I'm Coach Vee, the New Love Strategist with New Thing Life Coaching. I'm a certified Life/Singles, Dating, and Relationship Coach. I help Christian women experience freedom from religion in order to successfully date in modern times, prepare for kingdom marriages, and overall win at love! And that's God's love, self-love, and real love!
OK, we have looked at the "negatives" but now about the positives. At the end of the day, we want to know what they want and like. And I have that info for you, ladies. Tune in to the final installment of this series. Sorry it was cut short. You can tune in to the live video I shared on the FB page.
Why, why, WHY are we dealing with men and their inconsistent efforts in 2020? Sir, are you interested or nah? What's it gonna be?
Ladies, tune into part 3 of The Truth about Men series so we can see why men tend to be a bit inconsistent and how to handle it.
Let's finish up this Single & Frustrated series. Because I have something to say about something that women are TERRIBLE about in the early stages of a POTENTIAL relationship. There's a reason we end up more and more frustrated, speaking negatively over our single season. Tune in because I have a lot to say!
One thing I know is that the past holds the answers for many single women who are frustrated and have made repeated mistakes with the men they chose. Let's examine a few things if you're sure about something different in the future. Tune in for episode 3 of Single and Frustrated!
We've made it to the end. I've given you tips, and more when it comes to Online Dating Help, but there are some things you really need to know when it comes to going forward. So before you create the profile and start swiping, grab this last bit of info, OK? 2 keys get you in the door, yes. But the outcome is based on one single word...
Women often walk away from dating apps prematurely because they're unsure how to handle communication, boundaries in communication, online conversations, etc. Let me help you. Tune in for part 2 of Online Dating Help
Some are still locked down and quarantined. Some have had their entire lives change in an instant. People are sure to check on the married folks, the elderly, those with kids, etc. But what about the women who are single? Those who were trying to start a dating life? Those who had just met someone they were interested in getting to know?
Don't let the lockdown keep you down.
So there's this guy... And he's saying all the right things to have you interested and really feeling him. Now you're trying to figure out if you should continue or not. Tune into this latest podcast. Because I want to give some green flags on things to look for. Let's stop being so negative, seeking out the red flags!
As we come to the end of the Breakout series, there's one final step. We've addressed household, habits/traits, ideal relationship and guy, and our "list." Well, none of those things will help you breakout and meet someone if you're doing it from the couch. How do you get approached and apply what you've learned? Because, sis? It's time to navigate!
Be honest! We all have some kind of list when it comes to what we're looking for in a partner. The thing is that we've switched up the order of importance when it comes to these things. Add to that, many of us don't offer what we're demanding. I want to teach you about 3 things regarding that list of yours as you're on the path to BREAKOUT!
Many of us have that idea of who we'd like to be in love with and eventually marry. The thing is, have you started your transformation process? You've got to become the person that the person you're looking for is looking for! As we continue on with Breakout, let's talk about your ideal mate and what your future relationship would look like according to you.
In order to breakout from a bad habit, you have to acknowledge one is present. Last week, we examined our households. Today, I want to look at how your mom, dad, childhood, etc can have an influence on your relationships and unhealthy patterns. And how you might be repeating cycles instead of breaking them...
When we stop and take the time to examine our past and our households from childhood, we'll learn that so many answers are there based on why we make unhealthy choices now with men, sex, relationships, money, and truly, in general. Imagine still being single because you haven't cut the cord from your mama, or because you haven't divorced your daddy. Tune in for the new series, Breakout! It's time to be free for real!
Believe it or not, this is the most important aspect of a relationship. It's foundational, and is even more important than love. Let's talk about why it's important for it to exist and why this should be a part of your prayer regarding your future bae.
Yes, this should be a given. But even with these 2 key components to a healthy relationship, there are mistakes made in the single, dating, and relationship stages. How so? Well, there's loyal to a fault, one-sided relationships, oversharing, lack of discretion, and so much more. Let's talk about this as we work on our love goals!
Friendship and fun should be a love goal of yours. When it comes to a happy, healthy, and holy relationship, this is very important for many reasons. The questions arise when the "cool, chill" woman often gets friendzoned, or when you want to be friends first but aren't sure how to keep it romantic. And what about when in an actual relationship? Why have psychologists determined that friendship and fun is so important? Let the New Love Strategist help you out!
Alright ladies, we've made it to the end of the Intimacy series. What if... all that I gave over the past 5 weeks weren't "stages" after all? What if wordplay was used to get you to see something about your inner self? Let's talk about the greatest aspect to any intimate relationship.
A lot of the mistakes women make in stages 1-4 are because they're rushing to get to this stage. And what's interesting is that those that make it here, fail to do one simple thing. Tune in to learn the 5th gradual stage to intimacy!
Intimacy. Everyone wants it, but not many understand it. It gets confused, used interchangeably, misquoted, and so much more. There are 6 gradual stages to it, but we often try to cram so much into this first stage (big mistake)! Let's talk about it!
"Marriage isn't something you can prepare for" is a response I've heard some say when I tell women to prepare while they pray. With so many responses like that, it made me wonder. I had to go back to what God spoke to me, and I needed to say THIS. Tune in!
How easy it is to want a date, do online dating, put our twists and definitions on what dating even is, the whole 9. But I listen to some women talk and I've realized something. Many women need to take the time to ask themselves if they're even date-able.... Tune in and find out what I mean!
So here's the thing... I've noticed there are a wide variety of reasons Christian women are remaining single longer and longer (against their actual desires). Imagine you're the one getting in your own way? Let's talk about this!
I know that where you are right now might be a little bit rough. And I know you might be tempted to walk out, but what if it's actually going to be worse on the other side? What if you're making the biggest mistake by even thinking about leaving? I need you to stay put and press in! Tune in for Mountain Moving Monday!!
God is doing a new thing in your life. Perhaps you're unable to realize it because you're expecting Him to bless you the way He did it before. Forget the former things and don't dwell on the past. Look at the new thing that He is doing!
Can you say that you're actually ready for all that you've been asking for and all that you've been praying for? Are you prepared for the promise? I look at Isaiah 40:31 and there are 2 words in particular that stand out to me. Let's talk about them!