The Ugly Truth Of Divorce with Samantha Boss and Leah Marie

Get ready to dive into an empowering conversation on our latest podcast episode!  Ever wondered how to guide your kids towards healthy, lasting relationships, even if you've experienced divorce yourself?  We're sharing practical tips on how to pave a path of resilience and love for the next generation. From passing down hard-earned wisdom to fostering open communication, join us as we explore how your journey can shape a brighter future for your children. Tune in and discover how to break the cycle and inspire a legacy of thriving relationships! 

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve deep into the heart of a fundamental question: What is marriage truly about? Join us as we navigate the turbulent waters of matrimony, exploring its purpose, its pitfalls, and its profound implications in modern society.

With political tides shifting in some states aiming to restrict no-fault divorce, we confront head-on the controversial notion that falling out of love may no longer be considered a valid reason for dissolution. If marriage is a union founded on love, shouldn't the option to leave be as freely available as the choice to enter? 

Join us for a candid conversation that challenges conventional wisdom and sparks introspection. Tune in as we dissect the very essence of marriage and contemplate the boundless possibilities of love, commitment, and freedom.

Join us for a candid discussion on dating after divorce in our latest podcast episode. Discover how exploring different relationships can offer invaluable clarity on your needs and desires. Whether you're seeking emotional connection or simply enjoying physical intimacy, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to post-divorce dating. Dive into personal anecdotes as we share our journeys, including experiences with both men and women. Embrace the freedom to heal, grow, and rediscover yourself amidst the dating landscape. Tune in for empowering insights and leave judgment at the door as we navigate the exciting, sometimes challenging, world of post-divorce romance.

Episode recorded 3/21/24

In this must-listen episode, we dive deep into the heart of one of life's most challenging questions: is it time to stay or leave your marriage? We guide you through a thought-provoking journey with powerful, introspective questions designed to help you gain unparalleled clarity on the future of your relationship. Whether you're grappling with doubts or seeking affirmations about your path forward, this episode is a beacon of light. We explore the essence of what makes a relationship viable, the significance of mutual respect, trust, and admiration, and the profound question of whether a healthy version of your relationship has ever existed or if you're anchored to the hope of what could be. If you're at a crossroads, wondering if it's time to embrace change or rekindle the flame of your marriage, this episode promises insights and perspectives that could change the course of your journey. Tune in to embark on a transformative exploration of love, self-reflection, and the potential for a brighter future.

Tapping into the heart of raw, real experiences, this episode unpacks a topic many of us find all too familiar, yet often unspoken: the well-meaning but ultimately harmful advice dished out by friends and family during divorce. Sam and Leah dive deep into the stories that have shaped our clients' journeys, highlighting how personal fears and insecurities can be unwittingly projected onto those we aim to support. We dissect why it's crucial to seek objective opinions from professionals outside the emotional whirlwind and remind our listeners to trust the most underappreciated guide through this storm—their gut instinct. This episode doesn't just scratch the surface; it offers a lifeline of wisdom for anyone navigating the choppy waters of divorce, affirming that while the advice may come from a place of love, the path to healing and clarity is one you forge with intention and insight. Join us as we explore the delicate balance between accepting support and protecting your peace during one of life's most challenging transitions.

In this raw and enlightening episode, join your hosts, Sam and Leah, as they dive deep into the emotional journeys that led them to, and through, their marriages. With vulnerability and courage, they share the red flags they overlooked and the inner voices they silenced before saying "I do" to their ex-husbands. This conversation isn't just about hindsight; it's a powerful exploration of intuition, societal pressures, and the strength it takes to listen to our deepest truths. Whether it's a gut feeling or advice from loved ones we chose to ignore, Sam and Leah open up about the lessons learned and the wisdom gained from honoring their authentic selves. This episode is for anyone who's ever faced a crossroads between the heart's guidance and the expectations of others.

In this enlightening episode, we dive into the increasingly popular concept of sleep divorce, a trend that's reshaping the way couples value their sleep and intimacy. We explore what sleep divorce actually entails, why more and more couples are choosing to sleep apart, and how it could potentially enhance your relationship rather than harm it.

But that's not all – we also take a deep dive into the transformative journey of divorce itself. We discuss how the end of a marriage can surprisingly be the beginning of a more profound connection with yourself and, eventually, with a partner who truly compliments you. Through personal insights and expert opinions, we uncover the valuable lessons learned from past relationships, and how they pave the way to discovering what you truly seek in love and partnership.

Whether you're contemplating a sleep divorce, navigating the choppy waters of separation, or simply curious about these modern relationship dynamics, this episode offers a fresh perspective on love, compatibility, and personal growth. Join us as we explore how embracing change in our intimate lives can lead to deeper fulfillment and, ultimately, to finding the love that aligns with our true selves.

Join us as we share the top tips for making every moment with your kids unforgettable, from being fully present to engaging in their world and creating new traditions that will be cherished for a lifetime. Discover how open communication and consistency can transform your co-parenting experience, fostering a stronger bond with your children and making you the MVP in their eyes. Whether you're navigating the tricky waters of co-parenting for the first time or looking for fresh strategies to add to your playbook, this episode is packed with actionable advice, heartwarming stories, and a healthy dose of humor. So, grab your headphones (and maybe a pancake or two) and let’s unlock the joy and connection in co-parenting together. Because at the end of the day, it's all about making those moments count – Lego injuries and all.

Footnotes:

🌟 Welcome to a transformative episode of our podcast, where we dive into the empowering journey of turning divorce into a springboard for personal growth and a thriving life. In this heartfelt discussion, we share our personal stories of how divorce, often seen as an end, was actually a beginning – a catalyst that led us to where we are today: fulfilled, stronger, and passionate about guiding others through their post-divorce journey.

🌈 In this episode, we unfold the secrets of tuning into your intuition, the art of self-care, the power of positive self-talk, and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. These are not just strategies; they are life-changing tools that can transform your post-divorce experience into a journey of self-discovery and joy.

🎧 Tune in to redefine what divorce means to you and discover how it can be the beginning of your most exciting and fulfilling journey yet. Your next chapter is waiting, and it's brighter than you ever imagined!

In today's episode, we're diving into the world of 'nesting' during and after a divorce – a journey that reshapes the very essence of home and family. Picture this: instead of children shuffling between two homes, they stay put while the parents rotate in and out. It's a concept that's as intriguing as it is challenging.

We kick off with an open and honest discussion about why some families are turning to nesting. As we delve deeper, we address the common issues that bubble to the surface in nesting situations. How do you maintain personal space in a shared home? What about new relationships? And let's not forget the financial implications. It's a balancing act of boundaries, respect, and self-discovery.

Whether you're contemplating this arrangement, are in the thick of it, or simply curious about this alternative, join us for a conversation that's as real as it gets.

In this thought-provoking episode, we tackle a sensitive yet crucial aspect of post-divorce parenting: the urge to constantly call your kids during their time with your ex. While it's natural to want to stay connected, overstepping boundaries can strain not only your relationship with your ex but also impact your children's well-being, especially when dealing with a high-conflict situation. We'll discuss how to navigate this delicate balance, emphasizing the importance of respecting the other parent's time and fostering independence in your kids. By sharing real-life scenarios and expert insights, we'll explore ways to healthily detach, focus on self-growth, and ultimately strengthen your bond with your kids in the long run. This episode is a must-listen for those struggling to find that fine line between staying connected and giving space in a co-parenting dynamic.

In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the world of coparenting with a high-conflict ex. It's a journey that many find themselves navigating, often feeling alone, frustrated, and overwhelmed. But you're not alone! Leah shares five practical tips that go beyond the therapist's office, helping you maintain your sanity. We’ll explore strategies for communication, setting boundaries, and self-care that are tailored for those challenging interactions. Whether you're just starting on this path or have been walking it for a while, these insights aim to empower you and bring a sense of control back into your life. Tune in and discover how to transform your co-parenting experience from a battle to a manageable, and even positive, journey.

Listen to Leah and Sam prove all the false narratives you are telling yourself about divorce, yourself and coparenting journey.

Listen to us describe the 5 Stages of Divorce

Listen to the strategies to help you in your post divorce journey to help with your finances. Millen also offered a free consult to those that mention Sam and Leah before 12/31 at the link:

Listen to us go into more details about our post popular or most impactful TikToks of the week.

August 28th week of TikToks for Sam and Leah. We dive deep into being ok with calling it quits after 14 years and being ok with your ex saying "we" when referring to them and their new partner.

Listen to Sam and Leah talk about how important confidence is in growing after your divorce. It is critical to gain your confidence to be the confident parent you need to.

Listen to our new weekly series where we go deeper into our most popular tiktoks of the week from both of our pages. Leah and I talk about the struggle of having a parent that just lets our kids do whatever they want and has no rules or structure.

Listen to Leah and I talk about why we started The Next Chapter and why it was so important to us to get this platform out for women to have as they tackle that next chapter after divorce.

In this video you will learn 10 Tips to get you through the Holidays with your coparent and your children.  This time is suppose to be special and fun, not crazy and stressful.  If you need more help with your coparent, go to my website and check out my services, there is something for everyone. 

In this episode you will hear my 7 tips to help parents who have a hostile divorce.  Give it a listen and know that these are tangle tools that can be implemented today.

Judges and Attorneys write it wrong all the time and in this video you will learn what wording to avoid if you are in a high conflict divorce.  Too many families get this wrong wording put in their parenting plan it only causes more problems down the road with having to go back to court.  

In this episode you will learn the Top 10 Must Haves that every parenting plan needs to have to be successful for the child's future with each single parent. These 10 items are the top most missed details of parenting plans which are causing people to go back to court or live in resentment and regret that these details were MISSED!  

If you want more details feel free to check out my website for more details by booking a consultation.  

Sometimes the addiction and trauma bond is so real, even thinking about taking your ex out of your life takes your breathe away. In this episode you will learn how to detox your ex who is in your day to day life and it is unhealthy.  

In this episode you will learn my three tips in making coparenting go better for yourself. You will be surprised to know that none of my tips have anything to do with your ex.  It is all you baby!  For more help with your coparenting journey reach out and book a consultation or join my support group. 

In this episode you will learn how to get your ex's voice out of your head.  I share some personal struggles along with fellow clients.  Remember it does get better with time. 

You have bills you have paid for the children and your ex is suppose to pay you back.  How does that work?  Do you have a policy to make sure you get the reimbursement.  With every talk of money things can get UGLY quick.  Best to have a policy in place that keeps you both on your toes and following a plan.