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Get Mental

By Cecille Ahrens LCSW, CEAP CA LCS #24126

#GetMental is a podcast hosted by San Diego-based psychotherapist Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP. The show talks about all things mental health, the benefits of therapy, real ways to cope, and new ways to perceive and relate to yourself and to the world at large. Be supported, be moved, be changed.

Note: This podcast is informational only and is not a substitute for therapy or professional advice. The content shared are the host(s) and guest (s) perspectives and opinions.

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EP 26: Your Official Guide to Navigating the Holiday Blues + Special Guest: Gabrielle Pickens!

Get MentalDec 17, 2019

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Ep. 84: Mental Health Matters: An Asian~American Perspective

Ep. 84: Mental Health Matters: An Asian~American Perspective

In this episode, Cecille gives a talk to Chevron Corporation about the complexities of seeking mental health support in the Asian~American community. Cecille discusses the unique challenges many Asian~Americans face in acknowledging their own mental health struggles, as well as the barriers to care that contribute to under-utilization of mental health services. Interesting statistics and a short Q&A portion are also included in this presentation.
Nov 11, 202249:41
EP. 83: Mental Health & Sports ~ an Asian American woman’s perspective.

EP. 83: Mental Health & Sports ~ an Asian American woman’s perspective.

In this episode, Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP interviews 22yo Martial Artist Victoria Mackey who talks openly about her Asian American & African American roots and the challenges she has faced along the way as an Asian American athlete. A candid conversation about race & mental health and a young woman’s sincere effort to raise mental health awareness and normalize mental health care.
May 17, 202231:33
EP 82 : For The Culture: The Filipino-American Journey

EP 82 : For The Culture: The Filipino-American Journey

In this episode, host Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP pays homage to her Filipino/a/x culture in honor of Asian-American & Pacific Islander (AAPI) Month. Cecille highlights the beauty and strengths of the culture, and at the same time, sensitively discusses the challenges and issues unique to her Southeast Asian heritage. Cecille addresses the mental health impact on both Philippine and American born Filipinos/as/x and the role psychotherapy can play in attaining clarity, peace and balance. A special episode that brings plenty of heart and substance to the complexities of the Filipino-American story. MABUHAY!!!
Apr 30, 202245:37
EP 81: Across The County Radio Interview! Transcend Therapy is giving back to the community.

EP 81: Across The County Radio Interview! Transcend Therapy is giving back to the community.

Cecille Ahrens LCSW, CEAP is honored to be a guest at the Across The County radio show with Mr. Noah Dingley on The Answer San Diego 1170/AM/96.1FM. Learn about Cecille’s latest project, a non-profit called PAPILLON WELLNESS, INC. whose vision is to disrupt the way we currently think about non profits and mental health care. Papillon’s mission is to serve those who cannot afford quality mental health care. Papillon is a 501c3 and is based out of San Diego, CA. For more information or to make a tax-deductible donation, please visit PapillonWellness.Org.
Apr 15, 202226:35
EP 80: The Word On Wealth Radio Guest Feature!!!

EP 80: The Word On Wealth Radio Guest Feature!!!

Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP is a guest on The World on Wealth Show with hosts, CA Attorney Gary Quackenbush and Mr. Noah Dingley on The Answer San Diego 1170AM/96.1FM. Cecille talks about a highly effective trauma intervention called EMDR and shares her professional experience and personal views on the pandemic’s impact on our mental health. Lastly, the hosts and Cecille talk about the undeniable relationship between money and our mental health (and vice versa). Gary and Noah are passionate about mental health awareness. Listen up for a fun, funny and very informative episode!
Apr 13, 202246:48
Ep. 79: Emotionally Immature Parenting

Ep. 79: Emotionally Immature Parenting

In this episode, San Diego-based psychotherapist Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP talks about the devastating impact and long term effects of emotionally immature parenting (EIP). Learn about the characteristics of EIP and ways to heal and reclaim your personal power.
Sep 15, 202131:40
Ep. 78: Dream On: The elusive nature of sleep in America

Ep. 78: Dream On: The elusive nature of sleep in America

Despite our basic, biological need for sleep, many Americans are chronically sleep deprived and/or have difficulties falling asleep or staying asleep. Why is that and what can you do about it? And why should you care?
Aug 21, 202138:04
Ep. 77: Workplace Stress and Mental Health

Ep. 77: Workplace Stress and Mental Health

A certain amount of work stress is a part of life, however chronic and excessive workplace stress does not have to be your norm. This type of stress takes a real toll on our lives, including the development of mental health conditions. Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP talks about the real impact of occupational stress and effective ways to cope. Full of practical tips to empower yourself.
May 27, 202140:38
Ep. 76: The Basics of Love - The Five Ingredients Of Satisfying Relationships

Ep. 76: The Basics of Love - The Five Ingredients Of Satisfying Relationships

Cecille Ahrens, LCSW shares her “Top 5” necessary elements for a healthy and satisfying relationship. Loving relationships need a solid foundation for it to survive and thrive. Healthy relationships require effort, patience, commitment and humility. In the end, we all yearn for love, acceptance and belonging. Here are Cecille’s building blocks for a healthier love, based on her 20+ years of experience working with people from all walks of life, as well as her own personal experiences as a human, wife, mom, daughter, friend, neighbor (etc.), trying to cultivate healthier relationships in her own life.
May 18, 202139:56
EP 75: Your Weight Is Not Your Worth

EP 75: Your Weight Is Not Your Worth

Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP talks about weight stigma, body shaming and all the big and small ways (micro aggressions) that create harm and perpetuate the false beauty myths. This episode will inspire, inform and discuss ways to push back against the culture, and real ways to reframe your experiences and connect with your body with loving-kindness.
Apr 16, 202138:39
EP 74: Feelings of Inadequacy ~ The Cost of Traumatic Injuries.

EP 74: Feelings of Inadequacy ~ The Cost of Traumatic Injuries.

This episode talks about the pervasive effects of limiting beliefs & negative cognitions and the central role that trauma plays in the self-loathing spiral. Cecille AHRENS, LCSW, CEAP also discusses risk and protective factors related to feelings of Inadequacy, including the ACE Study (Adverse Childhood Experiences).
Mar 31, 202145:35
EP 73: Trauma is a Monster

EP 73: Trauma is a Monster

In this episode, Cecille talks about the web of destruction that trauma can have on our lives. Cecille breaks down the long-lasting, overt and covert ways Trauma plays out in our lives and why it is necessary to break free from our trauma bonds.
Mar 19, 202133:09
EP 72: Toxic Shame

EP 72: Toxic Shame

Cecille Ahrens, LCSW talks about Shame vs. Guilt and why shame is “the cancer of the soul”. A general overview of the benefits of therapy, specifically EMDR and IFS, in addressing toxic shame.
Mar 04, 202129:28
EP 71: Why Grief & Loss Hurt So Much

EP 71: Why Grief & Loss Hurt So Much

OkWhat is grief? What is loss? And why does it hurt so much? In this episode, Cecille Ahrens, LCSW explores our fears around uncertainty and impermanence, why grief knocks us off our center. She also takes about normal vs. complicated grief, and ways to support ourselves.
Feb 18, 202121:53
EP 70: Unpacking Infidelity.

EP 70: Unpacking Infidelity.

In this episode, Cecille Ahrens talks about the complexity of infidelity with Across The County Radio host Mr. Noah Dingley, and the various reasons & risk factors that lead people to “cheat” on their partners. Plus some interesting stats!
Feb 11, 202150:48
EP 65: How Not To Fail. Secrets to meaningful goal-setting.

EP 65: How Not To Fail. Secrets to meaningful goal-setting.

You are not your goals. You are values. This is the first step in realizing your goals. There are predictable reasons why Resolutions and traditional goal setting methods don’t work. Cecille talks about the Why, Who, What, When, and How of successful and meaningful goal setting!
Feb 11, 202132:34
EP.69: Healthy Anxiety vs. Unhealthy Anxiety

EP.69: Healthy Anxiety vs. Unhealthy Anxiety

Did you know: Anxiety Disorders are the most common of all mental health conditions? Women are more prone to experience it than men? And It is highly treatable and manageable? Cecille Ahrens, LCSW, CEAP breaks down the protective functions of healthy anxiety and the symptoms of unhealthy anxiety or anxiety that causes us more harm than good.
Feb 03, 202152:29
EP 68: How to Cope NOW. Radio Interview @ Across The County radio.

EP 68: How to Cope NOW. Radio Interview @ Across The County radio.

Interview with Across The County radio (San Diego) with Mr. NOAH DINGLEY. Cecille shares self-assessment tips to help you recognize red flags and healthy coping skills you can apply to your life now, without spending a ton of money or without seeing a therapist!
Jan 24, 202131:32
EP. 67: Violent Extremists - Myths vs. Facts

EP. 67: Violent Extremists - Myths vs. Facts

Cecille talks about violent extremism, discusses risk factors and research and as always, encourages us all to practice open-mindedness, curiosity and kindness.
Jan 18, 202134:31
EP 66: Making Sense of Political Violence.

EP 66: Making Sense of Political Violence.

The United States is experiencing a period of great instability and divide. Cecille offers hope and objectivity, and invites us all to move towards peace & unity. “We are either part of the solution or the problem”. She urges us to reflect on the true meaning of Democracy, and to practice love, respect and tolerance “in a way that we never have before”.
Jan 12, 202145:17
EP 64: I’ve recently been a victim of Narcissist Abuse!

EP 64: I’ve recently been a victim of Narcissist Abuse!

Cecille shares her recent personal experience of narcissistic abuse and breaks down the signs & symptoms of narcissistic personality traits. Cecille also talks about the covert ways narcissists tend to do harm to those around them.
Dec 15, 202027:20
EP 63: Cannabis Therapy - What it is and what it isn’t.

EP 63: Cannabis Therapy - What it is and what it isn’t.

Are the therapeutic benefits of cannabis all that it’s hyped up to be? Or is it simply a “gateway drug”? With special guest Johann Balbuena, a military veteran who shares her personal journey with TBI (traumatic brain injury), and owner of Synergy. Informative and eye-opening.
Nov 30, 202040:25
EP 62: Why We Hate to Lose and Love to Win

EP 62: Why We Hate to Lose and Love to Win

Ever wonder why we love to win and hate to lose? Or why we’ve built a whole culture based on competition and winning? Learn about what Science says and the theory of Negativity Bias. It turns out this biological hardwiring starts to form within the first year of life. The good news is, there are real ways we can go against our own biology!
Nov 20, 202038:37
EP 61: The Science of Hope. Why hopeful people are happier and healthier!

EP 61: The Science of Hope. Why hopeful people are happier and healthier!

With the election behind us (sort of), and with Biden/Harris being elected hopes are high on the blue side!
But not so much for those who voted differently. What does Hope have to do with mental health? Well it turns out, a LOT!

Here’s how to stay hopeful regardless of who’s in office and why hopeful people succeed more in life!!!
Nov 11, 202022:54
EP 60: Video fatigue and the real impact of virtual employment.

EP 60: Video fatigue and the real impact of virtual employment.

What are the signs of video fatigue and how can we mitigate the stress it puts on our brain and body? This episode talks about the pros and cons of working remotely and digitally., as well as effective ways to cope!
Oct 28, 202026:47
EP 59: “Election Stress Disorder”: Responding vs. Reacting

EP 59: “Election Stress Disorder”: Responding vs. Reacting

What it is, why it occurs and how to cope. Learn practical and effective ways to manage intense reactions and unpleasant emotions.
Oct 22, 202037:32
EP 58: The Politics of Fear: How cognitive distortions shape our perceptions about current events.

EP 58: The Politics of Fear: How cognitive distortions shape our perceptions about current events.

Learn about Cognitive Distortions and how they powerfully shape our perceptions about life. Cecille breaks down how these cognitive errors have permeated our politics and perpetuated conflict and division between us.
Oct 01, 202026:48
EP 57: Let’s Talk About Sex! Reclaiming your power after sexual trauma

EP 57: Let’s Talk About Sex! Reclaiming your power after sexual trauma

Cecille talks about the impact of sexual trauma in the way we view, perceive and experience sex. Learn about healthy sexual functioning vs. a sexual abuse mindset, sexual boundaries and ways therapy can truly help you celebrate your sensuality and sexuality.
Sep 30, 202031:42
EP 56: The Upside of Anger.

EP 56: The Upside of Anger.

There’s an Upside to Anger. Did you know anger can be your ally? It’s one of the most transformative emotions that can fuel powerful change in our lives - if we know how to relate to it and move through and with it. Cecille talks about “healthy vs. toxic anger” and inspires us all to give anger a “double-take” and go beyond this compelling “secondary” emotion.
Sep 22, 202028:50
EP 55: The Adversity Advantage: Reframing “Failure” as Feedback

EP 55: The Adversity Advantage: Reframing “Failure” as Feedback

Did you know intermittent amounts of moderate stress can break us in instead of break us down? Learn how stress, adversity and “failure” can be reframed as “feedback”. A radical and practical concept that has the power to transform your life!
Sep 11, 202021:52
EP 54: Financial Infidelity. When our money lies create damage and distrust.
Aug 25, 202059:26
EP 53: Fear of The Unknown: Cultivating Courage and Calm Amidst Change and Uncertainty

EP 53: Fear of The Unknown: Cultivating Courage and Calm Amidst Change and Uncertainty

Why do we fear the unknown? Fear of the Unknown is a universal experience . We are wired for survival. Our anxieties have an intelligence and an intrinsic function - to protect us. However excessive fear and anxiety can create damage and harm us if left unchecked and unanchored. Cecille and Tee dive deep on the subject and give you real tips on how to manage your fears and navigate the unknowns in your life. It is sure to inspire, inform and entertain!
Aug 18, 202040:47
EP 52: What is a Life Worth? When Depression leads to Suicide.

EP 52: What is a Life Worth? When Depression leads to Suicide.

Life has been seriously interrupted for many of us, and for some, life has ended. Suicide rates on the Coronado Bridge (San Diego) have been at a steady 12-19/year since 2012, and there have been a total of 421 known suicides on the bridge. Cecille talks to Ms. Rhonda Haiston, founder of the Coronado San Diego Bridge Collaborative, to shed light on what is being done about this problem and how WE can help our community. Its a short podcast that is sure to inform and inspire.
Jul 31, 202027:10
EP 51: Financial Health is Mental Health. Break barriers and reclaim your power.

EP 51: Financial Health is Mental Health. Break barriers and reclaim your power.

What’s your money narrative? Do you have a healthy relationship with money? Learn about real vs perceived barriers, and the impact of personal upbringing and culture on your money attitudes. Cecille and Tee urge you to redefine your relationship with money and move towards financial stability and wellness.
Jul 12, 202054:02
EP 50: Money, Mindset and Mental Health

EP 50: Money, Mindset and Mental Health

What is money and why is it important? What are the psychological effects of money in our lives? Learn about the powerful link between our money, our mindset and our mental health! Financial health is a critical part of our mental health.
Jul 01, 202050:24
EP 49: Demystifying Self-Confidence & Cultivating Self-Love in a Selfie-Obsessed World.

EP 49: Demystifying Self-Confidence & Cultivating Self-Love in a Selfie-Obsessed World.

Cecille & Tee unpack the definition, importance and impact of self -confidence and self-love, while also exploring the “Selfie-effect” on our culture. Learn about ways to improve your relationship with yourself, how to stay centered and how to heal from the inside out!
Jun 25, 202049:45
EP 48: What Men Do “Wrong” in Relationships.

EP 48: What Men Do “Wrong” in Relationships.

To balance the scales, Cecille and Tee put the men on the hot seat. Together they offer their unique perspectives on what men tend to do wrong and get wrong in their romantic relationships with women. Listen, learn and be entertained along the way!
Jun 01, 202047:42
EP 47: What Women Do “Wrong” in Relationships.

EP 47: What Women Do “Wrong” in Relationships.

Navigating romantic relationships can be challenging and confusing. Learn about some of ways women may be getting in their own way and inadvertently sabotaging their relationships with men. Cecille and Tee share their unique insights and offer strategies and tips designed to help you get more love and reciprocity in your relationship!
May 27, 202049:07
EP 46: Computer Love: We fell in love in a virtual space, but is it a hopeless place?

EP 46: Computer Love: We fell in love in a virtual space, but is it a hopeless place?

Get Mental talks about the pros and cons of digital dating and the pitfalls of meeting people in the virtual space.
May 10, 202056:12
EP 45: Beyond Trauma: Facing the pain while remembering our truth.
Apr 16, 202057:36
EP 44: Addiction, Recovery & Resilience with special guest Asher Gottesman.

EP 44: Addiction, Recovery & Resilience with special guest Asher Gottesman.

How do we transform our lives and transcend our past? What can we do with our pain and suffering? Get Mental unpacks Mr. Asher Gottesman’s recovery journey as he describes his own process of depression, addiction and transcendence. Today, Asher is inspiring others with his story and his will to impact others through real and raw conversations about meaning, mental health and life. He also owns Transcend Recovery Community and The Heights, a treatment facility for individuals with addiction problems and dual diagnoses.
Apr 09, 202053:41
EP 43: THE POWER OF THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. Breaking free from of our collective conditioning.

EP 43: THE POWER OF THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. Breaking free from of our collective conditioning.

Get Mental delves into the subject of our Subconscious Mind and talks about ways to re-program our mind. Drawing from Napoleon Hill’s work on “auto-suggestion” (author of Think and Grow Rich), Cecille & Tee talks about practical ways to rise above the current conditioning and how therapy can help facilitate this process of transcendence.
Apr 04, 202051:38
EP 42: The message behind the misery + a powerful story of resilience.

EP 42: The message behind the misery + a powerful story of resilience.

Get Mental embracing the good with the bad, and breaking down the spiritual lessons we can learn from C-19. With guest Forrest Lang on surviving unthinkable traumas. Inspiring & Moving.
Mar 25, 202052:57
EP 41: TRANSCEND THERAPY’s RESPONSE TO HELP THE COMMUNITY

EP 41: TRANSCEND THERAPY’s RESPONSE TO HELP THE COMMUNITY

Cecille talks about the availability and criticality of Tele-MentalHealth Services (Phone and Video Therapy) during this unprecedented time on our generation.
Mar 22, 202000:30
EP 40: Adult Cyberbullying and Coping with the Coronavirus effect.

EP 40: Adult Cyberbullying and Coping with the Coronavirus effect.

Cecille is a guest at Across The County Radio raising awareness on Cyberbullying and ways to manage it’s psychological impact. Cecille also addresses people’s fears as it relates to the evolving nature of the pandemic COVID-19.
Mar 18, 202056:12
EP 39: COVID-19 Crisis: GRIT + a GROWTH MINDSET in times of trouble

EP 39: COVID-19 Crisis: GRIT + a GROWTH MINDSET in times of trouble

In acknowledgment of the psychological, economic & spiritual impact of the current pandemic, Get Mental imparts a hopeful message, as Cecille and Tee talk about healthy fear, ways to stay centered, and how to stay the course.
Mar 17, 202052:33
EP 38: Overcoming Loneliness. Why Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe.

EP 38: Overcoming Loneliness. Why Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe.

Get Mental talks about the signs, symptoms and serious impact of loneliness, especially chronic loneliness on our overall health. We also talk about strategies and solutions to support you!
Mar 13, 202052:34
EP 37: How to get out of “Victim Mentality”. The power of limiting self-talk and fear stories.

EP 37: How to get out of “Victim Mentality”. The power of limiting self-talk and fear stories.

Beliefs, Perceptions and Emotions can be misleading if left unexamined. Get Mental explores the reasons & factors that create and perpetuate ‘false victimhood, and how to break the pattern.
Mar 07, 202051:15
EP 36: Anxiety and Fear of Failure. Where are you at in your journey?

EP 36: Anxiety and Fear of Failure. Where are you at in your journey?

In a goal oriented and performance-based world, anxiety and fear of failure are often barriers we have to learn to manage in order to take our game and our life to the ‘next’ level.
Feb 26, 202057:02
EP 35: Why Do Men Cheat? Unpacking Infidelity

EP 35: Why Do Men Cheat? Unpacking Infidelity

Men are statistically said to cheat on their partners more so than women. Get Mental seeks to understand why from a man’s perspective. Speaker, Author & Entrepreneur Tee Smith joins us again for this conversation.
Feb 20, 202051:54