The Sexy Escort Guide

Get ready to sip some tea as we dive into the scandalous nature of law enforcement in today's episode of The Sexy Escort Guide Podcast! 

Vivian serves up the tea on a jaw-dropping news story: a police officer caught red-handed soliciting prostitution. Talk about karma coming back to bite!

But that's not all – tune in as Vivian unpacks the public outcry. The consensus? Tax dollars down the drain! Why waste resources on consenting adults when there are real criminals to catch?

Grab your cup and join the conversation – this episode is sure to leave you questioning the priorities of our justice system!

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In this informative episode, Vivian reunites with Eric Polacek from Companion Tax and Accounting Services, our esteemed Diamond sponsor. 

Join us in this powerful episode as we commemorate the 20th anniversary of the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers on December 17th, 2023. 

Step into the latest scandalous escort news story with Vivian as she welcomes fellow podcaster, Ms. Ellis Hendrix. Together, they unravel the shocking tale of the Trio Behind Boston’s Illegal Brothel facing arrest, leaving clients and the brothel’s escorts to slip through the cracks of justice.

But that's not all! Dive into an intimate Q&A with Ms. Hendrix, offering listeners an exclusive peek into the personality behind the voice.

As a bonus treat, Vivian spills the beans on a game-changing social media hack – discover how to schedule your Twitter and Instagram posts directly from the official websites. Don't miss out on the secrets and stories on this episode! 🔥💋 #ScandalUnveiled

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In this riveting episode, Vivian is once again graced by the presence of the beautiful Ms. Isabella Bloom, who unveils her remarkable ascent to the Top 1% of Onlyfans in only one year.

Ms. Bloom graciously shares her personal, effective insights, guiding you on the path to your own success in the OnlyFans world.

Prepare to be captivated and have your notepad ready, as this episode is full of invaluable gems.

In this compelling episode, Vivian delves into a recent and significant development in the realm of justice. The episode revolves around the conviction of Jose Torres, infamously known as #JoeyThePlayer, on four counts of persuading, inducing, and enticing women to travel across state lines for the purpose of prostitution. 

Vivian extends her gratitude to SWOP Behind Bars for their pivotal role in breaking this critical news, and she expresses profound admiration for the courage displayed by the victims who bravely stepped forward. 

Moreover, with heartfelt compassion, Vivian sends her sincere condolences to all those who have been affected by Joey's actions. 

In these uncertain times, Vivian's words serve as a reminder to prioritize safety for all.

Vivian is joined for a second time by Carly David, the brilliant mind behind the innovative PS Group Creative Marketing Agency.

In the ever-evolving landscape of escort marketing, seismic shifts have occurred since the era of Fosta/Sesta and the closure of Backpage. Established advertising platforms have faded into oblivion, making way for a fresh wave of opportunities.

But, here's the catch – nothing remains the same. Escorts now face an unprecedented need to craft strategic online branding and marketing strategies. It's a whole new world out there.

Ms. David doesn't hold back, delivering a treasure trove of insights on how to stand out as an escort by discovering your unique selling point. And here's the kicker – this distinctiveness is what will draw your ideal clients to you. In these turbulent times, your clients will remain fiercely loyal because you're exactly what they've been searching for.

Grab your notepad and get ready to embark on a journey to find your niche and unleash its full potential in the world of escorting. It's time to make your mark and thrive!

Vivian is joined for a second time by Dr. Julie K (Doctor of Psychology).

The ladies discuss life after COVID and how escorts can stay sane and cultivate positive mental health practices, in order to thrive and be successful in this line of work.

Dr. Julie offers some tips on how to hack your work/personal life balance.

Dr. Julie also offers a free 15 minute consultation for all escorts and clients.

Vivian jumps into a breaking news report about Maine becoming the first state to decriminalize prostitution to some extent.

She emphasizes that FULL DECRIMINALIZATION is what the industry needs, not the Nordic model, which penalizes customers for hiring escorts.

Consenting adults' bodies should not be under the control of the government!

Vivian is joined by renowned global companion, Ms. Rachel Smithe.

The ladies discuss a controversial tweet made by a well known escort, potentially discouraging escorts from touring.

Luckily for everyone, the ladies give plenty of tips on how to tour in today’s climate.

Hint: it takes preparation on the front end and strategy!


Get ready to take some serious notes!

Vivian is joined by self proclaimed “Freestyling Queen”, Ms. Ty Rose.

The ladies discuss Ms. Rose’s new book on freestyling as well as tips on how to freestyle: from where to go, how to pick your target audience, and how to close the deal.

Lots of laughs were shared and tons of juicy details divulged.

Gems on Gems on Gems!!!

Vivian is joined once again by Ms. Seductive Storm, a retired escort and the owner of Taken By Storm Web Design and Assistant/Safety Screener for companions.

The ladies discuss a recent news article that involved over 200 ‘would be’ clients, getting arrested in a human trafficking sting. They share tips on how to vet your companion before meeting her and how to avoid falling into law enforcement traps.

Ms. Storm and Vivian also discuss what it is like to retire from companionship, get a civvie job, plan a wedding, and other juicy tidbits.

Solid gems were dropped in this episode.

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Happy New Year!!!

Vivian starts off 2023 by setting the tone of collaboration for success.

She gives 5 tips on having successful "doubles sessions" with your fellow companion. A happy client is a repeat client, which equates to a BIG BAG!

Open your mind and be prepared to fine tune your business even more. 

Here's to a happy and prosperous 2023!

It’s our 100th Episode!!! This Episode includes a giveaway to one lucky winner who participated in the contest on our social media posts. Listen to the very end for the winner!

Thank you so much for supporting the show!

Vivian is joined by Ms. Aranea Swat, the founder of the Runhispocketsis platform on Instagram and Patreon and the host of the Runhispocketsis podcast.

The ladies read the heartfelt comments from supporters of the show and how it impacted their lives.

They also discuss an interesting news article of a newly wed husband getting busted for answering an escort ad during his honeymoon.

Ms. Swat and Vivian also discuss sugar dating and the games men play, the hoops people jump through to navigate the world of paid companionship, bad advice given by the “sugar gurus” on IG and TikTok, and the never-ending discussion of women not wanting to give sugar to their sugar daddies, and the sugar girls thinking they are different from escorts and sex workers…the pressure is getting worser!

Vivian is joined by sensual "whoretastic" sex coach and escort, Ms. Talia Amour.

The ladies discuss Talia's exploration of the different modalities of sex work and how that has helped her be a better teacher and escort to her clients. The ladies also discuss the numerous possibilities available to escorts by being in the profession.

Very Juicy; very enlightening! Enjoy the show!

Vivian asks (and answers), a very popular question usually posed to escorts by their clients and sometimes civilian mainstream society. Do escorts date outside of work?

Escorts are not a monolith, and just like the rest of the world, are multifaceted in how they conduct themselves in their personal lives. Some escorts are married, some dating, some single, and everything in between.

Vivian takes a deep dive into the basic concept of transactional relationships and how it actually benefits society as a whole.

If you have been wondering if hiring an escort is something you should do, be sure to listen to this episode as Vivian gives examples of when it is actually more appropriate to hire a companion/escort and why.

Vivian breaks down the viral topic that has been sweeping through the escort community...Faking it until you make it.

Posting fake gifts? Trying to impress other companions? Is it worth it? Does it actually help your brand and help you attract more clients?

How should we as escorts interact online and on social media?

Vivian is joined by not one but two beautiful companions: Ms. Isabella Bloom and show regular, Ms. Aurora Noor. The ladies discuss their favorite threesome experiences and also share some tips on how to go about booking a companion for a threesome, THE RIGHT WAY!

They also discuss Isabella & Aurora’s new podcast, Afternoon Delight, available on all podcast platforms and YouTube.

Listen in for some juicy stories and threesome advice from the pre-booking to the actual session.

Vivian welcomes back Eric Polacek of CompanionTax.com to discuss everything escorts need to prepare for the 2022 Tax Season.
Also the controversial question of whether or not hair, make up, lingerie, and nails are tax deductible, is addressed. Listen up for the answer and it might shock you.

Vivian is joined by her former co-host, Ms. Chantel Étoile.

The ladies discuss recent news pertaining to the escort industry as well as catch up on Ms. Étoile's latest adventures.

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Vivian is joined once again by GFE Coach and Escort, Ms. Laura Savage, for the last show of 2021.

The ladies reflect on the year and share the important lessons they learned in 2021, including just how important it is to collaborate with one another, instead of competing.

Look out for our escort mastermind event coming early 2022.

Have a fabulous rest of your 2021. See you next year!

Vivian is joined by Atlanta & Chicago based companion, Ms. Anaiah Devereux.

The ladies discuss some of the bad parts of being an escort (the parts that Hollywood never seems to show in their 'escort' themed shows and movies).

Being as escort can be a 'mind fuck' if you're not careful of how you interact with clients. It's not all roses and red bottoms.

The ladies recount their own personal experiences with bad clients that they eventually had to fire from their lives. 

They also discuss emotional manipulation tactics that bad clients use to control escorts who are unaware of this behavior.

If you are an escort or escort hopeful, listen to this episode so you don't get jaded and bitter in this business.

If you are a client or client hopeful, listen to this episode so you know what NOT to do in order to be the client every escort loves to hang out with!

Vivian sits down with Amazing GFE Coach and Escort, Ms. Laura Savage.

Laura shares useful tips on how she went from a survival sex worker to being consistently booked in her local market in Pennsylvania. She also believes that her successful strategy works in ANY market.

The following topics were discussed on this episode:

- Advertising Strategy

- Pricing Strategy

- The importance of bringing your 'A Game' when you meet your client in person...and so much more.

Look out for an online mastermind session coming soon with the ladies on this very topic of staying consistently booked in your local market.

Vivian sits down with international best selling wealth and business author and multi 7-figure business owner, Jackson Millan a.k.a The Wealth Mentor.

Jackson shares plenty of useful tips on how to organize your business and finances so that you are able to retain most of your earned income and utilize it to make even more money for yourself!

The following topics were discussed on this episode:

• The Million Dollar Mindset: why many entrepreneurs struggle to achieve financial freedom
• Creating Killer Cash-Flow: how to turn your business from a cash-eating monster into a profit-making machine
• Financial fundamentals for business owners 
• How to scale a 7 figure lifestyle business
• And much more about balancing business, finance, and wealth

Jackson was so kind to share the following resources with our loyal listeners...

Vivian is joined by former escort (and current sugar baby), Ms. Mahogany.

The ladies dive deep into the world of sugaring and how it differs from as well as how it relates to world of escorting.

A cautionary story from Ms. Mahogany's personal experience about desperation and the negative toll it can take on one's life, was told.

The ladies also discuss Ms. Mahogany's upcoming book (Adventures of a Brown Sugar Baby), which is based loosely on her life.

Lots of tea spilled on this episode!

Look out for Ms. Mahogany's book on Amazon and Good Reads in August of 2021.

Vivian is joined by male escort (for women), Mr. Troy Amistadi. 

The two companions discuss the world of male companionship for women and how it differs as well as relates to world of female companionship for men.

Lots of in depth conversations about how female clients think, vs. male clients, and how to be the #1 escort in your market.

Also recommendations on the top 3 markets to live/tour/work in today!

You probably won't be surprised by the one state on the 'shit list' lol.

Vivian is joined by guest co-host, Ms. Aurora Noor.

The ladies discuss escort life one year after covid and how things have changed from then to now.

Also in the news: Baltimore will no longer prosecute prostitution and other low-level offenses

Vivian sits down with free spirited artist and former escort, A.B.E (aka Ms. Amelia Ford), to discuss her new love interest who just so happens to be a client!

How does one go from client to boyfriend you ask? Tune in for all the juicy deets!

Vivian welcomes back fellow companion, Ms. Sasha Benjamin and the ladies dish on some things they wish they knew before becoming an escort.

So many helpful gems in this episode so get out your pen and paper!

Vivian discusses the recent arrest of one of the show's former guests (for theft and money laundering), and the rise of scammers in the adult entertainment industry.

It seems like everyone has their eyes set on the pockets of sex workers.

Please do your due diligence and stay safe everyone!

This controversial episode has some tea honey!

A fed up Vivian finally decides to speak on cattiness in the escort industry. Even though this show is all about positivity and good vibes, it had to be done.

Vivian gives some tips on how to deal with cattiness from other escorts, as well as some juicy story time of her fall out with a few companions, and some bizarre attacks she has received over the years from bat shit crazy escorts.

Grab your popcorn!

After a 'pillow talk' conversation with one of her clients, Vivian was inspired to produce this episode.

Learn some tips on how to trigger all FIVE senses of your clients in a positive way that will have them coming back to you again and again!

If you've ever wondered what it's like to work in home of the "Red Light District", this is the episode for you.

Vivian sits down with Amsterdam Native, Ms. Tiffany Elease and the ladies discuss life as an escort in Amsterdam as well as touring internationally. 

They also discuss how to keep your rates high in a saturated market.

Welcome to Season 4! 

We're jumping right into a new season with a tumultuous election wrapping up, and everyone on edge. 

This episode should help you take the edge off and keep moving forward with some key life tips.

Vivian interviews exotic dancer, Egypt who has been a stripper for 12 years. The ladies discuss some major life lessons they learned as strippers. We learn that you can acquire some major networking life skills (amongst a long list of other skills), just by being an exotic dancer. Tune in for this super informative episode.

On this episode, Vivian sits down with kinkster and butch queen, Sir Devorah Reine. 

Devorah shares their story about their life as a Dominatrix and Escort and gives some tips on how gentlemen can be better prepared (physically)as a submissive "bottom".

They also discuss sex worker identity politics and their aspirations for our industry as a whole.

Devorah also shares some SW organizations listed below (thank you Devorah!) PLEASE DONATE!

On this episode, Vivian discusses current industry news events - "What's in the News".

Celebrity Bella Thorne joins OnlyFans and makes a record $1 Million dollars in 24 hours!

Vivian discusses 3 news articles on this topic and shares why adult content creators don't see this as a good thing.

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Guest host Opal Marie sits down with industry veteran, Ms. Lola Davina to talk about her upcoming book "Thriving in Sex Work: Sex Work & Money".

The ladies discuss several self-care techniques as well as what it is like to marry a client as Ms. Davina did. 

They also talk about how to know when it is time to fire a client.

Vivian chats with industry veteran Arabelle Raphael in this laughter-filled episode. 

The ladies discuss coming out to family about sex work as well as getting outed to family. 

They also discuss marriage within sex work as a very normal and common thing, and they also talk about the importance of finding your niche and "BALANCE" in sex work.

Vivian welcomes back ABM (Actual Black Mermaid)and the ladies have a much needed blunt conversation that consists of:

-How BBW, Trans/Non-Binary, & Black Sex Workers can maximize their income in the current COVID-19 pandemic. 

-Global economics and how it affects dating and sex work.

-The current political climate and the BLM movement

-Colorism and how to fight racism. 

-Niche marketing.

-Weight loss techniques.

This episode is packed full with lots of much needed educational/philosophical gems that we desperately need in today's climate.

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Vivian sits down with Porn Star & Sugar Baby, Kinsley Karter to discuss her journey in sex work.

Ms. Karter shares her story from her childhood, working for an escort agency as a minor, getting plastic surgery, getting into porn, and web camming. She candidly shares her story and talks about lessons she learned on how to thrive as a high paid companion.

Vivian sits down with fellow black companion, Tia Tatum.

The ladies discuss what it's like to be a black companion in their respective cities and some of the issues they have faced, as it pertains to the color of their skin.

They also give suggestions on things that could be done to make things better for black escorts.

Vivian is back from her break and she sits down with Ms. Aurora Noor to discuss how she grew her onlyfans account from zero to 340 followers in 30 days! Aurora also grew her twitter account back from scratch to 11,000 followers in 30 days.
The ladies discuss different shooting tools and equipment to make professional looking content, which translates to more paying subscribers.

This is a guest episode hosted by companion Opal Marie, and she interviewed Dominatrix Goddess Sydney Jones.
The ladies discuss how to make money through phone sex on Niteflirt and how to structure and promote your account within the platform for maximum earnings

Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com

This is a guest episode hosted by companion Opal Marie, and she interviewed fellow companion, Miss Aurora Noor.
The ladies discuss more on the topic of online content production. Mainly how to grow your following and how to use social media to promote your online content. Miss Noor also gives tips on how to create polished content, which leads to more subscriptions.

Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com

This is a guest episode hosted by companion Opal Marie, and she interviewed fellow companion, Stevie Madison.
The ladies discuss the effect of COVID-19 on the escort industry and the shift towards online content production.
They discuss their various production styles and the various platforms that exist today.
Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com