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We're back with podcast number 3,  this one covers a variety of topics,  starting with an interesting one about the often discussed results of the good-looking rich and famous.   A lot of guys limit themselves because they see a small percentage of people that do really well because of something a SMALL percentage of people have.  Not every girl will be able to get the top of the top,  that's why they happen to be at the top of the top.  While some people do get lucky,  that's not always the case, actually being at the pinnacle of success for most requires extremely hard work.  So the fruits of the labor are earned.  Don't expect anything in life to come easy.  That is for the weak.  enjoy

The black sheep bandit has unfortunately left us.  But he will forever live in all the hearts of men who gave the effort to better their dating life and take a stand against adversity to have successful relationships and persevere in life.  Whatever the media wants to portray to maintain their narrative is besides the point,  you can attack ideas all you want,  but the reality is the overwhelming majority of his ideas have good intentions behind them and that is becoming a better man.  

Tom will never be forgotten,  and what he meant for the dating advice community will never be forgotten.   At the end of the day we as human beings need to work TOGETHER to make the world a better place for both men and women,  we need to implement ways to properly navigate the dating market.  Tom was just an engineer paving the way for a better future.  And HIS PHYSICAL FORM may have passed.  BUT HIS SPIRIT WILL FOREVER LIVE IN US ALL.  Rest in peace torero,  and thank you for the positive memories.  

YO WHAT'S UP YOUTUBE,  welcome to another video,  but this one is special -  we are doing the weekly podcast again,  it allows a better more organic free flow of ideas and i think it will help you guys a lot especially the ones who are into longer-form content.  BUT DONT WORRY we will still have our informative CLIPS being uploaded targeting ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW about DAYGAME APPROACH.  SO STAY WITH US, TAKE ACTION,  ENJOY THE SHOW AND LET LIVE OUR BEST LIFE BABY.  Your WEEKLY day game scoop right here. STAY MOTIVATED LOVE YOU

Stop being so corny and walking on eggshells around women.  The whole pua community up to now has been based on avoiding rejection and formulating some sort of advanced skill set that doesn't exist.  rejection will always happen and you can see it for yourself.  take the most advanced dude you know and have him do 100 approaches in front of you,  he'll get rejected the overwhelming majority of the time and he will only hook up with a very small percentage.  the reason you're anxious is that you have performance anxiety,  stop trying so damn hard and you'll see how that anxiety goes away.  simply approach and have a flirt.  don't get stuck in your head thinking about what a false pickup artist told you.  Man up,  approach and deregulate and inject your personality into interactions,  see how that works out for you before trying to be a gimmicky dork.

Picking up where we left off the last video,  where I'm going to dive into setting up a plan of social practice.  I go over what it means to have a funnel and why it is you do it.  I also go over many misconceptions out there in the sinking pick-up artist community.  It is now the year 2020,  the internet is flourishing and we can no longer be fooled and misled like in the earlier days.  Time to make dating great again.  Put your big boy pants on and dive into this breakdown of dating and abundance awareness.

Did this little improv vid discussing fundamentals, a different location than usual but I thought I'd switch things up a bit.  a lot of you have been wondering what the basics are so I'll be making a series of vids about it so you guys could hit the ground running.  In this video, I go over a key mindset I need you to sink in before getting started, which is the abundance mindset.  Realize it may be over with certain girls but there's plenty more opportunity out there so stop being needy and don't get discouraged.  You have infinite opportunities to grow and to meet people.  And in this video, I explain why.  Let's start this new frame of mind and you'll see how you will be well on your way to success in dating.

For some reason, my last legit vid only uploaded half the content so ill drop this spoof here for you guys in the meantime , expect more content soon fellas I hope you have a nice day and stay icey

I wanted to make this video about some observations I've made about the pickup and red pill community.  Dating is something important to men and our sexual urges are part of our biology.  Its something essential in our lives so we want to not have any problems when it comes to either getting laid or dealing with women.  Unfortunately, the way society is set up,  men are misled and there's a lot of drama and stigmas when it comes to dating and what women want and how men should be.  I think we need to look past all that rubbish and start working together to find solutions to how we can thrive together as human beings.   A lot of pick up advice out there is about trying to avoid rejection and just being someone you are not and just trying to do mind tricks and jump through a bunch of hoops and processes like you're some sort of nerd advanced pua.  Is ridiculous and it doesn't work any more than being your most confident self works and introducing yourself to women.  How do I know this?  because it has been tested with volume.   You can make a technique guy vs. a confident guy do 100 approaches.  The results won't be any different as long as they're both confident.  So stop causing yourself so much anxiety and embrace rejection.

I'm pretty sure this is a relevant topic that a lot of guys have concern for.  A lot of guys are always crying about why girls flake and getting but hurt because of it.  These are usually guys reading texting techniques to get every girl,  talking to very few girls if any at all,  and every time one particular girl gives them the attention they go super crazy over her and how to get her.  And when she ends up flaking they have to re-evaluate their life.  Sad but true.  I'm here to tell you that your suffering days are over. 

I'm here to tell you flaking is part of the process no matter what it is you do or how many texting products from these wannabe pick up artist coaches you buy.   Stick to the fundamentals and inject your own personality into the mix.  You will never be mad for a girl who flakes on the real you.   Because you left everything on the table.  And trust me, I wouldn't be a dating coach if there weren't enough girls out there to like you for who you are and ultimately click with you and have that great relationship or rotation you've always wanted.  Time to drop the bs,  time to drop the crying over a flake,  and time to meet lots of cool women that will be compatible with you.  Embrace the process, embrace the rejections,  this is what brings about true confidence.

Welcome to another insightful video,  time to start moving away from that whole fantasy of being this sort of entitled pickup technique dude.  We want you to be the best version of yourself in your dating life,  and so do the women you meet.  If for whatever reason a woman rejects you it doesn't mean your "game" is off.   Don't be a fool.  If you take care of yourself, learn basic social fundamentals, and inject your personality into interactions,  you will meet women and women who are INTO YOU.  Stop trying to be this fake pick up persona,  that is ridiculous and shame on the people who try to give you these lame techniques and tactics and overanalyze rejection.  

Just go up say hi and stick to the fundamentals,  a beautiful relationship with blossom if it must.  You do this how I am telling you and you will end up with a wonderful dating life full of wonderful women.  Don't even worry about what I'm saying,  try it yourself.  You know those old pick up tactics ain't working and neither is that mgtow red pill garbage.  Lets actually start seeing concrete results fellas.  Enjoy the video.  Hasta la vista!

I've decided to break down my thoughts on gimmicks and natural approach.  Should you over-analyze or should you flow?  After experimenting with both I've summarized a lot of my ideas into this video, I'll be expanding more on these concepts in the future.   This will help anyone getting into the dating scene or getting back into it to understand how to navigate it without the frustration of trying to be some sort of advanced pickup nerd.   I've had enough of the belief that you can be some sort of master with women.  

You can have a great dating life but don't make it out to be a "thing" like a lot of these nerds do.  A man who is truly good with women isn't bragging about how much skills he has.  Any man who is truly successful at dating simply understands these fundamental principles and carries on with his life.

Thought I'd make this video going over some of the day game dynamics that have been going on within the recent decades.   As sort of a continuation of my last video where I explained my thoughts on the issues going on with the media.  The goal with this video isn't to say anyone is wrong about any sort of approach,  the goal is to shine a light on the current approach and methods and question question question.  Luckily for me, I've tried all types of approaches to see what is most convenient for my dating life and you'd be surprised about what I've come to find on this journey.  A huge number of interactions with real people and a beautiful amount of success and relationships and these are my thoughts and a little bit on the history of day game and where it is at today.

Just made this video about RSDTyler.  As you all know rsdnation was the biggest dating advice company in the world and it was led by one of the most innovative people when it comes to dating which is Tyler aka owen cook.  Looks like Tyler has his own channel now called Tyler free tour.  Apparently the company as disbanded but we still have great content from tyler.  He's uploading videos about self-help and psychology it seems and it is very important for guys to master these skills.  As you all know the foundation of meeting women is simple, but the self-esteem of the man is what will win you the race.  A low self-esteem man will only get so far with a good foundation.  Just like in basketball, you can know the moves but if you're not built to play,  you train, and eat properly and have the right mindset you will not really be winning many games.  Crack into and enjoy this video breakdown of some inner game concepts.

I thought I’d make this reaction because is no surprise that this song has so much popularity and is a situation many people could possibly find themselves on. Clearly by the amount of traction this song has gathered many men are going through similar situations. It's the lack of provision to dating in society that creates these problems. Many places especially in the united states kids are just brought up and either you got it or you don't. You either are attractive and get girls or you don't and get the short end of the stick and have to go through much unnecessary suffering in relations due to unawareness. That is why it is important to have role models and knowledge of how to navigate the dating scene.

You know what they say, when you don't want it you get it. Most guys who get into approach, after overcoming the fear and going up to the girl, if she happens to be nice to them or engage, maybe even exchange contacts, the man tends to get very excited because its a glimpse into what he wants. We're one step closer to the surge of dopamine that comes from female receptivity and ultimately sex. It is okay to feel these emotions but one must understand that the amount of pressure placed on a lot of these females you're meeting cannot be more. That is unless you're meeting a woman who's equally needy, but that is the exception not the rule. Even if a female is needy often times, she masks it well. Specially at the start. I'm not telling you to play any games, I’m simply telling you to be aware of your strong emotions and control your psychology and expectations when approaching and going through the phases with women. There is definitely room for excitement but it should be mutual and gradual. So meditate, self-develop and let the cards play out with women as they should. Don't force your hand. Know there will always be more plays and we cannot win every play.

If you think about it,  everyone has a female pair.   There will always be females are insecure as you are.  But the problem is you're both so insecure you will never meet each other.  And if you did you probably wouldn't like each other that much.  We tend to want the highest value things we can get.  But what makes us think in order to attain the highest value you are not suppose to put in the highest work.  There is always the exception to the rule but we got more chances of getting struck by a lightning than being the exception.  Work with the knowledge and understanding you have right now in order to have the most solid dating life possible.  Put in the self work and yes recognize you're always capable of attracting someone each step of the way.  But the flood gates open up much higher if you put in the self work.  That just depends on what you want also and what truly makes you happy.  Self awareness and meditation will be your friend in that.  And also an understanding of human beings.  Why we do what we do and what is it we truly want.  Men's purpose in life is not to be happy.  Men's purpose in life is to find meaning.  According to jordan peterson.  A beautiful phrase.

It's normal to feel attachment.   There's nothing wrong with it.  The best thing I do is lay my cards out on the table and tell her how I feel,  this liberates me and makes it clear what I want.  Of course, I don't do it at the very beginning of the relationship.   As we go deeper and you've connected then you can lay out a path by telling her exactly how you feel.  At this point, the ball is in her court.  What does this have to do with getting over your ex or any girl?  Is simple.  You are a ball of energy and emotions.  Energy and emotions are like water.   They take the shape of the female you're currently courting.  I know,   we think there's just "the one".  But the truth is that there are many women capable of playing the role you desire for her to play.  Ultimately the one becomes the girl who is there in the end.  There are no special snowflakes.  But there are genuine connections.  Value the connections and remember there is an abundance of situations and connections out there.  But that being said,  don't go around breaking hearts because you think there is an abundance of hearts to break.  It just simply means you don't have to deal with the suffering that comes with thinking you'll never find another girl like her.  Chances are you won't if you don't carry yourself as a high-value man and set yourself up to win.  But  If you're reading this then you know the actions you must take in order to make yourself appealing to the opposite sex in quantity.   It's common sense.  You get what you put in and karma works in mysterious ways.

You are required to be a confident man in order to meet the right partner.  Otherwise you'll just take what you can get.  It is not always clear that the right woman for you will be in you environment or will ever cross your path by destiny.  And even if you were that lucky.  Why would you leave things in the hands of luck.  Even if she were to cross your path you would have to have the courage to even talk to her.  And chances are even if she is in you path you don't have the resolute.  The reference experience required to make it happen then and there because for many years the conditioning has been to ignore and look away from this area of your life,  to accept what is told to you and that is why for the teens and the early adult years and beyond man on average experience catastrophic dating lives full of confusion and pain.  It is my duty as a dating coach to give the advice that will guide you in the direction of having the highest chances of scoring the right partner for yourself or at least knowing that there is a bigger playing field out there.  One in which you will end up finding out things beyond the silliness of dating.

Daily Fapping and Porn can cause anxiety and neediness because when we are actively engaged in the daily acts we are unconsciously addicted to the dopamine release which is the reason we do it and become attached to it.  A man must regain control of his urges.  Days 2-5 are the hardest,  then man feels more under control .   Man must channel this energy into his life and cold approach women not for sex but for mutual understanding and establishment of connection.  Once man trusts woman intentions are genuine,  man can engage in repeated sexual intercourse with such woman,  knowing the chances of him having sex with her more often are on the higher end.   Man will then establish relationships not through the looped neediness cycle of sexual biological desire.  But through the eyes of a conscious beings aware of his ,  if not controlled,  malicious urges.  Man will then hold the power to remain calm under rejection and see through the facade and appeal of unconscious biological sexual desire,  one that drives our needy behavior.  Best harnessing the power and allocating it in a healthy way that of course will in the long term result in less suffering through neediness.  And believe it or not,  more sexual outcomes.  I'll leave you with a quote  "Him who doesn't need it ,  shall have it

It's the simple things that make you attractive.  With everything factored in ,  you will have a dating life tailored to you.  No one mans connection is the same nor should it be.  You live your life, you attract who you attract depending on your personality and genetic position.  There will be women you will mesh with effortlessly without trying to impress and do magic tricks.   These are the women you should cater towards.  There are men who are average who do very well,  because looks isn't everything,  it certainly helps but you must also take into account personality,  confidence,  potential,  self love,  good vibes,  even just having a similar background as certain women can help their attraction towards you.   A variety of factors beyond looks contribute to attraction.  It doesn't mean you should discard looking your best.  That is always a plus.

Is all about building the courage to approach consistantly,  this constant approaching is what will open up the largest possible pool of women for you to potentially date.   The more active you are the more fluid you can date because the opportunities are coming in.   Unless you are a famous celebrity or have a status funnel like Dan Bilzerian,  you will have to approach.  How can you possibly be abundant and you are not creating opportunities constantly.   Is a constant game until you decide you want to stop.  Say you are comfortable in a commitment and want to arrange it and stop then fine,  but if you're trying to date and play the field,  you must keep the leads coming in.  That's just a suggestion,   it doesn't mean you have to do it.  My goal is not to create sex addicts,  approach isn't only used for sex,  it can be used to make connections.  But i know a lot of you want to date and choose.   Having the courage to approach as a confident male will erupt your dating choices.

Its 2020 right now,  probably not the best time to date due to the ongoing pandemic,  which is unfortunate.  Hopefully some of you who have been dating previously have stocked up that rotation.   In this video I want to talk about three dating coaches who have created some buzz in the recent months and just give my thoughts on the situation.  Not necessarily from a negative standpoint,  but just a man voicing his opinion based on experiences.  At the end of the day every man has something to contribute to the betterment of our dating lives so the more good stuff the marrier.  I also mention in the video a young approach practitioner with a solid blog mikemehlman.net you can check that out lots of good free practical content.

I came across an ad of this guy and thought i'd do a video on it because there is a couple of things i liked about his approach and ideas i thought i'd hi light.  The direct approach is beautiful and is backed up by his apparent confidence.   Believing in yourself and your worth is strong and allows you to communicate nothing but stability to the woman,  you wont crack down in the face of pressure,  rather you remain stoic and unphased by it which subconsciously tells the woman you are a man of war.   A man of war triggers all her attraction switches because as a wise man once said,  attraction is not a choice.  Start bulletproofing your inner confidence and creating real concrete beliefs about yourself and following through on them daily to achieve a higher level of confidence.  It all starts one habit change at a time.   Don't be afraid to fail your way there.   We're here to make it click.

Welcome back to another weekly segment about improving your dating life and what steps to take.   Getting over insecurities is essential to be able to have the confidence to approach often.  The reason being is you do not want to take rejection personally. Part of the reason we are afraid to approach a lot is because of the fear of rejection and taking it as a personal rejection.  If you dissolve insecurities and find joy in rejection and realize it's only part of the process,  then you will open up more opportunities for yourself.  There is no magic pill,  there's simply women who will happily respond to a confident male who is not doubting his self worth and characteristics.

I thought i'd break down some fundamental principles for you guys that want to dive into cold approach once is safe and the corona virus is gone lol.  Even if you're unable to cold approach now is fine because cold approach will only be a small percentage of what will make you an attractive guy.   Sure having the courage to go up to women is nice, but let's face it anyone could walk up and say hi if correctly encouraged.   But what will make these women want to date you?  well that's going to be who you are,  how genuinely confident you are and the type of person you've worked to become.   It starts with identifying your self worth and really managing the way you think about yourself.  It's actually a life changing journey especially if you're a very insecure guy.   Lets face it,  you didn't actually think you could remain insecure and attract women.   We have to engage in a full 360 and make ourselves the best versions of ourselves in order to have the highest quality of life.  Unless you want to settle for low hanging fruits,  which is fine ,  but you need to recognize the truth and then work towards finding that balance for yourself and settling into your best possible scenario.  But that is a matter of self awareness,  self reflection, and action.

I wanted to touch on some points about confidence and while i'm at it I had to mention AMS,  popular dating coach on the community right now handing out red pill advice with conviction and it never hurts to be told that you should self improve and that women respond to confident males who have it together.   It's also good to be able to have the confidence to approach a woman in places besides nightclubs so that you can have a magical moment during the day rather than the nighttime just like in romantic novels.  But all magic aside,  is good to know you can meet women any time and is good to know how.  And nope,  it isn't by going up and reciting a technique.  Is by going up and owning it.

In this video I go into detail about my thoughts on the process of getting better at cold approach and attracting women.  There's been a huge focus over the years on actual "game" rather than what truly creates attraction.   Is it the words you say or is it the person you are.   If you look at the majority of attractive males,  they do not change what they say exactly,  they are who they are.   It isn't the words,  its the feeling behind the words and the person saying it.   What are these words conveying.   The best way to get your words to convey attraction to the woman is by filtering it through a mind that has harvested confidence.  Confidence in approach comes from approaching and from socializing,  that is something you must engage in over and over and it can be enjoyable.  But for the 2 hours of social engagement you're putting in.  There's at least 10 hours of self development and crafting of who you are as a person.  Words are the surface,  what is beneath the surface?

Don't judge my grooming,  I am indeed quarantined inside my house unable to cut my hair and I decided to let my beard grow, full caveman.  On to why you're here.  Hope you're all staying healthy.  Lets talk about getting laid,  because after this pandemic we will resume the festivities.  Decided to dive into this topic of what you can expect when getting into cold approach.  I'm not here to make promises,  i'm here to talk about what's possible so that you can apply this yourself and think for yourself.  Learn from experience,  learn from everyone,  put things to the test,  and find out for yourself.  My job is to fasten that learning curve and prevent you from falling into a pit of frustration.  Early on when I started cold approaching I worked on some essentials and had a couple situations where chicks were attracted to me and then they lost attraction because I didn't know how to move things forward or in which direction.    Take some notes and start learning the foundations so that you can be ready to master your dating life and have the women you want in your life.   Somethings absolutely off if you cannot get this part of your life moving.  Lets tie the knots.  Enjoy the video.  I know you guys got short attention spans so i'll try to make these videos shorter next time.  PEACE OUT ;)

There's a disconnect between what creates attraction and cold approach.  Approaching alones breeds confidence eventually,  after many approaches,  confidence in the fact that you will not die if you do it and confidence in being social.  But I deeply believe that how you come across as a person is the most decisive factor that determines weather you get the attraction or not,  meaning how confident are you in yourself and what you have to offer.   That being said ,  the reason you need to hold your own is because in spite of how confident you feel ,  rejection will happen the overwhelming majority of the time.  So it is essential you develop real self love which provides thick skin  in order to not be concerned with rejection at all.  It's the man who can grasp this concept who will go on to have an amazing dating life.  Who doesn't want to date a non needy non approval seeking guy who knows he's awesome.  Sounds like a fun time. There's elements that make you attractive,  approaching is one of them,  but what else have you got to offer as a man?  Find your worth and combine that with approaching

Picking up girls can be fun,  if you look at it as fun.  The problem with most guys is that they're doing it for need.  They need to get girls.  First of all a woman is a human being,  so the idea of picking up girls for fun can actually work because there are plenty of women that just want to have fun.  I've met so many girls throughout the years that just want a casual sexual relationship.  I've also met women who want something serious.  So picking up girls for fun should not be looked down upon.  At the end of the day you're only going to end up having fun with the girls who want to have fun.  The ones who want something different,  you'll quickly find out.  Is important to have good communication,  that is why social coaches exist,  because guys might be clueless in how to go about playing the dating game.  Is why my job can be fun. 

 Anyways that being said,  in the above video I will go over some ways you can get started in your journey to meeting and socializing with women,  lets face it,  things don't just happen -  skills are developed and experiences are gained,  you must take it upon yourself to craft the life you desire  and let all the strong pillars of life hold it all together and bring you a strong dating life.  These pillars are health , wealth and social skills.  Become a master at living the life you love,  and you'll attract the women you love,  who will love you back.  But there is no loving unless you understand and love yourself first.  That is where the journey begins.  In you.

So i came across this very open minded female,  this is funny because there are periods where you approach and actually not much happens for a week or two,  maybe more if luck is not on your side,  but then the universe has a way of lining stuff up for you all in the period of a few days.  Crazy how that works,  nothing is a definite constant.  So anyways this story is about a wave I was ryding where I was coming across females who were down.  This particular female was very open minded and in a very explorative vibe,  she was young wild and free.  So I decided for research purposes to ask her how many guys she had been with and I wasn't going to judge,  i'm having fun myself,  mind you,  I always wear protection this is very important to practice safe sex so that it doesn't go beyond a "fun time".  Specially when you are not going to establish a long term relationship and you don't have patterns with the person you're seeing,  you must be safe to prevent stds and pregnancy.  Anyway I hope you guys enjoy this story and get a little taste of the "party" phase a female may go through.  Don't judge,  people should do what they want,  is a free world,  as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone.  Namaste

Cold approach is undeniably an important aspect of meeting people,  be it warm or cold,  you must make the move and present yourself.  Is making the move everything?  absolutely not.  You must not only learn how to sell yourself but you must also be selling something worth buying.  obviously.  You ever heard the saying looks matter?  well of course they do,  it is part of your smv.  Does that mean that you must look the best in order to get laid?  well it certainly would help but no,  and here's why,  women carry smv also.  SMV is known in the web as sexual market value,  there are things beyond are biology that we look for in order to mate,  for the most part.   These days we've evolved beyond the animalistic instinct and now we are a bit picky.  The good news is ,  this applies to both men and women and is not that hard to put yourself together.  You got to understand most people are average anyways,  so it will not be hard to find yourself an average woman. 

 How above average do you want to be is up to you and factoring in the odds and possibilities.  So most certainly anyone can cold approach,  and with this information in mind you won't be blaming yourself for getting rejected.  That being said,  just because you have equal SMV as the girl doesn't mean she will hook up with you,  this is where destiny comes into play,  she has to be looking for a partner or available.  If this is the case, then you have a fair chance.  All you have to do is not mess up.  See most guys are looking for what to do to get girls.  Instead focus on what you shouldn't do,  for starters, stop trying so hard.

Had a couple thoughts on this subject thought id share,  unfortunately I gotta write a description so this video is about me giving my thoughts on stephiscold and cold approach ,  as if the title wasn't obvious enough.  Not much of the writing type but I don't really manage the youtube,  my boy does and he says this is important.  anyways i don't want to spoil the video so i aint gon say nuthin.  lulzzzzzzz WATCH IT

As you can see , I've had a thread of my most recent videos discussing how each individual coach has helped my dating experiences along.  I will make this video about who I believe to be the best innovator of cold approach in this millenia.  The one and only mike Mehlman.  As I explain in the video,  his confidence is contagious and his disconcert for tactics is spot on.   I love his method of approach because it basically ties in to being yourself,  best self if you want to succeed more and nothing else.   Clean and to the point.  Doesn't float around this misconception that just anyone can learn some "skills" and get results.  IT just leaves you with the idea that if you're confident and believe in yourself you can actually meet women by being straightforward and direct.  Don't be held back by the inevitable notion of rejection and believe in who you are and what you've got to offer, by of course making something of yourself,  and not being afraid of approach.  I leave you with this awesome video.  PEACE OUT

We're back with another video this time talking about my experience doing some of the tom torero style daygame.  Funny enough this is how I met my ex girlfriend who we shared great moments together.   Meeting people doesn't always have to be based solely on hooking up,  you can develop solid relationships from this as was my case, but as you will see in the video things don't always go so well.  But we live and we learn.  This is my story of mastering day approach and an update on where I am now.

I wanted to make this cool little video to talk about some of the experiences I've had and what has helped me immensely in dating back then when I starting doing night approach more often in order to sort out and have a better dating life.  Keep in mind I no longer do much night time approaching,  if I want to get dates I achieve that during the daytime and throughout my day I can meet people.   

In this video I dive into one of the mindsets that helped me a lot in south beach Miami nightclubs and bars,  great way to meet people if you try it out yourself and have a lot of fun.  This was during the prime time of the real social dynamics movement led by tyler who was a pioneer when it came to social dynamics and introducing yourself and having a blossoming dating life.  Bottom line is most men really have no clue how to go about meeting people ,  so it is important to have good healthy examples of how to do so.

It's time to dive into another texting break down.  Too many guys asking silly questions like "what should I text her first".  When you ask that question it’s a clear giveaway of your lack of experience and if the answer is anything besides "WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT" then you're also inexperienced as well in anything useful when it comes to dating.  Let me explain why,  you've been fed super gimmicky marketing for the last 10 years about what the right thing to text a girl is,  so your mind is brainwashed.   Is a simple as that.  The blind leading the blind.  Or should I say, the con leading the blind.  Now of course some of these guys giving terrible texting advice don’t know any better.  But let me catch you up on some serious game,  whatever little bs results you were getting with regulating what you say through text will increase tenfold once you understand the concept I break down in the video.  If the concept flies over your head,  

I'm not worried,  you'll be back because this is the way.    If you know anything about star wars,  this is the way lol.   The fearless man who can approach and reap the confidence growth and knows exactly what to expect is the man that will have a successful abundant dating life.  Otherwise you will stay scarce and not have many options.  Don't limit yourself to a pool of 5 women, when you can be swimming in a pool of 5 billion and end up with the best girl suited for you.  Stop thinking small, stop thinking useless gimmicks, and start thinking like a winner.  I don't want to say I told you so.  Start now.

I was browsing around and I saw this video by a guy named dan bacon who gives highly marketed cookie cutter relationship and approach advice.  But anyways is not terrible advice and I found this gem he mentioned in one of his videos.  Now I'm not one to hate but I am very transparent about my opinion and I like what I like,  I've also taken a lot of action myself so I know what success in dating looks like, talks like, and feels like.  Anyways I'm not going to be saying anything negative because I do not know this guy,  might make a more thorough review in the future but for now I'd like to point out this tinder point he made in one of his video which I think you guys will find useful.   

 It basically demonstrates some factual statistics about how 1% of men are getting most of the success, which we kind of know already and some more facts about not all dates leading to hook ups and how the majority of men online are pretty much left for scraps but we all pretty much know that if you're not on top of your social media game and have a decent profile you pretty much won't be going very far.  And even then its still a gamble.  But anyways check the video out for yourself,  educate yourself in this matter and just basically become a social media master,  you owe it to yourself to self improve in all areas might as well have good pics and good style of yourself online.  With that I leave you guys to watch this video breakdown.  PEACE.

Lets get into it 

  I pity the day you show up to my bootcamp wearing clothes fabricated in the 80s with an oversized fit and a fedora with a feather on it.   Expecting me to do magic tricks in order for you to attract women.  Not even a miracle will save you from bad style my friend.  That'll be the day I can just get up from my couch,  throw anything on,  run up out the basement ,  start approaching girls and not expect highly pitiful reactions due to my inability to put a decent outfit together.  Lets save you and me the trouble and hit you with this style guide.    Your style for daygame is basically like your uniform for a basketball or a football game.  You don't run into the field without your uniform.   I want you to educate yourself,  yes,  educate yourself in style.  Sorry buddy,  you cant be out here looking like a bum.  Go cut your hair.  A good start is instagram,  and you probably don't have a solid online presence,  which is a whole nother story we'll get to in another article.  But first we must start with your style.  Go find some celebrities online that look somewhat similar to you,  or some cool trendy stars and see what it is they are wearing and what it is the public is reacting to at the moment.  Then obviously I want you to go to some trendy hip stores out in the mall and put together an outfit you find cool.  But probably you have no taste,  oh I am certain you have no idea what to pick out on your own,  it will ultimately be an upgraded version of the same trash outfit you're already wearing.  So make sure you seek out someone who already "looks cool"  so they can assist you.   

 It is highly recommended you get expert advice.  Fortunately for you I have experience with helping people dress up and feel comfortable on their own skin.  Your own personal style converted into an attractive style will absolutely get your foot in the door and lessen the impact of bad reactions.  Its been proven over and over that presentation is important.  Lets not skip it.  Lets not skip health nutrition and exercise either.  I dive more into that in the video I have up on youtube,  as well as finances and stuff.  Obvious prerequisites to having a super solid dating life without any unnecessary struggles and mental hurdles.  Lets take it one step at a time and not start backwards.  And don’t forget to approach and start meeting people.

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I came across this popular video commenting on the subject of attraction,  is there are many scientific explanations to attraction but coming from someone who's out here dating and actually experiencing what it is to attract and be attractive and breaking it down for guys so they can also adhere to practical advice rather than a lot of scientific terms and mindsets.    What we like to preach in our channel is practical tested advice that will help your dating life go from zero to one hundred real quick.  The dating advice community for men has recently undergone a pivotal crisis due to the public eye zoning in on weird tactics being shared.  Is time to make dating practical and healthy again.

So after applying the direct honest healthy approach I mentioned on the 100 approaches video,  I was able to communicate my clear intentions to women about getting to know them,  so very quickly I started having women interested in going on dates with me.  No need to go to a nightclub or bar for sequential nights and go through the whole process of lurking in loud nightclubs with drunk people.  I simply went out on my own time during the day and met the women I wanted to meet.  Of course not every woman was interested but you just move on.  The result of this wonderful experience was a large appoint of potential suitors that were interested in going on dates with me.  You will filter for those whom mesh with you and you'll end up meeting cool people.  This video describes in more detail what I learned from going on over 100 dates.

In this video laz reacts to the update of the future of one of the biggest dating advice and pick up companies on the usa.  This company has been around for like 10 years traveling the world and teaching men how to pick up chicks and apparently they're moving on to self help now and other stuff.  Here's the reaction video.

In this video laz discusses 5 key fundamentals you should start doing one at a time in order to achieve consistency and options in your dating life.  He also goes over a few pre arrangements you can do as well depending on your situation for you to ease into this process,  that if applied,  is guaranteed to get you in the path to a healthiest dating life and meeting the girls you want to meet !

As you all may have known ex RSD Julien recently got married and here are my thoughts about how this can serve as a message to the pick up community going through unsettling times and realign with a more healthy vision of dating.  A lot has been going on in the pick up community lately,  and many may see it as a bad thing.  Many dorks are going underground and just talking about posting exclusive content and stuff.  The truth is pick up has been relatively underground for many years and the majority of these underground followers have not got any good dating lives to show for it besides running around nightclubs for hours on end with very little to show for it besides the occasional one night stand.  Worry not,  we've moved on from that and ill take the time to soon introduce a healthier way of dating that doesn't involve dork tactics.  For now enjoy this video about Julien and what this could possibly mean for the pick up community.

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Had some microphone issues, with this one, but published anyways because it was a passionate speech. Enjoy.  

 So in this video we go over some stuff that happens in the pick up industry that isn't talked about much.   A guy getting into success with women simply doesn't know how to tell apart real from fake due to lack of experiences and will end up paying the price for it by learning from an invalid source.   Stay woke and dive into this video to create awareness.  Ever wonder why none of your peers are getting good results even after taking a program with a "pick up" coach?  could it be that the reality is much different than the "techniques" you're being thought to believe work all the time?

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In this interview segment we go around asking women how many dates a guy can expect to go on before getting down and dirty!  get the full scoop here and level up your game!

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  Guys have lost faith in phone numbers because they think it goes nowhere,  think again,  here's an in depth look at how to ignite phone numbers that lead to dates and relationships !

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 In this video laz goes over his thoughts on certain people who approach during the day getting their channels removed from youtube and why it is happening

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It can be a little bit intimidating to go up to a stranger you don't know with fear of rejection and not know what to say.  the truth is you can just be yourself and let things flow naturally as long as you make your intentions clear to the person you're speaking to.  If they're willing to engage and a dialect with you after that then you can get to know the person and perhaps begin a new relationship !  Watch this video to learn about some conversational topics you can savor when introducing yourself.