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MASK OFF RELATIONSHIPS
The fellas end the season with their most vulnerable conversation ever on Giovanni & Baldwin's relationship debate, our own toxic traits as a partner, and fears as a black man. Tap in! 
58:41
June 5, 2021
AKAs & Season Ending Salutations
Season 2 Conversation 10 Clip. 1/4
04:31
June 5, 2021
On Nikki Giovanni & James Baldwin Relationship Debate
Season 2 Conversation 10 Clip. 2/4
18:48
June 5, 2021
Our Most Toxic Trait As A Romantic Partner
Season 2 Conversation 10 Clip. 3/4
15:45
June 5, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Biggest Fear As A Black Man?
Season 2 Conversation 10 Clip. 4/4
19:39
June 5, 2021
THE BALANCING ACT
This week, the fellas get into work/life balance, book smarts or streets, being open about that bag, abstaining from 😺, and more. Jump in!
01:29:01
May 15, 2021
Work/Life Balance In Relationships
Season 2 Conversation 9 Clip. 1/5
18:05
May 15, 2021
Want Book Smarts or Street Smarts In A Woman?
Season 2 Conversation 9 Clip. 2/5
13:16
May 15, 2021
Want To Know How Much I Make, Just Ask!
Season 2 Conversation 9 Clip. 3/5
16:32
May 15, 2021
Shared Hobbies or “Nah, Do You?”
Season 2 Conversation 9 Clip. 4/5
14:02
May 15, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Is It Taboo For A Man To Abstain?
Season 2 Conversation 9 Clip. 5/5
26:22
May 15, 2021
SO SHE CREEPS
On this week's conversation, the fellas get into your cheating, second chances, and what's fair play in a relationship. Jump in! 
01:04:01
April 24, 2021
AKAs And Travel Flow
Season 2 Conversation 8 Clip. 1/6
05:17
April 24, 2021
Is It Cheating If She’s With A Woman?
Season 2 Conversation 8 Clip. 2/6
13:18
April 24, 2021
Second Chances After She Steps Out
Season 2 Conversation 8 Clip. 3/6
15:48
April 24, 2021
Side N****s vs Male Best Friends
Season 2 Conversation 8 Clip. 4/6
15:48
April 24, 2021
Saw Your Homie’s Partner Cheating, You Snitchin?
Season 2 Conversation 8 Clip. 5/6
09:29
April 24, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Why Do Men Move On So Fast?
Season 2 Conversation 8 Clip. 6/6
09:35
April 24, 2021
YOU HAD ME AT “I’LL PAY”
Should a guy pick up the tab for a woman's friends too? Ever dated older? Why is there so many male virgins? Fellas talk about it all. Plus, they answer the Ask A Black Man about having gay friends. Tap in! 
01:36:08
April 10, 2021
AKAs and Vacays
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 1/7
04:43
April 10, 2021
Paying For Her Time, Tab And Her Friends
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 2/7
25:46
April 10, 2021
You Got The Number, Now What?
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 3/7
11:30
April 10, 2021
Both Sides Of The Age Gap In Dating
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 4/7
04:04
April 10, 2021
“1 Out Of 4 Males Are Virgins…” How Sway?
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 5/7
11:13
April 10, 2021
Do It For The Gram
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 6/7
08:10
April 10, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Gay Friends?
Season 2 Conversation 7 Clip. 7/7
30:41
April 10, 2021
GOTTA POCKET FULL OF RUBBERS [FULL CONVO]
And my homegirls do too! Should sex ed be taught to kids? Should women carry condoms? Is it cool to cohabitate? The fellas get into it all—plus, we address who’s voted the most romantic! #TapIn
01:42:53
March 28, 2021
AKAs & Who’s Really The Most Romantic? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 6 Clip. 1/6
05:33
March 28, 2021
Sex Ed For Kids? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 6 Clip. 2/6
14:07
March 28, 2021
Condom Chat & When To Raw Dog [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 6 Clip. 3/6
21:06
March 28, 2021
What If Your Freak Turned To God [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 6 Clip. 4/6
20:38
March 28, 2021
The Romance Off: Jesse vs Dan [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 6 Clip. 5/6
17:40
March 28, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Feelings On Cohabiting? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 6 Clip. 6/6 1. Do you believe in living with your partner before marriage?
23:53
March 28, 2021
QTDNA: QUESTIONS THAT DON'T NEED ANSWERING [FULL CONVO]
This week the fellas discuss: Dating outside our race, being in your partner's top 5 sexual partners, and age limits on marriage. #TapIn
56:54
March 14, 2021
Are You OK With Being A Racial Fetish? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 5 Clip. 1/3
06:46
March 14, 2021
Who’s On Your Mount Rushmore Of Sex? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 5 Clip. 2/3
39:50
March 14, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Putting An Age On Marriage? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 5 Clip. 3/3
10:19
March 14, 2021
THE CURIOUS CASE OF A SIMP [FULL CONVO]
Check out the full convo of Season 2 Conversation 4. Be sure to come back and revisit (and share) your favorite segments of the conversation with the Convo Clips.
01:32:26
March 9, 2021
AKAs, Happy Birthday Jesse & Grown Man Plans [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 4 Clip. 1/6
06:56
March 9, 2021
Simp N*ggas & Bad Sex Education [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 4 Clip. 2/6
16:59
March 9, 2021
Bad Date Interlude [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 4 Clip. 3/6
05:46
March 9, 2021
Dating Someone With Kids or Younger? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 4 Clip. 4/6
09:20
March 9, 2021
Money Talks With Your Partner [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 4 Clip. 5/6
15:09
March 9, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Money, Marriage, Exes & Lock Codes? [Clip]
Season 2 Conversation 4 Clip. 6/6 Do guys wait for marriage based on their age or financial stability? Can you be friends with your ex? Are you cool if your girl is with hers? Would you give your girl the code to your phone?
27:51
March 9, 2021
ALL FACTS, NO FRICTION [FULL CONVO]
Check out the full convo of Season 2 Conversation 3. Be sure to come back and revisit (and share) your favorite segments of the conversation with the Convo Clips.
01:28:54
February 28, 2021
AKA’s & Dealing With Seasonal Depression [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 3 Clip. 1/6
08:36
February 28, 2021
Double Standards Regarding Celibacy [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 3 Clip. 2/6
16:40
February 28, 2021
The World Doesn’t Like Male Virgins [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 3 Clip. 3/6
14:59
February 28, 2021
Is Sex On The 1st Date Still Taboo? [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 3 Clip. 4/6
12:44
February 28, 2021
Ask A Black Man: The Big Chop? [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 3 Clip. 5/6
13:26
February 28, 2021
Ask A Black Man: Flirting And Relationships? [clip]

Season 2 Conversation 3 Clip. 6/6
22:24
February 28, 2021
LOVE, FAMILY & I’M OUT (RESPECTFULLY) [FULL CONVO]
Check out the full version of Season 2 Conversation 2. Be sure to come back and revisit (and share) your favorite segments of the conversation with the Convo Clips.
01:18:22
February 22, 2021
The fellas guide to Valentine’s Day & Womanish Exhibit review [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 2 Clip. 1/5
14:13
February 22, 2021
Do you trip on her solo trip? [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 2 Clip. 2/5
13:55
February 21, 2021
Your family says reconsider, do you stay with her? [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 2 segment. 3/5
22:38
February 21, 2021
Don’t cook, don’t clean, does she still get a ring? [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 2 Clip. 4/5
23:42
February 21, 2021
Pro tips for the ladies [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 2 Clip. 5/5
03:56
February 21, 2021
SEASON 2 CONVO #1: AND WE BACK!
New Year. New Convos. New Format. Tap into the fellas first conversation back together for Season 2! Each conversation will be published in full and in segments. Allowing you to listen all the way through and revisit (or share) the bits and pieces of the convo you enjoyed the most.
01:45:11
February 14, 2021
Intro & catching up [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 1/10
19:43
February 14, 2021
The moral implications of STD disclosure [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 2/10
11:27
February 14, 2021
Birkin Bags [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 3/10
01:35
February 14, 2021
Dan ain’t cheap bih! [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 4/10
01:23
February 14, 2021
The NoFap movement [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 5/10
11:12
February 14, 2021
Sex work and OnlyFans subscriptions [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 6/10
19:21
February 14, 2021
Early lies and the damage they cause [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 7/10
03:31
February 14, 2021
How black men impact black women [clip]
Season 2 Conversation 1 Clip. 8/10
04:45
February 14, 2021
How to lead in a relationship [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 9/10
05:17
February 14, 2021
Nowhere in the Bible [clip]
Season 2 Convo 1 Clip. 10/10
26:57
February 14, 2021
CONVERSATION #6: THEN YOU SHOULD'VE PUT A ___ ON IT
Let’s be real, is honesty always the best policy? Why you ain’t married yet, bruh? And do you take all of the shorties to the SAME spot? Hop into the relationship and dating bag with the fellas with Conversation 6: Then You Should’ve Put A ___ On It [truth, lie, therapist, or ring!]
41:20
December 5, 2020
CONVERSATION #5: POLITICKIN AS USUAL PT 2
In continuation of the two-part conversation special, the guys go on a ledge to discuss the future of labor and answer questions like who should vote, what they'd do if they were president and is America really #1? Jump in. 
49:26
November 19, 2020
CONVERSATION #5: POLITICKIN AS USUAL PT. 1
In part one of the two-part convo special, the fellas switch it up to talk about the election, power of language, gun rights, the history of racism, and Santa's problematic ass. Jump in!
33:41
November 9, 2020
CONVERSATION #4: THE EX FILES
Dipping into a friendship with your ex can be a crazy thing. Listen to the fellas talk through how they handled the ghost from the past. What you think: Can you have a healthy relationship with your ex? Approx. 28 mins
28:10
October 31, 2020
CONVERSATION #3: CELIBACY IS VEGANISM
In this convo, the fellas hit on intimacy or the absence of it. Question, when do you think is the perfect time to communicate lifestyle choices, kids, or other personal details? Tap in.
20:17
October 24, 2020
CONVERSATION #2: WHAT'S IN A MAN?
What does it mean to be a man? Listen to the fellas chop it up about manhood, women making more money than men, what it takes to Birkin a woman, and more. Convo #2: What's in a man? Approx 33 mins
34:09
October 17, 2020
CONVERSATION #1: QUARANTINED BAE
Coronavirus has changed love stories (and dating) forever. What's it really like during these times? Tap in. 
18:18
October 8, 2020