Vibrant Voice
By Vibrant Voice
Vibrant VoiceJun 12, 2022
The Dark Side of Forgiveness: How Being a Forgiving Person Can Lead to Manipulation
ever feel like you've forgiven too quickly, and aren't sure why that's sometimes a bad thing? listen up, people pleasers (and rugged individualists aka perfectionists)!! let's talk about the murky mayhem that happens when quick forgiveness causes relationship repair to go sideways. visit this link here to get a seat at The Wandering (every 22nd of the month) or to book a Clarifying Session with KA.
The 3 Emotional Prisons In Which We Lock Ourselves Up (& Hide The Key!)
as y'all can probably guess, one of the prisons i talk about here is fairly obvious (hello, Breaker of Shames). give this episode a listen to learn about all three, and why we tend to do this to ourselves. to get a spot in an upcoming Wandering or book a Clarifying Session, head to vforvibrant.com.
The Fear of Being Found Out - Imposter Syndrome, Secret-Keeping, and The Shame Spiral
when we're afraid of being "found out" for who we really are, there is only one thing that we fear more than that. tune in to this full episode to find out what that thing is. and if you're interested in Wandering, you can reserve your spot by clicking these words right here.
Social Entrapment: How Shame Makes Us Hate Ourselves On Everyone Else's Behalf
ever feel like you were bad because you did a bad thing? The Breaker of Shames talks about that feeling in this episode, along with some potentially triggering things like Narcissistic Personality Disorder, self-abuse, and abusers in general. Give your feedback about this episode and tag @v_for_vibrant on Instagram, or head to this link right here to reserve a spot in an upcoming Wandering event.
The Imagination Quotient, and How Greatly Compassionate Collective Vision Can Create The Vibrant Lives We Wish to Live
The Breaker of Shames talks a little about her shame breakthrough story, what imagination typically looks like for adults (spoiler: it aint good...), and what it takes to create a vibrant world. Like this episode and subscribe to the podcast for more! Click here to check out The Wandering or Clarifying Sessions.
Dealing With ADHD In My 30s, Learning Masking From Family, "Boys Will Be Boys," and Making Amends With Matriarchs
head to vforvibrant.com to book a card reading, Clarifying Session, or to attend the Wandering!
Negative Support, Family Wounds, and Finding Your Path to Positive Support & Forgiveness
want to do more Family Wounds & Forgiveness work? i'm releasing a series on Youtube right meow on this topic! head over and subscribe to V for Vibrant via this link: https://www.youtube.com/@vforvibrant -- book a reading with KellyAnne here: https://www.vforvibrant.com/book-online -- send an email to vforvibrant@gmail.com if you wanna message KellyAnne about the Vibrant Voice podcast, or DM @v_for_vibrant on Instagram!
3 Ways To Make Your Inner World A Safer Place To Be + Identity Change & Loss Continued
thank you for giving yourself this time to resonate with a message you may have needed to hear - or else why would you be here?? ;) -- to get your hands on the Wandering Meditation, head to vforvibrant.com
New Year New Me? Identity Change, Loss, and Grieving + Returning Home To Yourself
thank you for giving yourself this time to resonate with a message you may have needed to hear - or else why would you be here?? ;) -- to get your hands on the Wandering Meditation, head to vforvibrant.com
Shame Resilience Pt. 2: HSV, Narcissists, Creepy Family Members, and a BIG Mistake KellyAnne Still Can't Live Down - Plus More Resilience Tools!
in the same way i wouldnt encourage anyone to share their shame with someone they know they can't trust to make them feel safe, i chose not to share my full "big mistake" story here. the internet is a place of wonderful people i've crossed the country to meet in person; it's also got people who havent learned how to live with their shame and will shit on anyone who tries to out of spite. for the wonderful people who both support my work and are invested in your own personal and spiritual growth, there's a place i've shared my story, and another very personal story. it's called the Vibrant Voice, and it's on Patreon! if you'd like to check it out or join, click here.
Shame Resilience Pt. 1 with GariTalks: Herpes, Cheating, Feeling Misunderstood, Gender Stigma, and Adam & Eve - Plus Tools for Resilience!
this is a topic that i'll be covering this week in the Vibrant Coven on Patreon! go to patreon.com/vibrantcoven and join the Coven if you want to access the discussion, guidance, and resources for this topic. you can feel free to contact myself or Gari on Instagram if you loved this conversation and want to request another topic for us to dissect :) - KellyAnne: @v_for_vibrant - Gari: @garitalks
The BDSM and D&D Crossover: How Being Dommed By Your DM Can Be Incredibly Healing
oops, forgot to drink my bev during this episode!! be sure to hydrate as you go through this one because it's a HAWT take *red-faced, sweaty, panting emoji*. and not just because of the dragons. or the dungeons. omg where are the *sweaty forehead laughing emoji* and *side-eye smirk emoji* when you need em?? i need all the emoji-feelings to get me through this caption... hahhhh. who knew Dom Daddies and Dungeon Masters had so much in common?
Vibrant Coven: patreon.com/vibrantcoven
How To Know You’ve Found Your Soulmates
it's sometimes hard to distinguish between who's really here for you and your healing, and who is just a duplicate of the discomfort you're used to. yyyeeeeeeouch!! i know it hurts to hear, but this episode will be a soothing balm to this painful truth.
if you're looking for your soulmates - the kinds of people you can be your authentic self and can grow with - then be sure to take a listen to this entire episode to know exactly what to look out for. AND!! go make use of the practice i just posted in the Vibrant Coven online community portal for personal and spiritual growth. you can check it out here :)
Family Origins of Order and Chaos, Boxing Up Emotions, and Pleasing Yourself: Interview with Chelsea Aks
to check out the Vibrant Coven for weekly topic discussions, guidance, resources, and intention-setting: head to patreon.com/vibrantcoven
Always In The In-Between, Moving Before You're Trapped, and Seeing How Some People Just Don't Align: Interview with Dr. Hava Rose - DCC
How to Trust When Youre Guided, Let Go, and Reconnect With Yourself: Interview with Gari Talks - DCC
Adoption Trauma, Abandonment Issues, and Becoming The Destroyer: Interview with Emily Iris - DCC
New World Order: Holding White Men Accountable (with Compassion)
it seems like every time white men take our lives into their hands, our worlds crumble. for queer people, for women and people with uteruses, for black and indigenous people, every new "order" placed on us has us feeling like we're sitting in the corner of a room that's on fire, knowing there's no way not to get burned. and men - especially the white variety - just keep dumping gasoline.
there are immediate solutions to this, but i'm talking about the long-term solution we need to start applying NOW so that it can serve as the salve that makes all wounds heal... including the ones that white men have hidden from themselves.
vforvibrant.com/divinechaos2022waitlist
Stress And Shame Are LITERALLY Killing You
and i've got proof! in this episode, i share about the studies done in recent years which prove that shame-proneness and stress and two debilitating and destructive factors in overall health. i also share practices for converting shame beliefs into ones of empowerment, and for finding calm at the center of any stress-inducing situation.
to go deeper into the healing of these experiences, head to the Divine Chaos Course page and discover for yourself all of the ways you could turn this s**tstorm around... with support, resources, and accountability for long-term integration. we're not going to slap you with something new and then expect you to change overnight!! the Divine Chaos Course is designed to help you carry the weight so you're not alone, in addition to strengthening your connection to change in a healthy, graceful way.
go to -> vforvibrant.com/divinechaos2022
Queercosmos' Colin Bedell's Astrology Resource from Divine Chaos 2020 - A Non-Binary Look at Your Moon, Venus, and Mars
i shouldn't even be sharing this!! but it's just too good and i cannot help myself... if you want to be a part of this year's course, head to vforvibrant.com/divinechaos2022
but head there quickly because i'm posting this episode just 2 DAYS before the pre-sale ends, when you can still get all the bonuses i've mentioned!! get your ticket here.
to stay in touch so you don't miss another chance at being a participant in the Divine Chaos Course, subscribe to the Vibrant Coven Podcast!!
The #1 Most Important Learning Tool for Lifelong Learning
there are several must-have things that everybody needs for learning, integrating what they've learned, then applying it in the long term. i talk about a few of them in this episode, but i also talk about the number ONE most important thing, without which all other parts become ineffective and basically useless. whether you're into personal growth, lifelong learning, or a spiritual journey of self-discovery, you will absolutely lose everything you've learned without this one thing. take a listen to learn what it is!
sign up for the life-changing Divine Chaos Course! and DON'T WAIT!! ticket pre-sale is about to end, and it's only *now* during the pre-sale period that you can get the 2020 Colin Bedell @queercosmos workshop and resources - PLUS the Divine Chaos Workbook, a printable guide for exploring the concepts of Order and Chaos in your life.
Why Doing What You Love Actually Kinda Sucks
never work a day in your life, you say? bulls**t!! there are plenty of days when doing what you love suuuuucks because it feels like we're dragging ourselves to get back into it. the reality is: this is totally normal, and this feeling of being disconnected from that love of what you love to do can come from several different sources. in this episode i talk about those sources AND give practices for each one of the sucky sources so that when you find yourself there, in the suck, you have what you need to move yourself through it. no faking it til you make it, just authentically appreciating where we're at, respecting how we got there, and finding our way back to the good feelings that come from living with passion and purpose.
5 Important Things About The Spiritual Journey You Might Already Know
there are all kinds of people who will try to sell you on tips and tricks for leveling up and personal growth, but they don't work. while they may seem like short-cuts, these tricks are actually tricking you into believing that you can jump past all the hard parts and get right to living the vibrant life of your dreams.
honestly, the phrase "growing pains" exists for a reason... but that doesn't mean it's all bad. and when you're focused on more than just feeling better mentally - when you're dedicating yourself to a life of emotional, physical, and spiritual wellness, too - the hard parts become easier with practice. that is why we call yoga a practice. that's why when you apply that "trick" that you learned every day (or most days) it's called a practice. the things that stretch us become the things that make the growing pains less painful.
if you want ease on your spiritual journey, and a better understanding of what to expect, be sure to live this entire episode a listen. i take the time to explain with examples why each of these 6 things is so necessary for knowing as you walk the path ahead.
to join the Divine Chaos Course waitlist, click -> vforvibrant.com/divinechaos2022waitlist