Urban Spinster

Follow Your Instincts!

An episode of Urban Spinster

By Sadia Sanders
Celebrating the SINGLE life without judgement and redefining the word “Spinster”
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Celebrating the SINGLE life without judgement and redefining the word “Spinster”

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Get Rid Of Things That No Longer Serve You 📦
Sometimes we hold onto things we no longer need in our lives and don't do us any good.  Let's unpack while my clay face mask dries! To watch my Facemask Monday videos, subscribe to my YouTube channel. 📺
November 5, 2019
Tyler Perry's "Sistas" - Pilot Review 📺
I break down this 1st episode given my experiences with these types of relationships the ladies find themselves in.  Subscribe to the YouTube channel - Urban Spinster 
October 26, 2019
Home Sweet Home
Buying property is stressful enough. Now let’s add selling another to the mix and having to be on alert for fuckery at the same time!
October 3, 2019
Happily Divorced 🧘🏾‍♂️
My guest, comedian Anderi Bailey aka Mr. Amen, joins me to talk about why he is happily divorced. But would marry again for a 3rd time.
August 22, 2019
A Young Black Man in Love ♥️ 🤵🏾
My guest on this episode is a young Black man who loves love! We talk about why he values relationships, the mistakes made and his path to being better.
August 15, 2019
Single at Seventy
My guest and former 8th grade teacher joins me to talk about why she remained single after having her children.
August 7, 2019
“We Gotta Do Better!”
When people acknowledge that they are falling short there is rarely an attempt to actually “do better”. So why say it out loud? 😩
July 31, 2019
Insecurity Is Not Cute! 🙅🏽‍♀️
Attention isn’t always positive and sometimes not even about you. On this episode of the podcast I talk about how insecurity signs may be missed during the initial stage of a relationship.
July 5, 2019
Why Do People Choose To Pay Rent? 🏘
My guest, Credit Repair Expert Larry Baxter and I discuss why people may choose to rent vs own their home. He dispels first time buyer myths also giving tips on how to boost your credit score.
April 16, 2019
Petty Is As Petty Does 🤷🏽‍♀️
A woman messed around for 25 years waiting on her estranged husband to go half on the divorce! Now that is petty.
April 11, 2019
Being Authentic
Single women are often advised to change things about themselves in order to attract and marry a man. But being fake is not sustainable over time. Take a listen to this latest episode and tell me what you think.
March 8, 2019
Financial Manipulation 💵⛓
On this episode I address financial manipulation by a spouse and the need to have emergency savings in case things go bad.
February 21, 2019
Girls on Fyre 🔥 and other docs we like.
My guest, blogger Laura Reid and I discuss our thoughts on why scammers like Billy McFarland are so successful and also delve into other documentaries we enjoyed.
January 25, 2019
Bosses...Get Some Health Benefits! 🏥
Many entrepreneurs don’t have health insurance. It’s expensive, especially when you’re just starting out. But there are ways to cover yourself in the event of an unforeseen illness or injury.
December 4, 2018
Closure is a trap! 🕳
When relationships end, sometimes without warning, we want to know where it went wrong. But is that really the best thing for our emotional health?
November 9, 2018
Push Back
It seems that women are always having to push back against people that seek to take advantage of us, or who are just being uncooperative. Do men have the same issue?
October 13, 2018
Force or Choice?
Caribbean Top Model contestant says she was “forced” to chemically straighten her hair. But wasn’t this a choice? When faced with an ultimatum we either stand by our convictions or concede.
September 30, 2018
Our Current Racial Climate & Cults
I am fascinated with cult documentaries. Why people join them and how the leaders get members to stay. I think today’s racial climate may lend itself to the rise of another group that lures those seeking answers with promises of solving our communities issues.
September 14, 2018
4th Time’s The Charm? 💍🎩
My guest Dr. Alvin Abston talks to me about being married 3 times and still having a desire for the right wife.
August 16, 2018
Fatih Without Works 🙏🏾⚒
We often hear that when praying for something, our “works” are required in order to make it happen. But sometimes we don't wait to find out exactly what that is.
August 2, 2018
What Would You Do For Love? 💘💕
To what extremes would you go in order to find love? 🤔💘
June 19, 2018
Are You Dating A Sex Offender?
My guest on this episode of the podcast is Dr. Alvin Abston, a California State Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider. We are discussing what makes a person become a sexual predator, possible signs and tips to help in your relationships.
June 13, 2018
Prom is Primetime for Pregnancy! 🕺🏾💃🏽
The rite of passage for graduating high school seniors is attending the prom. It could also mean having their first sexual experience.
June 9, 2018
Follow Your Instincts!
When going against what you know works for you, it results in regret. 😩Listen to my story about a recent visit to the dentist. 😷
May 25, 2018
Dating With Debt 💵🙄🤦🏾‍♀️
How do you feel about dating someone who has a lot of debt? Whether consumer, personal or investment debt?
May 17, 2018
Tips For The Single Men 👊🏽
Fellas these dating tips will save you money, time, heartbreak and maybe even your life!
May 9, 2018
Is It Really Gold Digging? 💰
If a woman prefers to date men who are financially stable, is she a gold digger or simply protecting herself and her assets? 🤔
May 2, 2018
Family Secrets 🤫
When children are raised in a secretive environment, it often results in adults who lie. Sometimes the adult continues to keep their family secrets out of shame.
April 24, 2018
Why Successful Women Date Down👇🏾
Why do you think successful, educated women , date men who are not on their level? Here are my thoughts...
April 11, 2018
Bail Out Policy 👩🏽‍🚒👩🏽‍🏭👮🏽‍♀️💸
Does your significant other seem to always need rescuing?
April 5, 2018
Can Men & Women Just Be Friends?
Do you think that two people of the opposite sex can be in a strictly platonic relationship? Hear my thoughts on this subject
March 29, 2018
Why Do People Stay In Violent Relationships?
Violence is never ok. What makes some people stay in abusive relationships?
March 21, 2018
Beware of Shady Contractors 🛠😈
Shady repairmen always seek to price gauge customers. Especially the ladies. Here is my latest experience and how I avoided paying too much.
March 6, 2018
Cultural Dynamics
Our culture plays a huge role in how we manage relationships. Are you being true to yourself or trying to please others?
February 22, 2018
Researching Your New Home
Whether buying or renting a new home, there are some things to consider that you may not have as a single person without children. Here are 3 tips.
February 14, 2018
“The Money Talk” 💵💏
When is it appropriate to talk about finances with your significant other and how should we go about it? Larry Baxter of Elite Financial, LLC helps us figure it out.
February 9, 2018
Give Yourself Permission 👌🏾
Singles are often told that we are too picky. Knowing what you like and what you don’t is healthy! No one can live your life.
February 1, 2018
Married Men 👀💍🎩
Why is it that many married men look outside of their relationships?
January 26, 2018
Single Ownership 🏡
Ladies, would you allow your new spouse to move into your home and add them to the deed? 🤔
January 5, 2018
December 30, 2017
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December 23, 2017
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December 7, 2017
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November 22, 2017
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November 21, 2017
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November 16, 2017
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November 9, 2017
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November 1, 2017
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October 19, 2017
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October 12, 2017
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