To Be Wed - Wedding Planning Podcast

Sometimes Wedding Planning can really take a toll on you but you never hear anyone else talk about it. This episode is all about our experience with Perfectionism while planning our Wedding. We talk about how to have the best day possible whilst realising it could never be our dream day due to finncial constraints. Plus what about People Pleasing. Who are we trying to impress with our Weddings? There is always some aspect of wanting to impress your friends and family so we dive into how we managed that during our wedding planning process. I hope this is a super helpful episode and can help you start a conversation with your partner to put the right practices in place a long time before your Wedding Day!

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On this weeks episode we open a can of worms and discuss having children at your wedding. We dive into the challenges of having kids at your wedding and some things to consider if you are having kids at your wedding. If you are on the fence about having kids at your wedding , definitely want kids at you wedding or don't want kids at your wedding at all- then this is the episode for you! 

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This short and sharp episode is all about how to create the best atmosphere for the Dancefloor at your Wedding. From what songs to play, how to arrange the room and even the perfect length of time. We go through everything we learned from our Wedding Dancefloor and tips we have seen from other peoples Weddings. Plus we give you a list of things to avoid that could make your Wedding Dancefloor flop! Hope you guys love this one :)

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This week we expose the hidden side of Pinterest & Instagram's impact on Weddings, specifically how they promote fake wedding photos and distort the expectations of newly-engaged couples. Have you ever heard of Styled Shoots? They are elaborately planned and carefully orchestrated 'Fake Weddings' run by industry professionals designed to capture awe-inspiring wedding imagery. Well we recently created our own Styled Photoshoot and thought this was a great chance to discuss the pros & cons of such a Photoshoot. Like we love the opportunity for couples to express their creativity, discover unique ideas, and collaborate with talented professionals. However, we also fear the potential for heightened expectations, the pressure to replicate the styled look in real-life weddings, and the risk of losing sight of authenticity when almost all the photos on Pinterest these days use models and not a real couples. We finish off the episode with some practical advice on navigating Pinterest's influence, managing expectations, and embracing the uniqueness of each couple's love story. By shedding light on the Pinterest paradox, we hope to empower couples to prioritise their happiness and authenticity over unattainable perfection. So join us as we dive into the world of picture-perfect Wedding Photos/Make-up and the detrimental effects they can have on your expectations.

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This week we explore the ups and downs of needing a spark when dating. On one hand, that initial attraction and chemistry can be incredibly exciting and lead to a powerful connection with someone. It can create a sense of excitement and anticipation that keeps the relationship fresh and interesting. However, relying solely on a spark can also be problematic. It can lead to dismissing potential partners who may not initially light that fire, but who could be wonderful matches in the long run. Join us as we dive into the pros and cons of needing a spark when dating, and explore strategies for finding balance and building meaningful relationships. Whether you're single and searching, or in a committed relationship, this episode will provide valuable insights into the role of attraction in finding and maintaining love.

In addition to discussing the initial spark in dating, we'll also dive into ways to keep that spark alive during a relationship. It's common for the excitement and intensity of a new relationship to fade over time, but there are strategies that can help maintain that connection. We'll explore the importance of communication, both in expressing appreciation and addressing challenges. We'll also talk about ways to keep the romance and intimacy alive, such as date nights and trying new activities together. Join us as we discuss practical tips for reigniting the flame and creating a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

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Spoiler: It was the one thing that didn't go so well with our Wedding... On this week's episode we tell the story that we have been gatekeeping about our wedding. We discuss our Wedding Photographer. What we loved, what we didn't and what we could have done better. From finding your Wedding Photographer to getting your photos back, we let you in on some of the lessons we learnt and what we would do differently. 

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Wedding Planners, Wedding Day of Coordinators, Venue Coordinators - What's the difference and do you need one for your Wedding? Hint, the answer is yes but maybe you can just give this job to a friend or family member. In this episode we are going through the roles and responsibilities of a Wedding Day Coordinator and help you decide whether you need to hire a specific vendor to do the job or if you can just ask a friend. There are so many things to consider with this and like most things we talk about, if you haven't planned a wedding day before it is so hard to know what it all means. This is the type of episode we wish we had of listened to before we got married because trust me there are a few big things we would change to make our day less stressful! We also talk about Wedding Proposals in this episode and give our take on whether proposals are going to far and becoming more about the spectacle than the couple themselves!

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Mike interviews Emily about her New Career move into Make-up Artistry. Emily worked as a Make-up Artist at her first ever Wedding over the past weekend and we speak about that experience and what her plans are into the future. We talk about how she got into make-up as well as how she is starting her business in 2023. Emily is undertaking professional training for make-up so we dive into the Pros and Cons of learning a creative skill in a classroom verses online through YouTube videos and tutorials. We hope you guys love this interview style of episode and that it's a great insight for anyone wanting to start a business in the Wedding Industry!

One of the most challenging things when it comes to planning your Wedding is knowing how your Wedding Day Timeline will run. It is super important to have a detailed plan from Sunrise to Sunset on your Wedding Day but how do you know what that looks like if you've never been to a Wedding before. Every Wedding is different but in this episode we are trying to go through some of the nuances when it comes to your big day because these unspoken things are often the things people forget to plan and will catch them out on their day. We don't want that stress for you guys so hopefully this helps :)

With every relationship there are growing pains and in this episode we go through some of ours. As a married couple you can easily forget how important it is to reflect on days gone by and look back at where you've come from. In that spirit, we are going right back to the start and letting you in on how we got together, when and why we moved in together and how things progressed. Spoiler alert, it wasn't all sunshine and rainbows but we made it work and are here to share some helpful tips we learnt along the way. This is the first of our "Relationship" based episodes so we hope you guys can enjoy it, have a laugh and maybe gain some new insights into our marriage! 

This week we dive into your worst fears when it comes to Wedding Planning. But no need to fear this episode, as we give you all our best advice on how deal with those things you worry about going wrong. We discuss getting left at the alter, family drama, the dreaded weather and your outfit fitting you. If you're waking up in the middle of night thinking about wedding catastrophes- then this may be the episode for you!

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Have you ever felt lonely during the wedding planning process? Then this episode is for you. On this week's episode of the To Be Wed podcast we discuss loneliness and isolation from the moment you get engaged until the wedding day. We discuss the lack of excitement from friends and family, knowing who is really there for you, comparing your choice to others and being the only partner helping to plan the wedding. We gie you insight into our experience and also give you some helpful tips.

On this week's episode, we discuss the future of the podcast. As we go in to 2023, we sit down to discuss some of our goals and hopes for the next year. Grab a drink or some food and listen to our candid chat. From changing up the topics we cover to including interviews, this episode gives you a sneak peak into our thought process for the future.

It's Christmas time and one topic of discussion that is sure to come up around the Christmas table is your Wedding. Whether this discussion is pleasant or painful depends entirely on your family dynamics and how prepared you are beforehand. In this episode we wanted to give you some tips on how to share exciting wedding planning things with your family and friends but also how to squirm out of those icky conversations that are going to ruin your day. It's human nature for people to have opinions on the way they think your Wedding should go but only you can control what you share or how you react to their opinions. We hope this episode helps :)

Your Wedding Day is one of the biggest highs in your life and anyone who has ever been married knows the feeling of sadness that can come along after your big day is over. This is totally normal and happens to everyone after such a big life event. In this episode we want to share some ways that you can pick yourself back up from that post wedding slump and help you find purpose in life again. Plus we also give all the engaged couples some proactive tips that might prevent you feeling those post wedding blues months before your wedding day!! The biggest takeaway from this episode is that Post Wedding Blues are perfectly normal and they shouldn't be something you feel ashamed about feeling or talking about with others. Marriage is tough and sometimes it can feel like you are in it alone so definitely reach out to friends and family if things ever start to get hard.

Can you uphold Feminist ideals and have a Wedding in 2022? This week we discuss whether feminism can co-exist with weddings and marriage. We explore ways that Weddings have and continue to exclude Women and how you can change that by embedding feminism into your wedding and marriage. If you are feminist and wonder how you can get married, then this episode is for you.

This episode is super steamy!!! We give our opinions on some Hot Takes that we have seen online about the Wedding Industry. Do you think the Bride & Groom should pay for Bridesmaids/Groomsmen? Who is the most important vendor at a Wedding?? Are cash bars Tacky? What do you think about long engagement periods?? And don't even get me started on the Garter Toss.... Tune in to here us rant and hopefully you will get some ideas of what not to do for your Wedding!!!

This episode has been 30 weeks in the making since we released our first Budgeting Episode over 6 months ago. It has also been our most requested episode so this week we are sharing the total cost of our Wedding with the world! We broke it down for you guys into categories such as Venue Hire, Attire Costs, Vendors, Food, Decor & More so hopefully that will make it easily digestible and let you see what all of the individual costs were. Everything is in here and this is as open and honest as we can possibly be with just how expensive our Wedding was. I am sure the final number will shock people (in both a good and bad way) but we hope it can open your eyes to the costs of getting married and all the little expenses you should be prepared for. We also dive into some of the ways we saved money on our Wedding so definitely listen through until the end to hear those little gems. Enjoy and Happy Budgeting :)

The first thing that comes to mind when most people thing of Weddings is Family Drama and unfortunately the stereotype is true. A majority of Wedding Days (ours included) are plagued with family drama so in this episode we wanted to talk about some of the common causes and how you an get around them. We also touch on some coping strategies just in case the unthinkable does come to life for you. Fingers crossed it doesn't!

Have you noticed that as soon as you say the word WEDDING, prices sky rocket!!! You might be experiencing what us fellow wedding planners like to call the Wedding Tax! On this week's episode we discuss the wedding tax, what is it, when you have to pay it and how to get around it. Mike also gives us a vendors perspective on why the Wedding Tax exists and how it can be important in some cases.

I'm not taking about asking them to help set up or pack down your Wedding. These are practical roles on your Wedding Day that you can give friends or family members to make sure they are included. It can be hard to have all of your friends in your Wedding Party , especially if you're only having 2 or 3 Bridesmaids/Groomsmen so I want to share some other roles you can give people. Some examples of roles could include who is going to MC your Wedding Reception or who is going to sign your Marriage Register! In this episode Mike also opens up the argument for having friends or family members as your Wedding Vendors. What do you think???

This week we share some super cool and trendy alternatives to some seriously outdated Wedding Traditions. If you feel like the First Dance or having your father walk you down the aisle isn't your style, then this episode is for you!!! From the night before your Wedding to Guest Books to Honeymoons, we give you all our ideas of ways to replace the traditions and make your Wedding day feel more unique. This episode is also a follow up to episode #8 where we talk about heaps more Outdated Wedding traditions so if you enjoyed this one make sure to go back and give episode #8 a listen as well!

Emily & Mike go through how they divided the Wedding Planning duties for their wedding and also share some tips they had for working with each others different organisational styles. If you are struggling to get your partner to help you plan your wedding, you are not alone. Some people just aren't as interested in Wedding Planning as you are but hopefully through listening to this episode you will get some great tips of how to get your partner involved. 

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Music can literally make or break your Wedding Night and we say that having been to multiple Weddings where the music hasn't worked properly. In this episode we're sharing the Pros & Cons of the three most common music styles at Weddings — Bands, DJs & Playlists. Choosing which way to go can be hard but hopefully by the end of this episode you will have a much clearer idea of which style suits your wedding best. Plus we give away some secrets to make your wedding music more unique and give you a checklist of things to go over with your vendors before the wedding day!

Sex on your Wedding Night, PDAs on your Wedding Day, Losing Weight for your Wedding — Nothing is off limits in this episode as we dive into some of our expectations going into marriage verses what the true reality reality looked like. This isn't always cool stuff to talk about but we think it's super important to discuss these expectations before your wedding day. Plus it's good to have a laugh about now! Enjoy :)

Confused about choosing your Wedding Party? Well this episode is for you! Bridesmaids & Groomsmen can be a difficult choice so on this episode we talk about how to choose your Wedding Party, expectations for the Wedding Party plus the controversial topic of who should pay!!! As always we give you our top tips and things to think about when choosing those special few people to be part of your special day.

Mike is off sick this week so Emily has the reigns, which makes the perfect opportunity to talk all things bride. Emily gives you all her tips for Wedding Dress shopping, bridesmaids dresses, how to pick your makeup, dealing with the pressure to lose weight and much more. Whether you are a bit confused about all these different things about being a bride or simply want to have someone who "gets it", then this is the episode for you!

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This week we threw the episode out to you guys and let you submit questions anonymously for a Q&A. We got some many responses and we go through every single question in this episode. We answer questions like what to do if your family lives overseas? Thoughts on Destination Weddings? Should you have a Videographer at your Wedding? How to deal with Family Drama at your Wedding? And so many more. This episode is jam packed with amazing questions for you guys and we try to give as many wedding planning tips and tricks as possible. 

One of the big things people forget when getting married is changing their last name. Probably because it's a bunch of legal stuff that seems boring but it can actually be a very tough decision as well. Who takes who's last name? Do we just stick with our maiden names? Hyphenate our names? You could even just make up a completely new last name!! If you're like Homer and always wanted to change your name so something famous like Max Power, this might be your only chance!! We jump into your options and a whole lot more in this episode so you do not want to miss it.

Plus we are back with a bit of nostalgia in "What's On Fleek This Week". Who remembers Polaroid's?

This Week we talk about how to get more time back on your Wedding Day. No it's not magic, there are a few practical things you can do to ensure you're using your time effectively. We talk about Photography, Meal Service, Venues, Transport, Preparation plus much much more! If you are worried about your timeline or are looking for some tricks to fine tune your timeline then this one is for you!

Of course, we talk about what's on fleek this week. Emily brings a relatively common trend to the table that has been stirring up some mixed opinions. What will you think?

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How to make your Wedding unique, special and one to remember. We share some of the unique things we did for our Wedding and how they made the day special for us and our guests. We talk about walking down the aisle, vows, first dances and grand exits. We know a lot of people feel like Weddings are boring and unoriginal so if you're looking to do something a little different for your Wedding then this episode is for you!

Mike brings a new unique trend to "What's on Fleek this Week" and we discuss whether it's hot or not!

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Everything you need to know when trying to choose your Wedding Photographer. This week is a solo episode where Mike takes a deep dive into his speciality of Wedding Photography. If you didn't know, Mike's fulltime job is as a Wedding Photographer and in this weeks episode he gives you heaps of tips for choosing a Wedding Photographer so you can approach it with confidence. He goes through different styles of Photographers, different packages they may offer, additional extras like Engagement Photos and Videography plus he also shares some advice on how to keep the cost down but still get a great experience.

We discuss the things you are PROBABLY forgetting when planning your Wedding. We cover all the little things that you may overlook, underestimate or completely forget in the lead up to your wedding. This episode is perfect for those who want to dot their I's and cross their T's and ensure that your wedding day goes as smoothly as possible. From the legal things to pens and everything in between, we ensure you don't miss a thing.

As always we talk about "What's on Fleek this Week". Emily brings an interesting alternative to the table, is this trend for you?

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No one wants Rain on their Wedding Day, but with climate change and Australia experiencing La Nina it seems more likely now than ever. This week we talk about how to avoid potential stress of wet weather throughout the Wedding Planning process from the time of year, to the venue and what to do with hair, makeup and photography. Tune in to this episode to hear how to avoid some potential mistakes that could cause extra stress the week before you say I do!

Of course we talk about what's on fleek this week. Mike brings up a trend that is very popular, but does it work?

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Everything from our wedding is on the table this week. Things that worked well, things that didn't quite go to plan and everything that we would change. Our perspectives on wedding planning have definitely changed now that we have been through our own wedding. Join us on this episode to hear the things that were actually important to us on the big day and how we would do things differently if we had our time again.

If you enjoyed this episode be sure to share it with a friend you think would also find this helpful. We are trying to share as much information about our wedding planning as we possibly can to make it easier for others who are soon to go through it all.

This episode was recorded two days before our Wedding last month! We give some some real time insights into our own wedding plans. We go through what we think will run smoothly on the day, what problems we think will arise and what we are most looking forward to on our Wedding Day!

On this week's episode of the To Be Wed Podcast we talk about how to know you're ready to be engaged. Weddings and the idea of marriage can seem like a scary thing so we want to break it down into it's simplest form and explain what it means to us. We share our own story about how we knew when the time was right as well as touching on ring shopping and our own wedding proposal.

Whether you're about to be engaged, wishing you were or have already gone through it yourself, I'm sure you will love this week's episode as we dive into all the stages from pre-engagement right up to marriage.

Mike brings something to "What's on Fleek this Week". Get our hot takes on these wedding trends and let us know what you think.

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Something that confuses a lot of people when planning a wedding is their Wedding Day timeline. What goes where, how long will this take, how can I be in two places at once, etc... In this weeks episode Emily & Mike break down exactly how long everything will take on your Wedding Day and give you some tips around how you can get some of that precious time back. They run through two different styles of Weddings from a Traditional Church Wedding to a more relaxed afternoon ceremony at an all-inclusive venue to show you the amount of control you really do have in your day.

On this week's episode of the To Be Wed Podcast, Emily & Mike dive into everything about Wedding Guests.
— Who should you invite
— Which family members make the cut
— Planning your Seating Charts
— Do you need 'Plus ones'
— Children at Weddings
— Back-up Guest Lists
— Ceremony only invites??
— Do vendors need a seat.

This is seriously the most important thing to plan for your whole wedding and should be considered as one of the first things you do because it makes so much of an impact on every other decision. I'm sure you've heard it said before but a guest list can make or break a wedding.

Of course we also talk about "what's on fleek this week". Do you believe in wedding superstitions?

Gendered Wedding Parties, Garter Tosses, Something Old-Something New, Brides being "Given Away", etc... We dive into all of these and more on this weeks episode and give you our honest opinions on some old-school Wedding Traditions that are going out of date. I actually used to think some of these traditions were mandatory at a wedding so I want to make sure you guys are more educated than I was when you go to plan your own Wedding. Like all our episodes, you can listen to this no matter if you're well into the Wedding Planning process or not yet Engaged and just interested.

On this week's episode we talk all about setting priorities for the big day and throughout the entire planning process. We explore why you need priorities, how they can help, some examples of when you need to know your priorities and what our priorities are in the lead up to our wedding.

Mike brings his 'What's on Fleek this Week' to the table for discussion. Will it be a hit or miss?

In this episode we talk all about Wedding Invites. Should you do Physical Invites or something more modern like a Wedding Website or a completely digital invite. We also dive into the 7 things that your Invites must include plus a couple of other nice to haves if space allows. Plus we speak about this from our own perspective and weigh up some of the pros and cons of making our own invitations from scratch. Hopefully this episode can be a complete resource for you when the time comes to create your own Wedding Invitations.

What's on Fleek This Week is also back in this episode with a controversial outfit choice that seems to be on trend recently.

On this week's episode we delve further into the topic of Wedding Venues and talk about DIY vs All-Inclusive. We discuss the pros and cons of both in terms of organisation and the costs of both. We also discuss what we chose for our wedding and some things to keep in mind if you do decide to go down the DIY route. 

Mike also brings a new trend to What's on Fleek this Week - tune in to find out our opinions.

This weeks episode we delve into the dreaded topic of Covid-19 and navigating planning a wedding in the current climate. From pre-planning to wedding day, we discuss all the ways you can keep yourself and guests safe and creative ways to work within restrictions. We also share our experiences, how we have managed and what we will be doing in the lead up to our wedding.

So you're engaged? Now what? In this episode we dive into the first steps of starting your wedding planning journey. Whether you have just gotten engaged, feeling a bit lost or want to know what goes on when planning a wedding, then this is the episode for you! From your date to the vendors, we give you insight into the first steps in our wedding planning process and tips on where to start. Join us as we begin the journey of navigating the wedding planning industry.

On today's episode we tackle the budget question. We reveal our budget, how to define your budget, our top budget tips, how to reduce your budget and reflections on our budgeting success' and failures. Join us as we try and simplify wedding budgets and breakdown the awkwardness of talking about your budget.

Welcome to the first episode of the To Be Wed Podcast. In our very first episode, we talk about how we met, how long we have been engaged and play a game so you can get to know us. By the end of the episode we hope that you not only know a little bit about us, but our wedding too. Join us for a candid chat about all things weddings as we begin the journey of the To Be Wed Podcast!