The Skinny Girl Speaks
By Ingra
I am a seeker of Truth and abundant life! Join me on my journey of transition through life. I promise you’ll leave inspired & wanting to know more about the abundance that’s available for all of us!
Email me at mymnow17@gmail.com for comments or questions. I look forward to engaging with you!!
The Skinny Girl SpeaksJan 25, 2021
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The Skinny Girl Speaks with Gella Rampersad
URBAN LEGEND IN THE CHURCH An urban legend, much like a myth, is a story that circulates as truth but no one really knows if it is. This episode is about an urban legend that’s spoken of in churches but I’m not sure if we’ve ever really seen much of any - 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒐𝒏𝒊𝒄 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑𝒔. I mean REAL ones.
If we are brothers and sisters in Christ, why do we typically view each other as potential hook ups or spouses? Are there 𝒂𝒏𝒚 safe relationships between single men and women where we love as Kingdom siblings? We’ll explore this topic with a guest who says she has a real platonic relationship. Listen to hear what it looks like and the benefits of such. The goal is to raise awareness and encourage the creation of Godly environments that foster healthy relationships between men and women.
If we are brothers and sisters in Christ, why do we typically view each other as potential hook ups or spouses? Are there 𝒂𝒏𝒚 safe relationships between single men and women where we love as Kingdom siblings? We’ll explore this topic with a guest who says she has a real platonic relationship. Listen to hear what it looks like and the benefits of such. The goal is to raise awareness and encourage the creation of Godly environments that foster healthy relationships between men and women.
Jan 25, 202126:42
Give God Your Yes
Ever thought about what your life would look like if you said YES to whatever God asked of you? Look at where it got Mary? For our sake, I’m glad she did. But what about you?
Sep 14, 202025:56
The Skinny Girl Speaks with Ada Mgborukwe
Join me as I chat with Ada Mgborukwe, author of “How Do I Become A Good Thing?” It’s not just for single ladies and the answer might surprise you!!
Aug 31, 202033:20
Bless This Mess??
How often have you seen this phrase? Lord, bless this mess...that I’ve made. Well, there are times when He’s saying clean it up & therein is your blessing! Literal clutter can be a hindrance to your moving forward. This episode will give Biblical insight and bring clarity to the psychology of clutter.
Jul 20, 202028:28
Actively Developing Your Racial Identity
There’s a lot going on in our world around race right now. And I gotta tell you it’s disturbing. In the past I wasn’t bothered as much but this time it hit me a bit differently. In this episode I share my introduction to developing my own racial identity & where my Christianity fits. While working through it, I realized that there are probably others like me who didn’t even realize there was a path to frame this kind of internal development. Get your journals ready because I think you’re gonna want to take notes on this one.
Jun 15, 202040:15
We're A Year Old!
When I started this podcast, I had no idea what to expect! Listen as I share the year in a brief review.
Jun 01, 202013:08
God WANTS You To Know
Many are of the mindset that you don’t ask God questions. Well, how will we ever learn? How otherwise will we get to know God better? Here’s what I’m learning... God WANTS us to know. Not everything, but much more than we settle for. There are mysteries, learnings, understanding, information, and more that hasn’t even come to the earth yet! And God wants you to lean in close to Him so He can share with you. This episode will create the groundwork of expectancy in your heart. You will expect to hear from God more. You will expect Him to show you His ways instead of just His deeds. You will expect to walk in more of the understanding and authority that you have access to as a Kingdom citizen. Prepare yourself! You will not be the same after listening to this podcast.
May 18, 202031:47
4 Ways To Stay Motivated Despite Life’s UPS & Downs
We’re enduring a tough season right now. Sheltering in place, social distancing and more of today’s quirks can potentially wear you down. So how do you pull up from there? Listen as I share the 4 ways I have endured solitude since August 2019. I’m a living witness that these methods work!
Apr 13, 202035:18
Friendly Fire
Mayhem, pandemonium and fear spread across our world. This presents Christians with a great opportunity to show the love of Christ to those who are searching for peace. Instead, we are giving our attention to whose doors are open vs. whose doors are shut, OR who's displaying faith vs. who isn't. We should be aiming our weapons at the enemy, yet we are pointing at each other. This episode gives a different point of view for each side of these arguments...so we can get on with our Father's business- WINNING THE LOST!
Mar 23, 202021:46
How Did She Do That?
You want answers. You want help. "Is there ANYONE who has faced this like I am and can help me??" You're probably asking this question right now. If you are feeling the tug or a full blown poke to take a leap of faith, then this episode is for you! I share the specific steps that led up to my taking a HUGE faith leap. I never knew I could trust God like this. THIS was what people in the Bible did and now I am?! Listen to this episode and you, too, will be able to make this part of YOUR story. You CAN do this...I Did!
Mar 09, 202028:39
Ten Reasons To Travel
There’s a WHOLE WIDE world out there! So why not get out and experience some of it?? This episode gives you 10 reasons to do so while I share about my most recent trip to Waikoloa Hawaii. Be inspired and enjoy!!
Feb 24, 202028:46
Is that YOU, God?
If you’ve followed this podcast and heard me share my story, it’s clear that my life is guided by God. And as a result, I’ve been asked MANY times, “How do you know when God is talking to you?” In this episode, I share my experiences with learning to hear Him. This episode will increase your awareness regarding some ways you may not have realized He was actually speaking.
Feb 03, 202032:10
Don’t Quit...Do It!
Have you hit a hard patch in the road of life? You know God has called you to the place where you are but you wonder if you can be “uncalled”!! In this episode I share 5 things that keep me from making a U-turn.
Jan 20, 202032:32
The Softer Side of God
Someone once said to me, “By now, you should probably have a PhD in the Punishment of God”. Grace was not highlighted in the “way” we were taught. BUT did you know that God has a softer side?? Some call Him ‘Papa’...some call Him ‘Abba’ (my personal fave). In this podcast, I talk about this facet of our Heavenly Father and how He has shown me that He’s more than just God of the Old Testament.
BONUS: This episode will include some of my Bible Study tips. 😉
Jan 06, 202037:52
The Purge
This has nothing to do with those gruesome movies! 😂 When we are journeying with God, He doesn’t want us burdened with a lot of stuff. So, He will purge us or prune us of the extra unnecessaries (Yep, totally made that word up!). This episode gives some specifics about how God did this for me in such a way that I welcomed it. I pray that you are encouraged to willingly follow God’s lead. Blessings!
Dec 16, 201941:01
Worth the Wait
Let's be honest...WHO enjoys waiting?? Waiting to go somewhere...waiting for something to happen that was promised...etc. As Christians, waiting is inevitable. At some point, you'll wait for directions from God, next steps, purpose. Since we're still limited by the human experience, we can become disgruntled, tired, doubtful, and many times just quit! Well, did you know that something is actually happening during the wait times? Perhaps you thought God was just twiddling His thumbs? Oh no my friend, He's always doing something. This episode will give you some insight on the waiting process that will encourage you to hang in there - and even enjoy it!
Dec 09, 201924:10
The Importance of VISION in Transition
Would you believe me if I told you that you could approach life’s transitions with focus, enjoyment, and less stress?? Well, you can!! How do I know that? Because I’m a witness who is experiencing it RIGHT NOW. In the episode I share one of the major keys that makes this possible - VISION. And there’s a special announcement at the end.
Nov 25, 201929:47
5 MORE Ways to Manage Resistance to Transition
While following God through this transition, I didn't have anyone who had been down a path like mine. Not to say no one had done it, but I just didn't know anyone. In this episode, I'm sharing more things to consider that will help you along your journey.
Nov 18, 201919:25
5 Ways to Manage Resistance to Transition
Change is inevitable...and typically so is resistance to the transition. This episode will discuss 5 ways to manage resistance during transition.
Nov 04, 201935:24
On My SoapBox
Grief is the context of this episode but you'll find some nuggets for life in general. Enjoy!
Oct 28, 201928:11
PANIC!!!
When your life is transitioning, it can be a tough pill to swallow. And while you may be moving forward in life, there may be parts of you that are simply not on board. I realized this when I had an weird encounter with an almost 20 year acquaintance. Listen to find out more.
Oct 21, 201930:52
I’m Not the Woman I Used To Be - New Groove
When you’re growing, it shows. People can see it! But did you know that your brain also changes as you do? There’s a science to it. In this episode you’ll get a very simple understanding about your brain as it pertains to behavioral change.
Oct 07, 201929:37
Fail Spectacularly!
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Go hard or go home.” And if we believe that “ALL things work together for our good” then we know we’re in good hands. So go ahead and do it big! Yes, even the failures. Nothing is wasted in the Kingdom.
Sep 23, 201922:04
Rubber Meets the Road - Literally! (Palma de Mallorca, Spain)
I learned some life lessons while bike riding in Spain - out of shape - in the heat! I hope that as you listen (and laugh) that you’ll take away some nuggets to help you along your own journey.
Sep 16, 201919:20
The Skinny Girl Speaks from Kotor, Montenegro
Another travel episode! Recorded while I was on vacation so I’ll talk about the area a bit but then I acquaint you with some if the people I met - “The Fun Bunch”, “Silver Love” and “Sistah, Sistah” (y’all need to help me with this...seriously). THEN, my close call in Kotor!!! 😳 I sum up with some travel tips.
Sep 09, 201927:23
The Skinny Girl Speaks from Messina, Italy
What’s YOUR story? I’ll give you a peek into my time in Messina, Italy, share about some of the people I met and share a portion of my personal narrative with vulnerability and transparency. All of this is wrapped up in the Power of my Story. What’s yours?
Sep 02, 201940:18
The Skinny Girl Speaks from Dubrovnik, Croatia
This podcast was done while I was in Dubrovnik Croatia. Listen in for a little info about this city, aka, “The Pearl of the Adriatic”. You’ll also get some tips on cruising and solo traveling. Then of course, The Skinny Girl Speaks to you introspectively.
Aug 26, 201927:42
The Skinny Girl Speaks from Civitavecchia, Italy
The travel series begins! Traveling is fun! And I’m doing it by myself. This is the first day of my EPIC solo trip to 5 countries in Europe. During these podcasts recorded from various places you’ll get info about the places, people and things I experienced while away. You may be tempted to do this yourself!
Aug 12, 201909:26
His Will, His Bill
Often we pass on amazing things that God wants to do in our lives because we don’t see the resources to make it happen SO we never transition to the next phase. But if HE says it is to be, get outta His way!! Get outta His business and do your part - believe. Hear my story about God’s provision for this incredible season of my life.
Jul 22, 201926:59
The Skinny Girl Nailed It!
Has God ever whispered something to you or even given you a glimpse of something that seemed like a “nice to have” but you didn’t REALLY believe it would happen? Well, that happened to me and it’s ACTUALLY HAPPENING!!! You gotta hear this. I had no idea that He was serious! This isn’t just for you to hear about what I’m experiencing but I want to nudge you toward increased expectation so that insight and understanding from God flows freely.
Jul 15, 201911:10
I Dare You! 😉
In this episode, I’ll encourage you to tap into your bravery then, challenge yourself to step out of your comfort zone. You’re braver than you think. Are you up for a challenge? Take my dare and I’ll include you in my next blog on TheSkinnyGirlSpeaks.com.
Jul 08, 201917:49
Life Disruption
Feel stuck? Stagnant? Perhaps a disruption is in order.
Jul 01, 201918:45
Slow Down and BE!
When we’re so quick to move from one phase of our lives to the next, we miss things. Slooooow down and get the most out of your seasons. There are plenty of nuggets along they way.
Jun 21, 201914:03
Shift Happens
Shift happens...so let it. It’s safe. God will send confirmation in many forms. One of mine has been through social media. How about you? If your life divinely changing? How has God confirmed that it’s Him?
Jun 19, 201915:27
Grandmother’s Blessing
When life is changing, it can be scary. So much uncertainty!! Listen to hear how my Grandmother provided the help I need.
Jun 17, 201914:08
Get In Your Place!
When things are out of place, it causes a ripple effect. The same goes for people. Change is trying to happen but you’re resistant. This can negatively affect more than just you.
Jun 14, 201912:23
Made for This
We think we know all there is to know about ourselves. But oooooohhhhhh there are many discoveries yet to be made! Take courage & delve into you. You have no idea how much is packed inside.
Jun 13, 201923:26
Make That Move!
Seasons change but we don’t always go with the flow. This can be frustrating. I hope this episode will prompt you to shift into another gear. You won’t regret it!
Jun 11, 201927:26
Money Talk
There are 2 gods - God and money. This is a FaithCast about one of my views on money. Does it dictate how you live? Does it determine whether or not you believe God’s ability? How do you respond when there is little or much of it? How should you? Many are bound, worried, frustrated& depressed because of it - with or without it! But you have authority over this god and I hope this episode will help you see that.
Jun 07, 201921:09
The Skinny Girl Speaks - Travel
Get outta town! Go! See! Do! Even if you have to do it by yourself...you’re never alone.
Jun 05, 201913:53
The Skinny Girl Speaks - Transition
Feel like things in your life are out of your control? Chances are, you’re being transitioned to another phase of life. Growth is about to happen! You’ll find some helpful tips for getting through in this episode.
Jun 04, 201929:18
The Skinny Girl Speaks Grief
God’s comfort isn’t just for those who are grieving. This episode is about how we are loved regardless of what we’re going through.
Jun 03, 201921:26
The Skinny Girl Speaks - Faith
My walk with Christ began when I was 12. This episode talks about the BOMB that God dropped on me about our relationship!!
May 31, 201910:36
Who is the Skinny Girl?
I’ll give some info on how I came up with this concept and what it means to me.
May 30, 201905:33
The Skinny Girl Speaks Intro
The Skinny Girl Speaks, huh? What’s THAT about? Listen to this brief introduction to get a glimpse of what you can expect in the days and weeks to come.
May 29, 201903:10