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Nigerian Queer

Nigerian Queer

By Tobore

Here, we get to talk about what it means to be Nigerian and queer and the challenges that comes with it. Trust me, it’s not as sad and you might think but I believe in being as realistic as I can be in telling my stories..
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Dating someone in the closet: A conversation

Nigerian QueerMar 07, 2023

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Dating someone in the closet: A conversation

Dating someone in the closet: A conversation

Dating in the queer community can be a bit tedious, then what happens when you date someone still in the closet?
Mar 07, 202319:27
Do straight women go after lesbians?

Do straight women go after lesbians?

There’s this huge claim that heterosexual women make and it’s been eating me up for a while, it was a bit refreshing having to unpack this.. Enjoy…
Jun 18, 202238:55
Why I prefer married women…

Why I prefer married women…

We live in a world where everyone expects you to follow certain norms, but what if we decide to break free?
Mar 23, 202233:14
Lesbian sex is better!

Lesbian sex is better!

I talked about why women should only sleep with women, my clubhouse experience, how lesbians are being ignored by straight people, planning to sleep with a bisexual woman, and my 2022 plans…
Jan 21, 202231:49
Why gay people marry straight people..

Why gay people marry straight people..

Let’s unpack…
Dec 09, 202119:12
Update: 3 years after coming out.

Update: 3 years after coming out.

What has living out of the closet been like for me.. Here, I shared that..
Oct 14, 202115:23
Let’s address those “bisexuals”

Let’s address those “bisexuals”

Talking about the issues that an average lesbian might have with “those bisexuals”. It’s only a conversation... Also, had a brief catching up to do.. Enjoy.
Oct 05, 202128:47
A conversation between a lesbian and a straight man..

A conversation between a lesbian and a straight man..

I had a sit down with kelvin Paschal, my very first guest on my podcast and he also happens to be the host of Hinted Neuron podcast and we talked about our friendship, homophobia and the LGBTQIA+ community in Nigeria.. Discussing with a cis het Nigerian man about queerness isn’t something you find everyday and so I had fun having to do that with this amazing individual. Enjoy guys...
Oct 03, 202155:01
Lesbian sex; A conversation.

Lesbian sex; A conversation.

A vivid description of sex ..
Jul 08, 202132:21
Catching up and coming out tips..

Catching up and coming out tips..

How to “successfully” come out to people and not feel like awful.. lol... Yeah, let’s do a little catching up shall we?
Jun 01, 202122:13
Can you be queer and Religious?

Can you be queer and Religious?

Just wondering....
Jan 16, 202113:02
Why are you homophobic?

Why are you homophobic?

Trying to understand homophobia..
Jan 09, 202115:15
Happy new year

Happy new year

It’s 2021 guys, we’re still queer and happy ...
Jan 03, 202104:03
Why I left the queer community

Why I left the queer community

Explaining why I deactivated my queer account on twitter and why I feel like I don’t wanna be too involved with the queer community in Nigeria (Twitter)
Nov 11, 202017:06
I’m finally done with homophobes

I’m finally done with homophobes

I’m done trying to reason with homophobes and you’d know why.
Sep 28, 202004:05
Are gay people to be blamed for being set up?

Are gay people to be blamed for being set up?

Being careful as a gay person is paramount.
Sep 18, 202021:31
Coming out story: Part 2. Lesbians and gays, same struggles?

Coming out story: Part 2. Lesbians and gays, same struggles?

Coming out story, part 2. Do Lesbians and gays get the same treatments from homophobes?
Sep 03, 202014:41
Being queer and happy!

Being queer and happy!

It’s been a while, wanted to check in and remind us that we’re loved and amazing.
Aug 28, 202044:24
Paedophilia and internalized homophobia in the queer community.

Paedophilia and internalized homophobia in the queer community.

No more coverups!
Jul 28, 202011:57
Lesbian stereotypes and homophobic comments.

Lesbian stereotypes and homophobic comments.

We’re discussing some homophobic comments and lesbian stereotypes.
Jun 27, 202014:30
My coming out story part 1

My coming out story part 1

Coming out to friends and some family members...
May 21, 202024:03
The sad reality of being a lesbian in Nigeria: The honest bitter truth.

The sad reality of being a lesbian in Nigeria: The honest bitter truth.

The bitter facts about being a lesbian and how complex it is to be one in Nigeria.
Apr 30, 202011:36
The sad Reality of being a lesbian in Nigeria; The hurtful truth.

The sad Reality of being a lesbian in Nigeria; The hurtful truth.

Challenges that comes with being a lesbian and the categories we might fall under.
Apr 28, 202009:50