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The Sex Agenda Podcast

The Sex Agenda Podcast

By Decolonising Contraception

The Sex Agenda is a podcast by Decolonising Contraception that is leading the conversation around sex, sexuality and reproductive health among Black and people of colour.

Filled with expert knowledge and a good dose of laughter, nothing is too embarrassing or off-limits on this podcast as hosts Dr Annabel Sowemimo (community sexual reproductive health doctor) and Edem Ntumy (community educator and facilitator) strive to debunk myths, tackle taboos and initiate difficult conversations.

Artwork created for Decolonising Contraception by Nicole Chui.
Series edited by Veronique Belinga.
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Kink & BDSM

The Sex Agenda PodcastSep 20, 2021

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Kink & BDSM
Sep 20, 202123:23
Sex Work, Healing Justice & Collective Action

Sex Work, Healing Justice & Collective Action

It’s the final episode of Season 2! We end this season with an incredible conversation with Black Venus (she/her) who is a sex worker, performer, facilitator and founder of Sex and Rage, a sex worker led organisation that resists stigma and shame through sex education. We talk about how how self defence and martial arts can be used as a tool for healing and community building, the misconceptions surrounding sex work and why the Nordic model of sex work doesn’t work.We also give a roundup of the latest sexual health news including OnlyFans making a U-turn of their decision to ban sexually explicit content, Texas abortion law, why the false claims around COVID-19 vaccine and fertility are so powerful and frozen eggs and sperm storage limit being increased to 55 years.Links to what we discuss can be found via the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast by Decolonising Contraception that is leading the conversation around sex, sexuality and reproductive health among Black and people of colour. Filled with expert knowledge and a good dose of laughter, nothing is too embarrassing or off-limits on this podcast as hosts Dr Annabel Sowemimo (community sexual & reproductive health doctor) and Edem Ntumy (community engagement officer) strive to debunk myths, tackle taboos and initiate difficult conversations. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Sep 13, 202156:57
Navigating sexuality & queerness as an international student in the UK

Navigating sexuality & queerness as an international student in the UK

It's episode 14 which means that this season is almost over! This week, DC collective member Gayathiri Kamalakanathan (they/she) took over as host and spoke with Bava Dharani (she/her) about the challenges international students face when navigating sexuality and queerness in the UK.Bava is a research intern at the Stockholm Environment Institute Asia in Bangkok, Thailand. She uses an interdisciplinary approach to understand the intricacies involved in the decisions people make to migrate, settle and form lives in new places, including what it means to live as a queer, gender-nonconforming racialised person in different parts of the world. We also give a round-up of the latest sexual health and social justice issues including the 'virginity testing' ban, Manchester Pride funding cuts and vaginismus.Links to what we discuss can be found via the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast by Decolonising Contraception that is leading the conversation around sex, sexuality and reproductive health among Black and people of colour. Filled with expert knowledge and a good dose of laughter, nothing is too embarrassing or off-limits on this podcast as hosts Dr Annabel Sowemimo (community sexual & reproductive health doctor) and Edem Ntumy (community engagement officer) strive to debunk myths, tackle taboos and initiate difficult conversations. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Aug 30, 202101:17:10
Black Mums Matter
Aug 16, 202101:10:31
Community Organising

Community Organising

This week, Nim Ralph (they/them) joined us for an incredible chat about community organising. Nim is a trans activist and freelance writer, trainer and facilitator at the forefront of UK trans organising. They campaign actively for trans rights, anti-racism, disability and climate justice and also support groups and organisations on deepening their understanding and impact in equity and anti-oppression as well as campaign strategy.We also give a round-up of the latest sexual health and social justice issues including the government’s strategy tackling violence against women and girls, the government’s plans for abortion services in Northern Ireland, birth control and recent research on disabled women experiencing sexual harassment at work.Links to what we discuss can be found via the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast created by Decolonising Contraception collective, an interdisciplinary collective of Black and people of colour, working across sexual and reproductive health (SRH). Hosted by Edem Ntumy (she/her), community engagement officer and Dr Annabel Sowemimo (she/her), community sexual & reproductive health doctor. Each episode gives a round-up of sexual health news, social justice issues and focuses on the work of those working to dismantle the everyday prejudice in our sector. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Aug 02, 202101:03:18
Supporting Trans People of Colour

Supporting Trans People of Colour

We’re back with Episode 11! Sabah Choudrey (they/them/theirs) joined us to chat about their work supporting trans youth, particularly trans people of colour. We also spoke about their upcoming book 'Supporting Trans People of Colour: How To Make Your Practice Inclusive' which is available to pre-order now. Sabah is a psychotherapist in training and self-described reluctant activist on most things trans, brown and hairy. They have worked with trans youth since 2014 and are currently the Head of Youth Service at Gendered Intelligence and a trustee of Inclusive Mosque Initiative.We also give a round-up of the latest sexual health and social justice issues including painful IUD fittings, Britney Spears’s case raising issue of control over reproductive rights, two cis Black African women being banned from the Olympics over their natural testosterone levels and the policing bill.Links to what we discuss can be found via the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast created by Decolonising Contraception collective, an interdisciplinary collective of Black and people of colour, working across sexual and reproductive health (SRH). Hosted by Edem Ntumy (she/her), community engagement officer and Dr Annabel Sowemimo (she/her), community sexual & reproductive health doctor. Each episode gives a round-up of sexual health news, social justice issues and focuses on the work of those working to dismantle the everyday prejudice in our sector. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Jul 19, 202101:09:06
Menopause Whilst Black

Menopause Whilst Black

This week, we had an amazing conversation about the menopause with the wonderful Karen Arthur (she/her). Karen is a 59-year-old grandmother and fashion creative who is committed to helping diversify the menopause scene with her podcast ‘Menopause Whilst Black’, which is now in its second series. Online sex shop Jo Divine have given us a 10% discount code especially for this episode. Head to https://www.jodivine.com/ and use DC2021 in checkout!We also give a round-up of the latest sexual health and social justice issues including women feeling pressured to take long-term reversible contraception, HPV stigma, WHO’s recommendation for ‘women of childbearing age’ to never drink and the need to talk about men and miscarriage.You can check out the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast created by Decolonising Contraception collective, an interdisciplinary collective of Black and people of colour, working across sexual and reproductive health (SRH). Hosted by Edem Ntumy (she/her), community engagement officer and Dr Annabel Sowemimo (she/her), community sexual & reproductive health doctor. Each episode gives a round-up of sexual health news, social justice issues and focuses on the work of those working to dismantle the everyday prejudice in our sector. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Jun 28, 202101:13:05
Black Men's Health

Black Men's Health

It’s Episode 9 and this week we were joined by Takudzwa Mukiwa (he/him) to talk about Black men’s health.Taku (he/him) is a public health professional who has worked both internationally and in the UK and is passionate about the involvement of communities in coming up with solutions to address health issues that affect them. He is currently the Head of Social Marketing at Terrence Higgins Trust and the founder of Black Men's Health UK, an initiative to bring attention to health inequalities faced by Black men in the UK.We also give a round-up of the latest sexual health and social justice issues including HIV prevention drugs and ending HIV stigma in Black communities, bum health and NHS Digital.You can check out the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast created by Decolonising Contraception collective, an interdisciplinary collective of Black and people of colour, working across sexual and reproductive health (SRH). Hosted by Edem Ntumy (she/her), community engagement officer and Dr Annabel Sowemimo (she/her), community sexual & reproductive health doctor. Each episode gives a round-up of sexual health news, social justice issues and focuses on the work of those working to dismantle the everyday prejudice in our sector. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Jun 14, 202101:19:59
Black Fatherhood

Black Fatherhood

May 31, 202101:06:39
Sex & Sexuality in South Asian Communities
May 17, 202101:10:47
Surviving Sexual Abuse, Healing & Community
Apr 26, 202101:03:52
Fetishisation of East Asian Women
Apr 12, 202101:12:46
African Women's Sexuality
Mar 29, 202101:08:13
Fibroids & Cervical Screening

Fibroids & Cervical Screening

Welcome to episode 3! We spoke with Decolonising Contraception collective member and passionate health advocate Isha Webber (she/her) about fibroids and cervical screening. Isha became interested in sexual and reproductive health outcomes after her experiences with contraception in her early 20s and tells us about her abnormal cervical screening test results, her experience having a fibroid removed and advocating for her health and wellbeing.In this episode, we also give a round up of the latest sexual health news including the recent news that Venezuelan women have lost access to affordable contraception, a study showing periods can help reduce period pain and the latest consultation on women’s health in the UK.You can check out the full references on our website.What do you think of the podcast? We want to know what you’ve enjoyed or not enjoyed, what you’ve learnt and how we can improve - your feedback could help us secure funding for Season 3! Share your feedback here: https://k6h3dy9xmnz.typeform.com/to/g7dpVNQ8 ---The Sex Agenda is a podcast created by Decolonising Contraception collective, an interdisciplinary collective of Black and people of colour, working across sexual and reproductive health (SRH). Hosted by Edem Ntumy (She/her), community engagement officer and Dr Annabel Sowemimo (She/her), community sexual & reproductive health doctor. Each episode gives a round up of sexual health news, social justice issues and focuses on the work of those working to dismantle the everyday prejudice in our sector. Series edited by Veronique Belinga.

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Mar 15, 202101:02:22
Religion & Portrayal of Women’s Sexuality
Mar 01, 202101:19:46
Herpes Stigma
Feb 15, 202101:10:57
Telling Our Own Stories
Nov 29, 202058:07
Advocacy with Black Fly Zine
Nov 12, 202049:32
Sexuality & Sensuality
Oct 30, 202001:01:41
Reproductive Justice Part Two
Oct 16, 202001:15:12
Queerness in Caribbean Communities

Queerness in Caribbean Communities

A podcast created by Decolonising Contraception collective, an interdisciplinary collective of Black and people of colour, working across sexual and reproductive health (SRH) . Hosted by Edem Ntumy (She/her) - community engagement officer and Dr Annabel Sowemimo (She/her) community sexual & reproductive health doctor. Each episode gives a round up of sexual health news, social justice issues and focuses on the work of those working to dismantle the everyday prejudice in our sector. Series edited by Veronique Belinga. Episode 6  focuses on queerness in Caribbean communities we speak to Dr Kyle Ring (They/Them) a Sexual Health and HIV doctor working in London. We also give a round up of sexual health news chatting about our Contraception is About Everyone Campaign, honouring the legacy of Supreme Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg and more.  This episode discusses Kyle's experience of being a queer man of Caribbean descent and their journey to learn more about themselves through decolonising work. Kyle is interested in a Caribbean history and healing from ancestral trauma and the affects of colonialism. They write a blog on Caribbean history and genealogy (caribbeanportraitcollection.wordpress.com) and curate an instragram account (@in.hair.itance) about hair representation for people of colour. They sit on a number of committees including the British Association of Sexual Health and HIV (BASHH) HIV SIG, British HIV Association (BHIVA) External Relations Subcommittee and the HIV Trainees Association Committee. It is also Black History Month in the UK but also worth remembering Black History exists 365 days a year :)

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Sep 30, 202001:08:57
The Triple Cripples
Sep 02, 202001:21:48
Power, Pleasure and Patriarchy
Aug 19, 202050:39
The Politics of Black HIV Prevention
Aug 05, 202001:01:10
Decolonising Sex Education
Jul 22, 202059:42
Reproductive Justice
Jul 07, 202052:00