Unapologetically Weird With Tobare!

Join Tobare for a new segment of "Random Unapologetic Weird Moments", where she recounts unexpected and liberating experiences. In the first episode "Dancing Queen", Tobare shares her story of a 10-second dancing encounter with a stranger at the mall that made her feel alive. Celebrate the beauty of unapologetic self-expression and reflect on your own random, weird moments. What is one moment where you let your weirdness shine through?

Have we become obsessed with romantic relationships? It seems that's what everyone wants to talk about and what everyone wishes for. So much so that we neglect other aspects of our lives? Is Love the only thing that can make our lives complete, or make us the happiest? All this and more in today's episode!

Life is a series of ups and downs, with the occasional detour into daydreams and revenge fantasies. For me, it's not so occasional! Take a dip into my world of some of the most unreasonable yet relatable fantasies.

Family is important, and some of the most important moments of our lives happen there. Not everyone in our family is like us, morally and ethically speaking. We can also love them and still distance ourselves from them. Oftentimes, the people closest to us have beliefs that we don’t advocate for. It may be a simple disagreement in opinion. Occasionally, it may be drastically different beliefs. The best thing you can do is to distance yourself from this person and spend time with people who make you feel loved and encouraged. But when they are family, it might be a bit more challenging. It's not your village people oh, you just might be giving them unnecessary power!

Saving money can be tough. You need to set aside time, stay disciplined and have a plan in place. You also need to know what you're doing. From bad investments to neglect, but when you have a scarcity mindset about money, you easily make these mistakes. Listen to avoid these same mistakes I made. 

It’s Trending, everyone is #softlife, and many are manifesting it. In this adulting journey to become our unapologetic and unconventional selves, is Soft Life really attainable in our economy? Or are we just deluding ourselves? Is it a retirement benefit or can we have it now? Listen in as I discuss with Dara Daniels an Entrepreneur, Digital Content Creator, and host of the “GROWN” podcast as she drops some Gems and unpopular opinions.

As women it can be quite difficult for our voices to be heard. Even in places we least expect to be silenced. However, are we contributing to the situation? Find out how you can take charge of your voice and be heard, in today's episode! #IWD #iwd2022. 

It's the season of love, but no one appears to highlight one love in particular. Do you actually enjoy what you do and what you do for a living? Is this regarded as luxury? The globe is currently experiencing "The Great Resignation," which has been labeled "passion." Is this, however, applicable to third-world countries? Is this something you're currently dealing with? This episode covers everything. Interested in coveying your thoughts take the poll below. 

So it's the end of 2021😊😊😊 You survived! But it's that time when we could easily go down the rabid hole of "what did I accomplish this year". But before you start take a minute to reflect. Today's episode is an encouragement to all my fellow weirdos, especially those who at times feel lonely or lost. This is one's for you. I AM ROOTING FOR YOU!!

"Actually living your life is exponentially different from being alive!!" _Logic

This episode is dedicated to my Beloved Dear Introverts. Introverts live in their own little worlds, but we can become isolated and lonely at times. Introverts, you're going to need PEOPLE!!! Introverts, it's time to GET OUT! Get out of your brain and out of that room by listening to today's episode to learn how I suffered, how I'm still struggling, but how I'm doing what I can to improve, and how YOU can too!!

Welcome to this limited series episode, I'll be discussing personality traits I discovered about myself. It's shocking how much we discover about ourselves. In this first episode, I'll share how I became a people pleaser. Have you ever met one? Are you one? Listen to find out...

As young people, we are under enormous pressure to perform in these high stress times, and we will all break down at some point. Many people find it difficult to assist someone going through the process. We appear to have become emotionally detached, resolving all of our emotions by simply ignoring them. In today's episode, you'll get some pointers on how to be a true friend while also being useful to someone in need.

As kids we looked forward to living it big and being FREE as adults, unknown to the harsh realities that come with adulting. Some of us are more prepared than others, which of the lies to do you relate with?

2020 was a long year, but is 2021 going to be even longer. In todays episode, we're going to talk about all the things that made us survive 2020. From memes to reels, tik-tok challenges to the news, we were thoroughly entertained. With two toes deep into 2021, are things better or worse? Are we a bit more resilient or panicked?

After a brief hiatus, Unapologetically Weird with Tobare is back. Adulting is never easy, with the changing times and seasons, a lot of youths feel lost. No one is an expert in the field called life, (definitely not me). Join me every other week. Let's rediscover who we are, break off the stigmas, rip off the labels and become our unapologetic authentic self!! To find out more about unapologetically weird with Tobare Podcast and more, please click on the website link. Subscribe and anticipate!! 

We often get lost in our busy lives, routines and the unfolding drama in the world. Self awareness can help get back to you, by working on your strengths and weaknesses. Find out how in today's episode.

Have we become so comfortable with the low bars that have been set in society? Is mediocrity really a good choice just if we striving for success? Find out in today's episode how we can break the bars and become more than ordinary!

In this overly sexualized world, sex Education is still an awkward and uncomfortable topic in Nigeria especially between adults and children. Find out why we should be talking about it, when we should be talking about it and to whom? 

We're letting the experts school us, on how to show love to our often stigmatized natural hair. Join Praisejah and quin BARBZ as we discuss the stigmas and struggles of the African hair. 

While we're fighting and standing against racism, are we no different as colorists? 

Music has been there since the beginning of time, helps us get through everything. What influences our taste in music? Can you live without it, find out in today's episode!! 

Have you become a hamster on the wheel when it comes to social media, endless commenting and reposting? Are suffering from FOMO? How can you stop spreading false info? Find out in today's episode!

Despite the negative things associated with social media, why do we feel the need to post personal stuff online? Does our posts reveal something about our personalities? 

Do you think goals are still relevant? Should we just go with the flow? Can goals affect us negatively? Find out in today's episode! 

Why is being weird used in such a negative way? Are you offended when someone calls you weird? Or have you embraced that term? Let's find out! 

Welcome to unapologetically weird with tobare. Join me as we rip off the labels and unravel the stereotypes.