The Undecided Gen Z
By Ally Malcolm
The Undecided Gen ZDec 20, 2022
new mindsets, new energy, its a new era
It's been a while...
while I've been away I've upgraded, evolved, levelled up...
basically I've just been spending all my time healing, working through trauma, started to love myself, been learning accept my self completely.
It's been an intense journey, filled with pain, the love I've always dreamed of and shedding a life and a version of myself that had to go.
I cant wait to tell you everything, the chaos, the experiences, the wildness that these past few months have been.
I've missed this, I hope you've missed me..
we have so much to catch up on xx
find me on
instagram @theundecidedgenz and @ally_malcolm
tiktok @theundecidedgenz
looking for love
why have I always been so unsuccessful on my quest for love?
Recollecting myself after coming out a repeating scenario with my mum, I've been hit with finally acknowledging abandonment wounds and how those wounds have played a role in my behaviours when searching for a relationship and why I have so desperately wanted one.
Not going to lie this felt like I was going to therapy with myself as the therapist but when is it not?
If you connected, enjoyed or gained something from this episode, please let me know by leaving a rating and review or sharing your thoughts @theundecidedgenz or @ally_malcolm on instagram xx
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let’s talk about healing with SOLCHLD
becoming who you want to be is scary & confusing
I wanted to die today and that’s ok
i hate men
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chronic people pleasing & are we just choosing to be embarrassed?
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83. Finding Confidence, Sex Parties & Young Marriage
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86. The One Where Theo Quits & We Both Cry
we have a lot to talk about.
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85. What Defines a Date, Platonic Friendships & Is Everyone Special?
84. Companionship, Donating Sperm & Having a Baby with Your Mum
on this week’s ep… 2022 is upon us and we have returned full throttle... but have both our co-hosts? just kidding, yes they're both here. today we talk companionship & whether it's necessary (or can u be satisfied without finding love?), taking sperm from your dead partner in order to have a baby (and would we donate our own?) and discuss the age old question... is having one kid with no siblings child abuse? also we float the idea of having a baby together & discuss why it would definitely not survive, and answer a juicy dilemma about a very rough family situation.
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82. No Nuance November, Worms in My Butt & Interracial Dating
On this week’s ep… it’s No Nuance November so of course we get into all our spicy takes & hear some juicy opinions from the listeners.
We’re also back together in person for the first time in 6 months, so chat about what we been up to. Ally is living her best return-to-hometown main character life, and Theo is busy finding a reality tv show for us to star on. How would we fare on the Amazing Race?
We also chat mixed-race couples, getting smarter, technology advancements, having worms in your butt… and other places and how people used to meet up without being able to text on the way.
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81. Ghosting, Rejection Tips & Pet Tree Planting
On this week's ep… we discuss ghosting, when its ok & how to reject someone if you don't just wanna leave them hanging. We try sumn new and listen to some listener voice memos sharing their wild ghosting experiences. We also chat the Astroworld sitch & posting pics of your pets to plant trees... Ally also dumped her therapist & Theo still doesn't understand nutrition.
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80. Cheating Parents, Driving Insecurities & Problematic Crushes
On this week's ep… it's Halloween and therefore only fitting that we turn to the scariest topic of conversation of all... our listeners' dilemmas! We turn to you guys & give our best effort of providing (unintentionally worthless) advice to your issues. We chat being in love with your boyfriend's best friend, suspecting your dad is cheating, body/comparison issues, being confused with your sexuality & going through your parents phone...
We also get into our personal driving insecurities, why scary movies suck, and Ally's big wake up call to adulthood this week.
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79. Accidental Deaths, A Shaving Mishap & Making My Therapist Cry
On this week's ep… Ally is back and comes in hot with a major update to her post-Ally Bachelorette romantic journey. There’s a development. We get into the return of Adele and how much we simply cannot relate to her, the engagement of Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker and the pressures of marriage before taking a turn for this week’s death recap… discussing the tragic Alec Baldwin shooting & updates to the Gabby Petito case.
We also gawk in disbelief at the trauma dumping therapist TikTok that went off this week and apparently Ally has made her therapist cry… Is that a thing?
We also dish our very helpful advice on some dirty viewer dilemmas.
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78. The Truth About Being on The Voice (ft. Sian & Jordan Fuller)
On this week's episode... we chat with Australian singers & semifinalists on latest season of the The Voice Australia... Sian and Jordan Fuller!
Sian and Jordan are Australian teens & siblings who recently participated on The Voice, where they destroyed the competition and sung their (very talented) hearts out until being savagely cut from the comp. We chat their entire experience on the show, including the reality of their audition process, what it's like doing a BLIND audition and having FOUR chairs spin for you, how the coaching process played out and what they really thought about Guy Sebastian and Rita Ora...
We also get into some of the juicy behind the scenes of filming reality tv, and get to know Sian and Jordan a bit more personally, including their dream role in a musical, what their relationship is really like and their dreams for the future.
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77. Transitioning to Adulthood
On this week's episode... we talk the bizarre transitional period of switching from young person, to still young person, but legally defined as an adult! We chat through deciding what to do with your life after school, the options available, is it possible to WASTE your 20's? is there a correct pathway? and delve into working, the 9-5 lifestyle, unexpected costs of adulthood, the ins & outs of moving out of home, TAXES, superannuation and all that good stuff.
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76. Petty Red Flags, Couch Guy & Squid Game
On this week's episode... we have a HUGE LIFE ANNOUNCEMENT (...kinda... hopefully...) which may involve packing up our lives entirely. We talk Squid Game; why everyone is obsessed, foreign media representation, would you risk your life for an amount of money, and get into the internet takeover that has been couch guy.
We also chat petty red flags, and a juicy AITA which involves a teacher, an influencer, and a leaked video.
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75. Gabby Petito, Gendered Language & Am I the Asshole
On this week's episode... Ally has hit a mental low and we get deep for a minute as we talk disassociating, and losing control of yourself. Theo's ready to move overseas and we chat packing up your life, travel bugs and the issues of routine/productivity culture.
Survivor has canned the phrase 'Come on in guys!', and we discuss our views on the word 'guys', gendered language & the ARIAs (Australian Music Awards) removing gendered awards.
Gabby Petito is still missing, which leads us into a discussion on online detectives, how obsessed we get with things on the internet, the blur between reality & fiction and how it's getting harder to tell the difference and it's ALL VERY SCARY!!!!
We also get into some juicy Am I the Assholes? diving into awkward fiancé rent situations and what you would do if your fam showed up on your honeymoon.
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74. Celebrities We Hate, Met Gala Drama & A Flirting Mishap
On this week's episode... it's time to sit back, relax and have a good old fashioned chinwag about everything that's been happening.
Theo and Ally both got vaxxed, and had very different experiences... We talk having NO friends and re-entering into socialisation habits upon lockdown ending. The celebrities went wild this week, and we chat MetGala, celebs interacting behind the scenes, Nicki Minaj's twitter/vaccine/cousin's balls rampage, AOC's controversial dress, Camilla Cabello and her new Cinderella movie AND to great surprise, Ally still hates Addison Rae. (and Theo still defends her with his life)
We also dive into some tender PEOPLE PICKS, discussing Drake vs Kanye (CLB vs Donda), netflix recs AND Ally gives a dramatic update to her newfound Bachelorette LOVE STORY... and it's going well.... kinda.
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73. The Realities of Stripping, OnlyFans & Getting Doxxed (ft. Avalon Hope)
On this week's episode... we chat with curve model, influencer and OnlyFans creator, Avalon Hope!
Avalon drops the inside scoop on her experiences being a stripper at 18, the good, bad and the ugly... does she recommend it to young people? Did she make a lot of money? We discuss the surge of the online medium for sex work, and Avalon shares why she turned to OnlyFans and the scary experience that led to her refusing to post full-body content anymore. We also chat about how Avalon avoids burnout, her killer SUCCESS mindset, the experiences that gave her the DRIVE that she has and where she intends to take her career.
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The Podcast Bachelorette - THE FINALE (Episode 4)
Welcome to the fourth and FINAL episode of ALLY BACHELORETTE!
Four weeks ago 8 eligible bachelors arrived in the TUGZ virtual mansion for a journey of love, romance and friendship. Ally has been on dates, getting to know and forming connections with each of the bachelors, and one by one sending them home. TONIGHT... only TWO remain and by the end of the episode, Ally will have her winner. Stay tuned to see who she picks...
Let us know what you thought of the ep & the whole series. Did Ally make the right decision?
THE BACHELORS:
Moey: @moey.ghadia
Finn: @fjmezzetti
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71. Period Cupcakes, My Vaccine Experience & A Cheating Ex
But it's not all doom and gloom. We get into two of our wildest viewer confessions yet. These people probably shouldn't be allowed in public. Note: these stories may include bloody cupcakes, leaking underwear and relations with bosses.
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The Podcast Bachelorette - The Hardest Decision (Episode 3)
Over the next four weeks, 8 bachelors will be going on virtual dates with Ally to test their connections, find sparks and ultimately win Ally's heart.
In this episode, THREE REMAIN... Ally goes on a tailored date with each bachelor before a messy group date which leaves the bachelors fighting for compatibility with Ally. In the end, Ally has one extremely hard decision to make... but will she make the right choice?
NEXT TIME... the finale.
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THE BACHELORS:
Moey: @moey.ghadia
Finn: @fjmezzetti
Nathan: @nathancarol
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The Podcast Bachelorette - The Love Journey Continues (Episode 2)
Welcome to the second episode of ALLY BACHELORETTE!
Over the next four weeks, 8 bachelors will be going on virtual dates with Ally to test their connections, find sparks and ultimately win Ally's heart.
In this episode, Ally chooses one guy for the FIRST single date of the season, before a wild group chat which gets the guys finding out more about their Bachelorette. A shock announcement at the start of the episode RATTLES the contestants, and an award moment in the group date confuses Ally’s feelings. All this before she must choose to send one home…
Let us know what you think of the episode our socials/DMs! Did Ally make the right decision? Who shouldn't get a rose next time? We wanna hear your thoughts...
THE BACHELORS:
Jim: @befreewithjimlee
Moey: @moey.ghadia
Finn: @fjmezzetti
Nathan: @nathancarol
Euan: @thembeans
Ben: @ben_staunton
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The Podcast Bachelorette - Ally Finds Love (Episode 1)
Welcome to the first episode of ALLY BACHELORETTE! Over the next four weeks, 8 bachelors will be going on virtual dates with Ally to test their connections, find sparks and ultimately win Ally's heart. In this episode, we meet the 8 guys who will be fighting for love...
Let us know what you think of the guys on our socials/DMs! Did Ally make the right decision? Who shouldn't get a rose next time? We wanna hear your thoughts...
THE BACHELORS (in entrance order):
Jim: @befreewithjimlee
Moey: @moey.ghadia
Alexander: @alexcameron15/@carnagehouseproductions
Finn: @fjmezzetti
Nathan: @nathancarol
Euan: @thembeans
Curt: @stocklcurt
Ben: @ben_staunton
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67. Body Counts, Diet Drama & Zoom Dating
We also dig into some juicy People Picks, chatting about lockdown tv shows, Charli D'amelio vs Justin Bieber, child labour and how we keep busy during COVID.
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66. Exploring Sexuality, Identity & Discovering Yourself through Art (ft. Peo Michie)
On this week's episode... we chat with WOC illustrator, animator and Instagram artist Peo Michie, and get into her journey finding success as a Gen Z in the creative space. Peo shares her experience growing up in a conservative, monocultural rural small town and how she came to be who she is today (i.e. none of the above). We also chat racial ambiguity, making it as an artist and tips for gen z creatives/growing your platform.
Theo and Ally are also BOTH back in lockdown and discuss lockdown 5 vibes, Ally is contemplating Zoom dating and we open the idea of doing a podcast bachelorette series... More to come.
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65. Naked at a Party, Dating after School & Career Judgement
On this week's episode... we turn the focus to you guys and get into some juicy dilemmas sent in over the past couple of months, discussing relationships, careers, family and all that good stuff. We give our best worst advice on lying friends (and exposing them), rekindling past relationships, judgement about your career choices, dating after high school, being the prude friend and friends stripping off at parties.
Theo also introduces his new Nigerian friend who uncovered some very shocking information, and Ally has been sent BACK into COVID lockdown.
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64. The Jordyn Tell All (Interview with 'Fish Girl' from 7 High Schoolers Decide Who Wins $1000)
On this week's special episode of The Undecided Gen Z, it's finally here... the much anticipated interview with Jordyn (aka Fish Girl) from 7 High Schoolers Decide Who Wins $1000!
We sit down with Jordyn 6 months after the viral blow up of Cut's 7 High Schoolers video, and after she became the biggest viral meme of the year... and they gave us an insight look into their perspective of the viral experience. t
The Original Cut 7 High Schoolers video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Db4THOCexbI
Our Interview with Nina: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_PaJJl04Ww&t=5s
What was it like to receive the volume of hate she received? Was she portrayed accurately? Do they regret how they acted? Did they enjoy the attention? How does she feel about nina? Does she still love ocean animals? Does she really stand on one leg 10 times a day? All this and more is unpacked...
THANK YOU to Jordyn for joining us and sharing so honestly about her experience. It was a delight to speak to her and we are very grateful!
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63. Drive in Date, Feet Pics Gone Wrong & Influencer Culture
62. Sleeping Naked, Having Kids & Making Adult Friends
On this week's ep... Theo's been reunited with Mr Feet Pics who has an interesting new proposition, and Ally gives a juicy update on guy number four and their latest romantic rendevouz.
We discuss having kids, including whether we would give up our body parts for them, and whether our partners should prioritise us or the kids, and get into a discussion on how to make friends as 'adults'.
We also introduce a new segment Am I The Asshole? and chat about sleeping naked, exposing yourself to roommates, pretending to be fired to prank customers, and horrible customer service experiences...
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61. Body Image Issues, More Romance & A Weirdly Accurate Tarot Reading
On this week's ep... Ally comes in hot with a dramatic update to her 4 man love interest line up and it looks like we have a clear front runner. COVID is back, and Theo talks returning to lockdown, including why he loves it and his 21st getting cancelled... and Ally had a eerily accurate tarot card reading... We also discuss body images, our personal experiences, fatphobia, the health vs weight debate and get real about physical insecurities.
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60. Weekend Away, Crystals & ...Our Juicy Confession
On this week's ep... we talk our wild weekend away for Ally’s 21st, in particular two… juicy… things that went down. We also interview a listener (turned friend) of the podcast, discuss sacrificing yourself for friends (vs babies), the Israel/Palestine conflict, Olivia Rodrigo and much more.
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59. Turning 21, Drunk Party Disaster & Bachelorette IRL
On this week's ep... Theo attended a party, accidentally drunk too much and was chased by a guy with a ______, Ally has stepped up her love life game and gives us the rundown on her in real life Bachelorette scenario (which dude should she choose?), and we prepare for our weekend away celebrating Ally's 21st.
We also chat birthdays, Ally's live radio experience and romance with your university professor (that's also got a wife and kids).
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58. Forced into a Threesome, Horror Haircut & Non-Binarynes
On this week's ep... we get serious (somewhat). Theo talks about his weekend away which involves a very uncomfortable situation... which may or may not include a forced gay threesome. Ally discusses her recent anxiety hit (which includes a disaster haircut and new job?) and how she's pulled herself through it.
We also chat about recent police brutality and non-binaryism.
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57. Late Night Catch-up (Ghosts Tours, Grief & Dating Your Cousin)
On this week's ep... we tone it down a little and get together for a casual conversation chatting whatever comes to mind. We talk our night out together, eating out etiquette, ghost tours and our recent car accident, as well as pets dying (...which leads to family dying), funerals and most importantly, how inappropriate really is dating your second cousin.
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56. Getting Blackmailed, Social Media Memories & Growing Old
On this week's ep... we talk growing up on the internet, our experiences (good, bad & ugly) with social media and our favourite memories from the different phases of various social media apps.
Theo also dishes an update on his instagram photo scammer experience, which includes him getting blackmailed and Ally has a juicy update on her life in Sydney. We get into some People Picks, discussing the David Dobrik/vlog squad sitch, getting old & having confidence to do things like the podcast.
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55. Viral TikToks, Asian Racism & Doxxed By Trump Supporters w/Claira Janover
On this week’s ep… we chat with social media activist, Claira Janover! Claira shares all the dirty deets on her viral experience which lead to her being hunted down by Trump supporters, and being fired from her almost-job at Deloitte. We also get into Claira's views on social media communication, performative activism, feminism and asian racism.
As always, Ally and Theo also dive into some juicy updates, including Theo's latest instagram pic selling rendevouz, Ally's latest venture with pole dancing and a discussion around gender inequality in sport. We also talk People Picks & the finale to our juicy Dilemma saga.
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54. Money, Investing & Personal Finance for Gen-Z's ft. TashInvests
53. Unfriending People, Valentine's Day & Why Millennials Suck
52. Getting the Hype, Social Media Anxiety & High on TikTok ft. Mooptopia
We also expose some juicy listener secrets, Ally has a huge announcement to make and we top it off with some interesting People Picks.
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51. Hollywood Insights, Making It As An Actor & Sex Scenes ft. Carlos Sanson (from Bump)
We also get into some personal updates, discussing busyness, time management and saying no to friends, and finish with some juicy People Picks covering manifestation, the Shane Dawson/Trisha Paytas drama and the most impactful things people have said to us.
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50. Sex, Virginity & Waiting til Marriage
Going Viral Overnight ft. Nina Fowler from 7 High Schoolers Decide Who Wins $1000
On this week's ep... we chat with the iconic Nina Fowler, from the first & biggest meme of 2020, Cut's 7 High Schoolers Decide Who Wins $1000 YouTube video. We discuss the whole Cut video situation, including some juicy behind the scenes, what it's been like waking up as a viral star and her relationship with Jordyn (fish/overalls/ocean facts girl).. is the ship real? Is there still beef? Nina also shares how her family has reacted, why she does NOT want to be an influencer, and how her life has changed since going viral.
We also share some personal updates, including Ally's mum being mauled by a cow, Theo gets real about his recent breakdowns, and... we may have a slave. We finish with some People Picks and controversial unpopular opinions, discussing new President Biden, the changing of Australia Day date, Kpop, Cosplay and making tampons free.
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Being TikTok Famous, Life in New York & Beef with James Charles ft. Davis Burleson
On this week's ep... we chat with TikTok star Davis Burleson about the realities of TikTok fame, including his path to virality (and why people mistake him for Jeffree Star), how his family & friends have reacted, how we stays motivated & productive and his experience with TikTok friendships & scandals.
Ally and Theo also get into some juicy life updates including a personal moment of TikTok success and a strange new Hinge match, dish some advice on an intense viewer dilemma, and discuss Olivia Rodrigo's blow up, and some podcast recommendations.
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Kicked Out of a Club, Most Embarrassing Secrets & Dating a Musician
WELCOME TO SEASON 3! On this week's ep... we discuss our night out, Ally’s new lead singer love interest and why he got kicked out of a club. We discuss the future of the podcast, make some exciting announcements, and Ally exposes her most embarrassing story… We finish with some juicy people picks discussing Trump’s Twitter ban & the Capitol riots, current Netflix shows we’re watching & the HSMTMTS Olivia Rodrigo drama.
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Celebrity Deaths, Cancellations & 2020
On this week's ep... we take a look back at the long year that has been, discussing the craziest, juiciest and most notable things that have gone down, from the Australian bushfires and US murder hornets, to COVID-19 and Black Lives Matter, Shane Dawson's cancellation and the biggest celebrity deaths. We also playback our 2020 New Year resolutions and update on how they've gone, and chat how we feel about this year on the podcast.
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Raw Sex, Disney Shows & Interview with Forgotten Item
On this week's ep... it's the long awaited conversation with Forgotten Item. We get into all things from his perspective... was the situation as awkward for him? Was Ally a weird relationship? Would he go on another date with her? We also talk modelling, unprotected sex, Gabi DeMartino's OnlyFans scandal, digital footprints and dating socialmedialess people. We finish off with some People Picks, sharing our Spotify Unwrapped and discussing Disney shows, and answer a juicy advice question.
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Age Gap Relationships, Neopronouns & Seeing a Psychic
On this week's ep... Ally's got a potential pregnancy announcement and has found herself on the cusp of a severe age gap relationship. We discuss seeing psychics, the new 'trend'? of neopronouns popping up on TikTok, racist companies & the James Charles 'Don't have kids' drama.
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