, 2018
TSM-6 A Fathers Authority
Talking today about how abusiveness comes in different forms and different faces. And why your role as a father is a vital importance to you, your kids, and ultimately your marriage.
April 5, 2018
TSM-E7 The Prodigal Son
Starting to discuss some of the reasons we may sedate (such as a severed relationship with a child) and why that is no excuse to deprive the world of the leader that God has created in Men.
April 3, 2018
TSM-5 Why and How Scripture supports “ The Law of Attraction”
Today we take a look at Scripture and its application to the law of attraction
March 29, 2018
TSM -4 Query
A request to my listeners to let me know whats heavy on their hearts so we can discuss those things and get you on the road to getting those things fixed
March 29, 2018
TSM-E3 The Sin In Sedation
Why Sedation may not be Sinful by itself, but Sin lies in wait within Sedations doorway
March 17, 2018
TSM- E2- Stuck on the Dot
March 13, 2018
The Sedated Mans beginnings
March 7, 2018
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