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Heartdrops with Suess

Heartdrops with Suess

By Adesuwa Obadare-Akpata

This podcast is dedicated to improving our relationships and society. I believe we can live our best lives in healthy relationships whether with our lovers, friends, acquaintances or family. Letโ€™s all get better one episode at a time.
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Heartdrops with SuessJul 05, 2022

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The Anniversary Episode

The Anniversary Episode


It's our second year anniversary today. Whew! The past two years feel like 2 months and 2 decades at the same time.

On this episode, we spoke about how we met (my version is the correct one), what our relationship has been like and how we got back together after we broke up 5 years ago.

This episode is low-key chaotic because my roommate is a hoodlum as you will soon find out.

Aug 19, 202337:25
Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married 2 ft. Faith

Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married 2 ft. Faith

Marriage is an incredible journey, and we are grateful to experience its joys and challenges firsthand. In this episode, we discuss some unexpected aspects of marriage and how we navigated those initially murky waters.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone planning to tie the knot. If you're preparing for your upcoming wedding, this conversation provides valuable insights to help you and your future spouse embark on the beautiful journey ahead.

Tune in to our podcast on any of the streaming platforms, and be sure to share it with everyone in your circle. Discuss it with your partners and friends, and we welcome your feedback on our Instagram page (@heartdropswithsuess).

Let's keep the conversation going and support one another in building strong and fulfilling relationships.

Jul 11, 202341:20
5 Myths About Sex

5 Myths About Sex

Long time no solo episode ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ

I know I canโ€™t be the only one who believed some of these myths and even projected them. Thank Jesus for wisdom. Which of these myths did you believe? Which ones were new to you?
Jun 20, 202323:08
Queen Charlotte Movie Review

Queen Charlotte Movie Review

Have you seen the Netflix series? Yes? No? Not to worry, we dey for you. Join us on this special episode as we discuss our favourite characters and the relationships in The Queen Charlotte series. It is definitely worth a listen.

Meanwhile, NEPA and my neighbours almost frustrated me on the day we recorded, but I prevailed.

May 16, 202353:26
A Gen-Z's POV on Relationships ft. Dami Sarah

A Gen-Z's POV on Relationships ft. Dami Sarah

From sibling squabbles to genotypes and relationship values, Dami and I share our experiences in our past and current relationships.

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Apr 11, 202301:00:41
Why Do Church Girls Like Players? ft. Tolu

Why Do Church Girls Like Players? ft. Tolu

From lack of confidence to body odors, we shared our thoughts on church boys and why they no longer "enter our eye". Spiritual fervency is great but women have other needs. Listen and be blessed ๐ŸŒ
Mar 21, 202320:58
Why Do Church Boys Love Baddies?

Why Do Church Boys Love Baddies?

It looks like love is hard to find in churches of all places. I asked Yinka why most 'church boys' would rather date baddies than church girls. What seems to be the missing ingredient?ย 

Mar 14, 202314:54
Shooting Friendship Shots ft. Jae ๐Ÿ’ž

Shooting Friendship Shots ft. Jae ๐Ÿ’ž

If you find it hard to make friends or you think you need to be a better friend, this episode is for you. On this episode, Justina and I talk about friendship shots that have backfired and how hidden resentments can ruin beautiful friendships.
Feb 28, 202334:58
Green Flags in a Relationship

Green Flags in a Relationship

We've heard so much about red flags and how to run miles away from them. Let's talk about green flags; signs that your relationship is healthy and loving. What were those things that made you realize your partner was "the one"?


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Jan 17, 202314:53
The Catch Up Episode

The Catch Up Episode

This episode is an attempt to explain the break in transmission. I also tried to gist you guys about my Christmas and birthday "plans", New Year's resolutions and other random stuff. Enjoy..ย 

Dec 24, 202221:07
How To Be A Better Friend

How To Be A Better Friend

"A true friend accepts who you are, but also helps you become who you should be" Can you honestly say you've been a good friend, or that you have good friends?

Answer the important questions in this episode to find out.

Nov 24, 202227:36
Why Do I Keep Attracting Heartbreakers?

Why Do I Keep Attracting Heartbreakers?

Have you experienced a cycle of bad break-ups? Or do you have that one friend who seems unlucky when it comes to love and romance? Having gone through my fair share of heartbreaks, l have listed a couple of reasons why I saw shege in my early twenties. Hopefully, you'd learn from my mistakes and won't repeat them.ย 

Nov 08, 202223:23
Conflict Resolution in Relationships ft. Faith ๐Ÿ’ž

Conflict Resolution in Relationships ft. Faith ๐Ÿ’ž

In this episode, Faith and I discuss salient issues such as when to choose love over ego/pride in order to maintain peace in our relationship, and how conflicts can make our relationships better.
Oct 25, 202238:17
The Anikulapo Bonus Episode feat. Jae ๐Ÿ˜Š

The Anikulapo Bonus Episode feat. Jae ๐Ÿ˜Š

In this episode, Jae and I discuss our thoughts on Anikulapo as well as important relationships in the movie. Whether you're team Arolake, team Saro, or totally indifferent I think you'd love this episode. ๐Ÿ˜‰


Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, or your browser.ย 

Oct 13, 202247:02
Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married ft OreOluwa

Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married ft OreOluwa

In this episode, Ore and I share some stories about our marital journey. if you're currently in a relationship or getting ready to tie the knot, here are a few things to note before you say "I do". We wish we knew these things sooner, but God dey. ๐Ÿคง๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Oct 04, 202245:54
Vacation Story Time 2

Vacation Story Time 2

What is better than 1 story time? 2 story times! Habibi, travel with me to Dubai ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ
Sep 27, 202230:59
My Vacation Storytime

My Vacation Storytime

In this episode, I share highlights from my recent Zanzibar honeymoon trip. I tried to give as many details as possible so you could imagine and travel with me. I've been told that I'm a good storyteller sha ๐Ÿ˜‰๐ŸŒ
This one is for all my wanderlust geng members, I'm sure you will enjoy this episode.
Sep 13, 202224:47
Why I Got Married.

Why I Got Married.

This episode was inspired by my wedding anniversary. It feels surreal to be celebrating this milestone in a couple of days. I shared stories of my journey from singlehood to married life and how I "prepared" for marriage. It's been a wonderful journey so far, and I hope you enjoy listening to this episode.
Aug 16, 202220:44
Legalize Abortion: Yes or No?

Legalize Abortion: Yes or No?

In this episode, Tomi and I tried to answer hard questions like, "Should rape survivors or underage girls be allowed to terminate pregnancies?" "Should there be legal punishments for the male partner of a woman who unlawfully terminates a pregnancy and many more.
Aug 09, 202228:59
Am I The Drama?: Self Sabotaging in Relationships.

Am I The Drama?: Self Sabotaging in Relationships.

Are there behaviors or traits that are affecting your relationship? Do you keep repeating cycles in different relationships? Is it you or is it them? It's time to do some introspection and answer some questions.

Jul 26, 202225:15
Why Do You Want A Relationship?

Why Do You Want A Relationship?

In this episode, I ask cogent questions to test our reasons for wanting relationships. Are you seeking a significant other who will complete you or make you feel less lonely? Whatever your reason is, answer the questions honestly and to the best of your ability.


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Jul 19, 202220:16
Friends or Lovers; Who is More Important?

Friends or Lovers; Who is More Important?

Which relationship is more important to you? Your friendship or your dating relationship? Do you value your partner more than your friends or vice versa?


Listen on Spotify, Anchor, Apple Podcasts or Google Podcasts.ย 

Jul 12, 202214:42
Love vs. Obsession

Love vs. Obsession

Many say there's a thin line between love and obsession. In this episode I share my thoughts on love versus obsession in relationships and signs should you look out for.

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Jul 05, 202219:07
Security in Relationships

Security in Relationships

In this episode, I share my thoughts on the different ways we can feel safe and secure in our relationships. Put your relationship to the litmus test today. Is your relationship safe and supportive or do you need to make changes?

Jun 28, 202211:09
Relationship Stereotypes ft. Yinka

Relationship Stereotypes ft. Yinka

In this episode, we address stereotypes that are common in present-day relationships. We answered questions like, "Who cheats more? What women bring to the table and many more. Which of them do you agree or disagree with?


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Jun 21, 202243:55
3 Tips To Get Over a Bad Breakup.

3 Tips To Get Over a Bad Breakup.

Breakups don't have to be sad and heart-wrenching, but what happens when that is the case? How do you recover and find ways to live your best life regardless?


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Jun 14, 202219:42
The โ€œGet To Know Meโ€ Episode

The โ€œGet To Know Meโ€ Episode

Welcome back guyzzzzzz!! I missed you so much and I'm glad we're back. I'm super excited about this new season and I hope you are too.
To set this season in motion, I'd be answering some questions so you all get to know me a little better. Thanks to everyone who used the link, I hope I answered to your satisfaction. Enjoy ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’ž
Jun 07, 202218:12
Self-Abuse

Self-Abuse

It's the last episode of the Abuse Awareness series but this is probably my favorite one so far.

In this episode, I share my thoughts on abusive actions and behaviors that potentially destroy our own happiness.

Are you guilty of any of them?

Apr 26, 202219:09
Abuse in Friendships.

Abuse in Friendships.

Have you ever been in an abusive friendship? How could you tell?

Are you an abusive friend? What are the signs to look out for and how do you move forward in that type of situation?


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Apr 19, 202216:33
Domestic Violence with Darrel

Domestic Violence with Darrel

In this episode, I featured Darrel, a sex and relationship therapist and we shared our thoughts on domestic violence and itโ€™s prevalence in our culture.
What is domestic violence and what are some signs we ought to look out for.

Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google podcasts or Podopolo. You can also listen from your browser.
Apr 12, 202228:18
Child Abuse and Prevention

Child Abuse and Prevention

April is Child Abuse Prevention and Sexual Assault Awareness Month. In this episode, I share pointers to child abuse and how we as a society can prevent it.ย 

Apr 05, 202215:10
The YFA Episode with Darrel

The YFA Episode with Darrel

This episode is based on the Netflix series Young, Famous and African. We talked about the characters and then focused on Annie Idibia, how she was portrayed and lessons we learned from her being on the show.

Mar 29, 202229:15
Horrible Bosses.

Horrible Bosses.

Have you heard the saying, โ€œnever waste a good opportunity to learn from a bad bossโ€? What could you possibly learn from an unhealthy work environment? Find out on this weekโ€™s episode.

Available now on Spotify, Google Podcast, Apple podcast, Podopolo and your browser.
Mar 22, 202219:24
3 Signs You're Insecure in Your Relationship.

3 Signs You're Insecure in Your Relationship.

On this episode, I share 3 pointers to insecurities and a few tips on how to unpack emotional baggage from previous relationships.


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Mar 15, 202212:21
The Inventing Anna Episode #FakeItTillYouMakeIt.

The Inventing Anna Episode #FakeItTillYouMakeIt.

Have you seen the popular Netflix drama series? What are your thoughts?
In a society that celebrates colorful and expensive lifestyles, how does one stay happy and content within their current means?
Mar 08, 202216:57
The Tinder Swindler Episode ft. OreBillz ๐Ÿ’ž

The Tinder Swindler Episode ft. OreBillz ๐Ÿ’ž

On this episode, we share our thoughts on romance frauds and how prevalent it is in our society. We also gave pointers on how to avoid the Simon Levievs of this world.
Mar 01, 202229:22
Relationship Pressure

Relationship Pressure

On this episode, I share my thoughts on singleness and the undue pressure for people to be in relationships. In a society that praises relationship goals, it can be hard to be single but I have some tips on how to take the pressure off yourself.

If you are single, this episode is definitely for you, and if you're not, please share with your single friends.

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Feb 22, 202213:42
Valentine's Day.โฃ๏ธ๐ŸŽˆ

Valentine's Day.โฃ๏ธ๐ŸŽˆ

On this special episode, I tried to answer a few Valentine's Day questions. However you spent your day yesterday, there's something here for you. ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Feb 15, 202214:23
What I Ordered vs. What I Got.

What I Ordered vs. What I Got.

On today's episode, we address simple transactions gone terribly wrong between vendors and customers. We would also listen to a customer's side of the story as well as a vendor's.


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Feb 01, 202217:09
Third-party in Relationships ft. Fresh Prince.

Third-party in Relationships ft. Fresh Prince.

On this episode, we answered two important questions when it comes to third-party interference in relationships. Would you tell your friend that their partner is cheating? Would you stop being friends with someone if your partner asks you to.

Listen on Spotify, Anchor, Apple Podcasts or Google Podcast.
Jan 25, 202223:20
What To Do Before Your Next Relationship.

What To Do Before Your Next Relationship.

Breakups are inevitable and sometimes it sucks to start from scratch. But what if your new relationship could be better, wayyy better than the last?
Jan 18, 202211:04
Early Signs A Relationship Won't Last.

Early Signs A Relationship Won't Last.

It's true that no relationship is perfect, but it is also true that you could sabotage a potentially great relationship or stay in an unnecessary one.

Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts or your browser.ย 

Jan 11, 202212:09
New Year New Me.

New Year New Me.

New year, new me and other nursery rhymes. How was your 2021? can 2022 be better? What do you need to stop doing or start doing differently? Listen as I share my thoughts on how to make 2022 a truly amazing year!
Welcome back to your favorite relationship podcast guys! Happy New Year everyone.
Jan 04, 202217:31
The 2021 Experience.

The 2021 Experience.

Ladies and gentlemen of great taste in podcasts, I welcome you to the final episode of the year on Heartdrops with Suess. Wow!

What has your 2021 journey been like? Hope you enjoyed the highs and found the strength you needed in the lows.

This week, we take a peek into my journey as I share 3 words that sum up my 2021 experience. I enjoyed recording this and I hope you enjoy listening as always.

Out on all platforms now. Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcast, Podopolo or your browser. Gracias.

Dec 14, 202120:43
Temperaments in Relationships: Getting to Know Others

Temperaments in Relationships: Getting to Know Others

Today's episode focuses on Phlegmatic and Sanguine temperaments. Now that you understand yourself and your behavioral patterns, how about others? Your lover, friends, parents and colleagues? How do you relate with the different temperaments in your life? How can you communicate better and balance their strengths and weaknesses?
Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Podopolo or your browser.
Dec 07, 202119:03
Temperaments in Relationships: Getting to Know Others.

Temperaments in Relationships: Getting to Know Others.

Now that you understand yourself and your behavioral patterns, how about others? Your lover, friends, parents and colleagues? How do you relate with the different temperaments in your life? How can you communicate better and balance their strengths and weaknesses? This episode focuses on Choleric and Melancholic temperaments.
Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Podopolo or your browser.
Nov 30, 202121:44
Temperaments in Relationships: Getting to Know You.

Temperaments in Relationships: Getting to Know You.

What are temperaments and how important are they in relationships? Why do we act the way we do? Is it possible to change one's temperament or personality? This episode will help you answer important questions about you and your loved ones and how to balance strengths and weaknesses.
Nov 23, 202116:59
The "Japa" Episode.

The "Japa" Episode.

To flee or not to flee? Do you have the greener pasture syndrome? Is "abroad" the solution to our problem? Listen as we share our thoughts on migration and its pros and cons.
Nov 16, 202127:14
Jealousy in Relationships

Jealousy in Relationships

Is jealousy necessary in love and romance? Should there be boundaries in relationships? What are the signs that you are a jealous partner?ย 

Nov 09, 202119:47
Body Shaming Culture with Ayodeji ๐Ÿ’ž

Body Shaming Culture with Ayodeji ๐Ÿ’ž

Are all bodies truly beautiful? Is it bad to want to change your appearance? Listen to our positions on body shaming towards men and women.
Nov 02, 202125:59