Loc'd Pop Talks
By Tyree Wilson
Loc'd Pop Talks is a podcast to acquire the tips, tricks, and effective marriage skills that STANDING men are struggling with as providers in today's society, and provide ways in how to navigate your STAND in an engaging way.
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Loc'd Pop TalksDec 04, 2020
Marriage Isn't Dead! 🙅♂️🙅♀️💀
Late Night Marriage Restoration Support Stream! **November 2nd, 2020**
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Don't Give Up!
Am I Ready To Reconcile With My Spouse?
Fighting Fatigue Written By Elizabeth Cody Newenhuyse
Couples' Devotional Bible, NIV, page 580
This Weeks Episode I talk about How To Prepare Yourself for reconciliation in your marriage.
I'm not THAT man anymore!
Shared Ministry!
The Spirit of Competition!
Controlling Yourself Can Re-attract Your Spouse!
"Anger Under Control"- Written by Louis Mcburney. M.D.
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Controlling behavior is basically unhealthy for relationships. So if you are a victim or the offender, I talk about ways you can break or break free from the insidious Spirit of imprisonment.
Manipulation: Men hate this behavior!
Your Marriage May Need Space To Break Bad Habits!
Controlling Lust!
Your Network of Support!
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Finding like-minded people can be a life-changing resource to acquire.
The people within your network are after the same thing you may be after--bettering themselves-- while NOT wanting to obtain any of what you exclusively have or acquired for yourself. Basically, surround yourself with people who plot to take your "stuff".
This advice can work for your marriage, new relationship, or personal goals you are working towards. But in order to get there, you must learn to and choose to push aside feeling embarrassed or misunderstood about the way you THINK.
This may mean that what mindset you have survived within your life may be challenged or at the very least examined by those who occupy the pursuit of happiness alongside you.
If my words don't reach you, consider reading James 4: 1-12 and send me a message with what the text says to you. Let's talk 🙏
GOD Answers, You Decide!
You Can Only Control You!
Release Them To God!
Use This Scripture To Stop the Razor Sharp Tounge & Heal Your Marriage!
Answering Questions LIVE in Private Facebook Group!
They Don't Support My STAND!
Unresolved Issues!
The enemy has stolen enough of your heart and time, so I choose to not give him any credit or recognition for my own wandering thoughts. As always, focusing on the Lord will drive the enemy from your life every time feelings of loss and anxiety come to steal away another second of your life.
This is STILL a journey I am on myself, but I am willing to walk it. May God strengthen you to walk your path in unison with the Almighty.
God bless,
Tyree
How To Deal With Carrying Guilt & Immense Reponsibility!
Forgive yourself first, because what happened in the past will never change.
In this podcast segment, I answer a question asked by Cristian,a member of the podcast, about how you can deal with feeling guilty over what happened and why taking responsibility is something to NEVER feel ashamed of.
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Forgive, Faster!
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Standing for your marriage can cause you to seek out deeper sense of self-value and self-worth, mentally and spiritually, but how is the body--our physical being--able to keep up with the day to day journeys amongst the storm?
How is it possible that you or I can feel the pressure of the clock ticking against us, and yet manage to harness said time to change not only ourselves but our approach to life as standers?
Standing for your marriage, before learning to LET GO of what we can not control, cause us symptoms in the body.
The symptoms of STRESS are undeniable:
-Tiredness
-Infedility
-Lack of appetite
-Loss of Motivation
-Debilitative Worry
-Isolation
In this segment, I share an answer that could only be found when I chose to be silent and LISTEN to the unmistakable and undisturbed Voice of God.
**Special shout out to brother David Bowen**
I Quit Social Media During My STAND!
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Social Media and how it can be used like hammer out the tool box. It can either be used to build something for yourself or others, or destroy your life and the lives or others by how its used. It took time for me to realize that I wasn't using the platforms for the benefit of my marriage, but rather to isolate myself and remain separated from the Lord. Secret Groups, Private messages, and hidden societies of people who got together for numerous reasons where all who were more than welcoming of my presence amongst them. I felt unjudged, un-convicted by the sins of my actions, basically living guilt-free of my ways.
I was lying to myself, the weight of dealing with my issues and the issues in my home felt overwhelming and I ached for a way to escape them. But in the process, I ruined friendships, job opportunities, networking opportunities and even my own education took a backburner. Honestly, I don't regret the lessons I had to learn when I accepted God back into my life because I understand now , this was all part of the plan.
In this segment, I share with you my own story, lessons, experience and reason as to why I had to sever my connection to the online world in order to support my decision to fight for my marriage...and mean it.
My Nerdy Side Helped Me Fight For My Marriage!
And when we look to Him for answers to our trials he uses what talents, skill, and resources we have to help us.
All we need to remember is that with #confidence those same skills and talents have always been available to aide us.
In this segment, I share how God used my talents and interest that allowed me to stay on the directed path my obedience set me on.
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Stronger Thoughts, Stronger STAND!
How would you like to learn the SINGLE most important step I applied to removing the enemy from my actions and thoughts in order to save my marriage?
Some people say it was God who made it happen, and those people would be absolutely correct. God entrusted me with a mind and will to SNAP myself out of the mental prisons of grief and anxiety and continue to keep my heart focused on Him. To the point that self-sabotage was a long forgotten habit I carried for many years. In this segment, I share how, when, and why this important step caused a critical turn around in how I carried myself through life as a STANDER.
I also share a message from a brother in faith, and Instagram follower, AVEDAD19. My conversation with him allowed me to hear how well the podcast is doing and how my testimony has helped him in finding peace in his own world as a standing husband.
Sharing Part Of Our Marriage Restoration Testimony!
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In this episode, I bring in my wife Tiffany, as a special guest to share her side of things or our separation and restoration. She shared that her world of marriage and companionship with me was NOT the life she thought we'd both end up finding ways to destroy. But after giving herself and her expectations over to God, she found that the pain of our situation was not caused by our faults alone, but that God was redirecting us to the true path of togetherness as a covenant marriage.
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Pray For Your Marriage, Fervently! (Kobe Bryant Tribute)
My heart and prayers go to ALL the families involved and affected by this great loss.
Feeling under the weather this episode, I muster up the determination of Basketball Great, Kobe Bryant and answer a question and prayer request from subscribers, Arielle and Donna.
No matter what or where you think you are in life, it is still faithful to give honor to God for His mercy for you and your spouse. It's also not too late to send love.
What To Do While Waiting For Your Marriage To Be Restored!
You are Not Resposible for Their Happiness!
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The prodigal spouse may have chosen to walk their path without you, but that doesn't have to mean you lose who you are as a man or woman. The ego is a tricky trait to reel in if you do not stop to identify its pesky presence in your marriage. Without Divine discernment, your marriage and STAND is at risk of being overtaken by selfishness. The need for one party or the next to feel happiness solely through the actions and favored behavior of others. Standing for marriage is about walking and drawing closer to God in your new life and relationship with Him, being wrapped up in working for the appeasement of another human being will only drain your spirit. Some believers call this "idolizing" your spouse. Together or not, married or not, the bindings of your marriage will face the inevitable stress and pressures of the world. You may be the spouse who handles the pressure better, because you have a deeper and broader understanding that happiness will come and go, and when it does, it generally comes from within-not without. This segment, I talk more about why your partners happiness is not solely your responsibility.
What Does it REALLY Mean to Fight For Your Marriage?
Put Your Foot Down! **Last Episode of 2019**
This segment is our goodbye to 2019, it can be bittersweet, but God makes room for new blessing and blessing we do not expect. Sometimes before we are allowed to move forward, confidence and faith compel us to move away from the old ways and old habits so God can show us what we have been missing out on. To see what he has always had in store for us. The exodus of breaking away from a sinful lifestyle will scare others into wanting to join you, but we all have a journey to walk with God. The prodigal spouse is not exempt from this very course. The only choice left for them and the marriage is choosing to walk together with you or have themselves brought, kicking and screaming to God. Put your foot down in 2020 my friend, enough is enough!
Being A Good Parent While Restoring Your Marriage!
The Standing Husband Who Felt Undervalued
There are men in the world who are more than willing to be anything and everything for their families. They pride themselves on being providers and protectors. These men are connected to the value they hold in the eyes of their wives. The love, respect, and the emotional nurturing they are accustomed to obtaining from their spouses mean the world to them.
But what happens when that emotional connection is shaken?
How do they adjust to the shifting foundations of unknown angst from the wife?
When do they speak up or speak out about the type of love they needed from their partners is no longer sustained?
The answers are actually limitless...but for some, finding a false sense of security in the OW becomes a tempting discovery...
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What if today you only had what you were grateful for?
What if today was your day of restoration?
Let's prepare for any of those things to suddenly happen!
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Saving Marriage With A Depressed Spouse!
Are Standers "Push Overs"?
"How bad did things get during my stand?" Q and A session
Are Relationships More Transactional or Emotional In This Era?
Going Nuclear While Fighting For Your Marriage!
Is There Hope For Restoration Even When Divorce Happens?
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Loc'd Pop Talks: Ways To Increase Your "Me" Time!
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I’m sure if standing your ground has in anyway become a way of life for you, then you have faced days where you become exhausted or worn down. It happens to the best of us. Feeling tired of putting your best self forth will happen from time to time, however there are ways to allow yourself time to rest, regroup and return to your calling.
Listen to this week’s Podcast episode “ Ways to Increase Your ME time!”
Self-Respect, Own It!
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Self-Respect
This subject is another area of development not easily talked about amongst certain groups of people. And it's quite frankly a lost art of the prodigal, ones who are driven by the "chase" for earthly desires.
Whether it is from you or another source here on earth, the prodigal is trapped in a game of looking for attention, they seek it no matter where the attention comes from. They discard themselves and everything they once stood for to obtain it.
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Two Types Of People Who Are The Most Frustrated In Their Stand!
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Ending the Night With God, During Our Marriage Restoration!
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After about two and half years after the whole D-day announcement, Tiffany and I hadn’t quite reconciled with one another, but we shelved the conversation of divorce. Things between us had become a little more peaceful. Our children didn’t fight as much, we worked together to get our mortgage payments under control and our debt collections were consolidated. We even dug deep and asked her mother and stepsister to move out of our home. Looking back now, I’m still shocked by how hard we had to work to make it all happen. Some feelings were hurt-- maybe really hurt-- and hard decisions were made.
To Save Our Marriage, I'm Not Going Anywhere!
It's Just a Distraction, Restoration Is Coming!
Change Your Behaviour and Save Your Marriage!
Every marriage is different, and every #stander has their own walk with God, but the lessons remain the same. Behavior can be about more than actions, it can be about the very thoughts you have about your situation and your emotions. I encourage you to check yourself from time to time and include the Most High in your self-reflection. Standing Spouses have a habit of listing all the things the prodigal spouses do and say towards them or how there hasn't been much communication currently. It's tempting and easy. Both traits and beliefs are weapons the enemy hands us. You don't need to be tempted and if marriage were easy, there would be no records or examples of Standing in the Bible. God saw this and prepared for it. Let Him fight this one for you my friend. While you work on your own behavior and feelings about your marriage.