Unliving the Lie
By Candace Ranee
Unliving the LieFeb 10, 2023
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The Aging Narcissist
As narcissists age, they face realities that no amount of denial can change. Do not fall into the trap of hoping that they will mellow out with age. Narcissists only become more abusive, manipulative, hypersensitive rageful and entitled as they get older.
Feb 10, 202333:39
How to Argue with a Narcissist
Non-productive arguments and discussions go hand in hand in a relationship with a narcissist. But you can hold your own and not get sucked into their mind-numbing insanity.
Apr 19, 202232:47
I Never Even Liked Him
Once the initial love-bombing stops the true person emerges and you often realize, much to your horror, that the narcissist is an awful person.
Apr 04, 202231:29
Your Fantasies Fuel Your Addiction to The Narcissist
Your unmet childhood needs are what leave you vulnerable to the narcissist.
Mar 18, 202229:15
You Can't Catch a Narcissist Lying
Lying for a narcissist isn't lying as we know it. Because they live in a simulated reality their very existence is a lie..
Mar 10, 202229:09
How to Argue with a Narcissist
Non-productive arguments and discussions go hand and hand with a narcissistic relationships but you can hold your own with them and not get sucked into their insanity.
Mar 03, 202233:47
Why the Narcissist is a Liar
The narcissist and the sociopath lie because that is who they are. They are empty people with no sense of self and must lie for survival.
Nov 21, 202055:40
Sexual Abuse & Substance Use Coercion.
Many abusers force drugs and alcohol on victims to keep them dependent on them and in fear. They also deliberately sabotage the victims recovery. unlivingthelie@gmail.com unlivingthelie.com
Nov 17, 202056:52
Stealing Your Identity/Gaslighting Pt. 2
Sociopaths and narcissists use many insidious forms of gaslighting to steal your identity. They assign motivation to your actions that are the opposite of your truth. They attempt to sell you a lie and rip the core of who you are away from you. unlivingthelie@gmail.com
Nov 06, 202057:13
Its Not You its Your Brain Chemistry, Trauma Bond part 2
Going no contact when you break up with a narcissist or sociopath is very important to your recovery. The brain produces addictive chemicals during an abusive relationship and going no contact is the only way to break the addiction aka trauma bond. www.unlivingthelie.com unlivingthelie@gmail.com
Oct 24, 202048:26
Hoovering You Back into the Abusive Relationship
Sociopaths and Narcissists will employ any tactic they can to get a victim back once they've left the relationship. www.unlivingthelie.com unlivingthelie@gmail.com
Oct 15, 202041:57
How to Deal with Anger After Domestic Violence
It's normal to feel anger after you've been abused. Many survivors fail to process this anger once they've left the toxic person. unlivingthelie@gmail.com www.unlivingthelie.com
Oct 06, 202052:09
It's Not Love its a Trauma Bond
Our brain goes through major chemical changes during prolonged periods of abuse. The intoxicating pull a victim feels for the abuser is actually a trauma bond and not love. unlivingthelie@gmail.com www.unlivingthelie.com
Oct 02, 202053:58
Moving the Goalposts
Sociopaths and Malignant Narcissists are never satisfied. They constantly change expectations just to set you up for failure.
Sep 26, 202045:46
Narcissistic/Sociopath Rage
Narcissists and sociopaths have very fragile egos..they will fly off into malicious anger anytime they perceive a wrong against them. These rages are very dangerous and can be violent
Sep 23, 202043:59
A Message to My Abuser
Message to my abuser
Sep 16, 202029:11
Projection and the Blame Game
Narcissists have a very poor sense of self so they use projection and blame as a way to avoid their own negative traits.
Sep 12, 202045:41
Financial Abuse
Financial abuse is anytime your abusive partner uses money to control you. They will berate your spending habits, give you an allowance or take complete control over your money and not allow you any financial freedom
Sep 05, 202037:30
Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a ta tactic used by the narcissist to gain power and make a victim question their reality. www.unlivingthelie.com
Aug 18, 202044:56
Triangulation Torture
To make you feel insecure and powerless a narcissist or sociopath manfactures love triangles with exes, friends family or colleagues. www.unlivingthelie.com
Aug 17, 202042:16