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The Milk Chocolate Mess

The Milk Chocolate Mess

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For Mature Audiences Only. Season 1 Black women and the intricacies of their relationships. Whether it be relationships with your significant other, your job, your kids or yourself. We are speaking candidly and quite hilariously on what Black women go through in this journey of life. Relax and Come chop it up with us.
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S5:E7 Hypersensitive men

The Milk Chocolate Mess Apr 10, 2024

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S5:E7 Hypersensitive men

S5:E7 Hypersensitive men

Trouble for our Truffle πŸ₯² her man don't trust her, should she move on or stick it out? Listen right here on the milk chocolate mess podcast πŸ‘ŒπŸΎ
Apr 10, 202421:11
POP UP SHOW ! Dreamville 2024

POP UP SHOW ! Dreamville 2024

Tia and Jaxx enjoyed their weekend in Raleigh, NC, at the Dreamville Festival! We have tips and tricks, pros and cons to attending the festival. Was it lit, meh. Could it have been better, yeh. But it was definitely an experience. Listen to the show we'll let you know what happened!
Apr 09, 202429:27
S5:E6 Body Counts.

S5:E6 Body Counts.

Shondra has a problem keeping her new boo. How do yall feel about body counts? Dealbreaker? Let's talk about it !
Mar 27, 202420:09
S5:E5 Sneaky links and Moving on

S5:E5 Sneaky links and Moving on

In love with your sneaky link? MOVE TF ON. Your person doesn't want to commit? MOVE TF ON. Don't be in a relationship by yourself, girl πŸ™„
Mar 13, 202427:29
S5:E4 TT follow up

S5:E4 TT follow up

Our trouble truffle anonymous lady has answered our questions, and we have something to say.. Also alabama what the fuck are you doing? It's our body it's our choice let's talk about it.

Feb 28, 202428:04
S5:E3 Pop up #whotfdidimarry

S5:E3 Pop up #whotfdidimarry

This episode briefly recaps the 51 part TikTok of who the f*** did Marry in a 20-minute summary πŸ₯³πŸ₯³πŸ₯³πŸ₯³πŸ₯³
Feb 24, 202427:23
S5:E2 Troubled Truffle Letter

S5:E2 Troubled Truffle Letter

An anonymous listener asks for advice on a sticky situation 😬.... baby girl, STOP PLAYING GAMES πŸ˜‚ write and tell us what you'd do in her situation at TMCMess@gmail.com, and don't forget to follow @TMCMESS πŸ“·
Feb 21, 202426:05
S5:E1 Moving on

S5:E1 Moving on

HAPPY VALENTINE DAY πŸ’ and welcome back listeners ! Jaxx and Tia are back with some advice about moving on into your next chapter of life. Will you let life beat your ass?? Or will you overcome ✊🏽.... it's really up to you boo. Make sure to like, share and subscribe! @TMCMESS on Instagram
Feb 14, 202433:06
LAST EPISODE...LONG TIME COMING

LAST EPISODE...LONG TIME COMING

Update on where we have been, and new updates about the next season ! We love yall! Follow us @tmcmess on Instagram and follow our personal pages @wildflower_jaxx & @treat_yourself_travel
Jul 03, 202311:46
S4:E4

S4:E4

BIG BOOTY HOES πŸ€ͺ which one of yall went to freaknik because we want to hear alllll the tea 🍡 view the hosts Freaknik pictures @tmcmess on Instagram! Also we have a new troubled Truffle letter ( poor tink tink ) ... what do you think she should do about her husband πŸ˜– ?!
Apr 18, 202326:43
S4:E3 Drunken Nights with your hosts

S4:E3 Drunken Nights with your hosts

Will Tia ever be broken from the SHACKLES of the Chris brown bandwagon? πŸ˜‚ On today's show we share some scary experiences with the sticky icky πŸŒ±πŸ’¨ and talk a brief segment about the BLK app.
Mar 09, 202325:41
S4: E2 Online Dating Continued

S4: E2 Online Dating Continued

MORE about black women and dating online, we've got some stories about this app yall 🀣 Jaxx tries the rose 🌹 for the first time, and Tia has men deleting their dating profile πŸ˜‚ tune in!
Feb 19, 202328:55
Season 4 Episode 1 HAPPY NEW YEAR ! ONLINE DATING 1ST TAKE.

Season 4 Episode 1 HAPPY NEW YEAR ! ONLINE DATING 1ST TAKE.

This season will deep dive online dating on the a popular POC app, the ins the outs and a few in-betweens that we'll get more into as the season develops. #BLK #Chrissean #Blueface #NYE #onlinedating #blacksingles #storytime
Feb 06, 202339:55
S3E10 Free Pussy???

S3E10 Free Pussy???

ITS THE FINALE!!! πŸ₯‚πŸŽŠπŸ₯³ Thank you guys for listening this season, we love and appreciate you! This episode touches on investment returns e.i our time for your money πŸ’° why we DONT hate our baby fathers and levels on rejection. Get into into it! 🚨🚨🚨 Plus a sneak peak at next season πŸ€―πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ₯΄
Aug 31, 202233:04
S3E9 The Coochie Crook

S3E9 The Coochie Crook

Who tf hurt Jaxx feelings? Jaxx opens up about her new dating life. And who out here stealing coochies 🀧 GIVE IT BACK! 😀 monkey πŸ’ pocks is on the rise so if you look like a monkey πŸ’ KEEP IT PUSHING πŸ’―πŸ‘ŒπŸΎ #LGBTQ #LESBIAN #MONKEYPOCKS #PVALLEY #CHEATING #STEMS #COVID #DATING
Aug 09, 202227:46
S3:E8 I'm fucking her husband & the reasons women get side dudes.

S3:E8 I'm fucking her husband & the reasons women get side dudes.

Trouble in paradise, our troubled Truffle has marital issues with someone else husband πŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ , and why some women allow side niggas to join the team. Let's talk about it ! #cheating #hoes #relationship #advice #kevingates #careeshaplease #coachkencanion #dating #love #smino #gaypride #conclave2022
Jul 26, 202228:43
S3E7 Nasty TroubledTruffle and opposite sex friendships

S3E7 Nasty TroubledTruffle and opposite sex friendships

This episode we get a trifling ass letter from a nasty chick. Jaxx and Tia disagree on opposite sex friendships πŸ™„
Jul 05, 202235:03
S3:E6 TMC Yearbook Superlatives

S3:E6 TMC Yearbook Superlatives

🚨 PVALLEY SPOILER! Jaxx and Tia comprise a list of celebrities in the news this week featuring #verzuztv #Mario #Omarion sh*t show also #Loriharvey #nickcannon #rayj #brandy #pleasurep #sammie #pvalley #jfonz #lgbtq #happypride
Jun 29, 202225:51
S3E5 Drunken Talks with Tia & Jaxx

S3E5 Drunken Talks with Tia & Jaxx

The hosts decided to pregame before opening the TroubleTruffleℒ️ Letters, Jaxx opens up about her feelings on Tia's new haircut πŸ’‡πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Follow us @TMCMESS
Jun 14, 202235:03
S3E4 In Love with Multiple People

S3E4 In Love with Multiple People

Peaches and cream update! πŸ˜‹ Jaxx has a crush 😍 Tia never really loved her exes ??? 🀣 and the cast shares stories of loving multiple people at a time. Tune in!
Jun 01, 202230:57
S3:E3 Love bombing

S3:E3 Love bombing

Have you ever lead someone on to manipulate and gain something from a lover? Well this show is about you πŸ˜‚ tune in!
May 18, 202250:41
S3E2: Voodoo Coochie & F*** The 90 Day Rule

S3E2: Voodoo Coochie & F*** The 90 Day Rule

Hot πŸ”₯ Topic... Chris brown has a new baby and Tia is upset 😑 πŸ˜‚. Plus has a guy ever went downtown while you were on your period and how many days we think you should wait to have sex.
Apr 19, 202229:49
S3:E1 Transparency & D*ck Riding

S3:E1 Transparency & D*ck Riding

Hot πŸ”₯ Topic Black Chyna and her baby daddy drama. NEW SEGMENT: Thou shalt not play my face; do men really think we are stupid? And the pros and cons of getting on top in the bedroom.
Apr 05, 202229:41
S2E12 Spiritual Guide Mo Betta on TMCMESS!

S2E12 Spiritual Guide Mo Betta on TMCMESS!

Mo Betta Motives LLC shares with us, her journey into the healing of herself and helping others ascend to a more spiritually healthier lifestyle. Tia shares her experience with Mo!
Dec 29, 202122:35
S2E11 mishandled women

S2E11 mishandled women

Tmcmess talks on Ciara's "happy booty" and weighs in on Michael Baisden's argument that men have to QUIT mishandling black women. It gets REAL funny πŸ˜„
Dec 21, 202130:43
S2E10 Responding to a male listener.

S2E10 Responding to a male listener.

Jaxx and Tia catch the sickness over the holidays, and our response to a male listener with something on his chest. πŸ’‹
Dec 09, 202127:33
S2E9 Monetizing The Cat Pt 1... The Why..

S2E9 Monetizing The Cat Pt 1... The Why..

HAPPY HOLIDAYS! Tia has has pretty rough holidays weekend and Jaxx has a great one ! Things get pretty heated when Jaxx opens up about trauma and why she feels like putting tax on the cat. Tia Co signs and gives her 2 cents on how to go about getting your change ladies!
Nov 29, 202137:25
S2E8 Monetizing The Cat

S2E8 Monetizing The Cat

Da Baby and Danileigh have some drama that we all know too well. We do not aspire to be baby mothers, nor do we aspire to be left with nothing simply for falling in love. Ladies it's time to snatch the cat back. 🐈 meow.
Nov 24, 202128:17
S2E7 -- Girl on Girl action plus a troubled Truffle and her crazy marriage

S2E7 -- Girl on Girl action plus a troubled Truffle and her crazy marriage

Our TroubledTruffleℒ️ is having some major issues with her husband, they've explored an open marriage & living separately. Should they let it go?? We weigh in. There's some curiosity going on between Jaxx coworkers (peaches & cream ). Tia and Jaxx share their experiences with dating females. It gets hot πŸ”₯
Nov 15, 202138:07
S2E6 Loving who you are; Low self esteem.

S2E6 Loving who you are; Low self esteem.

What is Megan the Stallion even doing?! Jaxx doesn't like the hot girl's Halloween costumes. Our main topic focuses on low self esteem and the battle to become a healthier, happier you. 😊
Oct 26, 202130:48
S2E5 Action

S2E5 Action

This episode sheds light on the actions to take during and after your healing process to establish and reinforce positive mental habits.
Oct 19, 202125:14
S2E4 Acceptance: Insight

S2E4 Acceptance: Insight

This episode briefly discusses the mishap between Mr. Latruth, Mrs. The truth and DaBaby. Listeners find out that Jaxx knows Mr. Latruth from back in the day. Our main discussion is about insight and seek to understand your situation! Let's Go!
Oct 12, 202135:30
EP. 3 Levels of acceptance/Interview with @Passion_Froot

EP. 3 Levels of acceptance/Interview with @Passion_Froot

The levels of acceptance saga continues with a woman's brutal tale of scorned love, and the healing process goes through to become a better version of herself.
Oct 05, 202131:26
S2 E2 Levels of Acceptance

S2 E2 Levels of Acceptance

This episode discusses the many emotions we go through when beginning the process of acceptance after a negative news. We review a crazy troubled truffle letter and tell her how we would handle this scandalous situation πŸ”₯
Sep 28, 202129:13
S2E1 Scratching the surface of acceptance.

S2E1 Scratching the surface of acceptance.

This episode focuses on healing, particularly acceptance of the things you cannot change. Let's level up, accept and move on to bigger and better situations πŸ’ͺ🏾.
Sep 21, 202131:29
Episode 15 : Season closer Troubled Truffle Letters

Episode 15 : Season closer Troubled Truffle Letters

What are they teaching our babies in school? Manhattan teacher under fire for "masturbation" KIDS video... we have a few words for her. We are closing out this season with our TroubledTruffleℒ️ letters. Thank you for listening to The Milk Chocolate Mess Podcast and we will see you again soon for SEASON 2!
Jun 01, 202143:00
Episode 14 Rekindle Your Romance

Episode 14 Rekindle Your Romance

Our πŸ”₯ topic... Nick Cannon has super sperm. Let's Fondue! Has the flame burned out of your relationship? Today's main topic gives the tea 🍡 on how to rekindle the flame, passion and of course the sex. Let get into it!
May 26, 202140:10
Karmic vs Twin Flame relationships

Karmic vs Twin Flame relationships

Posha Williams catches hell for new engagement πŸ’ but could Simon be her twin flame? Is your significant other karmic or your twin Flame? We explain in this episode signs to look for in both relationships 😳
May 18, 202133:06
F@!# Boys vs Grown men. Identifying toxic behaviors with you partner.

F@!# Boys vs Grown men. Identifying toxic behaviors with you partner.

WE'RE RUNNING OUT OF GAS!!! Pipeline cyber attack!! Plus our Fondue πŸ«• topic giving a list of flags to look for so you don't run into a f$#@ boy.
May 11, 202139:30
Episode 11 Being His Peace Shouldn't cost you yours.

Episode 11 Being His Peace Shouldn't cost you yours.

Hot topic alrert! New Show VH1 couples retreat. Our Let's Fondue πŸ«• topic talks on reciprocity as it relates to creating and maintaining peace in your relationship.
May 04, 202142:08
Episode 10 Part 2 for the 8 areas of wellness. Individual edition.

Episode 10 Part 2 for the 8 areas of wellness. Individual edition.

George Floyd has gotten his justice! We made some fun intros to segment topics! This weeks Fondue πŸ«• topic teaches self care for women and highlights situations you should definitely steer clear of when working on your areas of wellness.
Apr 27, 202138:37
Episode 9 sexual addiction in relationships

Episode 9 sexual addiction in relationships

RIP Black Rob πŸ™πŸΎ This episode gets personal with some of Jaxx past issues with sexual addiction and Tia tells us a little about orgy parties. Episode also includes perspective on how to overcome your sexual addiction.
Apr 20, 202138:23
Episode 8 normalizing leaving relationships that do not serve you in the all dimensions of wellness.

Episode 8 normalizing leaving relationships that do not serve you in the all dimensions of wellness.

Rip DMX we love you. You were a pillar of our community and a friend in our hearts. The episode talks briefly on toxic traits and characteristics that compromise your 8 dimensions of wellness when dating. Part 2 coming soon!
Apr 13, 202147:32
Hyper Independent Woman

Hyper Independent Woman

This episode briefly speaks on lil nas x and his new "satan" shoes and the meat of it, hyper independent females and the trauma that caused her to become who she is today. Tia gets personal.
Apr 06, 202134:14
Emotional Accountability & Love Languages

Emotional Accountability & Love Languages

This episode is about taking responsibility for your actions and emotions in the relationship. We also touch on Derrick Jaxon's infidelity and our thoughts/views on the topic. Thanks for listening!
Mar 30, 202138:00
Non-monogamous relationship thoughts, views, storytime!

Non-monogamous relationship thoughts, views, storytime!

This episode we speak candidly on poly relationships in the black community, share some intimate views of our own its hilarious! Also we speak on our hot topic; Saweetie vs Quavo and the repo man. Tune in every Tuesday for a new episode. Thanks for listening 🎢
Mar 23, 202132:35
Men & Women staying in relationships they do not want to be in.

Men & Women staying in relationships they do not want to be in.

Let it go baby. Whatever the issue if you are not happy in the relationship, and can't resolve the issues making you unhappy, keep it moving. We also touched on Kirk Franklin's ungodly hour, and the Switzerland ban on Muslim women's face and body coverings.
Mar 16, 202146:44
Securing the bag; potential risks capitalizing gains and minimizing drama in between.

Securing the bag; potential risks capitalizing gains and minimizing drama in between.

This episode briefly discusses the mask mandates that are being lifted. TI and tiny 's alleged hostage situation and our main event; why securing the bag is so big for black women.
Mar 10, 202132:51
Black women and online dating

Black women and online dating

Horror stories from online dating. It gets messy! There isn't much information about black women dating online... almost as if it weren't designed with us in mind as well πŸ€·πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Please visit our social media sites @Tmcmess available on all platforms now.
Mar 03, 202129:59
Episode 1. Watching porn in relationships

Episode 1. Watching porn in relationships

FOR MATURE AUDIENCES ONLY. Audio Quality of this show is a little ehhh. But we fixed it going forward. This episode is about porn in relationships, women's issues with being accepted by men, and our trending topic the stimulus check. Whew... let's get into this mess. Please visit our social media sites @Tmcmess available on all platforms now.
Feb 24, 202101:29:50