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Waving the Red Flag

Waving the Red Flag

By wavingtheredflag
Number one relationship podcast in the universe. Join Eddy, Josh, and Alvin as they have wild but honest conversations on love, intimacy, friendship, and the culture from the male perspective. New episodes every Wednesday 9pm EST
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125 | Are Women in America Now Living Under Religious Law? feat @STFridays ​
Josh, Eddy, and Alvin are joined by Jeanna and Ivo of @STFridays to talk about hiring discrimination, code switching, girls pinching free drinks, the normalization of sex work, the overturning of Roe v Wade, and raising kids with open honest dialogue  Follow Shit Talk Fridays  https://www.youtube.com/c/JeannaSTFridays https://www.tiktok.com/@stfridays https://www.instagram.com/stfridays/ Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:02:27
June 30, 2022
124 | Are All Your Feelings Really Valid?
This week Josh, Eddy, and Alvin get into NLE Choppa tweeting about why he nutted in his girl on the first date, how to support a nigga going through a tough time, whether or not all our feelings are valid, and the viability of adding emotional intelligence classes to high school curriculums Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
55:18
June 23, 2022
123 | Should Children Be Allowed to Perform in Drag Shows?
This week Josh, Eddy, and Alvin are talking about kids at drag shows, Yung Gravy stealing niggas girls with a slim jim, and the concerning behavior of creepy women Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
52:33
June 16, 2022
122 | Should a Man Have to Pay Rent on The House His Wife Owns?
This week the boys are celebrating International Whore's (Sex Worker's*) Day, talking about rap lyric court cases, deep rap songs not aging well,  Coi LeRay kicking a fan off stage for touching her during a lapdance, whether the verdict of the Johnny and Amber trial will set women back, has the metoo movement had an impact, man is asked to pay rent on the house his girl owns Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:24:34
June 09, 2022
121 | Does cheating ever justify abuse?
Eddy and Josh talk about a woman who posted a video of herself destroying her boyfriend's entire apartment for "breaking her heart," they discuss if abuse is worse than cheating, two potential baby daddies want to be in the delivery room, pimping out straight niggas, is all sex work created equal, impromptu anal, lowering your standards to find love, are white women the secret to Key & Peele's success, father refuses a playdate with a woman and her child, is being the "fun"parent really just being lazy   Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
52:16
June 02, 2022
120 | Do Black People Want Revenge?
Eddy, Alvin, and Josh talk about the Buffalo Mass Murder, whether Black people want revenge, B Simone's take on MLK not being a great leader due to his infidelity, if being a bad partner makes you a bad person, if most people are good or bad, do men desire variety in their partners, could polyamory work for most people? Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
55:20
May 26, 2022
119 | What if Men Had to Carry the Unborn?
Eddy and Josh talk about Young Thug and Gunna's RICO charges, prison abolitionism, the use of lyrics in criminal proceedings, the overturning of Roe v Wade, ideal nut locations, Spain's introduction of 3-day menstrual leave, non binary aquatic life, men carrying children, Consensual Non Consent porn, getting gang banged at Trapeze in Atlanta, and the appeal of Islamic phrases Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag  Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast   Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire  Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold?  Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:03:00
May 19, 2022
118 | Are Black Men Sad About Kevin Samuels' Death?
Josh and Eddy talk about the passing of Kevin Samuels and the legacy he left, managing your expectations in life, rapper NONAME_TRAPPER (Isaiah Lee) jumping on stage and attacking Dave Chappelle, "I found out that when we first start dating he was still seeing other people", and dealing with one person at a time versus "dating exclusively" Outro Song: NONAME_TRAPPER - Dave Chappell Watch exclusive bonus episodes and talk to us live during recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:20:35
May 12, 2022
117 | Was Rick James' music r*pey?
While Alvin oversees the repair of the CO2 scrubbers on the international space station Eddy and Josh have a gentle convo about going no contact, the overuse of mental health psychology buzzwords, the creepiness of old school r&b/modern toxic music, pimp culture, Exotic the sex worker from Soft White Underbelly, misandristic music,  whether Jordan Peterson has any value, does everyone deserve redemption and forgiveness, does suffering enrich the human experience, is Blackness synonymous with suffering, and who get the front seat your mama or your girl? 
01:09:27
May 05, 2022
116 | Is Amber Heard really the abuser we've been lead to believe? feat. The Suburban Boys Podcast
This week the boys are joined by the Suburban Boys Podcast to talk about the Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard Defamation trial , a potential conspiracy in the Meg v Tory case, Amanda Knox and the challenge of determining innocence in the court of public opinion, why people stay in toxic relationships, Jeen-Yuhs: A Kanye Trilogy, the importance of a father figure, and Black men expressing their emotions to potential partners Follow the Suburban Boys at  https://www.instagram.com/suburbanboyspod/  https://www.tiktok.com/@suburbanb0ys? Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
58:32
April 28, 2022
115 | Should a mother encourage her son to eat women out?
This week the fellas talk parents having the sex talk with their children, bringing white women home, pussy texture, eating period pussy, giving 110 percent in the bedroom, if men care about the orgasm gap, the wisdom of older men, and whether or not mothers should encourage their sons to eat pussy.  Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag   Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag  Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast   Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire  Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold?  Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:23:50
April 21, 2022
114 | Was Christian Obumseli killed by his own self hatred/preference?
This week Alvin, Eddy, and Josh talk about getting checked for using the wrong pc language terms, the role of misognynoir in the murder of Christian Obumseli by Courtney 'Tailor' Clenney, skin folk not being kinfolk, legalizing weed, Alvin's many professions, teachers that take advantage of students, charging your adult children rent, giving Black children room to explore and fuck up, and struggle stories Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
58:14
April 14, 2022
113 | Do Alpha Male Podcasters Secretly Hate Men? feat Dom Sharpe from Listen to This While You Shit
This episode Eddy and Josh are joined by Dom from the Listen to This While You Shit Podcast We talking being oversexed as a man, old school slurs, white gay niggas appropriating black culture, are alpha male podcasters secretly misandrists, Jack Harlow was made in a laboratory, weird fine Black men (LaKeith Stanfield), the problematic woke Italian uncle, male friendships versus female friendships,  how to make friends in adulthood, would you rather go to a man or woman for emotional support, bald pills and dick pills,  tag teaming with the vibe, circumcision, how to give a loving and sensual hand job Follow Dom Sharpe On Socials YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Te3G0ugGH0dq25a65BPDQ Twitter: https://twitter.com/listenandshit Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/listentothiswhileyoushit/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listentothiswhiieyoushit? Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia (You niggas better not say shit about the audio on this, we got hacked by Fresh n Fit)
01:08:52
April 07, 2022
112 | Was your first porn experience traumatizing?
Josh and Eddy talk mushrooms, early porn exposure, getting caught jerking off, dail-up internet porn, foot play, shibari/rope play, bukkake, rich people eyes wide shut shit, what happens in Dubai, believing when someone tells you your partner is cheating,  train shaming, and the difference between a train and a gang bang. Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag   Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag  Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast   Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire  Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold?  Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:06:05
March 31, 2022
111 | Wife Demands Husband pay her $50,000 to Carry Their Child
This episode Eddy, Josh, and Alvin talk the no kissing in the first 90 days rule, if waiting to have sex is a good idea for both men and women, paying your wife to carry your child, and the economic and career cost pregnancy has for women relative to men.  Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:00:22
March 24, 2022
110 | Is it dangerous for older men to have children? feat Raiders of the Lost Podcast
The Red Flag Boys are joined by the Deveney Twins of  Raiders of the Lost Podcast to talk about the only fans girlfriend experience, parasocial relationships replacing real ones, online dating, "bad texters", dating older women, choosing between career and child bearing as a woman, wealthy women getting surrogates, what movies get wrong about life, unrealistic relationships in romcoms, can love grow out of a practical decision to be with someone?   Follow Raiders of the Lost Podcast here    https://www.raidersofthelostpodcast.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-UAjE8c_akIoNhGIUerAPQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaidersOfTheLostPodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raidersofthelostpodcast  Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
59:56
March 17, 2022
109 | Are Men More Likely to Spread STDs than Women? feat. Dom from the Listen to This While You Shit Podcast
This episode the Eddy and Alvin are joined by Dom from the Listen to This While You Shit Podcast to talk about Will from the new Bel-Air being grimy as hell, if brownskinnedness is a myth, how niggas used to look old as fuck back in the day, "What do you bring to the table?", Little Caesars Pizza, men spreading STDs, fat men, dick fluctuations, little women, if voting is bullshit, and the failings of is traditional child education. Follow Dom On Socials   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Te3G0ugGH0dq25a65BPDQ Twitter: https://twitter.com/listenandshit Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/listentothiswhileyoushit/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listentothiswhiieyoushit? Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on  Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:11:42
March 10, 2022
108 | Do Some Children NEED to be spanked/beat?
This episode the boys get into the number one problem child in the culture: Rue Bennett. They talk ask if spanking children is abusive or sometimes needed, how Rue Bennett needs to be handled, and how many chances do you give a problem child before giving up Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag   Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://twitter.com/wavintheredflag Follow at https://www.tiktok.com/@wavingtheredflagpodcast Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire  Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:07:24
March 03, 2022
107 | "My Man Doesn't Want to Have Sex With Me"
This week Eddy Alvin and Josh come into the booth to talk about stressy Valentines Day plans, getting in a fight during Valentines or birthday dates, being insecure about how your girl dresses, if valentines day is just another holiday for women, When your man isn't responding to you sexually the way you want, will men fuck anything?, Growing attracted to someone over time, handling performance issues, Dating an asexual, How to manage mismatched libidos in a relationship, responsive versus spontaneous sexual desire, and being confident in the face of criticism from your partner Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
56:39
February 24, 2022
106 | Why Watching Isaiah Rashad's Tape is a Crime
This week, Eddy Alvin and Josh talk the Tinder Swindler, lending money to a loved one, Isaiah Rashad's leaked revenge porn and resulting outting, Nelly's leak, body shaming double standards, the trend of people screen capping and mocking Hinge profiles on TikTok, and staring at women at the gym. Go to https://Manscaped.com/ and use the promo code REDFLAG to get free shipping and 20% off your entire order. Cop the Performance Package 4.0 as the perfect gift for yourself or the nigga (of any gender) in your life #sponsored   Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
49:16
February 17, 2022
105 | When do boundaries become controlling?
This week Eddy Alvin and Josh come into the booth to talk about insecurity and boundaries: seeing someone who's still living with their ex, your girl staying with a nigga she kissed during vacation, sharing a hotel room at a conference, if this woman's gift giving is lovebombing or genuine affection, a woman asking a man his "five your plan" Go to https://Manscaped.com/ and use the promo code REDFLAG to get free shipping and 20% off your entire order. Cop the Performance Package 4.0 as the perfect gift for yourself or the nigga (of any gender) in your life #sponsored   Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag   Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire  Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold?  Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
57:01
February 10, 2022
104 | The Culture's Obsession with Oversexualizing Youth
This week Josh and Eddy talk season 2 of Euphoria: romantic love that transcends sexuality, Zendaya's nudity contract, the treatment of male nudity in film, if highschool ever really this wild, adults going after minors, the over sexualization of teens, dealing with the vindictive behavior of an addict, feeling empathy for awful characters, being confronted by your homegirl's partner, we want drama and struggle in our love life, seduction vs dirty macking, being an active advocate for yourself instead of a passive observer in your own life Go to https://Manscaped.com/ and use the promo code REDFLAG to get free shipping and 20% off your entire order. Cop the Performance Package 4.0 as the perfect gift for yourself or the nigga (of any gender) in your life #sponsored Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:12:21
February 03, 2022
103 | Can You Cheat and Still Love Them?
This week Eddy, Josh, and Alvin get heated on if it was inappropriate for podcaster Mac G to ask Ari Lennox "is someone fucking you good right now?", if you can cheat on someone and still love them, whether or not men want to fuck more than women, and Fresh n Fit v Brittany Renner Go to https://Manscaped.com/ and use the promo code REDFLAG to get free shipping and 20% off your entire order. Cop the Performance Package 4.0 as the perfect gift for yourself or the nigga (of any gender) in your life Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:11:35
January 27, 2022
102 | What Does it Mean When He Says "I Got a Lot Going On"?
Eddy, Josh, and Alvin talk contradictory song lyrics, if taking a break in a relationship is ever a good idea, what it means when a man tells a woman "I got a lot going on",  approaching gender issues from an individual vs structural perspective,  being "too busy to text", when someone keeps sending you unfunny memes, and Drake's hot sauce condom Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
53:09
January 20, 2022
101 | Is Kim Kardashian White?
Alvin Eddy and Josh talk about if body odor expectations are made up, if telling your girl to bleach her asshole is body policing, is commenting on your partner's body wrong, taking off work to heal from plastic surgery, whether or not Kim Kardashian is a white woman, celebrating Sidney Poitier's illustrious career slapping white men on camera as a darkskin, antiquated sexual laws, and the unique difficulties of raising children as a young adult Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:02:32
January 13, 2022
100 | Women
Josh Eddy and Alvin are in for the 100th episode to talk financial abuse, counting your contributions in a relationship/keeping score, stonewalling and withholding love, do men seek financially coercive relationships,"what do you bring to the table," men and women's emotional responsibilities to one another, coping with sadness through substance use, Men and women's different emotional communication styles, and how to give support while holding someone accountable Join us in conversation on live each week before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag   Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire  Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold?  Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
56:42
January 06, 2022
99 | Mama, if you see this I'm sorry
Josh and Eddy talk New Year's resolutions, the pressure felt when seeing your friends having kids and getting married, why we don't play as adults anymore, whether it's easier being a kid or being grown, not being allowed to sleep with your girlfriend/boyfriend when staying at your parents for the holidays, and having to sneak around parents to find a place to fuck as a young adult
47:31
December 30, 2021
98 | THROTUS
Happy Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, Christmas niggas and nigguettes! In this year's Christmas special all the boys are in to discuss the most wonderful time of the year, Nancy Reagan gumming niggas down in Studio 54, bringing new girls to the crib for the holidays, if the term "yams" refers to boobs or butts,  letting children keep their innocent imaginations about Santa,  tooth fairy money laundering, men and women's approach to gift giving as a  love language, and taking our women's last names. 
01:13:10
December 23, 2021
97 - Tea & Crumpets: Guns & Bullets
Josh and Eddy talk about girls clowning corny niggas on Hinge, getting called a nigga by middle eastern girls, women holding themselves accountable, UK thugs, men getting emotionally attached through sex, men being detached from their own sexuality, pleasure based sexuality, women talking down on other men to their man, being sexually vulnerable with a woman, and gay bar experiences as a straight man
53:36
December 16, 2021
96 - Eddy Overgold's Every Flavour Nut ft. Tom DL Murphy
Josh and Eddy are joined by comedian Tom DL Murphy to talk about Will Smith's relationships and career, male birth control ball bath, letting your kids fuck at the house, raising girls and boys the same, daddy and mommy issues, emotional incest, connecting with parents vulnerability as an adult, teaching kids consent, telling people you fucked you don't want them to sleep over, doing sex with women you like and valuing yourself   Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow tom @tomdlmurphy on TikTok and IG  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
55:32
December 09, 2021
95 - Twincest
Josh and Eddy talk Thanksgiving drama, being thankful for someone choosing monogamy with you, how to curve dms while in a relationship, "negging" your partner, Josh cucks a dude at the Texas fair, overly friendly women, making your partner feel secure, answer a Patreon question about a bf who travels a lot for work, how frequently you should communicate with your partner, being best friends with your man, cutting off friends for your romantic relationship, gaslighting yourself, and sex with twins   Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag  Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:02:38
December 02, 2021
94 - Feminine Pleasure (Within Reason)
The tribunal talk to the listeners about being the safe choice v being desired, weigh in on being feminine v being gay, Da Baby's live with Dani Leigh, Zac Stacy beating his wife, Courage the Cowardly Dog, the Rittenhouse verdict, farting and shitting in front of your partner, being bad at sex as a younger man, toys and dick extenders, and the one that go away
01:16:09
November 25, 2021
93 - I Been Pepper-sprayed Many a Time
Alvin, Eddy, and Josh talk about getting catcalled as a man, the sexual desires of lesbians, psycho-sexual stimulation, being unable to reach orgasm, the Astroworld disaster,  the Kyle Rittenhouse trial, and the dangers of approaching women in public Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:04:37
November 18, 2021
92 - Who Them Is?
In this episode written by Aaron Sorkin Josh Alvin and Eddy talk about porn watching habits, No Nut November, Johnny Depp's abuse case and victim blaming, false accusations, holding men accountable, Da Baby's uncancellation, and if cancel culture is even really real. Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
59:19
November 11, 2021
91 - [Scam Likely]
Josh and Eddy talk about changing for the next girl, trying to get over a traumatic relationship, insecurity about other men in your girl's life , when the energy changes in a relationship, making him wait for sex, receiving an unsolicited nude from your ex, and bringing new niggas around your kid Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
59:09
November 04, 2021
90 - Bussy Badazz
For this year's Halloween episode we talk about the Alec Baldwin on set murder, how the public relates to celebrity death, Lil Boosie pushing Lil Nas X toward suicide, the dangers of deep fake pornography, the creepiness of de-aged and digitally ressurected celebrities, lesbians stealing your girl, and how to approach a woman respectfully when you don't know if she got a man Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia Music includes samples from  "Darren Curtis - Demented Nightmare" is under a Creative Commons license (CC BY 3.0) Music promoted by BreakingCopyright: https://youtu.be/g_O4kS9FP3k " DARK ORCHESTRAL LULLABY " composed and produced by "Vivek Abhishek" Music link : https://youtu.be/3jU3rSdWajU
59:30
October 28, 2021
89 - We Got D*ck at Home
This week Alvin and Eddy talk about if you can cheat on someone and still love them, if loving someone means you only have eyes for them, having back up options in case a relationship fails, dropping your hoes when entering a relationship, prioritizing your partner over other relationships, how trust should be formed in relationships, not depending on others, and active listening vs problem solving Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
47:30
October 21, 2021
88 - The Equivalency on That Ho is False
The fella's talk about Dave Chappelle's latest special The Closer and whether or not it's transphobic, the Squid Game capitalist metaphor, whether watching shows without your partner is worse than fucking somebody else, and  whether or not cheating is even wrong Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:17:23
October 14, 2021
87 - Black Male Beta Coon
This whole episode is basically just straight [spoilers] for Scenes From a Marriage episodes 1-3.  Josh, Alvin, and Eddy break down the first three episodes of the show addressing getting your needs met without hurting others,  deadbeat moms, the impact abortions can have on a couple, the extreme mix of emotions experienced during real relationship conflict,  maintaining passion in a long term relationship, improving and changing yourself for your partner, new dick energy, leaving your man because he didn't read the signs, and how to get your man to forgive you for cheating. Join us in conversation on live before every episode recording on Patreon at https://patreon.com/wavingtheredflag Follow at https://instagram.com/wavingtheredflag Follow Alvin a https://twitter.com/diversityhire Follow Eddy at https://www.tiktok.com/@eddyovergold? Follow Josh at https://instagram.com/moore2lifemedia
01:15:06
October 07, 2021
86 - Just Take Your Scarlet A and Go
The fellas talk about not wanting your adult children to have the same type of sex life you had at their age, having a fulfilling life devoid of sex and Eddy's penile injury, the definition of foreplay, differing senses of humor between men and women, and the Twitter adage "men marry who they want, women marry who they can"
01:08:22
September 30, 2021
85 - Niggy Takes feat. The Suburban Boys Podcast
Eddy and Alvin got the Suburban Boys Podcast to come through to talk about what counts as mixed, mandatory vasectomies for all men, defunding the CIA, Lil Duvall being an industry plant, immunisation science, dating tall women, and age regulation in porn.
01:15:14
September 23, 2021
84 - The Usual SUSpects
Josh and Eddy conduct the gayest episode of the pod to date.  They dialogue about how long it takes to get over a relationship, building confidence, affirmations, sperm counts and fertility, raw sex, nut tasting, whether pegging is gay, getting your groceries eaten, and the scarcity of dominant women
01:00:33
September 16, 2021
83 - I Would NEVER Knock a B*tch Out
Josh and Eddy argue about if they're cool with their girl talking to her homegirls about their stroke game , women weaponzing vulnerability against men,  whether women understand men better that men understand women,  and whether or not yelling is abuse
01:06:15
September 09, 2021
82 - Lie Hard with a Vengeance
This week it's the side effects of hair surgery and meds, the concept of roaching/dating around during the talking phase, the awkwardness of transitioning during sexual encounters, having a separate bedroom from your partner, and the impacting having a father in the home has on raising children
01:08:52
September 02, 2021
81 - Lil Bitty Boat
Alvin Eddy and Josh talk about OnlyFans banning sexual content, whether or not head counts as a body, having sex without kissing the woman,  the normalization of kink/violence in sex, bringing toys into the bedroom, how to short a stock, and going down on your pregnant wife
01:01:19
August 26, 2021
80 - Square Up
The boys argue about getting into fights as a grown man, jumping in on a one v one, presenting a united front as a couple, should extraverts accomodate their introverted partners, putting your girl onto new shit, and the QAnon husband who murdered his own kids
59:10
August 19, 2021
79 - Back in the Day When Things Were Cool
Alvin and Eddy talk flat earth conspiracies, extended adolescence and how hard "adulting" is, dr. dre being a deadbeat grand dad and what we owe our children, whether or not kids should learn algebra
01:01:25
August 12, 2021
78 - Therapy is Expensive
Alvin and Eddy get to talking about cultural appropriation and cultural copyright, being too old to be a rapper, going off your meds, being assertive vs domineering, dealing with unprofessional incompetent arrogant doctors, and communicating the severity of your emotions without crying and hollering
51:48
August 05, 2021
77 - Self Identified Somewhat Good N*gga
Josh Alvin and Eddy analyze the effectiveness of parsleying your way into some pussy, explore the friendzone, nice guys, the trauma dark skinned women experience as girls, the passing down of trauma, family secrets, and Black witchcraft practices in the South
01:07:33
July 29, 2021
76 - I'm a Great Value Man
The boys talk about internet privacy and the age of the algorithm, the singularity, the toxicity of wanting someone to be obsessed with you, if watching porn counts as cheating, do women cheat for different reasons than men
01:17:24
July 22, 2021
75 - The Time Has Cum
Josh and Eddy talk about being too old to party, having a timeline on marriage and having kids, thot poses, dick pics, advice to their younger selves, financial coercion in sexual relationships, and dating within your tax bracket
01:11:50
July 16, 2021
74 - Never Be The Broccoli
Eddy and Josh rehash Eddy's Dave Chappelle slander, talk twin flames, Tabitha Brown retiring her man, Jada and Tupac, and safe versus exciting men
57:26
July 09, 2021
73 - FML In a Good Way
This week the amigos talk about BBLs, the perils of plastic surgery, body image issues, changing your body for your partner, the existence of microbial alien life in the universe, whether or not humans are destroying the planet, and subconsciously wanting your partner to be upset as a sign of affection.
01:03:51
July 02, 2021
72 - A Bit of Bun on Bun Action
Eddy, Josh, and Alvin talk about the downfall of comedy, fighting younger versions of yourself, Australian gangsters, fistfights, getting tired while eating pussy, and getting instruction from women in bed
01:00:53
June 25, 2021
71 - A Different Pattern of Thot
Today the boys talk about Josh meeting Weezy from Whoreible Decisions, the dangerous nature of modern fame, the Paul brothers' secret triplet Jake Logan, the Kanye West Dwayne Johnson presidential ticket,  the intimidation of dating a worldly woman, period sex, angry sex, crying women trying to bang you, and killing baby Hitler
01:11:40
June 18, 2021
70 - The Guns of Infidelity
Alvin Eddy and Josh are in this week to talk about using the n word around whites, your girl getting flew out, telling your homie's girl if he cheats, and cultural acceptance around the assault of young boys , and cancel culture
59:43
June 11, 2021
69 - In Negro Fertilization
Alvin and Eddy talk women proposing to men, asking a woman's father for his blessing to propose, and get heated about whether or not men should be able to opt out of child support via a "financial abortion" 
53:25
June 04, 2021
68 - The Power of Now
Josh and Eddy are in for a short emergency broadcast episode while we work on some behind the scenes shit. In this minisode we talk about Eckhart Tolle and the nature of the true eternal self versus the ego, nut reload times, and how the world would be different if white men birthed Black babies. 
38:47
May 28, 2021
67 - I Don't Wanna Know
Alvin Eddy and Josh discuss the homophobia of women not wanting to date bisexual men, if they would want to know if their partner were cheating on them, being gay presenting, body neutrality, raising children gender neutrally/fluidly, and Joe Budden fucking over his team
01:25:03
May 22, 2021
66 - Sugar Toddlers
Alvin Eddy and Josh talk about being a sugar baby to Melinda Gates, the real meaning of high value man, dating your day one vs meeting someone while you're great, Eddy being a trash boyfriend, the drawbacks of winning an argument, white mom mixed energy, and the difference between a threesome and a train 
01:04:44
May 15, 2021
65 - I'm Never Too Far From Home w/ Abbas Wahab
Alvin and Josh are joined by Abbas Wahab of The Immigrant Section Podcast to talk about surviving prison without joining a gang, waiting for your girlfriend in prison, hitting rock bottom in life,  the myth of unconditional love, and enabling a family member with mental illness
55:01
May 08, 2021
Bonus Clip - You Gotta Let the P*ssy Marinate
Eddy Alvin and Josh discuss how long to wait between sneaky links
08:38
May 04, 2021
64 - Kegels and Lox
The gang talks glow ups, dim downs, how to take care of your body as you age, Eddy's abstinence and nofap journey, adult wet dreams, what counts as beastiality, the myth of post nut clarity, and learning  how to have better sex
01:04:15
May 01, 2021
63 - F*ckboy Film Club feat. Raiders of the Lost Podcast
The gang is joined by Anthony and James from Raiders of the Lost Podcast to talk about toxic film bro movies, the responsibility filmmakers have for the social impact of their work, crying at period romantic dramas as a grown man, the horror of paternal custody battles, when to let shit go in a relationship, and Denzel's #1 worst movie.
01:02:48
April 24, 2021
62 - Slippin
Eddy and Alvin talk about the untimely passing of DMX, the impact of his music and significance of his life's journey, our obsession with white people's inability to properly season food, breastfeeding in public, the over-sexualization of the naked human body, ancient African cuisines, the history of men wearing make up, how to properly conduct yourself in the comments section of a thirst trap, emotional and material support from mothers versus fathers, and receiving support from parents in adulthood
01:03:51
April 17, 2021
61 - Jumping Ship
Josh and Eddy talk porn addiction, the differences in men and women's viewing habits, whether women want sex as indiscriminately as men, casual hook up bro code, the ethics of dirty macking, and the intimacy of picking up your significant other from the airport, MMF vs FFM 3-sums, Eddy getting mad at dumb shit
01:01:11
April 10, 2021
60 - The Good, The Bad, and The Grateful
Josh and Eddy talk about what it means to be a 7 out of 10, forced intimacy & lovebombing in friendships, the differences between male and female friendships, the vaule of settling for less in a romantic relationship, and the drug habits of the white race
57:01
April 03, 2021
59 - Remote Control Dick
Jay Eddy Josh and Alvin talk about modern societies obsession with faces, increasing depression in modern society, what to do about pedophiles, the scared straight program, how fame effects mental health, unrealistic standards of beauty, having too many dating options, and the bar being insanely low for men in the dating game
01:06:56
March 27, 2021
58 - Artificial Bussy feat. The Suburban Boys Podcast
Eddy , Alvin, and Josh are joined by Q, E, and Sway from the Suburban Boys podcast to try and get as close to cancelled as possible. They talk: rihanna vs beyonce, the dangerous animals of Melbourne vs Houston, designer babies, male birth control, Shaq's going rate on the slave market, the validity of super straight identity, and how much money they'd need to fuck a male billionaire
01:02:32
March 20, 2021
57 - Thank You For the Orgasm feat. Tom DL Murphy
Eddy, Alvin, and Josh are joined by stand up comic Tom DL Murphy to talk about preplanning dirty talk, cringy sexual performances, the orgasm gap, bringing toys into the bedroom, the stigma around bootyplay as a man, the limitations of hotness in women, the appeal of amatuer porn, the challenge of trying to blow up as an OnlyFans girl, and Eddy teaches Tom The Way of The Melancholic Nut
01:21:25
March 13, 2021
56 - Satellite Heauxs w/ Jay
Jay is back with Josh and Eddy to talk cheating contingency plans, the use of the word "females", misogynoir, having exes hang around as satellites, whether monogamy is natural, the appeals of being a brotherhusband, and the difference between loving and lovebombing
01:17:12
March 06, 2021
55 - Godfrey Deboed My Joke feat. Abbas Wahab
Eddy, Alvin, and Josh hop on the mics with the homie Abbas Wahab, comic and host of The Immigrant Section Podcast, to talk Chris Delia's apology tour, the benefits of getting married, the beyonce lemonade conspiracy, horny grandpas, the ethics of power dynamics in sexual situations, the stupidity of Tenet, the Wachowski girls stealing the Matrix, and whether they'd date the girl versions of themselves
01:31:23
February 27, 2021
54 - The Talented Tenth Inch feat. Jay
Eddy and Jay are both in lockdown during Valentines in Melbourne joined by Josh and Alvin they talk splitting the rent, women letting niggas live off of them, temporary marriage licenses, the struggles of dating as a broke nigga, how to tell someone they're bad at sex, the Amazon position, and how to cheat for maximum damage. 
01:17:08
February 20, 2021
53 - The Initiation
Eddy Josh and Alvin talk about Eddy's climbing related hate crime, medical racism, the distinction between romance and intimacy, the appeal of being sexually dominated by women, and Josh's most extreme sexual experience to date 
01:44:56
February 13, 2021
52 - The C-Word feat. Willie Macc
Comic Willie Macc comes back through to talk about his new show on HGTV, whether or not Black people can enact structural racism, victim blaming, the challenges of raising a lightskin, the differences in having a daughter versus a son, Tory Lanez' innocence, T.I.s guilt, doing commercials as a Black man, and the intersectionality of cheating and picnics.
01:18:30
February 06, 2021
51 - But That's Nigga Here Nor There feat. Jay
Long time podcast friend Jay Jay comes in to talk to the fellas Josh, Alvin, and Eddy about becoming too light-skinned to say nigga, the requisite forehead size to qualify as Somali, the detached cultural identity of African-Americans in the greater diaspora, try hard woke white women, Australians' love of meth, the authenticity of the African Australian accent, fake breaking up with people as a power play, Eddy's internalized misogynoir, women's reaction to rejection, deleting your hoeness, and allowing someone to be selfish in a relationship during tough times. 
01:20:27
January 30, 2021
50 - A Small Respite of Dick
Josh and Eddy talk about  the capitol hill insurrection, Trump getting deplatformed off everything, how to win over working class whites to progressive values, what animals are acceptable to eat when you're REALLY hungry, if it is ever possible to know if someone is the one, paternalistic lying, what women look for in a man to cheat with, and getting cheated on with a friend or relative
01:15:17
January 23, 2021
49 - Buttcoin
Josh, Eddy, and Alvin talk the cryptopussy economy, love languages, dealing with your trauma before entering a relationship, the gendered fuckery of the concept of the mancave, and the management of second shift labor in straight relationships
01:18:30
January 16, 2021
48 - Roach Hoe Tell feat. Abbas Wahab
Eddie, Alvin, and Josh chop it up with Abbas Wahab, hilarious comedian and host of The Immigrant Section Podcast. They talk women leaving the relationship long before the official breakup, the benefits of being a Black psychopath, the gentle passive aggressive brutality of Canadian police, Asian students being categorized as white people, how to stop procrastinating on your dreams, immigrant parents' view of success, pullout couches, and the ethics of fetishizing deaf women.
01:24:54
January 09, 2021
47 - Jeff Bezos is a Prince
The gang is recording from home as the sound guys are off on vacation. They talk pregnancy scares, eating the rich, the genius of Drake's rap lyrics, the validity of transracial identity, the toxic positivity of the self help community, the safest ways to cheat and have unprtected sex, and the world's longest human shit.
01:33:46
January 02, 2021
46 - A Heavily Negro Class
Josh, Eddy, and Alvin talk about being a late bloomer, Eddy's grandma getting scammed by an Indian call center, Josh getting catfished, cockblocking etiquette, the evolution of the n-word, going through partners phones, letting yourself be lied to, and being the "other man".
01:11:07
December 26, 2020
45 - Mouth Shots
This week Alvin, Eddy, Josh  (and a little of Keiran) talk the death of Tom "Tiny Zues" Lister Jr., aging parents, whether or not real men need creature comforts, Black families traumatizing children as a caretaking tactic, finding a personal definition for friendship, crying as a man, being a nigga who operates entirely off vibes, and the goofiness of the Australian language.
01:15:43
December 19, 2020
44 - Respectability Twerkolitics
Josh, Eddy, and Alvin get to talking JFK and 9/11 conspiracy theories, Japanese gang control over taxis, Nate Robinson's systematic oppression by Jake Paul, the Dallas restaurant owner going off on his patrons for twerking in the restaurant, and the addictive appeal of high quality strippers including Josh getting robbed by a two in Atlanta
01:06:07
December 12, 2020
43 - Practicing Social Intimacy
Alvin is out so Josh and Eddy talk serial killer fandom, thanksgiving abuse, rejecting women who shoot their shot,  higher dimensions of perception,  the anthropocentric interpretation of the universe and a bunch more bullshit. 
01:32:08
December 05, 2020
42 - Beatin Ass N' Eatin Ass™: A Couple's Experience
Eddy, Alvin, and Josh are back to talk Black men going to therapy, queer acceptance in the Black community, celebrity domestic abuse, sex as a gift, love languages, and The Michelin Star nominated Outback Steakhouse and a bunch more bs!
01:28:03
November 28, 2020
41 - Don't be so jackquacious
Eddy, Alvin, and Josh talk ghosting, weaseling back into an ex's life, OnlyFans romance, cultural appropriation, the least known member of the Jacksons, Will Smith's genius insanity, social justice over personal obligations, Akon's tech ventures, and a bunch more bullshit. 
01:35:32
November 21, 2020
40 - Niel DeMike Tyson
Alvin and Eddy are on Zoom to talk a Trump coup, the career of Robin William's, the benefits of therapy,  the stupidity of Alcoholics Anonymous and a bunch more bullshit!
01:25:09
November 14, 2020
39 - A St Louis 8 and a half feat. Willie Macc
Eddy, Josh, and Alvin are joined by comic Willie Macc over in LA to talk Hollywood orgies, trying to rap over the age of 30, Mike Tyson making Boosie look like a little boy, Cajun Sparkle, the very first orgasm of life, the various levels of middle class, and the normalization of sexual abuse of young boys. Check out Willie's podcast AfroNoodles streaming on LaughFactory. 
01:40:19
November 07, 2020
38 - The Rim
Alvin, Josh, and Eddy talk fake orgasms, the scheduling of male orgasms, pegging, annilingus, whether "cishet" is a woke slur, sacrificing "innocent" men to the cause of the #metoo movement, Black Mirror episodes, foot stuff, the trolley problem in regards to self-driving cars, and a bunch more b*llshit!
01:27:14
October 31, 2020
37 - Romantic than a MF feat. Joe White
Perth comic Joe White is funny as fuck Ethiopian as hell and comes through to chat with Josh and Eddy while Alvin is out saving the world. They chop it up about cheap date ideas, extra-terrestrial dating, banging fans, break ups that men never see coming, and a whole bunch more b*llshit!
01:08:29
October 24, 2020
36 - The N*gga Nextdoor
Eddy (@eddyovergold) Josh (@moore2lifemedia) and Alvin (@diversityhire) talk about Josh's breakup, the oppression of Hennessy on the Black community, jerking off sad, lower colon health, dirty macking within a friend group, women moving on from relationships at lightspeed, the nature of consciousness and ego persistence and a bunch more bullsh*t!
01:21:56
October 17, 2020
0 - Waving the Red Flag
Waving the Red Flag will be coming soon.
00:35
November 20, 2019