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Feminine Purpose

Feminine Purpose

By Trish

Feminine Purpose is a podcast hosted by Trish, a feminine soft skills expert, coach, and creator. Trish helps modern women create relationship harmony with their partners by coming home to her feminine nature. In this podcast, we focus on feminine energy, wisdom, and strategy.
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19: Let's talk about relationship polarity and how to have it

Feminine PurposeApr 10, 2024

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19: Let's talk about relationship polarity and how to have it
Apr 10, 202419:15
18: How to ACTUALLY work on relinquishing control as a woman
Mar 20, 202419:05
17: Why being a boss b*tch is DAMAGING your relationship
Mar 09, 202415:04
16: Why I'm a Feminine Woman (an episode for my grandmother)
Feb 21, 202418:04
15: Why you're burnt out as a modern woman & what to do about it

15: Why you're burnt out as a modern woman & what to do about it

Today’s podcast episode came HIGHLY REQUESTED by many of you on Instagram, so Trish will FINALLY share her thoughts on burnout as a modern day woman in modern society and what to do about it!


There is truly no other podcast who has covered this topic in this manner, so definitely tune in and learn how to navigate feeling burnt out as a woman.


Make sure to stick around until the end to hear about Trish’s first, FREE workshop! 


We will be diving into the following topics:

  • The history of the 9-5 working schedule in America
  • How the 9-5 working hours were designed by and made for men 
  • Why women are struggling to work like men in corporate America
  • Why working a 9-5 job goes AGAINST a woman’s hormonal makeup
  • Male testosterone being built for the 9-5 
  • Female menstrual cycle not being supported in corporate workplaces 
  • Women waking up from the scam of working like men 
  • How to honor yourself and your hormonal makeup as a woman while working
  • Boundary setting in the workplace 
  • Being cautious over promotions and big career decisions 
  • How to get to know yourself and your values to see if your career makes sense 

Schedule a FREE discovery call with Trish: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/femininepurpose/coachingapplication⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Take the FREE feminine archetype quiz here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/650c9c7d94f0a0f23c6177cc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Trish on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Trish on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose⁠⁠

Jan 17, 202422:12
14: How to deal with jealousy as a woman
Jan 03, 202415:41
13: It isn’t your partner’s responsibility to save you from your insecurities
Dec 20, 202321:37
12: Why women prefer masculine men

12: Why women prefer masculine men

Today, we are going to discuss how an argument made by evolutionary psychologists provides a simple, yet quite convincing explanation, as to why women are more attracted to masculine men.


This episode is a juicy one as Trish breaks down the realities of masculinity and how it's directly connected with a woman's attraction towards her male partner.

Article referenced via Substack by Rob Henderson: ⁠https://www.robkhenderson.com/p/sex-and-status⁠

Trish will cover the following in this week's episode:


  • Why masculine men historically have higher mating success
  • Why masculine men have higher mating success rather than their attractive counterparts
  • Masculinity versus attractiveness
  • Why the sexual revolution and online dating/dating apps have given women an illusion on sex and relationships
  • Women have more access to attractive men via online dating
  • How casual sex is not at all the same as a man choosing to marry you
  • Why a man's masculinity is of utmost importance in a long-term relationship and marriage
  • Why a man's masculine energy is more important than his looks
  • A woman not attracted to her man has more to do with his masculine qualities than his physical looks
  • How to know if you are in your femininity
  • How being in your femininity is required for a man to feel like he can be in his masculine energy

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Take the FREE feminine archetype quiz here: ⁠⁠https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/650c9c7d94f0a0f23c6177cc⁠⁠

For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/femininepurpose/coachingapplication⁠⁠

Follow Trish on Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose ⁠⁠

Follow Trish on TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose ⁠⁠

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: ⁠⁠https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose⁠⁠

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish.

Nov 22, 202316:52
11: Why women need self-discipline now more than ever

11: Why women need self-discipline now more than ever

Self-discipline is a lost art and way of living. In our modern day society, it is evident just how disconnected we are from having the practice of self-discipline.


Trish will cover the following in this week's episode:

  • What is self-discipline
  • Why we women need self-discipline now more than ever
  • Questions to ask yourself to assess how likeable you are
  • Research that shows women lie to one another
  • Female propensity to lie about one another's appearances
  • Women lying to each other to reduce competition
  • How to make a goal and use self-discipline to achieve it
  • Self-discipline is a way of living
  • We must be strategic and specific on our goals
  • What is dopamine and why it matters
  • Dopamine hits from social media and vices
  • Trish's journey from growing up with self discipline to now thriving in her discipline and accountability

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Take the FREE feminine archetype quiz here: ⁠⁠⁠https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/650c9c7d94f0a0f23c6177cc⁠⁠⁠

For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: ⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/femininepurpose/coachingapplication⁠⁠⁠

Follow Trish on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose ⁠⁠⁠

Follow Trish on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose ⁠⁠⁠

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: ⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose⁠⁠⁠

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish.

Nov 22, 202319:57
10: What it REALLY means to be a feminine woman
Nov 01, 202315:44
9: Daughters of immigrants struggle with femininity

9: Daughters of immigrants struggle with femininity

As a daughter of immigrants, specifically Filipino parents, Trish will share her perspective on why it's so difficult for daughters of immigrants (especially eldest daughters) to be in their natural feminine nature.


Today, Trish will give her hot take on:


  • How immigrants struggle with mental health
  • Why being a daughter of immigrants is so hard
  • The pressures of being a daughter of immigrants
  • Healing is a luxury and privilege
  • Daughters of immigrants & hyper independence
  • How wanting tradition or being traditional wives is taboo now
  • Being judged as a modern boss bitch who craves tradition
  • The shame associated with wanting to be a stay at home wife and/or mom
  • Ali Wong saying women want to "lie down"
  • Women and their birthright to be at peace and relaxation
  • How to start working on your femininity as a daughter of immigrants

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For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://calendly.com/femininepurpose/coachingapplication

Follow Trish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose

Follow Trish on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish.

Oct 25, 202314:48
8: Why relationships fail when there is no healthy POLARITY

8: Why relationships fail when there is no healthy POLARITY

Trish is excited to FINALLY talk about what exactly relationship polarity is and why relationship harmony is so important. Today, Trish will dive into:

  • Her viral TikTok video (800k+ views)
  • How many women are sliding in her DMs sharing similar relationship issues
  • What her observations are when it comes to relationship problems
  • Most couples are experiencing the same relationship challenges
  • What is relationship polarity
  • Why is relationship polarity important
  • How to know if you have healthy polarity in your relationship
  • Specific examples to know if a relationship does not have healthy polarity
  • Why feminine energy and masculine energy is often gender associated due to male and female hormones
  • Why hormonally women are different to men
  • The issue with women wanting to be men and thinking they are men
  • No matter how much money a woman makes, she will never be a man, and that's not a bad thing!

+++++++ For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://calendly.com/femininepurpose/coachingapplication

Follow Trish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose

Follow Trish on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish.

Oct 18, 202319:37
7: Why Men like Porn, Why Women like Chick Flicks. HINT: It’s in their NATURE

7: Why Men like Porn, Why Women like Chick Flicks. HINT: It’s in their NATURE

Today is going to be spicy and honest AF, because it's time we discuss porn, romantic comedies, movies, shows, and erotica, and how all of that relates to femininity and masculinity.


Trish will be diving into the following:


  • Why men like porn
  • Why porn is catered to men
  • What about porn is so alluring to most men
  • Why women like romantic comedies, chick flicks, romance novels and Korean Dramas
  • Why porn is to men what romantic mediums are to women
  • How these gender preferences say a lot about nature and what they truly desre
  • What to men really desire
  • What to women really desire
  • How to stop being triggered or jealous about your partner's viewing habits
  • Why the couple in Crash Landing on You Korean drama depicts true polarity
  • Submission and masculinity
  • Romance and femininity


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For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me

Follow Trish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose

Follow Trish on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish.

Oct 11, 202315:31
6: How ONE mindset change will transform your life

6: How ONE mindset change will transform your life

This week, we're talking about the one mindset you need to get rid of and what mindset you want to attain. Time and time again, this shift of mindset changes people's lives and garners them what they truly want in their life. Essentially, every "high-value" woman has mastered the art of this mindset shift.


Trish will be discussing the following:

  • Definition of the victim mindset
  • Why the victim mindset is so dangerous
  • How to stop having a victim mindset
  • What the growth mindset is
  • The difference between blaming versus taking accountability
  • What real radical responsibility looks like
  • Advice for single women on how to stop thinking there are no good men out there
  • Advice for married women on how to focus on yourself to improve your relationship
  • Advice for women on how to make more money by working on your skills


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For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me

Follow Trish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose

Follow Trish on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose

Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com

All other links: https://beacons.ai/femininepurpose

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish

Oct 04, 202320:02
5: How to submit to your man to get what you want

5: How to submit to your man to get what you want

Today's episode is a HOT one and will likely garner a lot of attention and controversy. Trish will be discussing the taboo topic of surrendering and submitting to your partner.


We will cover the following:


  • What it really means to surrender or submit
  • The negative stigma around surrendering or submitting as a woman
  • Why modern women actively choose NOT to be submissive
  • Why women should consider being submissive or surrendering to their man
  • Why your wounded feminine ego is prohibiting you from surrendering 
  • Why surrendering is actually the secret as a feminine woman TO GAIN control
  • How men have already submitted by being monogamous to us women
  • How women are already submitting at work, but not at home
  • A few quick ways to start practicing being submissive

+++++++ As mentioned in the Episode -- For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me Follow Trish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose Follow Trish on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish!

Sep 27, 202322:31
4: Wounded Feminine Energy in Netflix Ultimatum

4: Wounded Feminine Energy in Netflix Ultimatum

Let's talk about wounded feminine energy and 3 signs you may be operating from this space. Trish will weave in these three signs of wounded femininity with the character Roxanne Kaiser, from Netflix's trending show, The Ultimatum. Get ready for some tea, insight and advice!


In this episode Trish covers..


  • what exactly IS wounded feminine energy
  • top THREE ways to know you're in your wounded feminine
  • how wounded feminine energy is essentially trauma
  • Roxanne from the Netflix Ultimatum show - season 2
  • Roxanne's wounded feminine energy
  • discernment between enjoying planning versus fear of letting go
  • always needing to lead as a woman can be a sign of wounded femininity
  • constantly being triggered by other women who are not doing anything to you


+++++++ As mentioned in the Episode -- For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me Feminine Purpose Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose Feminine Purpose TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie guide directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish!

Sep 20, 202321:51
3: High Maintenance Women = High Value Women

3: High Maintenance Women = High Value Women

This in-your-face episode is Trish's way of putting an end to the stigma of being a high maintenance woman. In this episode, Trish will cover:

  • definition of "high maintenance"
  • debunk and remove the stigma of being a high maintenance woman
  • Americans are lazy, hence why we have such low maintenance women and people overall
  • how high maintenance looks different on everyone
  • at the bare minimum, a high maintenance woman is healthy and fit
  • being a high maintenance and high value woman requires discipline
  • high value women will not lower their standards in their self care
  • standards versus being open because you can't have everything (sorry, just the truth)
  • why extremely high-income earning women might choose less wealthy men if they are still givers


+++++++ As mentioned in the Episode -- For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me Feminine Purpose Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose Feminine Purpose TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie guide directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish!

Sep 11, 202321:19
2: How to be a Hypergamous Woman

2: How to be a Hypergamous Woman

This episode is a deep dive into the topic of HYPERGAMY, and how being a hypergamous women will help elevate you in this lifetime. We will go into the WHY and HOW of hypergamy for women. In this episode, Trish will cover:

  • definition of hypergamy
  • leveling up as a lady via hypergamy
  • securing the future of your hypothetical children
  • choosing men who are GIVERS & PROVIDERS versus simply wealthy/rich
  • the WORST kind of man
  • HOW to assess if a man is a true giver and provider
  • why a man's intelligence is more important than his looks

+++++++ As mentioned in the Episode -- For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me Feminine Purpose Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose Feminine Purpose TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at: trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie on Feminine Soft Skills directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish!

Sep 11, 202322:57
1: From Wounded Feminine to High Value Wife - Trish's Story

1: From Wounded Feminine to High Value Wife - Trish's Story

Welcome to the Feminine Purpose podcast, hosted by Trish, a feminine soft skills expert, coach, and creator.


Today, Trish launches the podcast with 3 episodes for your enjoyment.

In this episode, Trish will share her story:

  • what happened to her former podcast, Tita's Thots
  • how Feminine Purpose was born
  • her father's passing, grief, and impact
  • her childhood trauma and hyper independence as a trauma response
  • wounded feminine energy which manifests in controlling behavior and inability to trust men
  • how your first romantic relationship and sexual partner leaves a huge imprint on you as a woman
  • reinforced narratives that men cannot be trusted and how that held her back from being feminine

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As mentioned in the Episode --


For 1:1 coaching with Trish schedule a call here: https://www.femininepurpose.com/work-with-me


Feminine Purpose Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/femininepurpose


Feminine Purpose TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@femininepurpose


Business Inquiries: trish@femininepurpose.com


Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot, and DM or email it at:trish@femininepurpose.com to receive a shoutout and exclusive freebie on Feminine Soft Skills directly to your inbox as a huge thank you from Trish!


Sep 11, 202325:16
Feminine Purpose Trailer

Feminine Purpose Trailer

Welcome to Feminine Purpose, by Trish, formerly the host of Tita's Thots.


Trish is on a mission to help modern women wake up from societal conditioning and return home to their feminine nature.


Stay tuned for the new podcast, launching in September 2023!


Follow Trish on Instagram & TikTok: @FemininePurpose

Aug 25, 202301:59