Freedom Reigns

It doesn't take years, several seasons, certain circumstances, etc to truly get to know someone. Stop believing what you were told. Tune in for great tips and strategies that will help you with dating and relationships!

Can I motivate you on today ladies? Based on a few things Paul said, I want to speak on being single. 

Time to change your life, household, relationships, finances, etc!

Let's chat about how the past can keep you in cycles of dysfunction! 

Did you know that there's literally something going on in presently in the world that stems from impatience between a major couple in the Bible? Tune in and be motivated!

Is your mom disrupting your love life, unbeknownst to you?

I'd love to talk about the story of Leah, because I know that many single women are exactly where she was!

What are you thinking that's getting in the way of you meeting your PERMANENT bae?

Because single ladies have to understand that leaving God out in THIS season is DANGEROUS!

Yep, it's that serious. Tune in to find out more!

Can I motivate you on today, because your current heart isn't getting you anywhere...

Ladies, your financial status: reveals the love you have for yourself determines how you date affects your self-esteem Let's talk about it!

Because your self-love is based on your boundaries, social circle, and who has access to you!

Your future, next, and best relationship is all dependent upon your ability to love deeper. Is this something you can put into practice? 

Because mental health and emotional stability are a part of self-love!

Single ladies, let's do better!

Who's winning? Because there can only be one winner. And unfortunately, I see a lot of single women who are losing right now for one reason. Tune in!

Too many of you are following your hearts in love, business, and more. And it's why you're getting NOWHERE except frustrated. Can I motivate you on today?

Black women and the struggles they encounter when it comes to romance. Let's talk about it!

I genuinely want to know. And I want you to evaluate, get honest, and make the necessary changes. Don't get in your way when there are PROMISES of BLESSINGS for OBEDIENCE! 

#newmotivation I want to motivate my single ladies on today to GET TO WORK!

A lot of you know what you want from dating. As in how you want to be pursued. But when It doesn’t happen, you end up frustrated with dating altogether. But setting the tone early on is on YOU! Otherwise dating will never go the way you want!

Can I provide some #newmotivation for you on today?

As a single woman, you'd be amazed at how transforming your thoughts can transform your love life...

You just have to know how to work it and what you're doing. And I want to help you with that. Because maybe in 2022, I'll see a wave of women who are going to win all because they stopped demonizing that which they did not know how to handle.

Single sis, don't be the weapon forming against yourself causing you to not prosper with a good man!

It's time to stop dismissing what He's spoken, sis!

Ladies, you have to WORK while you wait, OK?! I can't stress this enough. Nothing comes to those who are inactive. 

Single ladies, pause before you make a move. Now is not the time to make a decision.

I might step on some toes with this one, but I'm cool with that. Domestication encompasses so much. The thing is, so does the Word. We are women of the Word. And the Bible is clear when it comes to godly wives. Tune in!

I want to motivate you on today, single ladies! STAY PUT! Something that spoke to me from Genesis 26, I HAD to share! Because some of you are all over the place trying to follow the fruit instead of planting and producing your own. What do I mean? I mean staying put and doing the work, to see how God can bless you THIS YEAR with the desires of your heart!

A lot of times I hear single women mention how it's going to take a certain man to put them in their place. Interesting. Can we talk about the logic behind this and whether or not this is beneficial or detrimental? I'll even share my truths...

I'm going to explain myself, don't worry. Because I know that many women want to know, "why would I NOT be concerned about wasting time with dating?!" Stop seeing everything as time wasted, ladies!

Can we discuss it? And why "we're" told/taught to settle?

Can we talk about that man living rent free in your head (perhaps unbeknownst to you)? Because he has to GO!

Time to switch your perspective. Because 2022 is going to be a SIGNIFICANT year for many of you!

What are the things you think about? Can they perhaps be interfering with your love life? Tune in!

Can we discuss your past, childhood, and household? Because it can lead to why you're still single in this season...

Can we talk about your list? Compatibility myths? "The one?" These are all things that can contribute to your singleness. Tune in!

Do you know what your attachment style is? Ever considered how it may be contributing to you being single? Tune in!

Are you a bit frustrated with your single season? Ready to meet that good man you've been praying about and for, but nothing yet? Know that how you wait matters. Tune in for New Motivation!

A healthy relationship can't thrive without forgiveness. And this is a skill that must be put into practice while dating. Let's finish this series off!

One way to show love? Compassion! But how does this look in romantic relationships? Especially in early dating stages?

Alright. This is a component commonly missed, and not understood. No pun intended. Let's explore the importance and how we can implement it now even in dating. 

Another reason people struggle with dating today is lack of respect. But let me talk to the women for just a second on this...

So, there's something else you need to implement NOW. Even if you're single. Because Kingdom Love is a mindset, first and foremost. If you're currently dating or wanting to hop in the dating scene, PLEASE tune in to this first!

Many of us want love, but we don't even know how to be love, give love, see love, and receive love. But I want to help with that. Because Kingdom Love is selfless, and often times we're not doing it right. Tune in for pt 2 of this series!

Time for a new series. Kingdom Love: The Ultimate Goal Let's examine ways in which you need to show love to men even in your singleness. 

Can we talk lovers, friends, and everything in between?!

Tell me how you REALLY feel about online dating and I'll give you a solution in the form of 2 strategies and 1 word that will drastically change your online dating experience. 

Man, this is a big one! Because we want love, but have values and our women after God's heart. When do we disclose certain things to men, though? Is there such a thing as too soon? Yes! Tune in!

As we close out this series, I want you to examine what's in your heavy bags that you're carrying around while dating. It's time to unpack so you can travel on the journey to love. 

Some of us think we're going to bed alone, but we're really not. Let's talk about it!

It's hard to escape the past when your abandonment issues are still present. Wait, do you even suffer from these? Let's talk!

It's hard to move on when you're still affected by the pain and hurt from an ex. It will determine the way you handle datingships going forward, even. So let's figure out how it gets in the way and how to handle it.

The past isn't the past if you're still living in it, sis. So let's talk about your household, caregivers, mommy, daddy, etc. You may have an attachment style that's interfering with your love life. Tune in!

Time to close out the DWI series as we look at the keys to successfully dating as a Christian woman.

Having discernment and using wisdom in romantic relationships is beneficial in ways we could never imagine. But what does that look like? How do we discern the motives of a man we're interested in? Let's talk!

How to pray effectively when it comes to matters of the heart.

Do you know how to handle a new man that you're interested in? Do you know how to test the fruits to see what kind of man he is? This new series is here to help!

I know, you were told to walk in the spirit of wife and that you're already a wife when he meets you. Let's talk about this as we finish up this series, Myths Keeping Christian Women Single!

Another myth we need to explore. Because many single women believe God has them hidden and there is NO truth to this.

Something that often gets tossed around is that dating is about collecting data. Meh. Yes and no. Mainly no. Tune in to the latest in the series Myths Keeping Christian Women Single to learn why.

Time to kick off a new series. There are myths about Christian women that are keeping them single. Let's address these!

OK, we have looked at the "negatives" but now about the positives. At the end of the day, we want to know what they want and like. And I have that info for you, ladies. Tune in to the final installment of this series. Sorry it was cut short. You can tune in to the live video I shared on the FB page.

Why, why, WHY are we dealing with men and their inconsistent efforts in 2020? Sir, are you interested or nah? What's it gonna be? Ladies, tune into part 3 of The Truth about Men series so we can see why men tend to be a bit inconsistent and how to handle it. 

Why, why, why?! Their actions never line up with what they're saying and it's a bit old, huh? Tune in! Because I've got something to say as we continue in the Understanding Men series.

Let's discuss some things about lying men. I also will give you the #1 reason men lie in this new series, The Truth about Men. Buckle up ladies. Because this one is gonna be heavy!

Let's finish up this Single & Frustrated series. Because I have something to say about something that women are TERRIBLE about in the early stages of a POTENTIAL relationship. There's a reason we end up more and more frustrated, speaking negatively over our single season. Tune in because I have a lot to say!

One thing I know is that the past holds the answers for many single women who are frustrated and have made repeated mistakes with the men they chose. Let's examine a few things if you're sure about something different in the future. Tune in for episode 3 of Single and Frustrated!

So, you seemingly attract the same kind of man? Men and dating today steadily looking a bit familiar? Man do I have some serious gems for YOU. Because enough is enough. 

In part 1 of the new series, Single and Frustrated, I want to examine why God seems to skip over some women when it comes to a good man and marriage. If you're bold, tune in!

We've made it to the end. I've given you tips, and more when it comes to Online Dating Help, but there are some things you really need to know when it comes to going forward. So before you create the profile and start swiping, grab this last bit of info, OK? 2 keys get you in the door, yes. But the outcome is based on one single word...

There are 2 ways to date: Multi vs All Eggs. Pros and cons to each, and I often get asked which is best. Well, that depends. Tune in for more Online Dating Help!

Women often walk away from dating apps prematurely because they're unsure how to handle communication, boundaries in communication, online conversations, etc. Let me help you. Tune in for part 2 of Online Dating Help

These are 2 things to help you when it comes to online dating. Mind you, keys open doors. There's much more to do when inside. And we'll explore that later. But for now, tune in!

Some are still locked down and quarantined. Some have had their entire lives change in an instant. People are sure to check on the married folks, the elderly, those with kids, etc. But what about the women who are single? Those who were trying to start a dating life? Those who had just met someone they were interested in getting to know?  Don't let the lockdown keep you down. 

Dating While Christian. Lord help us! Many women struggle in this area for various reasons, and I've come to the rescue. Put your big girl panties on and tune in. I'm just trying to help!

So there's this guy... And he's saying all the right things to have you interested and really feeling him. Now you're trying to figure out if you should continue or not. Tune into this latest podcast. Because I want to give some green flags on things to look for. Let's stop being so negative, seeking out the red flags! 

As we come to the end of the Breakout series, there's one final step. We've addressed household, habits/traits, ideal relationship and guy, and our "list." Well, none of those things will help you breakout and meet someone if you're doing it from the couch. How do you get approached and apply what you've learned? Because, sis? It's time to navigate! 

Be honest! We all have some kind of list when it comes to what we're looking for in a  partner. The thing is that we've switched up the order of importance when it comes to these things. Add to that, many of us don't offer what we're demanding. I want to teach you about 3 things regarding that list of yours as you're on the path to BREAKOUT!

Many of us have that idea of who we'd like to be in love with and eventually marry. The thing is, have you started your transformation process? You've got to become the person that the person you're looking for is looking for! As we continue on with Breakout, let's talk about your ideal mate and what your future relationship would look like according to you. 

In order to breakout from a bad habit, you have to acknowledge one is present. Last week, we examined our households. Today, I want to look at how your mom, dad, childhood, etc can have an influence on your relationships and unhealthy patterns. And how you might be repeating cycles instead of breaking them... 

When we stop and take the time to examine our past and our households from childhood, we'll learn that so many answers are there based on why we make unhealthy choices now with men, sex, relationships, money, and truly, in general. Imagine still being single because you haven't cut the cord from your mama, or because you haven't divorced your daddy. Tune in for the new series, Breakout! It's time to be free for real!

Believe it or not, this is the most important aspect of a relationship. It's foundational, and is even more important than love. Let's talk about why it's important for it to exist and why this should be a part of your prayer regarding your future bae. 

There's a reason that some people are alone in their relationships. Don't be like them. Don't envy or desire any relationship missing this vital component. 

Yes, this should be a given. But even with these 2 key components to a healthy relationship, there are mistakes made in the single, dating, and relationship stages. How so? Well, there's loyal to a fault, one-sided relationships, oversharing, lack of discretion, and so much more. Let's talk about this as we work on our love goals!

There are givers and takers. Oh, and a 3rd option. Why is giving and taking an essential component to a happy, healthy, holy relationship?

A healthy relationship can't survive without respect. But I've learned that there is one major reason many women don't command and demand respect from men.... 

Friendship and fun should be a love goal of yours. When it comes to a happy, healthy, and holy relationship, this is very important for many reasons. The questions arise when the "cool, chill" woman often gets friendzoned, or when you want to be friends first but aren't sure how to keep it romantic. And what about when in an actual relationship? Why have psychologists determined that friendship and fun is so important? Let the New Love Strategist help you out!

In my new series, Love Goals, we're going to look at what your personal love goals should be. Not the relationship goals that society has set in place. 

Alright ladies, we've made it to the end of the Intimacy series. What if... all that I gave over the past 5 weeks weren't "stages" after all? What if wordplay was used to get you to see something about your inner self? Let's talk about the greatest aspect to any intimate relationship. 

A lot of the mistakes women make in stages 1-4 are because they're rushing to get to this stage. And what's interesting is that those that make it here, fail to do one simple thing. Tune in to learn the 5th gradual stage to intimacy!

The 4th gradual stage to intimacy would be romantic lovers. What does this look like as a Christian woman, and what are women doing wrong in this stage? Tune in! 

Can we continue on with the 3rd gradual stage of intimacy? It's a place that many women desire to be, yet there are some critical mistakes made here. Tune in!

Can we talk about stage 2 of intimacy? This is yet another area that woman tend to get overeager only to later state that dating is exhausting. Hmm. I wonder why. Let's talk!

Intimacy. Everyone wants it, but not many understand it. It gets confused, used interchangeably, misquoted, and so much more. There are 6 gradual stages to it, but we often try to cram so much into this first stage (big mistake)! Let's talk about it!

"Marriage isn't something you can prepare for" is a response I've heard some say when I tell women to prepare while they pray. With so many responses like that, it made me wonder. I had to go back to what God spoke to me, and I needed to say THIS. Tune in!

Listen, you may have tried and done many things thinking you would've had a real one by now. But I can assure you're missing out on this one thing... 

Women making the first move. Are we mature enough to have this conversation? Is this OK, allowed, and respected as a woman of God? Tune in!

Is self-love a toxic trend keeping women single, or what?? Let's talk!

How easy it is to want a date, do online dating, put our twists and definitions on what dating even is, the whole 9. But I listen to some women talk and I've realized something. Many women need to take the time to ask themselves if they're even date-able.... Tune in and find out what I mean!

So here's the thing... I've noticed there are a wide variety of reasons Christian women are remaining single longer and longer (against their actual desires). Imagine you're the one getting in your own way? Let's talk about this!

Have you been ghosted before and you're trying to determine why? Let's shed some light on different reasons men tend to vanish without a trace. And what you should do if he returns...

Social media is creating unhealthy relationship goals and it may be playing into why you're still single, sis...

A shame it would be if you're the one in your own way!

For the Sassy Saturday Special, I need to examine 2 women in the Bible that were unloved and rejected. But there was a solution...

It's easy for us to discuss the fruits and motives of men. What about our own ladies?

Often times women wanna know if they'll ever get married. Maybe. Let's talk!

How exactly does one get over a broken heart? Let's discuss tools, tips and strategies!

Enduring the holidays isn't always easy. Here's how to get through!

Where's your boat taking you? If the man can't steer, hop off!

You'd be surprised to know that your past seasons of crushing may be what your husband needs in the future...

I get questions about how to date when sex is off the table. When is it the appropriate time to tell? Well, let's talk about it for the Sassy Saturday Special

I know that where you are right now might be a little bit rough. And I know you might be tempted to walk out, but what if it's actually going to be worse on the other side? What if you're making the biggest mistake by even thinking about leaving? I need you to stay put and press in! Tune in for Mountain Moving Monday!!

How much attention do women need? And why are they constantly seeking validation from others? Where did this start?! Listen to today's Sassy Saturday Special!

God is doing a new thing in your life. Perhaps you're unable to realize it because you're expecting Him to bless you the way He did it before. Forget the former things and don't dwell on the past. Look at the new thing that He is doing!

Can you say that you're actually ready for all that you've been asking for and all that you've been praying for? Are you prepared for the promise? I look at Isaiah 40:31 and there are 2 words in particular that stand out to me. Let's talk about them!

If you've been ghosted more than once then at some point it's time to evaluate what you might be doing wrong. Let's look at some of your past behaviors and actions to see why this has been happening!

Fear and faith can't reside in the same place. Be bold. Your God isn't basic!

Ladies, don't panic. There's a way to do this. Let me help you. And the stigma is gone. 40% of couples met online! Let's discuss this!

We can go on and on about godly men, church attendance, etc. Many women think that's where their husband is. Is he? Let's talk about it!

I often get asked by women "how does dating work?" It can be a lot in 2019 but let me help you a bit!

There's a reason we're told to guard our hearts. And it's funny that we're always saying "God knows my heart" but how many understand what that TRULY means??

We say it but what does that mean? And how do we do that exactly?? Let's talk about it!

How is religion possibly getting in the way of your relationships? Let's talk about it for the Sassy Saturday Special!

How does it work with Christian women? Let's talk about it!

Should Christian women wait on God to send their husbands or are they allowed to put in some work?

Take a pic. Upload it. How do you feel? Now, what can you explain about the person in the image? How do you REALLY feel about her?

When a man comes into the picture, who all does he have to date alongside you? What factor are outsiders playing??

Sassy Saturday Special:  So many women aren't sure which season they're in. Should they be dating? Are they hidden? Let's talk about it!

The reason many women stay in toxic relationships. Is it more damaging to the kids to stay or leave?

Listen! What worked in the last season won't work in this one. Cut ties. Break out. Keep waiting. Do what you must but do not. Go. BACK!

Looking at 2 Kings 4 shows me how much of a tragedy it can be to receive what you've been waiting for only to have it be taken away. It's time to revive the promise!

What does this mean and how serious is it? What does this apply to?

There's more at risk than you realize. Let's talk!

What's the difference between the two?

What's the deal behind sexual immorality?

We've talked about how our parents affect us, but how are you affecting YOUR children and future children??

Ladies, you must submit to God first!!

What's still affecting your present and getting in the way of your future?

I want to discuss daddy issues and how they affect women.

What lies from the past are still affecting you in the present time?

This is the most important thing a single woman can do.!

Dating is already iffy. Throw in an independent woman, and many men are clueless. Should they run for the hills? Should they stay put? Should the woman ease up a bit? Let's talk!

This is dangerous but many women do it!

There's a right and wrong way for Christians to date. Let's talk about it!

Christian women don't seem to always be in line with God's design for the family when it comes to their children and future husband. Why?

We have more than one set of eyes and I dare you to use them all!

I get asked this question a lot. And some have a stigma on online dating in general. Let's talk about it

From REACH Online Church, I wanted to let someone know what they must do before they're rescued. And it doesn't involve wallowing in it or even trying to fix it alone.

I want to talk about settling vs sitting in this season of being single!

It's 2019. Is premarital sex still a big deal for Christians? Or do we feel as if it's not discussed enough? Let's talk about it for the Sassy Saturday Special!