Wayfarer

Wayfarer

By Tom Vander Well

Tom Vander Well is a "wayfaring stranger" on this road of life. Husband, father, writer, CEO, actor, playwright, preacher, back porch musician, and follower of Jesus, he shares his thoughts and observations on the journey. Each weekday he offers 5-10 minute Chapter-a-Day (CaD) reflections on one chapter of the Bible, perfect for a daily commute. Tom then adds longer Wayfarer Weekend (WW) episodes with musings and interviews on various themes of life, relationships, and Spirit. Tom's "Wayfarer" blog (tomvanderwell.com) has been a source of thought and inspiration since 2006.
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The Real Love Chapter (CaD 1 Cor 13)

WayfarerJan 20, 2025
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Jesus and the Eagle Scout (CaD Matt 19)

Jesus and the Eagle Scout (CaD Matt 19)

History has dubbed the young man in today’s chapter as the “rich young ruler,” but I think “eagle scout” is a more apt moniker. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 19. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 29, 202505:56
Recitation and Relationships (CaD Matt 18)

Recitation and Relationships (CaD Matt 18)

Sometimes the traditional, yet out-of-date, wording of famous passages like The Lord’s Prayer are like a comfy old sweatshirt that wraps you in the warmth and comfort of something familiar which has been with you and seen you through long stretches of life’s journey. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 18. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 28, 202506:21
Mountains of Meaning (CaD Matt 17)

Mountains of Meaning (CaD Matt 17)

Mountains are yet another metaphorical theme that runs throughout the Great Story in ways I've never seen or understood until now. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 17. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 25, 202506:28
He Walked Away (CaD Matt 16)

He Walked Away (CaD Matt 16)

Along my chapter-a-day journey over the years, I’ve learned that spiritual lessons are found in Jesus’ actions as well as His words. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 16. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 24, 202506:41
Traditions: Serious and Silly (CaD Matt 15)

Traditions: Serious and Silly (CaD Matt 15)

In the quiet this morning, I love the fact that Jesus poked the big dogs from Jerusalem regarding their rabid hypocrisy when it came to their traditions. Less than a week after Good Friday, I’m equally reminded that these same rabid, big dogs will quite literally kill Him for it.A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 15. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 23, 202506:13
“Why Do We Pray Before Meals?” (CaD Matt 14)

“Why Do We Pray Before Meals?” (CaD Matt 14)

It was a simple enough question. There are so many things in life that we do because they are habitual or traditional. We rarely stop to ask “Why?"A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 14. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 22, 202507:45
Soil and Spirit, Weather and Weeds (CaD Matt 13)

Soil and Spirit, Weather and Weeds (CaD Matt 13)

The difference between the 25% of seeds that became productive and fruitful plants in Jesus’ parable and the 75% of seeds who didn’t make it was the quality of the soil. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 13. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 21, 202506:32
Amidst the Conflict (CaD Matt 12)

Amidst the Conflict (CaD Matt 12)

My heart is heavy and sad this morning. I have recently found myself in the midst of many conflicts. I don’t like conflict. I confess that I don’t do it particularly well. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 12. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 11, 202508:24
The Great Omission (CaD Matt 11)

The Great Omission (CaD Matt 11)

In the quiet this morning, I find myself thinking about the spiritual posture that Jesus is asking of John. It is a kneeling, open, and surrendered posture. It is the same that He has demanded of His disciples and anyone else who would follow, including me. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 11. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 10, 202508:12
Cutting In at the Cultural Dance (CaD Matt 10)

Cutting In at the Cultural Dance (CaD Matt 10)

I’ve learned along my life journey that sometimes one has to do something novel in order to “cut in” during a deep-seated cultural dance. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 10. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 09, 202506:48
Exclusive vs. Inclusive (CaD Matt 9)

Exclusive vs. Inclusive (CaD Matt 9)

I long ago took off my Junior Holy Spirit badge pretending that I had exclusive rights, insight, or editorial control of the Story God is authoring in me or anyone else. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 9. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 08, 202507:24
The Revival I Missed (CaD Matt 8)

The Revival I Missed (CaD Matt 8)

While I was in high school, a spiritual revival broke out. I and my friends in our holy huddle had nothing to do with it. Zero, zip, zilch, nada. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 8. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 07, 202508:05
Wallflower (CaD Matt 7)

Wallflower (CaD Matt 7)

It is only later in life that I have learned to recognize one of my patterns of behavior. The truth is that I am, at the heart of things, a wallflower. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 7. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 04, 202506:20
“How Not to Be a Dick” (CaD Matthew 6)

“How Not to Be a Dick” (CaD Matthew 6)

When our friend Nathan was entering adolescence, I read a review in theWall Street Journal of a clever little book of etiquette for boys by Meghan Doherty called How Not to Be a Dick. We gifted it to our young friend. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 6. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 03, 202506:22
Spiritual Adulting (CaD Matt 5)

Spiritual Adulting (CaD Matt 5)

One of the observations I’ve had of recent generations is the difficulty they’ve experienced in maturing into adults. So much so that “adulting” is now a common term. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 5. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 02, 202508:03
Fasting and Temptation (CaD Matt 4)

Fasting and Temptation (CaD Matt 4)

It is the season of Lent, a time when many followers of Jesus around the globe choose to fast in preparation for the annual memorial of Jesus’ death and subsequent celebration of His resurrection. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 4. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Apr 01, 202507:53
Arrogant Luxury (CaD Matt 3)

Arrogant Luxury (CaD Matt 3)

We live in very unique times. In fact, I believe that we are in one of the most tectonic shifts in the history of Christianity. It is, perhaps, the most significant shift since the Reformation. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 3. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 31, 202507:38
Connected (CaD Matt 2)

Connected (CaD Matt 2)

In the quiet this morning, I’m reminded that the connections I find in the text aren’t just trivial literary observations. There are spiritual truths present here that are true for me today. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 2. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 28, 202510:05
Matthew the Quirk (CaD Matt 1)

Matthew the Quirk (CaD Matt 1)

I love that God uses the uniqueness of every individual’s experience, personality, giftedness, and temperament for the good of the whole. A chapter-a-day podcast from Matthew 1. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.Videos mentioned in today’s episode:https://youtu.be/7IUL9yq0We8?si=pRq-8wHDmrIpz7ubhttps://youtu.be/kxduwZpLcCM?si=8YjE6VHvleyYiDwv
Mar 27, 202508:56
Dedication (CaD Lev 27)

Dedication (CaD Lev 27)

The further I get in my spiritual journey, the more I come to understand that the extent of my generosity is a leading indicator of the depth of both my spiritual understanding of the economics of God’s Kingdom, and my gratitude for God's insane generosity towards me. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 27. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 26, 202508:46
“Break This Wild Pony!” (CaD Lev 26)

“Break This Wild Pony!” (CaD Lev 26)

My choices have natural consequences of both flesh and Spirit. What choices will I make today? A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 26. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 25, 202509:22
Owning and Being Owned (CaD Lev 25)

Owning and Being Owned (CaD Lev 25)

The more I think I own something, the more it ends up owning me. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 25. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 24, 202507:40
Keep the Flame Burnin’ (CaD Lev 24)

Keep the Flame Burnin’ (CaD Lev 24)

The lesson of the “continuous flame” in today’s chapter was a spiritual lesson for the day when Jesus would come, indwell, and illuminate my 14-year-old heart, mind, and soul. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 24. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 21, 202508:54
TGIF (CaD Lev 23)

TGIF (CaD Lev 23)

It has been so woven into the fabric of our lives for so long that we don’t even think about it. It is universal. It is unequivocally a basic human right: The weekend. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 23. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 20, 202508:24
Ritual and Spiritual (CaD Lev 22)

Ritual and Spiritual (CaD Lev 22)

Other than some relatively loose leadership structure mentioned by Paul, there is nothing in scripture that hints at anything like what “church” became once Christianity became the state religion of the Roman Empire. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 22. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 19, 202510:32
“Much is Required” (CaD Lev 21)

“Much is Required” (CaD Lev 21)

"To whom much is given, much is required,” Jesus said. During my brief few years in professional vocational ministry I learned to ask, “Exactly who is requiring this of me?” A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 21. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 18, 202510:02
Who Changed? The Parent or Child? (CaD Lev 20)

Who Changed? The Parent or Child? (CaD Lev 20)

One of the hardest things for modern readers of the Great Story to grapple with is that the God of Leviticus seems so different and hardcore than the teachings of Jesus. I think it’s easy to lose sight of who really changed between the two. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 20. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 17, 202505:54
Others (CaD Lev 19)

Others (CaD Lev 19)

I’m sure that I’m not the only one who has noticed that the level of vitriol between both individuals and tribes of individuals has risen dramatically in the last 10 years. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 19. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 13, 202506:31
The Sex Thing (CaD Lev 18)

The Sex Thing (CaD Lev 18)

Our appetites are good and meant for our physical health and life. This includes our appetite for sex. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 18. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 12, 202509:28
No Exemptions (CaD Lev 17)

No Exemptions (CaD Lev 17)

Everything we’ve been reading in our chapter-a-day journey through Leviticus is as equally revolutionary for the Hebrew people as the Technology Age has been for the entire world. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 17. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 11, 202508:52
Sacrifice and Scapegoats (CaD Lev 16)

Sacrifice and Scapegoats (CaD Lev 16)

We continue to scapegoat individuals in all sorts of situations rather than doing what Jesus called on me to do as His disciple. Forgive others, as I’ve been forgiven. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 16. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 10, 202507:33
“Acky” (CaD Lev 15)

“Acky” (CaD Lev 15)

When something was dirty or nasty or something you shouldn’t touch, our wee daughters called it “acky.” This became a euphemism for when they did the number two in their diapers. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 15. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.YouTube video referred to in today’s podcast:https://youtu.be/u7-ps9QBAGk?si=_xvDB2DavuhbhyD8
Mar 07, 202507:50
Of Doctors and Priests (CaD Lev 14)

Of Doctors and Priests (CaD Lev 14)

At what point does the avoidance of death at all costs become empty of any kind of Life? A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 14. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 06, 202508:09
“Unclean!” (CaD Lev 13)

“Unclean!” (CaD Lev 13)

Today’s chapter is strange, repetitive, and more than a bit boring for modern readers. It is all about skin diseases and mold. But there’s more here than meets the eye. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 13. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.Video referenced in today’s podcast:https://youtu.be/jbkSRLYSojo?si=EVu0pU-dvXX-f1mb
Mar 05, 202507:04
Bringing it All Together (CaD Lev 12)

Bringing it All Together (CaD Lev 12)

I am once more blown away at how God perpetually connects all things together even as He perpetually recreates, with old things passing away and new things coming. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 12. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 04, 202506:05
Different (CaD Lev 11)

Different (CaD Lev 11)

I like to wear hats. I have a lot of them. Not the ubiquitous baseball cap, but actual hats like a pork pie and fedora. It’s a thing. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 11. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Mar 03, 202505:27
Seriously (CaD Lev 10)

Seriously (CaD Lev 10)

Sometimes, it is lost on children just how serious a matter can be. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 10. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 28, 202505:23
“New Things Come” (CaD Lev 9)

“New Things Come” (CaD Lev 9)

In the quiet this morning, I find myself marveling once again at how God’s message is consistent even as He communicates it differently at different points of the Great Story. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 9. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 27, 202507:44
Across the Divide (CaD Lev 8)

Across the Divide (CaD Lev 8)

Holiness always seemed to me to be defined as some kind of super-powered moral perfection, but the further I get in my spiritual journey, the more I realize that’s not it. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 8. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 26, 202505:58
Of Fat and Blood (CaD Lev 7)

Of Fat and Blood (CaD Lev 7)

One of the things modern readers struggle with in reading Leviticus is understanding some of the rules God put down. They seem so strange to our 21st century lives. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 7. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 25, 202506:43
Calvinball (CaD Lev 6)

Calvinball (CaD Lev 6)

It’s hard for me fathom, but the Hebrew people had no formal code of law or order at the time Leviticus was given. Life together was one big game of Calvinball. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 6. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 24, 202506:19
Responsible (CaD Lev 5)

Responsible (CaD Lev 5)

Along my life journey I’ve observed fundamentalist types who use sin as a tool for social control rather than treating it as the universal spiritual condition that it is. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 5. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 21, 202506:37
Lay Your Hands (CaD Lev 4)

Lay Your Hands (CaD Lev 4)

One of the things that modern readers struggle with most is the blood and guts of ancient sacrifices in Leviticus. It is so foreign to both our modern realities as well as sensibilities. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 4. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 20, 202507:36
God With Us (CaD Lev 3)

God With Us (CaD Lev 3)

In ancient Mesopotamian religions, the gods inhabited their own spirit world and had little regard for human beings who were lesser than and relatively unimportant to them and their world. The God of Moses is so very different. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 3. The text version may be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 19, 202505:28
“The Good Stuff” (CaD Lev 2)

“The Good Stuff” (CaD Lev 2)

Along my own life journey, I confess that generosity is a spiritual lesson that I’ve had to learn. I did not grow up, by nature, a generous person. Quite the opposite, I was both selfish and foolish with my money and resources for many years. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 2. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 18, 202506:36
My Choice (CaD Lev 1)

My Choice (CaD Lev 1)

Today our chapter-a-day journey wades into perhaps the most ignored and misunderstood book in the entire Great Story. A chapter-a-day podcast from Leviticus 1. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Feb 17, 202507:07
Best of: Living Sacrifice (CaD Rom 12)

Best of: Living Sacrifice (CaD Rom 12)

Today and tomorrow, I’m reposting a couple of listener's favorites. If you have your own favorite chapter-a-day episode that has stuck with you over time, please feel free to let me know. You can reply to this podcast in the comments or email me at tomvanderwell@gmail.com.
Jan 30, 202507:39
Refreshment (CaD 1 Cor 16)

Refreshment (CaD 1 Cor 16)

“Oh! That was such a good night!” Wendy said to me as we began our daily nocturnal preparations. A chapter-a-day podcast from 1 Corinthians 16. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Jan 24, 202504:32
Essentials and Non-Essentials (CaD 1 Cor 15)

Essentials and Non-Essentials (CaD 1 Cor 15)

Along my spiritual journey, I have worshipped and served in a number of different denominations and traditions. While they all shared that salvation was by grace through faith in Jesus, they varied in other thoughts, in their rituals, and in their worship. A chapter-a-day podcast from 1 Corinthians 15. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Jan 22, 202506:38
Ceaseless Maturation (CaD 1 Cor 14)

Ceaseless Maturation (CaD 1 Cor 14)

As a disciple of Jesus, I’ve had to embrace that the process of growth and maturity never ends. A chapter-a-day podcast from 1 Corinthians 14. The text version may always be found and shared at tomvanderwell.com.
Jan 21, 202503:34