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The Sober Gay

The Sober Gay

By Dillan Gay

Two friends, Dillan and Aubrey, sit down and talk about their sober lives. Hopefully this podcast can give you some insight to the wonderful world of sobriety in the LGBT+ community.
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The Breakup

The Sober GayOct 19, 2022

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The Breakup

The Breakup

Dillan and Aubrey discuss Dillan's breakup.

Oct 19, 202225:36
Call It What You Want

Call It What You Want

Dillan and Aubrey catch up and explore mental health topics.

Sep 16, 202219:45
Sober In Love

Sober In Love

Dillan and Aubrey discuss navigating love in sobriety.

Aug 31, 202224:14
Emotion

Emotion

Dillan and Aubrey discuss ever changing emotions in sobriety.

Jun 03, 202222:22
Forget Me Not

Forget Me Not

Dillan and Aubrey discuss replacing our addictions. 


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Apr 19, 202226:27
Jealousy VS Envy
Apr 10, 202225:16
Not Like Other Sober Girls
Mar 15, 202223:38
Sober Cat's Meow

Sober Cat's Meow

Dillan and Aubrey catch up and chat about kittens, school, and getting angry at work.
Feb 24, 202222:11
Drunk Ego

Drunk Ego

Dillan and Aubrey discuss narcissism and alcoholism.


Feb 07, 202221:41
Family Portrait

Family Portrait

Dillan and Aubrey discuss family relationships in sobriety. 

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Jan 14, 202223:43
Gay Anon with Steve Bennet-Martin
Dec 21, 202118:28
Higher Power

Higher Power

Dillan and Aubrey discuss the idea of a higher power in sobriety.

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Dec 14, 202124:47
Don't Ask, We Tell: Part 2
Dec 06, 202130:27
Don't Ask, We Tell

Don't Ask, We Tell

Dillan and Aubrey catch up and ask each other random questions.

Nov 28, 202132:40
Cancel Culture Vulture
Nov 14, 202125:10
Don't You Know That You're Toxic

Don't You Know That You're Toxic

Dillan and Aubrey discuss poisoning the mind and body. 

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Nov 08, 202128:22
Word Salad

Word Salad

Dillan and Aubrey catch up.


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Oct 24, 202122:13
Sex: Shaken Not Slurred

Sex: Shaken Not Slurred

Dillan and Aubrey talk about their sex drives in sobriety.

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Oct 17, 202123:34
We're Gonna Be Alright

We're Gonna Be Alright

Dillan and Aubrey discuss the different stages and phases of sobriety.

Oct 10, 202119:40
Sobriety Is The New Pink

Sobriety Is The New Pink

Dillan and Aubrey discuss sobriety getting popular in the mainstream.

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Oct 03, 202118:51
Hitting Rock Middle with Maurice

Hitting Rock Middle with Maurice

Dillan introduces and talks to Maurice about his drinking past.


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Sep 26, 202126:05
Death Becomes Us

Death Becomes Us

Dillan and Aubrey discuss the fear of death and how it ties to sobriety.  


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Sep 19, 202119:46
Free Your Mind

Free Your Mind

Dillan and Aubrey discuss meditation in sobriety.


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Sep 12, 202120:25
Healing The Inner Child

Healing The Inner Child

Dillan and Aubrey discuss a listener submission about being transgender in recovery and healing the inner child.

Sep 05, 202127:30
Sober Holiday

Sober Holiday

Dillan and Aubrey discuss traveling and read a heartfelt letter from a listener.

Aug 29, 202123:41
Something To Talk About

Something To Talk About

Dillan and Aubrey catch up and read listener submissions.

Aug 14, 202122:36
Capitalism, Media, and THC

Capitalism, Media, and THC

Dillan and Aubrey discuss some of sobriety's controversial topics.

Jul 30, 202125:40
Power of Self

Power of Self

Dillan and Aubrey discuss self love and inner work.

Jul 11, 202120:14
A Sober Gay's Guide with Jessica Jeboult

A Sober Gay's Guide with Jessica Jeboult

Dillan talks to Jessica Jeboult from A Sober Girls Guide.

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Jun 25, 202144:18
Good Grief!

Good Grief!

Dillan and Aubrey discuss grieving. 

Jun 17, 202116:50
Wedding Season

Wedding Season

Dillan and Aubrey discuss Dillan's week of multiple weddings.

May 28, 202120:57
Talk That Sober Talk

Talk That Sober Talk

Dillan and Aubrey chat and read listener submissions.

May 11, 202122:02
Who Is The Imposter?

Who Is The Imposter?

Dillan and Aubrey discuss imposter syndrome.

Apr 28, 202120:02
It's Not Just The Alcohol

It's Not Just The Alcohol

Dillan and Aubrey discuss why they drank.

Apr 08, 202122:37
Speak It, Don't Drink It

Speak It, Don't Drink It

Dillan and Aubrey discuss manifesting in sobriety.

Mar 23, 202118:02
Sobriety Shaming

Sobriety Shaming

Dillan and Aubrey discuss people shaming people in sobriety.

Mar 07, 202117:40
I Keep On Fallin'

I Keep On Fallin'

Dillan and Aubrey discuss falling into old ways.

Feb 26, 202125:10
Part 2: Healthy VS Unhealthy Sober Outlets

Part 2: Healthy VS Unhealthy Sober Outlets

Dillan and Aubrey discuss healthy and unhealthy sober outlets. Part two of two.

Feb 19, 202122:22
Part 1: Healthy VS Unhealthy Sober Outlets

Part 1: Healthy VS Unhealthy Sober Outlets

Dillan and Aubrey discuss and rate different sober outlets. Part one of two.

Feb 12, 202122:47
Sober VS 'Never Had A Drink'

Sober VS 'Never Had A Drink'

Dillan and Aubrey discuss getting sober versus never having drank at all. 

Jan 31, 202118:01
Dreaming Of You Tonight

Dreaming Of You Tonight

Dillan and Aubrey discuss drinking/using in dreams.

Jan 14, 202118:02
Sober VS Drunk

Sober VS Drunk

Dillan and Aubrey create and play a new game of sober facts VS drunk questions! 

Jan 01, 202131:34
Sober Is Sexy with Tawny Lara

Sober Is Sexy with Tawny Lara

Dillan and Tawny talk about sex, mocktails, and early sobriety.

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Dec 21, 202020:24
Sweet Little Lies

Sweet Little Lies

Dillan and Aubrey discuss all the lies associated with drinking.

Dec 16, 202018:25
Wild Thoughts

Wild Thoughts

Dillan and Aubrey discuss intrusive thoughts.

Dec 06, 202022:33
Honest Tea

Honest Tea

Dillan and Aubrey read some listener submissions.

Nov 29, 202022:30
S E X

S E X

Dillan and Aubrey talk about sober and drunk sex.

Nov 18, 202017:46
In The Closet

In The Closet

Dillan and Aubrey discuss all the times they hid their drinking.

Nov 07, 202019:54
White (Rainbow) Flag

White (Rainbow) Flag

Dillan and Aubrey discuss asking for HELP!

Oct 31, 202020:34
Halloween Special: Spooky Drunk Stories

Halloween Special: Spooky Drunk Stories

Dillan and Aubrey talk about some dark times. Trigger warning for discussions of sexual assault.

Oct 15, 202026:42