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Toks Talks Podcast

Toks Talks Podcast

By Toks Ayinla

Hey friend! I'm Toks Ayinla, a poet, speaker, and strategist. Join me every week as I give you strategy and tips to empower you on all things personal development, relationships, and entrepreneurship. I take a faith based, whole life, solution focused approach to the topics I cover; there's room for sugarcoating! Each week, you will walk away with a fresh perspective and actionable steps on how to elevate your whole life to the level you deserve. The goal is to develop bold, unshakable confidence and faith; the kind that will make you jump off the edge of a cliff and land in purpose!
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Toks Talks PodcastJun 10, 2020

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189: A Simple Guide to Canadian Insurance For Entrepreneurs and Business Owners | Fresh Wealth

189: A Simple Guide to Canadian Insurance For Entrepreneurs and Business Owners | Fresh Wealth

In this episode we talk about insurance for yourself and your business. A ruptured achilles tendon was the wake up call to the importance of having insurance as an entrepreneur. We go through 4 types of personal insurance and 2 types of business insurance to consider if you're self employed.


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Jun 08, 202314:05
188: How To Love Someone Exactly Where They Are | Giving Healthy Love

188: How To Love Someone Exactly Where They Are | Giving Healthy Love

In this video, we explore the importance of embracing individuals for who they truly are, rather than trying to mold them into our own expectations. Love is liberation and sometimes our love is best shared from a distance. Understanding what love is helps us with giving it in a healthy way.


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May 25, 202311:38
187: Avoiding Comparison in Dating | Trusting God's Unique Plan for You

187: Avoiding Comparison in Dating | Trusting God's Unique Plan for You

Today I discuss the importance of trusting unique plan that God has for you, rather than idolizing the path that others have taken to reach their blessings. It's easy to fall into the trap of comparison, but doing so can actually block you from experiencing your own unique journey and blessings. Instead, we explore how to embrace faith and trust in God's plan for your life, unlocking your full potential and discovering your true path.


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May 11, 202307:48
186: My Testimony | How God Helped Me Overcome Depression, Loss, Trauma, and Shame

186: My Testimony | How God Helped Me Overcome Depression, Loss, Trauma, and Shame

In this video, I share my personal testimony of how God helped me overcome depression, shame, and trauma. Losing my dad was one of the most difficult experiences of my life, and it left me feeling lost and alone. But through prayer, faith, and getting deeper with Christ, I was able to find hope and healing. If you or someone you know is struggling with depression or trauma, I hope my story can inspire you to trust in God's plan and find the strength to overcome.

Keep hope, things can change for the better quickly ❤️

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May 04, 202323:19
185: Mastering Your Money Mindset: Overcoming the Black Tax

185: Mastering Your Money Mindset: Overcoming the Black Tax

I recently did a money mindset talk with a financial accountability group run by Reni The Resource. In the session, we discussed different ways that your money mindsets can be hindering your wealth accumulation and how your sense of self trickles into other parts of your life.

Timeline

0:00 Intro

3:25 Key Terms

15:52 What is a money mindset

24:07 How does your money mindset show up

31:09 How to overcome a negative money mindset

47:50 Q&A


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Apr 20, 202301:13:26
184: Why I’m taking a break from dating to realign with myself and Christ

184: Why I’m taking a break from dating to realign with myself and Christ

Dating has shown me so much about myself. Mostly how far I've come but more recently, how far I have to go. Because of this I've taken a break to realign myself with self and Christ so that I can enter into my next experience even better.

It's okay to step back to to get ahead❤️


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Apr 05, 202315:52
183: How I got into and out of $30,000 of debt | Fresh Wealth

183: How I got into and out of $30,000 of debt | Fresh Wealth

Debt can be a very scary thing, especially when you're not sure how you'll be able to pay it off. Here I share tips and mindsets on the way I got into and out of $30,000 of debt. Trust your gut, then stick it out long enough to see it through ❤️

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Mar 30, 202315:46
182: If you want success in your career, you'll need these 2 people

182: If you want success in your career, you'll need these 2 people

Having mentors and sponsors are non-negotiables if you want success in your career or business. Every major opportunity I've had in my business has been through a sponsor and my mentors have given me priceless advice and tips. Get strategic and start making those connections to these 2 groups of people. Ask for what you need, you'll be surprised how you get it❤️


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Mar 23, 202313:05
181: Struggling with forgiveness? The key is grace.

181: Struggling with forgiveness? The key is grace.

When people hurt and offend you, it can be a struggle to get past the anger to a place of forgiveness. I recently had 2 experiences that showed me that grace is truly the key to humanizing the people who hurt you and letting the hurt go. As a Christian and someone who has benefitted from grace, it's the least we can do for others.   

Release the anger and make room for peace❤️

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Mar 15, 202314:20
180: 4 easy styles of journaling to start today if you're a beginner

180: 4 easy styles of journaling to start today if you're a beginner

If you want to start journaling and you don't know where to start....here is where you start! I've shared some answers to the most common questions about journal and also the 4 styles that I love most.   

Start writing and see how it changes your life❤️

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Mar 08, 202313:33
Mindful Minute: It's time to stop procrastinating and start executing

Mindful Minute: It's time to stop procrastinating and start executing

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Mar 08, 202300:60
179: 7 reframes and affirmations to mentally prepare you for wealth and abundance

179: 7 reframes and affirmations to mentally prepare you for wealth and abundance

Money is such a big part of our personal development journeys and our mindset around money can make or break our ability to make it! In this new series Fresh Wealth, I'll be breaking down money from a mind body and spirit perspective sharing all of my lessons and strategies with you!  

You're about to enter into your wealthiest season❤️

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Mar 01, 202312:42
178: It's time to get excited about your life again

178: It's time to get excited about your life again

Being calm about the things that excite us can seem like the best move to avoid being disappointed or hurt but this is not the move friend! Let's exercise our confidence in the future and flex our faith muscle by getting excited about the things to come!  

Start getting ready for how your mind will be blown❤️


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Feb 24, 202307:28
177: The 10 faith and self love affirmations that changed my life

177: The 10 faith and self love affirmations that changed my life

Affirmations for calm, self care, faith, my relationship with Christ love and self worth have truly changed my life. Since 2018 I've been creating daily affirmations that align with who I wanted to become and these are the 10 that have been most impactful.   

Start speaking and see how your life changes❤️

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Jan 25, 202316:03
176. How to journal for a mindset shift

176. How to journal for a mindset shift

Everything that you want starts in your mind so shifting your mindset to align with who you want to be is key to becoming it. I created this 28-day prompted journal to help you develop a journaling practice and also create an intentional daily mantra to solidify the change.  

Change your life and watch your life change❤️  

Through my Eyes 28 Day Mindshift journal: https://a.co/d/0jH1ya8

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Jan 11, 202306:60
175: There is power in the tongue...what are you saying about your life?

175: There is power in the tongue...what are you saying about your life?

What are you saying friend? How are the jokes that you're telling and the habits that you're condoning having a negative effect on your life? I share my recent repenting moment and some common phrases that we say a lot but we shouldn't   

Speak the life you want into reality ❤️

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Dec 28, 202210:59
174: It's time to move on from your past mistakes and unlearn shame

174: It's time to move on from your past mistakes and unlearn shame

People will try to convince you to absorb the shame that they have regarding your situations; it's your responsibility not to give into that.   

It's okay to heal in the open❤️

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Dec 21, 202208:35
173: What I'm learning by dating myself

173: What I'm learning by dating myself

This year I went on quite a few dates, and what I learned about myself made each one worth the time and effort put in. I've redefined what intentional and successful dating looks like and I hope that this can help you shift your perspective.  

You only fail when you don't learn anything❤️

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Dec 14, 202210:56
172: How to increase your online presence on social media

172: How to increase your online presence on social media

Growing your online presence can feel like an impossibility when the algorithms are constantly changing. But fret not friend! I share with you some ways to beat the algorithm and grow your online business even if your social numbers are low.  

You have what you need, you just need to look at it differently❤️

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Dec 07, 202210:13
171: Don't give up on your goals, it's not too late for you

171: Don't give up on your goals, it's not too late for you

We're getting close to the end of the year and it can be tempting to drop your goals and pick them up again next year.... don't fall into this trap. You can still get some headway on your goals even if they don't look how you intended at the start of the year.  

Keep going friend, I believe in you❤️

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Nov 30, 202207:36
170: How to be intentional while you wait for the one

170: How to be intentional while you wait for the one

Waiting for what you want can suck!  One of the biggest temptations in the waiting period is wanted to fill the space with low hanging fruit because it feels better (temporarily) than the gap. Don't fall for it friend take thee advice in this video and apply them instead  

Rest assured that what's meant for you is on the way ❤️

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Nov 23, 202208:11
169: It's okay to take a break before you reach burnout

169: It's okay to take a break before you reach burnout

There is something beautiful about slowing down, taking your time and realizing that you won't miss out on anything that is meant for you. I  

You won't lose by doing what's best for you❤️

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Nov 16, 202205:32
168: It's normal to feel lonely when you're single

168: It's normal to feel lonely when you're single

Being a single woman and expressing the fact that you are feeling lonely usually beings about a bunch of unwanted opinions. To admit loneliness about your single season doesn't mean you aren't grateful for all the other things that are going well in your life. Here are some ways that I deal with those feelings of loneliness that creep up from time to time.  

Better still remains❤️

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Aug 17, 202212:08
167: How to pick a niche in your business when you're a multi passionate

167: How to pick a niche in your business when you're a multi passionate

I can't pick just one niche and I don't think you should have to either. Being your most authentic self means bring your full self to your work and that can't happen when you're boxed in. This is what I do instead to bring ensure that I'm authentic while also giving clarity to my audience.  

Be your full self and what how your tribe finds you❤️

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Jul 27, 202212:56
166: A Productive morning and night routine to keep you organized

166: A Productive morning and night routine to keep you organized

It seems like we all have so much to do and not enough time. This is how i am able to get everything done while avoiding burnout. Having a rock solid morning and night routine are key to staying productive and balanced so I share mine with you.  

If you focus on what's most important, you can get it all done❤️

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Jul 20, 202210:46
165: Balancing saving for your financial goals and spending on the things you enjoy
Jul 13, 202216:27
164: This is how to live a truly soft life
Jul 07, 202212:37
163: Overcoming Jealousy and Envy
Jun 22, 202208:06
162: 5 Pricing strategies to set your rates
Jun 15, 202214:15
161: These 4 tips got me to 6 figures in my business
Jun 14, 202214:18
160: This is why he isn't noticing you
Jun 01, 202213:53
159: This is how you get out of survival mode
May 04, 202212:57
158: 5 signs that you might be settling in your relationship
Apr 27, 202215:47
157: How to live an excellent high value life
Apr 20, 202210:37
156: Are you intimidating men?
Apr 13, 202214:48
155: About the final phase of your healing journey
Mar 30, 202214:46
154: About the moment when you have a slip up
Mar 24, 202210:37
153. About the rebuilding after things fall apart
Mar 16, 202218:08
152: Leaving the negativity in the past to heal
Mar 09, 202218:36
151: About 5 tips for healing when things fall apart
Mar 02, 202216:36
Monday Mantra February 28 2022
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150: Ask Toks About Release
Feb 23, 202221:11
Monday Mantra February 21 2022
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149: About Releasing yourself from the Pain of the Past
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Monday Mantra February 14 2022
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148: About the 3 Things I had to Release to Succeed in Entrepreneurship
Feb 09, 202217:28
Monday Mantra: February 7 2022
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147: About Releasing Yourself from Unmet Expectations and disappointment
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Monday Mantra: January 31 2022
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146: Ask Toks About Clarity

146: Ask Toks About Clarity

To cap off January's theme of clarity, Toks answers 2 listener questions. 

Have and amazing week!

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