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We Here Man

We Here Man

By Nelia B and CV
We Here Man is an uncensored podcast from a positive young black married
couple’s perspective about nothing and everything!

We tackle topics like fighting fair in arguments with your significant other or spouse, if it’s safe to vent to the opposite sex, how to deal with a “friend” that slides in your significant other’s inbox and the headaches, heartaches and joys of parenting.

Tune in every Wednesday as we discuss these topics with friends, mental health professionals, business professionals, and people who are just willing to share their amazing lives with us.
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On Our Pivot
Nelia Bee and CV discuss how to pivot through Covid.
July 20, 2021
Team Issa or Team Molly?
We don't usually review shows, but man Insecure hit close to home this week ya'll.  I can't wait until Sunday to enjoy the next episode.  Yea Molly was wrong, but yea Issa has done a lot of wrong in that friendship if you date back to season 1, says CV.  Anyway, check out the episode.  Like!Share!Subscribe!  Also check out our New Love and Lust coloring book.  If you want to color and add some spice with your partner check it out.
May 15, 2020
It's been a whole year since we last had an episode.  Our long lost love, this podcast, has been neglected, but this felt good just to talk on here.  I hope you all enjoy the episode.  
March 20, 2020
Ep 60: F*#!&@! is an Honest living too!
Look, prostitution gets a bad wrap.  Why does the world have to be so complicated that I can't leave my house and pay 20 bucks for quality head in a safe place.  Let's decriminalize sex work people.  
March 06, 2019
Ep 59: Self Love is The Best Love
I, CV apologize for being trash on Valentine's Day.  I'll probably be spending the rest of 2019 making up for it.  Wish me luck, her birthday is a month a way.   We missed Valentine's Day, but we share the topic we decided a week ago, which is still relevant, Self Love.  What are you doing to pour into yourself and bettering yourself daily?  Feel free to share! Email us at Follow us on IG: Follow us on FB:
February 20, 2019
Ep 58: How could you Dan?
Bee Smith is a mogul that has alzheimer's disease.  Her husband, after 5 years of caregiving has a girlfriend and still cares for her.  In fact, the girlfriend helps out.  We discuss whether or not he deserves all of the smoke the internet his given him.   We also talk about Jussie "Tupac" Smollet and Liam Nesson!  Email us at Follow us on IG: Follow us on FB:
February 06, 2019
Ep 57: Make Relationships Great Again
Let's apply Trump's MAGA slogan to Relationships.  Let's Make Relationships Great Again.   Email us at Follow us on IG: Follow us on FB:
January 30, 2019
Ep 56: What Would you do if you were CV?
CV gets a little personal this week.  His father recently told him that he's adopting a his step daughter's child due to extenuating circumstances.  CV is torn between being an understanding adult or sharing his feelings of resentment because he never got any of that nurturing from his father.  Let's talk We Here Man Family!   Email us at Follow us on IG: Follow us on FB:
January 16, 2019
Ep 55: The Devil Made Him Do It
YAY, we're officially 1 year in on this podcast thing!  Look, CV is not a theologian, but he believes that Pastor John Gray misspoke when he said he made his mistake of infidelity by choice.  The devil made him do it dammit.   No passes or excuses for R. Kelly tho.  He just plain ole nasty.  Tune and check out this week's episode.   Email us at Follow us on IG:   Follow us on FB:
January 09, 2019
Ep 54: New Year Same Us
What are you bringing into the New Year?  We started prepping for 2019 early so we are hitting the ground running.  With that being said, we have had time to truly think of what it is that we want to do and make measurable goals for ourselves.  What are ya'll working on?  Share with us?  Can we help?   Email us at Follow us on IG:   Follow us on FB:
January 02, 2019
Ep 53: Why Offset's Gesture isn't Romantic!
It's #weheremanwednesday. Today we discuss the hot topic of Cardi and Offset. We stayed away from it last week, but what's the deal with this grand gesture. It's bullshit. tune in to hear our thoughts this week and please chime in and share yours at weheremanpodcast
December 19, 2018
Ep 52: We Miss Ya'll
It's been over a month people! We finally welcomed BABY STREATER into the world 11/2 and a new chapter has begun. We will be back with the normal We Here Man Wednesdays from here on out. Thank you for continuing to listen and enjoy this week's episode. Don't forget to support the podcast and DONATE: We love you and thank you for listening. Make sure you share the podcast with a friend this week. Tell them to download and give a review. Share your Pit and Peak of the weak: Follow us at
December 12, 2018
Ep 51: Nigerians Have The Best Wedding Traditions
This wedding got us feeling like we shoulda been born Nigerian. Check out our take on weddings and the love that flows and the traditions we got to see during this special day  Don't forget to support the podcast and DONATE: We love you and thank you for listening. Make sure you share the podcast with a friend this week. Tell them to download and give a review. Share your Pit and Peak of the weak: Follow us at
October 10, 2018
Ep 50: It's Our Anniversary
We are Back again. This We Here Man Wednesday is actually a special day for us. Today, we celebrate four years of marriage. Let's discuss anniversaries and what we thought it would look like and what we hope the future looks like for our marriage.
October 03, 2018
Ep 49: F*%! What these Educators Say! My son is a boy!
It's something that urks CV's soul. The idea of allowing children to explore genders freely just doesn't settle well with him. Nelia Bee and CV discuss how gender roles shape kids and how new studies are bringing alternatives to how we raise children. Don't forget to support the podcast and DONATE: We love you and thank you for listening. Make sure you share the podcast with a friend this week. Tell them to download and give a review. Share your Pit and Peak of the weak: Follow us at
September 26, 2018
Ep 41: Nelia Bee says CV ain't "The One"
Is the concept of that one person really real? Nelia Bee and CV admit that they are good fits, but that doesn't mean that they are the only ones for each other in life. Do you believe in "The One"?
September 19, 2018
Ep 40: Black Excellence in the Classroom with Barry White
The We Here Man crew talks to educator Berry White Jr. about his unique approach to educating our youth and tips and tricks on how parents can reinforce what their children are learning in the classroom.
September 12, 2018
Ep 39: Loving your kid isn't automatic!
This week we had the pleasure of speaking with Olivya from @Herholisticpath about her struggle to overcome negative feelings towards loving an unplanned child. We explore her journey through past familial trauma, growing as a parent and demanding her healing. Don't forget to support the podcast and DONATE: We love you and thank you for listening. Make sure you share the podcast with a friend this week. Tell them to download and give a review. Share your Pit and Peak of the weak: Follow us at
August 29, 2018
Ep 38: When Keeping it real makes labels you as a bad parent
This week we are trying out a few things differently. We added some segments. Listener feedback will definitely be appreciated. Let us know if you like the direction of the show. We discuss a topic that was inspired by @herholisticpath. An article by people highlighted this young lady sharing some candid thoughts about how she wasn't so excited about motherhood and wasn't really ready for what came with it. Of course the internet was cruel. We also talk about parenting styles. Don't forget to support the podcast and DONATE: We love you and thank you for listening. Make sure you share the podcast with a friend this week. Tell them to download and give a review. Share your Pit and Peak of the weak: Follow us at
August 22, 2018
Ep 37: F*** The Baby Out
Yes CV said F the baby out. That's not what this episode is entirely about though. We just touch on a few things here. The back to school effect on our lives, our fears with Jackson heading to a new school and the season premiere of our favorite show Insecure. Let's upgrade the podcast family. We want to bring you new content and better quality. Click on this link and become a monetary supporter. We love you and thank you for listening. Make sure you share the podcast with a friend this week. Tell them to download and give a review. Email us questions or advice letters at Follow us at
August 15, 2018
Ep 36: Bitch, I will Buy You!
CV and Nelia Bee finally agree to disagree. CV is adamant in proving his point that men are railroaded when it comes down to relationships and the financial short end of the stick they get. Nelia, on the other hand, stands by the notion that women should be protected by the courts for having to the be supporting role in relationships. Let's talk about it. Email us questions or advice letters at Follow us at
August 08, 2018
Ep 35: Ask For What You Want In The Bedroom!
Sooooooooo basically Nelia Bee and CV talk about how to ask for what you want in the bedroom. Tune in to hear how Nelia advocates for women to be vocal about what they want sexually from their partner without being judged. Sex is meant to be fun, free and occur frequently. Let's have real conversation about how to keep it fun, and fresh with your partner. If you want to have questions about healthy sex lives or anything else from Nelia Bee, email us at Continue to support and grow with us. Share the podcast, drop a review and interact with us.
August 01, 2018
Ep 34: The Struggle is Real
CV is really going through it right now. Is it a midlife crisis? Nelia Bee and I discuss the growing pains of finding your passions. CV candidly shares what he's currently going through on this journey which includes a detox from social media. Listeners send letters in about what you may want to hear us talk about or send us advice letters to Also make sure to subscribe, and review us in the Apple Podcast store and share with your friends.
July 25, 2018
Ep 33: Own Your Birthing Experience
This isn't our first baby, as many of our listeners already know. For those of you that are new to the show, we are having a our second addition to the family; baby girl S.E.V. We are honored to have Anne Margolis from as our guest. She brings 20 years of midwifery experience and many other accolades too long for us to list in this brief show description. Tune in to learn how you can Own Your Birthing Experience and advocate for how you want to deliver your child into the world with Anne Margolis. You can also follow her on instagram @
July 18, 2018
Ep 32: Parenting Vs. Marriage
Sometimes the battle between parenting and marriage can be like mortal kombat. Our kid is important to us, but we can't allow him to cock block us or stop us from working on the foundation of our marriage. Neila Bee and CV touch on the work that's required to make the marriage work.
July 11, 2018
Ep 31: Am I the Pappy?
Nelia Bee had a dream that she had a chocolate baby. And neither of us are chocolate. So I jokingly said I need a paternity test if that's the case. But in all jokes there is a little bit of truth. People if your baby came out looking far different than you, is it okay to ask your spouse for a paternity test.
July 04, 2018
Ep 30: Talkin, Dating, or Fuckin' in close circles
Have you ever dated in a close circle? Have you ever smashed someone and your friend ended up dating them. If so write us @ In this episode we talk about the zero degrees of separation between us and our dating and just some of the rules around those types of situation if there are really any. Follow us on instagram @we_here_man Join us on our facebook page:
June 27, 2018
We See Why Money Causes Divorce
We're stronger than this. This being the strain of being responsible financially. It's hard and CV and Nelia Bee discuss how they had a major disagreement about money. We're sharing so you can not make the same mistakes we made. In the future, we plan to start reading letters. Please write us about all things relationship at Tell us about your problems, advice on how we can do better or something you want to hear us talk about. Again, follow us on IG: 311348
June 20, 2018
Ep 28: Is it possible to love only one? Let's talk Polyamory
Let's face it! Monogamy is not natural. But we force ourselves into this pretty box anyway right? Today we get to discuss with our special guest Kevin Patterson aka " The Poly Role Model." Tune in and learn more about polyamory and if it fits for you. Email us feedback, relationship advice, lifestyle or whether you would like to have a convo with us on the show @ Be sure to follow us on instagram as well @
June 13, 2018
Ep 27: Could your gay friend tell you the nitty gritty?
Today we talk with CV's good friend. He happens to be gay and we just talk about the dynamic of that relationship. Just like CV used to talk with him about smashing his chicks.... Jason talks to him openly about how he does his thing. We also delve into sexuality and how he has navigated just living life as a black gay man in today's society. Follow us @
June 06, 2018
Ep 26: Husbands Be Honest: Pregnancy Ain't Sexy.
I ain't lying to my wife that she's glowing. Fuck that. lol I love her though, but I want my wife back.
May 29, 2018
Ep 25: K.Dot Set Delaney Up for Failure
Nelia Bee and CV disagree on the young lady being called out for singing the N word at the Kendrick Lamar concert. Is this a big deal? Let's talk about it! We appreciate you listening. Drop us a review in the apple podcasts or google play podcast stores. Share us with your friends and don't be selfish. Thanks in advance! Also, Follow us on instagram:
May 23, 2018
Ep 24: TooDeepForTheIntro: With Angelo Geter of Life Snacks
Inspired by episode 20 "Lost Without You." Neila B and CV discuss life after losing a spouse with Angelo Geter of "Life Snacks". Hopefully we make you laugh, maybe you may shed a tear, but we hope you take something away from this episode. Thank you for listening and following our podcast journey thus far! If you're reading this, it's not too late to give us the stars, and comments. Also don't be selfish and keep us all to yourselves, share the pod! Follow us on Instagram:
May 16, 2018
Ep 23: We Got Mommy Issues too!
First we introduce Captain Fresh, our son to the pod. He's been waiting to make a cameo so show him so love folks. Second, I promise we aren't as broken as we sound. We give praise to all of the good our mom's have given us, but we share some of our personal burdens or crosses we bear given from our beloved mothers. We're on iheart: Follow our instagram: and make sure you rate us wherever you are listening to your podcasts. Give us those stars and comments.
May 13, 2018
Ep 22: Cooking in the Kitchen and Bedroom With Chef Ayo
So we got interview my one of my favorite rapper's chef, Chef Ayo and her significant other Tavis. Tune in to find out how she spices things up not only in the kitchen, but in the bedroom as well. Be sure to follow us on instagram: Follow @chefayocherry for recipes that will step your cooking game all the way up as well.
May 09, 2018
Ep 21: B.Y.O.R.G. - Inspired by Teyana and Iman
As Uncle Charla would say " Eff yo dreams, if they aren't your own." So Eff your relationship goals if they aren't you own. CV and Neila Be just briefly discuss how important it is to not get too enamored in other folks relationships and just focus on who you are and what you and your significant other have. In other words, Be Your Own Relationship Goals. Pheww, we dodged a bullet in social media yesterday because I swear reports were trying to say Iman was out here thotting like Tristian Thompson. We can breathe cause we had already recorded this episode giving them credit for healthy relationships. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Check out our podcast family on Instagram: Submit your comments on topics or podcast love to:
May 02, 2018
Ep 20: Lost Without Ya
Not on some mushy Notebook story, but to sum it up we talk about how we are dependent on each other everyday. Whether it's me laying on the booty struggling to get to work or doing paperwork... we need each other for different things. We also share some of the crazy annoying things we do to each other. We ain't the only ones out there. lol.
April 25, 2018
Ep 19: Friends of Friends
According to the Book of CV 12:11. "Thou shalt not be friends with his friends with his male friends." This commandment was shown to be necessary when a person once thought of as a friend decides to try to strike a friendship independent of CV. Am I wrong people? Am I misreading this? Is it normal for this type of friendship to spawn between your significant and your friends opposite his/her sex?
April 18, 2018
Ep 18: Venting to the Opposite Sex
CV had to take one on the chin here. CV openly talks about when he got caught oversharing with someone of the opposite sex and it became a detriment to his marriage and health (jokes people, but maybe not so much of a joke). Thankfully, Neila B is in a place where we are okay revisiting and discussing that on today's pod.
April 11, 2018
Ep 17: Thru Your Phone...Thanks Cardi B
Major shoutout to Cardi B for putting out such a great project that brought back FLASHBACKS of that time that Neila B wanted to kill me in my sleep. We discuss how some of the lyrics ring through true to life from Cardi B's new album.
April 10, 2018
Ep: 16 Does Your Apology Matter
Neila B was being Queen Petty Boots and did not care to accept my apology. Can ya'll believe she denied our "hug it out" rule? Tune in to find out how we handled our disagreement.
April 04, 2018
Ep 15: Daddy Issues
I guess guys can have Daddy Issues too. Who knew? Neila B's fond childhood connection with her dad triggers a discussion about his daddy issues.
March 21, 2018
Ep 14: Sidepiece Friday
Sparked by a convo from She's Gotta Have it.... do side pieces fit into the ecosystem of relationships? Why do they pop up? Chime in!
March 16, 2018
Ep 13: Brotherly Love
Do men give their friends good advice? Are men having healthy conversations about life with their friends?
March 14, 2018
We Here Man: #WomansMonthKickoff
We bring in career branding expert Ashley Dash. She shares some tips and gives CV some insight that anyone can apply to their career.
March 08, 2018
Ep 11: We Here Man: Mack
Here we discuss the 32-0 HS Transgendered boy, Mack.
February 27, 2018
We Here Man: #TheTalk
The delicate topic of race with your children.
February 22, 2018
We Here Man: #WakandaForever
We discuss relocating to Wakanda.
February 19, 2018
We Here Man: #VdaySucks
Neila and CV discuss the over hyped holiday called Valentine\u2019s Day!
February 14, 2018
We Here Man: #HandlingDiscord
Neila and CV get a little personal about how they handle arguments in their relationship.
January 31, 2018
We Here Man: #WorkBoundaries
We briefly discuss work relationships, appropriate and inappropriate
January 19, 2018
We Here Man: #theS-E-X-talk
We briefly discuss how to handle the topic of sex with our inquisitive 5 year old.
January 17, 2018
We Here Man: #CvBackinDaGym
We just talk a little bit about CV\u2019s journey back to the gym and random thoughts centered around that. Neila shares that CV should not be spotting any woman in the gym.
January 16, 2018
We Here Man: #ThrowItBackThurs
Throwback to a time of 2005 when we first met.
January 12, 2018
Premium Goodz
What makes Poom Poom or Penis premium status?!?
January 08, 2018
Bad vs Good Coochie Owners
Coming live from bedside baptist we discuss the conundrum of whether bad coochie derived from the owner or is it just plain old bad.
January 07, 2018
January 7, 2018
January 07, 2018