The T SPOT with Topher Taylor

What the f*ck does 'Sex Positivity' even mean?! For this special 2022 episode of THE T SPOT, the microphone is turned on ME by Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist, Silva Neves. Silva interviews me on my definition of my sexuality and my idea of sex-positivity - something I am passionately vocal about.  We discuss enjoying giving blowjobs, fuck buddies, monogamy, and my relationships with men who don't publicly identify as queer, bisexual, or gay. We also talk about my fascination with intimacy, trust, and the importance of consent - alongside censorship in social media. And, as usual, I talk about how much I love men.  Please note: This interview was recorded months ago before I got into a relationship and moved into my own apartment.  Silva is the author of 'Compulsive Sexual Behaviours. A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians'. Which is available from RouteLedge.com. You can find out more about Silva here: www.silvaneves.co.uk

Where have I been? Episode 1 of THE T SPOT begins with a catch-up, discussing my new life, relationship, home, and podcast. Then a very frank, fun, and extremely honest conversation with famous Fetish photographer and videographer, Matt Spike. Talking sex, fetish, leather, romance, being a young escort, and getting into sex as a queer boy from the outskirts of Essex. 

Also ‘Ask Topher’ a frank and honest sex, relationships, and sexuality Q&A with me. 

To see the full photoshoot with Matt Spike and me, head to tophertaylor.co.uk or alternatively, my Instagram @tophertaylor / Twitter @helloiamtopher 

Want to get involved? Don’t be shy. topher@tophertaylor.co.uk 

Music: Girls of The Internet - ‘I Don’t Wanna Lose You’ 

MattSpike.com

Have you been naughty or nice this year? Both?! This is the XXXMAS GIFT GUIDE episode! Are you looking for the perfect sex toy to carry you through 2021? Your winter time pleasure product? Not sure where to start? Working with a budget? I speak to 6 incredible adult toy brands and their experts about their companies, product recommendations, and what makes them special. From £20 through to £404.99. Something for most pockets (and other body parts - wink wink). This episode features Tracey Cox of LoveHoney, Anthony of Mr Hankeys Toys, Dr Jill McDevitt of California Exotic Novelties, Adam & Monika of Godmiche Silicone, Brad Taylor of SHOTS Media, and Kerri Middleton of Bathmate - the worlds best-selling penis pump. Links to the products discussed (in order): Tracey Cox: 1. Clitoral Vibrator: https://bit.ly/2VyeGtB at £49.99 2. Bullet Vibrator: https://bit.ly/3qBiusi at £44.99 3. Wand Vibrator: https://bit.ly/3mGAqPH at £69.99 4. G-Spot Vibrator: https://bit.ly/2JHM8ej at £59.99 5. Pegging Kit: https://bit.ly/36ACUJY at £44.99 6. Bondage & Toys Kit: https://bit.ly/2L1T0Ut at £39.99 Tracey Cox’s book ‘Great sex starts at 50’ is available from all booksellers now. Hankeys Toys: 1. XS Range: https://bit.ly/3okzoct (prices vary on size and texture/firmness) 2. Clyde https://bit.ly/3g8Biu2 (prices vary on size and texture/firmness) 3. Seahorse: https://bit.ly/3lBw7Un (prices vary on size and texture/firmness) Full range and custom options from MrHankeysToys.com California Exotic Novelties 1. My Pod: https://bit.ly/3qtEeWG at $124.99 2. Shameless: https://bit.ly/36Fg0Bf from $239.99 - $249.99 3. Jack Rabbit Heated: https://bit.ly/3lDitjU at $134.99 Find out more about Dr Jill McDevitt here: https://www.thesexologist.org/ Godemiche 1. Off-Beat: https://bit.ly/3mRyhkx from £20 2. Ambit: https://bit.ly/2VC1p37 from £28.99 3. Ball Gags: https://bit.ly/2Vz9l57 from £24.99 Find out more about Godemiche here: www.g-silicone.com Shots Media 1. The Twitch - https://www.saintsandsinners.com/product/twitch-hands-free-suction-vibrating-clitoral-stimulator/ - £59.99 2. OUCH Vibrating Silicone Strap-On: https://www.saintsandsinners.com/product/ouch-adjustable-vibrating-double-silicone-strap-on/ - £46.99 3. SONO Rattle Plug: https://www.saintsandsinners.com/product/sono-no-67-self-penetrating-butt-plug-black/ - £19.99 Find out more about SHOTS here: www.shotsmedia.nl Bathmate 1. ULTRAMALE Kit for Penis Owners: https://bit.ly/37ySNzJ from £409.99 2. THE TRIM Manscaping Kit: https://bit.ly/2JOCeHG at £29.99 Find out more at www.BathmateDirect.com