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 DeFINE Feminine

DeFINE Feminine

By Jestine Jonel
DeFine Feminine is a podcast for the awakened beings of the world to learn how to navigate life from a bold yet compassionate perspective. The podcast host, Jestine Jonel shares her most candid moments through her journey towards womanhood with her audience along with offering useful tips, routines, and the motivation to prioritize the stability of your own well being.
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Attachment Styles With Keyz
 Our special guest Keyz, is the owner of FlossLLC ; a luxury jewelry brand and she was born and raised in my hometown Mount Vernon,NY. I had the pleasure of sharing my platform with her to discuss a topics that define her experience as a woman. In this episode, we uncover what attachment styles in partnership, friendships and how we identify with reciprocity. As we continue to experience life and evolve, we learn that we are never truly defined until we have fulfilled our mission on earth, so it was beautiful to capture this moment in real time. 
47:23
July 31, 2022
Wise Words From A Chatty Gemini
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Learning how to let go is an on going process at every stage of life. In this episode Jestine discusses various topics that surrounds around finding innovative ways to enhance the human experience without involving unnecessary baggage. It’s Gemini season so buckle up for the montage of thoughts that aroused through this session.
28:12
June 14, 2022
Coexisting In A Sociopathic Society
In this episode, I discussed the influx of crime that has occurred in NYC and some of the reasons that has led the citizens the big Apple astray. Unfortunately, living in a big city such as NY has caused people to loose their minds due to the inflation and the lack of resources to help maintain a balanced environment.
16:37
April 12, 2022
New Body
In order to grow you must be comfortable with the reality of what growth comes with. There may be some discomfort and some loss through the process but the goal is to adjust to the newness that is presently showing up in your reality. In this episode I discuss my experience gaining weight and how I was able to find peace and comfort in my new body. As Onika Miraj once said “Fuck up a cheque on my body”, this is your que to treat yourself to some jeans or a dress that makes you feel sexy, you’ll make the money back girl just ENJOY YOUR LIFE.
15:05
March 15, 2022
In Hopes Of Being A Social Media Influencer
From January 18th- February 9th,2022 I’cove documented my real-time thoughts on how detrimental the life of aspiring to be an influencer can be. I took it pretty hard at first because I felt like it was based on a lack of support but it turned out that who I am presently no longer can support the old version of self any longer. I decided to keep my authentic thoughts on how this rocky journey has been along with a few perspectives that should be brought up more in the public eye. This episode highlights the reality of allowing the flow of life to guide you to a path that no longer feels forced or unrecognizable to your soul.
44:31
February 10, 2022
Are You From New York Even ?
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New York has yet to be the same ever since 2020 began and returning after relocating to sunny Texas, was like ripping off a old and nasty bandaid. In this episode, I discussed my thoughts on how it felt to be back in my hometown and to visit all of my old stomping grounds from a new perspective.
19:51
December 29, 2021
The Discrepancy Within Broken Homes, Broken Hearts, Broken Women
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In today’s episode, I’ll be discussing my experience with sexual assault and how I’ve been able to regain my power after an unfortunate event. Along with how the lack of empathy within the home of a single mother can cause young women to seek love and comfort elsewhere because of the inbalance between the masculine and feminine energy in the household.
29:16
December 20, 2021
“What’s Next?”
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The process of getting your life together comes in cycles and it looks and feels different Everytime. In this episode, I’ll be discussing the importance of taking time for self to solidify the things that are high priority which is a sense of security, finding balance with your loved ones, and indulging in things that once was fulfilling before life came and bit you in the ass.
23:11
December 17, 2021
You DON’T need your parents approval to live for YOU: STORYTIME Edition
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Validation is a way of letting someone know we understand him or her. Being understood is an essential ingredient to feeling connected and supported. But when happens when you don’t feel connected nor supported by someone you’re seeking validation from? As an only child, I’ve spent a majority of my lifetime seeking validation from my parents who consistently contributed to my mental instability. The moment I decided to pivot from the need to be validated, I quickly realized it was no longer a necessity. In this episode, I discussed the pros and the cons of coexisting without having a cohesive relationship with your parents as an adult.
32:54
November 21, 2021
Imposter Syndrome vs The Harsh Reality of Success
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The paranoia that exsists in the mind once you reach new levels of success is unbearable when you’re an assertive being. As humans we aspire to make it out of our hometown to be something bigger and better and unfortunately your audience may not applaud you on your way up. In this podcast, I discussed my personal experience with paranoia and finding new ways to utilize my energy with things that allows you to preserve your InnerG for your greater good.
18:42
November 18, 2021
The Virtual Warping Of Realities : The Baby Mama Syndrome
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In this episode, I’ll be discussing the exchange between Jayda Wayda and @Thecourtneyc on TikTok after Courtney decided to share her opinion on motherhood/success. Unfortunately, we live in a day and age that speaking your mind about what you aspire to be is frowned upon especially when it’s not culturally common. Jayda responds to the young lady by telling her to “be black” which can be argued on various pretenses because GURL :) . I also discussed other blueprints of being successful after an unfortunate relationship in the media with the rise of Saweeties “Icy” brand and how influential you can be by creating a narrative that isn’t degrading towards your public character.
34:02
November 16, 2021
A Full Circle Moment : Scorpio Nu Moon
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This New Moon will force us to become real with ourselves—Scorpio is all about getting to the core of issues and understanding our authentic truths. In this podcast episode I decided to share a Storytime about when I gave my power away to those who truly didn’t deserve access but I’m also grateful for those experiences because it helped shaped me as a woman with high standards at this present time. Sometimes we are ashamed of who we were because it doesn’t look like who we currently are but it’s all so necessary to experience the highs and lows of life.
13:18
November 11, 2021
Unpopular Opinions On Female Friendship Dynamics + Girl Chat ft. Pietty
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Today I welcomed my guest @iampietty to discuss a few trending topics intertwined with finding new ways to live a fulfilling life overtime. Our friendship has taken lots of twists and turns like any ordinary relationship but finding a neutral place of understanding has helped us to come to terms with our differences after 5+ years of friendship.
53:43
November 02, 2021
Embracing Lilith InnerG : Gemini Edition
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Lilith is an extremely raw, primal energy that is hard to keep under control. With my Lilith in Gemini, I often tend to unintentionally say things that others misinterpret, or they find offensive. In this episode I’m speaking on the reality of having insecurities that were not acknowledged from my childhood which has put a heavy expectation onto those who I surround myself with as of today. Finding oneness within self is vital in this journey and it takes you looking at the conflicts that you’ve experienced and creating space for growth. This level of awareness helps to bridge the gap between the self and your environment. Ultimately, to arrive at true oneness, you’ll need to do a lot of inner work and self-reflection.
47:47
October 15, 2021
The Pros & Cons of Social Media ft. Rich
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Social media has became the go-to place for daily news, fashion trends/entertainment, etc. Many people have been able to build their own platforms off of the most popular apps today where they no longer have resort to working the traditional 9-5 jobs just to get by. Although there are many negative effects of being online, there are many ways that you can make it a tool to help you access others who share the same interest as you. On this podcast my guest and I will discuss our views on how social media has effected or impacted our lives in different ways over time.
55:22
October 08, 2021
Robotic Body Influencers + Building Your Confidence IRL
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How do you feel when you scroll down your timeline and everyone is “flawless”? Perfect hair, nails, body shape, ect. Everyday women battle the temptation of getting cosmetic surgery in order to look like the baby mamaz/ Insta baddies of our time and it’s becoming an epidemic within our minds. The constant replicas of bodies is creating a disconnect between real life goals vs “ good enough to take pics” goals. I believe that if you are influenced by those who do not live the same life as you, you’re doing yourself a disservice. Love on you at ALL stages of your journey and surround yourself with those who influence you to feel great within the skin you’re in!
21:36
September 30, 2021
Shifting Timelines: The Power Of Your Intuition
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Soul Contracts - Caroline Myss Establishing a Nu sense of individuality with purpose from love. In this episode I was able to distinguish the difference between who I was within two different timelines and how it has influenced my perspective who I am vs who I was in survival mode. Utilizing your intuition is your super power from God,don’t take it for granted when you’re being asked to transition.
34:12
September 19, 2021
Thoughts on Being A Good Person
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Random thoughts about what it means to be at peace with self after consciously being a good person. I’ve always felt like it was blessing and a curse but with everything you do consciously you will have to deal with the turbulence of living no matter how much you try to avoid it.
16:41
August 20, 2021
Becoming your own Therapist
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Becoming your own therapist doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re bypassing the licensed professionals, but being able to self heal is a great tool to be self sufficient. Train your mind to be aware of why you feel uncomfortable and how you can find a way to be more loving towards self and others around you. Everything isn’t all about comfort it’s all about awareness and acknowledging your truth. Unfortunately, my audio was alittle fuzzy in this episode but the message was necessary so enjoy 😂.
34:02
August 16, 2021
Entitlement + Thoughts On Egotistical Parenting (Bonus Audio)
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In this episode I had the opportunity to speak on the effects of unproductive parenting skills as well as how being entitled effects relationships/friendships.
27:17
August 14, 2021
Cancer New Moon Reflections
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After a beautiful Russian cream blunt, I decided to get on the mic and talk my shit. This Cancer Moon has put a full stop to things that I allowed to hinder me for years. Hopefully you’re currently indulging in self care and loving on your inner child right now, we al deserve that love that we weren’t able to get in the past. Now is the time to give back to you and to nurture the parts of you that needs protection during this time.
15:34
July 12, 2021
Clock Out
Learning how to surrender to the divine has been one of the most challenging tasks during this journey but it has allowed a lot of things that no longer serves a purpose to fall apart. This podcast is all about making room for greater things to come into your life once you allow things to play out exactly the way they need to even when it’s something sacred to you, you must know how to live without attachment to things that lowers your vibration.
13:41
July 07, 2021
Current Waves
3am thoughts on experiencing loss in business and hope. Dreaming is only one portion of success it also takes support and will power and I’ve given up on my ability to always be so resilient even through the toughest crowds. Blocking others out and focusing on what you’re trying to build works in many cases but for me I truly yearn the support and love that I provide for others.
20:55
June 15, 2021
RIP Kewpie
My thoughts on loosing my childhood pet. The loss of a pet is often overlooked because of you haven’t felt it you probably wouldn’t understand the true meaning of friendship. I didn’t think this would hurt especially years after giving her away. This brought up so many memories that I almost forgot..
07:34
June 15, 2021