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Unapologetically Anxious Me: Confessions of a Haitian Girl

Unapologetically Anxious Me: Confessions of a Haitian Girl

By Unapologetically Anxious Me Po

Josette “Jo” Ciceron is published author, journalist, and a racial justice and mental health advocate. Having always struggled with anxiety and depression she aims to normalize speaking on these issues as well as what taking place in the society and world around us. Whether it’s love and relationships, politics or pop culture Jo invites you to pull up a seat and join her in her little corner or the world.
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Episode 16: Small-Town Doctor Experience—Seriously WTF?!

Unapologetically Anxious Me: Confessions of a Haitian Girl Jul 26, 2020

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Throuple Truths: Love, Loss & Lessons Learned with Rehman Bhatti

Throuple Truths: Love, Loss & Lessons Learned with Rehman Bhatti

In this episode of the series "Throuple Truths," host Jo dives into the compelling narrative of Rehman Bhatti, a key figure from Peacock TV's "Couple to Throuple." From navigating the complexities of a throuple dynamic to exploring his Latin and Pakistani background's impact on his journey as a gay man, Rehman shares his personal truths with raw authenticity. Join us as we uncover Rehman's reflections on love, loss, mental health challenges, and the power of vulnerability. Get ready for a candid exploration of relationships, resilience, and self-discovery in this revealing conversation.


Mar 26, 202452:14
Throuple Truths: A Conversation with Frank Edward on Love, Race & Polyamory

Throuple Truths: A Conversation with Frank Edward on Love, Race & Polyamory

In this compelling episode of "Unapologetically Anxious Me," host Jo engages in a candid and open conversation with Frank Edward from Peacock's "Couple to Throuple" reality show. Join Jo and Frank as they explore the complexities of love, race, and polyamory, discussing Frank's journey through heartbreak, self-discovery, and resilience. Discover how Frank, a Black gay poly man, embraces the intersectionality of his queerness, race, and poly lifestyle, offering insights that inspire and empower the Black queer community. Through personal reflections and poignant moments, this episode unravels the layers of identity, relationships, and societal acceptance and expectations, leaving you enlightened by Frank's unwavering authenticity and advocacy for love and understanding.

Mar 19, 202401:03:19
Throuple Truths: Navigating Love and Identity with Maximo & Ash

Throuple Truths: Navigating Love and Identity with Maximo & Ash

In this illuminating episode of "Unapologetically Anxious Me," Maximo and Ash get real with Jo--diving deep into their unique journey from Couple to Throuple on Peacock's reality show. Join them as they candidly discuss their experiences as a non-binary couple, navigating polyamory together and apart, and the intricate interplay of gender, race, and culture within their relationships. Through raw and honest dialogue, they shed light on queerness, polyamory, and the imperative for greater education and acceptance. Tune in to discover how they unapologetically prioritize their love and authenticity in a world that often misunderstands.

Mar 13, 202401:11:22
Behind the Profile: Sammie Cimarelli's Journey Beyond Netflix's 'The Circle'

Behind the Profile: Sammie Cimarelli's Journey Beyond Netflix's 'The Circle'

In this episode of "Unapologetically Anxious Me," host Jo delves into a candid and profound discussion with Sammie Cimarelli from Netflix's "The Circle" Season 1. Together, they explore the multifaceted realms of life, motherhood, mental health, and the unique experiences that come with reality TV stardom. Join them as they unravel the layers of Sammie's journey, providing listeners with insights, revelations, and a genuine connection beyond the screens.
Mar 08, 202401:02:55
Nurturing Souls: Jasmine's Garden Tends to Gaza, Spirituality, Online Feuds & More

Nurturing Souls: Jasmine's Garden Tends to Gaza, Spirituality, Online Feuds & More

In this captivating episode of "Unapologetically Anxious Me," host Jo engages in a profound dialogue with the remarkable Jasmine's Garden, a celebrity spiritual consultant. Together, these two dynamic Black women delve deep into discussions on Gaza, mental health, spirituality, and even touch upon online drama involving Nicki Minaj and the Barbz. Jasmine's Garden shares her candid thoughts and personal journey, offering insights that resonate on a spiritual and emotional level. Their connection over shared religious backgrounds adds an intimate layer to this must-watch episode, where souls are bared and truths are shared, making it a truly enlightening and empowering conversation. Follow @Jasminesgarden23 on TikTok & IG | Follow @unapologeticallyanxiouspod on IG
Mar 02, 202401:07:53
Championing Diversity: A Conversation with Shoniqua Shandai from Harlem
Jan 25, 202444:40
EP: Decolonizing Love: Navigating Non-Hierarchical Polyamory with Millie and Nick

EP: Decolonizing Love: Navigating Non-Hierarchical Polyamory with Millie and Nick

Join us on an insightful journey as Millie and Nick discuss the empowering path of Decolonizing Love in this podcast episode. Discover their perspectives on Navigating Non-Hierarchical Polyamory and explore the transformative nature of love beyond societal norms. Open your hearts to a conversation that challenges traditional boundaries and embraces diverse expressions of connection. 🌈💖 #DecolonizingLove #Polyamory #Podcast

Jan 11, 202401:27:58
In Color & Ink: Ronide’s Path to Anxious Black Girl Comics

In Color & Ink: Ronide’s Path to Anxious Black Girl Comics

Dive into the vibrant world of Anxious Black Girl Comics with this podcast episode featuring Ronide, the creative force behind Anxious Black Girl. Join us as we explore Ronide's unique path, unraveling the layers of her artistic journey and the vivid narratives she brings to life through the lens of anxiety, identity, and the powerful medium of ink.

Jan 04, 202439:01
Beyond the Chair: Krystina Callahan’s Path to Healing & Growth PT. 2

Beyond the Chair: Krystina Callahan’s Path to Healing & Growth PT. 2

In this second part of the episode, Jo continues her deep and authentic conversation with Krystina Callahan, a professional hair stylist, business owner, and mom. Join these two friends as they further explore Krystina's journey to and beyond the chair in a heartwarming continuation. Follow Krystina @oghairaddict and be sure to watch the full interview on YouTube!
Dec 26, 202301:44:26
Beyond the Chair: Krystina Callahan’s Path to Healing & Growth PT. 1

Beyond the Chair: Krystina Callahan’s Path to Healing & Growth PT. 1

In this episode Jo goes deep and real with professional hair stylist, business owner and mom Krystina Callahan. The two friends reconnect over a heartwarming conversation into Krystina’s journey to and beyond the chair. Follow Krystina @oghairaddict Watch full interview on YouTube as well!
Dec 02, 202350:34
Sex, Love, & The Circle: A Conversation with Alyssa Ljub

Sex, Love, & The Circle: A Conversation with Alyssa Ljub

On this very special episode of Unapologetically Anxious Me: Confessions of a Haitian Girl, Jo gets into a fascinating conversation with intimacy educator and relationship coach Alyssa Ljub from S4 of Netflix’s The Circle ⭕️ The two get into everything from her time on the show to her incredible career in sexology and so much more! This one will definitely be a fan favorite! Listen, subscribe, share, and tell us what you think! Follow @alyssaljub @unapologeticallyanxiouspod
Nov 21, 202353:23
Shades Unveiled: Exploring Colorism

Shades Unveiled: Exploring Colorism

In this thought-provoking mini episode Jo unmasks the pervasive issue of colorism and its effects on the Black community. Tune in and gain a deeper understanding.
Nov 16, 202307:46
Bisexual, Poly & Married! Oh My!

Bisexual, Poly & Married! Oh My!

In this mini episode Jo talks about what it’s like being a bisexual, polyamorous Haitian American married woman and the challenges that come along with that. Grab your vice and get comfy! This one’s juicy!
Nov 10, 202305:39
Painting Her Reality: The Colorful Life of Frida Kahlo

Painting Her Reality: The Colorful Life of Frida Kahlo

In this mini episode Jo takes on through the history and amazing life of a woman she admires and loves, Mexican artist and revolutionary Frida Kahlo. A huge history connoisseur Jo loves sharing the fascinating stories of resilience and strength she has gained from notable figures like Kahlo. You don’t want to miss this episode!
Nov 01, 202306:39
Forever a Gilmore Girl ☕️

Forever a Gilmore Girl ☕️

In this mini episode Jo takes you on a stroll through one of her childhood tv shows Gilmore Girls! Grab your coffee mugs and order that take out! This is just the sign you need to hunker down and binge watch all the episodes on Netflix!
Oct 27, 202307:14
The Lifestyle, Polyamory & Sex with THE Dr. Jessica O’Reilly!

The Lifestyle, Polyamory & Sex with THE Dr. Jessica O’Reilly!

Okay so we’re all fan-girling over here because on this episode Dr. Jessica O’ Reilly world renowned sexologist, author, speaker and tv host graced us with her presence! Jo has been a huge fan of Dr. Jess for well over a decade and the two have always been supportive of one another over social media. Today she took it a step further and got super real and vulnerable with ya girl! You don’t want skip this one!
Sep 23, 202346:27
Love Making with You featuring Andrelle Oubel
Sep 19, 202330:12
I’m Back! Life Update + Blueface Drama!

I’m Back! Life Update + Blueface Drama!

In this episode Jo catches us up on what’s been going in her life and the reason behind her recent hiatus. Plus she unpacks the media shit storm that is Blueface…get into it!
Sep 17, 202322:36
Embracing Black Joy: Navigating Predominantly White Communities

Embracing Black Joy: Navigating Predominantly White Communities

On this episode, our host Jo, alongside Mariana from Brazil and Hayley from Jamaica, delve into their experiences as Black women living in predominantly white communities in the United States. In a heartfelt conversation, they explore the unique challenges they face and the resilience they embody.

Through personal anecdotes and shared wisdom, these three remarkable women paint a vivid picture of the intricacies of navigating spaces that lack diversity. They shed light on the importance of community support, self-care, and embracing their heritage as sources of strength.

As the conversation unfolds, our guests discuss the concept of "Black Joy" and its significance in their lives. They explore how finding joy in everyday moments, cultural traditions, and personal achievements is an act of resistance against the systemic challenges they encounter. By sharing their stories, Jo, Mariana, and Hayley inspire listeners to celebrate Black Joy and empower others to do the same.

Jun 14, 202328:33
Check-Ins with Jo Series: Ep: 3 "Religious Trauma"

Check-Ins with Jo Series: Ep: 3 "Religious Trauma"

Unapologetically Anxious Me Podcast presents Check-Ins with Jo! A live meet & greet, group discussion series where Jo brings a diversified group of people together to get vulnerable and discuss their mental health as it relates to various social issues that impact BIPOC, LGBTQ, disabled, neurodivergent people and so much more. Jo believes in the power of vulnerability and creating a space where people can take a break from being strong and just be human. Let us know what you think! As always subscribe, share, and follow us IG @unapologeticallyanxiouspod | SUBSCRIBE TO UAM’s new Patreon to WATCH the full episode!
May 22, 202301:07:33
Check-Ins with Jo Series: Ep: 2 “Respectability Politics & Its Impact on Us as Individuals”

Check-Ins with Jo Series: Ep: 2 “Respectability Politics & Its Impact on Us as Individuals”

Unapologetically Anxious Me Podcast presents Check-Ins with Jo! A live & greet group discussion series where Jo brings a diversified group of people together to get vulnerable and discuss their mental health as it relates to various social issues that impact BIPOC, LGBTQ, disabled, neurodivergent people and so much more. Jo believes in the power of vulnerability and creating a space where people can take a break from being strong and just be human. Let us know what you think! As always subscribe, share, and follow us IG @unapologeticallyanxiouspod | SUBSCRIBE TO UAM’s new Patreon to WATCH the full episode!
Mar 31, 202348:29
Check-Ins with Jo Series: Ep: 1 “How Are You Coping?”

Check-Ins with Jo Series: Ep: 1 “How Are You Coping?”

Unapologetically Anxious Me Podcast presents Check-Ins with Jo! A live & greet group discussion series where Jo brings a diversified group of strangers together to get vulnerable and discuss their mental health as it relates to various social issues that impact BIPOC, LGBTQ, disabled, neurodivergent people and so much more. Jo believes in the power of vulnerability and creating a space where people can take a break from being strong and just be human. Let us know what you think! As always subscribe, share, and follow us IG @unapologeticallyanxiouspod | SUBSCRIBE TO UAM’s new Patreon to WATCH the full episode!

Feb 22, 202332:46
You Can Go Home Again...

You Can Go Home Again...

In this episode, Jo and her husband Lanau talk about their recent trip back to Florida--their first one back ever since moving to Minnesota in 2015. The couple get into healed parental relationships, mental health challenges and Tyre Nichols' murder. Tune in for another captivating episode of Unapologetically Anxious Me with Josette Ciceron.
Feb 10, 202333:51
A Conversation with Game Creator Chaz Coggins from Married at First Sight: Unmatchables!
Dec 20, 202237:22
35 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Younger Self

35 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Younger Self

In this episode Jo reflects on all the lessons she’s learned by 35 and what she wishes she could have shared with her younger self. Oh and she’s now on Patreon! Music by Pixabay.
Dec 06, 202248:59
To Be Known Card Game with Mattie B!

To Be Known Card Game with Mattie B!

Mattie B. is back in the building! We play the new “To Be Known” card game by Chaz Coggins and get super real about ourselves.
Music by Pixabay.
Nov 24, 202223:47
Flashback: Please Stop Touching My Hair!

Flashback: Please Stop Touching My Hair!

In this flashback from 2019, Jo breaks down what everyone needs to know about black hair once and for all. She also updates us on how to buy her book, getting hacked on Instagram and well... where to find her now!
Nov 14, 202216:59
A Conversation with Jason Sole About Abolition

A Conversation with Jason Sole About Abolition

Jason and Jo talk about abolition and policing. Jason shares stories of his past and what he hopes to accomplish.
Sep 29, 202201:01:11
S2EP4: Who’s Most Likely To?!

S2EP4: Who’s Most Likely To?!

In a quick round of “Who’s Most Likely To” Jo and her husband Lanau get fairly blunt about their quirks and kinks 😘 Get to know them!
Oct 17, 202108:57
S2EP3: “Unapologetically Anxious Me” THE BOOK is Out Now on Amazon!

S2EP3: “Unapologetically Anxious Me” THE BOOK is Out Now on Amazon!

In this episode Jo sits down with husband Lanau to discuss new book and share selections from the book itself! You don’t want to skip this one!
Aug 06, 202122:43
S2EP2: Road Trip and Quick Chat!

S2EP2: Road Trip and Quick Chat!

Updates on the upcoming book and news from Bachelornation.
Mar 16, 202117:06
Episode 19: They'll Kill You and Say You Enjoyed It

Episode 19: They'll Kill You and Say You Enjoyed It

“If you are silent about your pain, they’ll kill you and say you enjoyed it.” - Zora Neale Hurston. In this episode, Jo and her husband discuss Kamala Harris being Biden’s VP, what it’s like to exist in a perpetual state of racism, growing up seeing the Confederate flag everywhere, Cardi B + Meg Thee Stallion’s new song WAP—the controversy, and why it’s so important to us that we share our stories on this platform.
Aug 14, 202042:13
Episode 18: Okay, Let’s Talk About Kanye...

Episode 18: Okay, Let’s Talk About Kanye...

In this episode Jo and her husband discuss kids going back to school, anxiety in autism parenting, BLM, EVO CEO scandal, Trump on masking, Mary Trumps Tell-All and OF COURSE—Kanye West!
Jul 29, 202050:43
Episode 16: Small-Town Doctor Experience—Seriously WTF?!

Episode 16: Small-Town Doctor Experience—Seriously WTF?!

Jo’s husband recounts the experience he had today, and earlier, with doctors who did not respect his pain.
Jul 26, 202028:02
Episode 17: We Ride Together, We Die Together, Bad Marriage for Life! 🤜🏾🤛🏾

Episode 17: We Ride Together, We Die Together, Bad Marriage for Life! 🤜🏾🤛🏾

Jo and Lanau come to their table to talk about Will and Jada coming to the Red Table. Hear their thoughts on the matter and how it applies to their real-life marriage!
Jul 15, 202017:05
Episode 15: THIS I Know

Episode 15: THIS I Know

Jo talks about a local event at which she had the opportunity to speak, and shares her speech. She also updates us on Bachelor Nation, Nene Leakes, The Real. And then Jo talks about her relationship with the Church.
Jun 24, 202039:28
Episode 14: Small-Town Protests and Getting Real About Candace Owens

Episode 14: Small-Town Protests and Getting Real About Candace Owens

Jo and her husband Lanau discuss how BLM protests have gone over in their small Minnesota town. They also talk about allies, parenthood, the NFL, and Candice Owens.
Jun 10, 202047:37
Episode 13: THIS Is America

Episode 13: THIS Is America

Jo talks about the recent police brutality, the murder of George Floyd by four Minneapolis police officers, the murder of Ahmaud Arbery, the attempted murder of Christian Cooper, white people’s insistence upon using the n-word, America’s history of enslaving people, and the dangers of wearing a mask while black. And the Bachelor.
May 28, 202033:45
Episode 12: Netflix’s #blackAF and Mother/Daughter Relationships

Episode 12: Netflix’s #blackAF and Mother/Daughter Relationships

A review of Black AF on Netflix and thoughts on Mother Daughter relationships.
May 11, 202015:37
Episode 11: The Murder of Ahmaud Arbery

Episode 11: The Murder of Ahmaud Arbery

Jo talks about her reaction to the way the case of the murder of Ahmaud Arbery has been handled. White privilege. #BlackLivesMatter
May 08, 202028:16
Episode 10: Meet the Husband As We Play the Red Table Talk Game!

Episode 10: Meet the Husband As We Play the Red Table Talk Game!

Jo and her husband Lanau go deep into their relationship and play the Red Table Talk Game
Apr 28, 202002:18:55
Episode 9: Listen to My Heart—From Home

Episode 9: Listen to My Heart—From Home

Jo talks about the challenges of sheltering at home with small kids. She also discovered a new reality TV show - Listen to my Heart.
Apr 15, 202014:41
Episode 7: “I Don’t See Color.” Umm? Yes You Do!

Episode 7: “I Don’t See Color.” Umm? Yes You Do!

“I Don’t See Color.” Yes You Do. by Confessions of a Haitian-American Woman living in small-town Minnesota
Feb 24, 202055:52
Episode 6: Humanize My Hoodie - Jason Sole Interview

Episode 6: Humanize My Hoodie - Jason Sole Interview

Jo interviews activist and Humanize my Hoodie co-founder Jason Sole.
Jan 28, 202032:20
Episode 5: White Privilege

Episode 5: White Privilege

Jo and friends discuss white privilege.
Oct 07, 201958:13
Episode 4: Will You Stay in Alexandria?

Episode 4: Will You Stay in Alexandria?

Jo often gets the question "Will you stay in Alexandria?". So, today she talks about raising young children of color in a town with 95% white people. Then, Jo talks about her children's autism diagnoses.
Sep 08, 201924:25
Episode 3: Voices, Immigration, and Me Too

Episode 3: Voices, Immigration, and Me Too

Jo updates you on the local premiere party of her talk show, Voices (check it out on YouTube)and why she finally feels like a part of the community. She also shares good news about connecting with her family. Jo shares what it is like to grow up the child of First Generation Americans, and more specifically what it's like to grow up the child of traditional Haitian parents. She also shares some of her views on the current immigration crisis in our country. At the time of the recording, the news about the child rapist, Jeffrey Epstein's suicide had just broken, so Jo also talks about that in relation to #Me Too and points out that over and over black women are less likely to be believed than white women.
Aug 25, 201936:53
Episode 2: Jo Accepts This Rose

Episode 2: Jo Accepts This Rose

Today, Jo talks about what is giving her (and many of us)anxiety, her thoughts on The Bachelorette, and tells the story of how she and her husband got together.
Aug 10, 201934:49