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To Be Fair Hosted by Ehryn and the Lovely Lisa

To Be Fair Hosted by Ehryn and the Lovely Lisa

By Ehryn

Episodes exploring my perception of life and understanding the other views on pop culture, life, sports, politics, art and more. Join me as I explore other perspectives of life.



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This is Basically a Love Letter to David Rose from Schitt's Creek

To Be Fair Hosted by Ehryn and the Lovely LisaOct 25, 2020

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The Spiderman Special

The Spiderman Special

During the hiatus Ehryn and Lisa have worked on different projects. this one they decided to test run some opening sequences and more and would love your feedback... also subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive advance videos like this.
Jan 25, 202225:35
Tis The Season....FINALE!

Tis The Season....FINALE!

Lisa and Ehryn discuss how the odcast began and where its going next year. We have great plans and hope you look forward to our growth.

Dec 08, 202122:39
Being Thankful in 2021

Being Thankful in 2021

Join Ehryn and Lisa as they discuss what they are thankful for tis year and then go on some other random tangents as per usual..... Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 24, 202129:18
Life Updates with Ehryn and Lisa

Life Updates with Ehryn and Lisa

Ehryn and Lisa talk about what is up in life at the moment and where they are headed with the podcast from here.

Nov 07, 202123:49
What is Straight Privilege?

What is Straight Privilege?

Ehryn and Lisa are joined by their friend and fellow podcaster Sir Steven Rice to discuss Straight Privilege.  

Checkout Steven's podcast   https://sunshinesteven.podbean.com/

Oct 28, 202159:50
A Halloween Episode

A Halloween Episode

Ehryn and Lisa are joined by Janet Awesome Miller to talk about one of the best holidays ever!!!!

Oct 25, 202141:60
Sister React-ion

Sister React-ion

Ehryn and Lisa welcome guests Amy Koivisto, Dante Pirtle and Jen Bergum to have a discussion about casting in community theater...secifially roles for People of Color.

Oct 18, 202159:57
Am I The Villain?

Am I The Villain?

Lisa and Ehryn catch up after Ehryn spends 10 days in a mental health crisis center and I am dangerous when I am passionate.  Lessons learned and new roads to take..... can we be better?

Oct 12, 202101:08:51
That's Just Where I'm At

That's Just Where I'm At

Ehryn and Lisa discuss the future of everything...including this podcast

Sep 28, 202136:26
Two Truths and A Lie

Two Truths and A Lie

Ehryn and Lisa play Two Truths and A Lie

Sep 13, 202126:30
Checking in with Ehryn and Lisa

Checking in with Ehryn and Lisa

We are beginning a series of specials and this one.  Lisa and I will randomly do episodes just to check in with each other.  And in this one Ehryn is having some rough times.

Aug 23, 202148:24
I am not what I once was

I am not what I once was

Ehryn and Lisa discuss the people we have become and the pros and cons of growing.

Aug 16, 202132:29
Let's Communicate

Let's Communicate

Ehryn and Sara discuss the importance of communication in life.

Aug 09, 202135:59
OMG We're Back Again

OMG We're Back Again

This episode Lisa and Ehryn are joined by Carin Anderson and Katie Jarva to share some random stories and talk about beliefs.


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Aug 02, 202101:08:38
Pride 2021 Specials: Sir Steven Rice

Pride 2021 Specials: Sir Steven Rice

Joining me in this episode is my friend Steven Rice, a fellow podcaster and just a ray of sunshine.  We share stories of growing up gay and he shares what it was like for him to come out down in the south.

Jun 14, 202155:28
Pride 2021 Specials: With Nathan MacDowell

Pride 2021 Specials: With Nathan MacDowell

In this Pride Special I have a conversation with my friend Nathan MacDowell. Nathan and I grew up in the same community just a decade apart.  We share our coming out stories and talk about how much Grand Rapids has changed....but also made sure to recognize how much more it needs to change.

Jun 07, 202156:34
Pride 2021 Specials: Ash Kelly

Pride 2021 Specials: Ash Kelly

Ash and I have a freindship that spans 20 years and were both part of a small group of LGBT Youth in the small community of Grand Rapids, MN.   Through the years we have both grown and changed... but one thing for sure we are both outspoken members of the Alphabet Mafia!  HAPPY PRIDE and dont forget to SUBSCIBE, LIKE and even SHARE!

Jun 03, 202151:22
Mental Health Awareness Month 2021

Mental Health Awareness Month 2021

Lisa and Ehryn discuss their journey with Mental Health struggles and where they are today on said journey.

May 24, 202143:36
The Trauma: Also The Mid Season Finale

The Trauma: Also The Mid Season Finale

Ehryn, Lisa and Sara share their perception of Trauma and what skills we use to overcome it.   This also serves as our Mid Season Finale!!!

Apr 26, 202140:49
Let's Work in Social Media: With Guest Mike EP

Let's Work in Social Media: With Guest Mike EP

This recording is actually from a couple months ago, but I wasn't sure how I wanted to release this episode:    Ehryn and Lisa are joined by guest Mike EP from the Podcast We Speak English Good and he shares much about what it is like to be a working musician and producer and fellow podcaster.  It was very enlightening to Lisa and Ehryn as they are still learning how to exist in this social media world.   Please enjoy some good organic conversation. (Also our longest epsisode ever, but wasn't sure what to cut)  Listen to Mike's podcast "We Speak English Good" https://wespeakenglishgood.com/

Apr 19, 202102:18:06
Welcome to the Show: Michael "Mikey" McLaughlin (Our 4th and Final Co-Host)

Welcome to the Show: Michael "Mikey" McLaughlin (Our 4th and Final Co-Host)

My cis gendered white heterosexual man best friend is officially joining the cast of the podcast.  This episode Lisa and I welcome him on by just playing catch up and talking abut our mental health.   We are excited to have his perspective on the show.

Apr 12, 202101:10:30
We Have a New Co-Host: Sara Citrine

We Have a New Co-Host: Sara Citrine

Ehryn nd Lisa decided they wanted to add a more regular third host, so we are happy to introduce our newest regular co host Sara Citrine!   Sara comes with a background in mental health and being an Ally to the LGBTQ+ community.  She has an amazing personality and great experiences to share and we are so lucky and happy to have her on the show.

Apr 05, 202144:28
Self IMPROVment with Chris Nielson

Self IMPROVment with Chris Nielson

My friend Chris Nielson joins me for a conversation about IMPROV... both in practice of performance and in using it to build success in your every day life.     

 Find out more about Chris Nielson at  http://chrisnielson.com/

Mar 29, 202149:37
Navigating Anxiety with Special Guest: Coach Dee Woolridge

Navigating Anxiety with Special Guest: Coach Dee Woolridge

This episode is such a treat for Lisa and I to have the amazing Success Coach Dee Woolridge join us for a conversation about Anxiety. Dee also gives Lisa and I some tips on how to work with anxiety daily.    

Join the 5 Day Self Esteem Booster Challenge: https://bit.ly/EsteemBoost  

More about Dee: (In her own words from her website)   Hey there friend.  We all have a story created from our history. Some experiences are so profound that they leave a wound.  How we perceive our story creates our daily narrative.  Life is complicated, messy, and full of contrast. Our childhood minds can’t comprehend all we’re taking in. We process the information as best as we can, then grow up with childhood skills that we try to apply to adult situations, which never works.  We push through life but still end up feeling, anxious, unworthy, insecure, trapped and dissatisfied with life.  I too have a history and a story. As the 9th of 13 children, I felt forgotten, invisible, fearful and unworthy. Because of those feelings, I became an overachiever to get the attention I sought from my mom. I had to put in more effort, be more, and have more. At the same time, I was learning to downplay my achievements as not to outshine my siblings for fear of not being accepted by them. Then there were the times when I just didn't feel good enough.   My drive to over-achieve often led to overwhelm, anxiety, and burn-out. And although I achieved success, I felt like it wasn’t safe to shine, which led to insecurity and self-sabotage.  This constant, “pull to me - push away from me”, kept me in a cycle of despair. On the outside, I appeared confident and strong. On the inside, I was that little girl who just needed to feel safe and loved.    My journey of transformation began when my daughter was born severely premature. I knew I had to grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually and become a better version of myself... fast!    I did and still do the work to overcome and appreciate my story. To stand on it instead of in it. I now know It is because of my profound challenges including breast cancer and financial loss, that  I’ve discovered my purpose to  teach, speak, write, coach and serve in a way that helps others grow.   A Course in Miracles says, "Teach to learn.  Learn to Teach"   For over two decades, It is has been my mission, my privilege, my honor to do just that. I’ve become a guide for others like you to have victory over any challenge. You like I are a perfect, whole and complete child of God. Resilient and strong.   Lets Build Success Together!  www.deewoolridge.com

Mar 22, 202101:13:53
An Important Conversation with special guest Erin McKinney

An Important Conversation with special guest Erin McKinney

This is a very special episode with a special guest.  Ehryn is joined by Erin McKinney.   Years ago I was very close friends with her brother Liam who was such a special human with a tragic illness that ended up losing his life to his illness and suicide.  Erin and Ehryn talk about Liam's story and the importance of ending the stigma on conversations of suicide.   (This episode is possibly filled with triggers for others so please be cautious) 

 If you or anyone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide please know that help is available  the National Suicide Prevention Hotline is available 24/7  1-800-273-8255

Mar 19, 202101:09:10
Say My Name

Say My Name

This episode is explaining my decision to use a different spelling of my name and touching on the subject of identity.

Mar 08, 202127:50
Blasts From The Past: Bryce Smith

Blasts From The Past: Bryce Smith

This episode is one of my Blasts from the Past series...going all the way back to childhood.  Bryce and I have known each other since we were 6 or 7 when I first moved to Remer.  Bryce has always been a very kind human compared to many of our peers.  This conversation was such a treat for both of us to understand who we were and who we are.  TO BE FAIR::: Bryce sometimes freezes up during the recording, but no worries..I improv well as you can tell  www,tobefairpodcast.com

Mar 05, 202139:06
I Am What I Am

I Am What I Am

Lisa and I share in conversation of public image and how others perceive us.    #bereal #mentalhealthmatters

Mar 01, 202138:23
What it's like in my mind Part 1

What it's like in my mind Part 1

Lisa and I share interesting stories from the week, and I share a little of what its like living with ADHD. Anxiety and Depression all hitting at one time. 

Feb 22, 202133:03
One year later....

One year later....

Lisa and I share in conversation about doing this podcast for one year and the things we have learned in the last year
Feb 15, 202121:23
The Buffy Episodes Part 4 (The Finale)

The Buffy Episodes Part 4 (The Finale)

The final episode of our Buffy Episodes series
Feb 08, 202124:30
The Buffy Episodes Part 3
Feb 03, 202126:51
Blasts From The Past: Ashley LaVonne Effinger

Blasts From The Past: Ashley LaVonne Effinger

Ashley is one of the first people I met and got to bond with when I first moved to Duluth, MN and joined the company of The Duluth Playhouse.  Ashley is such a wonderful human that I am lucky to call a friend.  In this special episode Ashley and I share memories and share where we are now and how we got here.   More about Ashley and what she does now can be found at  www.ThePoshPinkMermaid.com

Jan 26, 202101:10:54
the Buffy Episodes Part 2

the Buffy Episodes Part 2

here we are for more discussion about our favorite female superhero Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Joined once again by Sir Steven Rice of the podcast Sunshine Steven
Jan 25, 202122:05
The Buffy Episodes Part 1
Jan 19, 202125:45
The Ventilator

The Ventilator

In the Season 2 Opener Lisa and I are joined by Marie Sippola as we vent about how 2020 took us down. But we shared stories of the positive things that happened to us in 2020 as well.      

Jan 11, 202101:14:42
Blasts from the Past: Willy Gibson

Blasts from the Past: Willy Gibson

My friend Willy Gibson and I catch up for about an hour and remind ourselves of who we used to be and of who we have become now. 


This episode is also the first official zoom recorded episode available on my YouTube channel as well

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRA_CYZjwQkkbhl6W7u28Q



Jan 03, 202101:04:23
TikTok ya don't stop!

TikTok ya don't stop!

the final chapter in the saga that asks Will Quincey ever settle down? is Lisa going to start wearing stockings and cooking nightly brisket? We may find out in the Season Finale Finale!!! Finally!
Dec 23, 202023:24
Am I TikTok famous yet? Season Finale Part 2 of 3

Am I TikTok famous yet? Season Finale Part 2 of 3

Quincey, Lisa and I work through more tech difficulties as we navigate through this episode and talking about TikTok
Dec 21, 202026:18
Tikity Tokity Season Finale Part 1

Tikity Tokity Season Finale Part 1

Lisa and I are joined by the one and only Quincey Roisum. we spend most the time discussing the ins and outs of becoming a Tiktok creator.
Dec 18, 202027:06
A Socially Awkward Conversation with Lisa

A Socially Awkward Conversation with Lisa

Lisa and I talk about how social media has grown into what it is now.....a timeline from AOL to TikTok..... You're Welcome America
Dec 07, 202058:10
Accountability?

Accountability?

Lisa, Amy and I spend a little time talking bout accountability, personal growth, parenting and adulting!
Dec 01, 202042:12
The Art of Being Normal

The Art of Being Normal

Amy Leann, Lisa Forrestal and I discuss being normal....and who decides what normal is
Nov 27, 202035:58
Television Therapy

Television Therapy

Joining me for a conversation about TV shows and the characters we attach ourselves to is the fantastic Lily Obrien!!! She knows her TV and is a delight to talk to.
Nov 19, 202048:51
How's it gonna be?

How's it gonna be?

Joined by Lisa Forrestal and Tylar Lundeen I lead a conversation about Covid testing, relative differences and Slang!
Nov 13, 202035:22
Where do we go from here?

Where do we go from here?

I am joined by regular guest hosts Amy Leann and Tylar Lundeen as we welcome new host Sarah Litchke to the show. In this episode we all discuss our feelings for the recent election. (This is is a perspective piece not a facts piece)
Nov 09, 202059:56
I didn't plan this!

I didn't plan this!

Joined by Lisa Forrestal and our new guest host Tylar Lundeen we dive into a conversation of TV shows we like, movies we enjoy and taking life one day at a time.
Oct 30, 202001:12:01
Crossing the Divide with Tylar Lundeen

Crossing the Divide with Tylar Lundeen

This episode my friend Tylar Lundeen and I discuss what its like to be on different sides of the election. But whats best is we show that we can see things differently yet still respect eachother as humans.
Oct 27, 202001:12:56
This is Basically a Love Letter to David Rose from Schitt's Creek

This is Basically a Love Letter to David Rose from Schitt's Creek

Lisa and I discuss the similarities of me and David Rose from Schitt's Creek .
Oct 25, 202044:43
Blasts from the Past: Anna Vogt

Blasts from the Past: Anna Vogt

Joining me for one of.my BFTP specials is none other than the insanely talented Anna Vogt. Anna is a fantastic human that I had the pleasure getting to know during my Duluth Theater adventures. So listen up yo.....
Oct 16, 202001:06:33