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Well Defined: Getting to the Heart

Well Defined: Getting to the Heart

By Breathe First

Interviews, discussion, and discovery centering topics related to mindfulness, health, and creative expression through a lens of self-compassion + social justice.

Together, we’ll explore techniques for individual and collective healing and ingenuity. And we’ll have some fun in the process!
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Heal Yourself with Heather Fraelick

Well Defined: Getting to the HeartFeb 08, 2021

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Stories We Tell Pt 1: Imagine

Stories We Tell Pt 1: Imagine

This a shorter episode, featuring Emily on her own, beginning to dig into one aspect of our series on story. The role of the body in our emotions, reactions, etc in how we form and are formed by our stories is at the root of this talk, as well as the intersection of storytelling, body-based responses, and race. 


The neuroscientist mentioned is Lisa Feldman Barrett who you can find interviews with on podcasts including The Ezra Klein Show on Vox and Russel Brand's podcast, Under the Skin, on Luminary. Her most recent book is called "7 & 1/2 Lessons on the Brain."


Also mentioned are Heather McGee and her book, "The Sum of Us," and Jenny Odell and her book, "How To Do Nothing." These are both essential additions to the journey of continuing to ask better questions while learning how our attention shapes our stories. Here's also the interview with Heather McGee that Emily references in the episode.


Thanks for tuning in and for doing your best to listen well!


We'll be with you again very soon,

Kelsey + Emily 

Apr 21, 202125:15
Stories

Stories

We want to talk with you about the power of storytelling to bring us together and to tear us apart. What stories do you tell yourself? What stories were/are you being told? We need your participation to make this a robust, diverse conversation that helps us all create new and better stories. Email: info@breathefirstwellness.com, or message us on Instagram @well_defined_pod. Thanks as always for listening!! xo, Kelsey + Emily
Mar 17, 202105:17
Heal Yourself with Heather Fraelick
Feb 08, 202101:02:35
The Heartbreak Episode

The Heartbreak Episode

In this one we talk about all things heartbreak--various types, effects, ways of coping, and how to prevent some of the more preventable forms/aspects of heartbreak. We offer some of our own personal experience that's hopefully helpful in considering different ways to take care of yourself as you navigate relationships of all kinds. We also spend time discussing self-love, the foundation of all our relationships.


In this episode we mention Pema Chodron whose enlightening books you can find through Shambala Publications (we specifically talked about her book When Things Fall Apart). Emily read from another amazing book called Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes and we recommended the wonderful All About Love by bell hooks. 


As always, we are humbled and grateful to have you as a listener. If you find any of our episodes resonant please consider sharing them with anyone who might find a sense of connection in being part of our community. 


xo,

Kelsey + Emily 

Jan 20, 202159:11
geechy

geechy

today we're talking with Dr. Fabrice Lubin who's a clinical psychologist and poet, and founder of For Real Therapy in Wicker Park, Chicago.  this episode covers a range of ideas including vulnerability, unscripted communication, mental exhaustion, and being more in our bodies. we also touch on the concepts of race, self-care, & faith. (and Kelsey will explain what "geechy" means!) these are all complex topics that each could be their own show so please let us know what you'd like more discussion/information on. send us your questions, comments, and suggestions anytime by following us on IG @well_defined_pod or send us a voice message through the show page.  **the books and authors mentioned in the episode are: James Baldwin (The Fire Next Time); Ibram X. Kendi (How to Be an Antiracist); Jenny Odell (How To Do Nothing); Resmaa Menakem (My Grandmother's Hands); Jeanette Winterson; Milan Kundera (The Unbearable Lightness of Being)** thank you for listening and for approaching us with compassion & curiosity! in solidarity, Kelsey + Emily 
Dec 06, 202001:28:15
words + ritual

words + ritual

Welcome back to Well Defined! This episode is an invitation to join us in an ongoing dialogue about how we all define the words we use and what it means to integrate our meanings into our actions. We also touch on morning ritual and the importance of self-compassion.
Nov 22, 202031:08
who, what, how

who, what, how

Welcome to Well Defined! We're so excited you're here and we wanted to start by offering a shorter episode where we share a bit of who we are, what this show means to us, and how we're hoping to use this space. We hope you'll get involved and send us ideas, questions, etc. This is an inclusive, love-fueled community and we're honored that you've joined!!
See you soon,
Emily + Kelsey
Nov 08, 202030:45
Intro

Intro

Hi! We’re so excited to get started!! Can’t wait to meet and connect with you. Together, let’s build an active, thoughtful, inclusive community focused on balance, accountability, change, and love.
Sep 27, 202000:39